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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

We think she may have been molested by her dad

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

16 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend has stretch marks on her boobs. Her dad put lotion on her. Her bf asked her about if he had ever touched her and told her that and that she felt extremely uncomfortable and had the same feeling that she did when she was molested when she was younger around 7. ... (148 words)

Whats a guys fave nail polish color?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

16 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok this is probably a weird question but here it goes. is there any nail polish that guy especially like on a girl ? I know guys may not pay attention to that stuff but I'm going on my first date this weekend and I want everything to be great and I have no idea what color ... (71 words)

I'm pregnant we want to get married but we're scared!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5826 days ago

16 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - About three weeks ago I took a pregnancy test that came back positive. After going to the doctor I discovered that I was six weeks pregnant. I'm currently in college and my boyfriend has just graduated from college as an RN (registered nurse). He has a very stable job and can ... (290 words)

He's ok after we fight and I'm not!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

16 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend i fight heaps and then after we have a fight he says he loves me and thinks everything is ok but its not it always happens and lately ive been to scared to sleep because of the same dream i keep having buts only lately when we have a big fight and now i get so ... (70 words)

What's up with him?

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16 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello! Ok so I'm getting to know this guy..met him thru an online dating site. We're calling and texting each other frequently..he even called me a few times while around his friends. Or during his break.. I was playing a little hard to get at first.. like not answering al... (208 words)

Pregnant without sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5836 days ago

16 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay this may sound stupid, but I really need to know. Okay... my boyfriend and I have made an agreement to abstain from sex until marriage. We do how ever fool around. I am a virgin so it is very important to me that we don't have intercourse before we are legally married. Our ... (133 words)

I'm failing-can't stop thinking about her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5848 days ago

16 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - ok, im in my year of gcse's and im not doing well in the boring subjects like science and maths because im thinking of that special someone i don't go out with her but we don't speak to each other she's the only thing on my mind apart from when im doing pe cause i focus on ... (74 words)

Weird discharge

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16 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I was just wondering if anyone could help me... Ive been having this problem for about 6 months now and its really getting me down. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years and i love having sex with him, but about 6 months ago i started getting this really wet... (310 words)

Are ladies turned off by heavy guys?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5847 days ago

16 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Im over weight, How much does that turn ladies off?... (10 words)

I treated her like a princess why did she do this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5824 days ago

16 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - i was dating this girl for three months i fell in love with her instantly but then i felt that she moved fast after three dates after the first time i slept wih her she started playing mindgames saying things like she had sex cause she was insecure and that she loved sex in a ... (229 words)

Whenever I see my ex I want to sleep with him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5849 days ago

16 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - How do I get over my ex boyfriend when every time I see him I have this huge desire to sleep with him because I am still in love with him?... (31 words)

I kissed another guy to see if my feelings for ex will change

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5849 days ago

16 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi i broke up with my boyfriend about a month ago as i didnt have the same feelings for him i was with him for 5 years. i was with im since i was 16 and he's 6 years older. Hes a great person and i wish my feelings were the same i wish i could force myself to love him the same... (265 words)

Is this shady? Do you think I should react or stop being paranoid?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5849 days ago

16 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I work in the same team. We both are 25+ individuals. I mention this cause I want others to know this is not a kiddish matter.I have been observing that he has been talking to this colleague of mine "Say her name is X " (she is also my closest frnd at work) for ... (188 words)

Is there a chance my boyfriend could be gay?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5848 days ago

16 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Well I have been dating this guy for almost three years and I think he might be gay, but I'm not sure. When I first met him I thought he was a little feminine but I eventually fell for him. Now, almost three years later I beginning to wonder if I was wrong. He and my brother ... (355 words)

Breast Fetish!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5849 days ago

16 December 2008 (M) age 30-35 - This is about by girlfriend’s breasts. My girlfriend and I have been going out for a year. I have accidentally bumped them but I want to see her breasts and touch them. Ladies, please give me some advice. I have only seen them covered up. I like how they bounce around s... (330 words)

I'm angry and upset that he stayed at hers when all he had to do is get a taxi home.

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16 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi can anyone help me? I've been seeing this guy for the last 3 months. We've been taking it slow as I have a daughter from a previous relationship he has not yet met. I usually see him on Sat night and stay at his house and two other times during the week in the day. I was ... (232 words)

I'm 7 months pregnant and he found someone else!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

16 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok.. Its been almost 3 weeks and my boyfriend told me he doesn't want to be with me. He dont know what he wants. We have one 2 1/2 old son and i'm 7 months pregnant with our 2nd. He pretty much kicked us to the curb. He has found someone else. Whom I know well. Our parents were ... (283 words)

Should I wait for him to grow up more?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5846 days ago

16 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - what can i do he is 12 and im 15 i really like him and he likes me too he is friends with my ex and me and my ex broke up 1 month ago but i have liked him for about 4 months but the age is what is killing me and i dont know if i should wait about 6 months to a year to see if i ... (116 words)

Is this a sign of bad treatment?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

16 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello! - What do you make of this? I'm with a man who is constantly short of cash! Anyway, the other day he sent me my Xmas card through the post with no stamp!! So muggins here had to pay!! - How bad is that?! - I havn't got round to asking him why there was no stam... (85 words)

Should I get him a PSP for Christmas and maybe some games to go with it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5849 days ago

16 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Cupiters! I know this isn't related to relationships..but in a way it is. :) My bf wants a PSP for X-mas and I want to get him (1) or maybe (2) games to go along with it. Any suggestions?... (47 words)

Is this the start of OCD?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5849 days ago

16 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi i when out with this boy for 9months it was like a love and hate game when i was with him i started to get deprest and yostow pick up a pin and throch my left arm i have a new boyfriend now who i love to bits i got angarey and picked up i pin and was going to p... (139 words)

Why does she have to be so awkward?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5846 days ago

16 December 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi I am a Christian but my Atheist girlfriend refuses to celebrate Christmas, what gives? No one else seems to have a problem, why does she have to be so awkward?... (31 words)

I'm afraid to have sex but I don't want to neglect him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5847 days ago

16 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm scared witless by the thoughts of having sex, i'm 17 and i've been going out with my first boyfriend for a time now, he is 22 and has much experience. i feel trapped and in some ways forced to have sex, but i feel like i'll would be hurting him if i don't, i love him and i ... (160 words)

Is he gay but curious?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5849 days ago

16 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm at university and a couple of weeks ago on a night out i met a gay guy who also lives in my halls and is friends with my friends. Despite being told that he was gay i couldn't help but fancying him a little. We've chatted since, then a week later on a night out and we... (130 words)

"Rough Doggy-Style Porn"- should I even ask?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5849 days ago

16 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I rarely get intimate, once every two months to be exact. A couple of days ago I found porn on his computer. That doesn't bother me. What bothers me is that it was titled "Rough Doggie Style" and the first few seconds shows a man standing over a woman and ... (100 words)

Do guys prefer a thin girl, like size 0?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5849 days ago

16 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - right so im about an average weight for my height and age but do guys prefer a thin girl or a girl with a bit of weight.do they like girls who are size 0? ... (34 words)

What can I do to curb my sexual desires?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5849 days ago

16 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I was wondering is there anything I can do to curb my sexual desires? My boyfriend and I don't get intimate very often, in fact we go months without any sort of intimacy. I need to know if there's anything I can do to squash my sexual urges so that I'm not nearly as cranky and ... (59 words)

I don't have the slightest idea how to snog

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5849 days ago

16 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi guys my girlfriend wants to snog and i said yes. we have been going out for 1 month and we both reallly reallly like each other. the problem is that i dont have the slightist idea how to snog. i really need help quickly please.... (46 words)

I need some advice on how to move on from this obviously unhealthy relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5849 days ago

16 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello All, After searching for hours on the internet, I found this site and decided to try to get some insight from others. I have been going through a year long break up (yes, that is correct, we have been breaking up for a year), but perhaps I should explain in more detail. ... (1191 words)

When will I stop feeling high and get normal again?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5786 days ago

16 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, so on saturday i got high for my first time. i was at my friends house with a bunch of people. a while later i felt like i was going to pass out, but they told me its gonna be like that my first time. so then i went to sleep at my friends house and woke up the next morning ... (293 words)

How do I go about finding a date online?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5849 days ago

16 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hi, i am lesbian but i live in muslim country and can't find any lesbian in my country. So i decided to find some one internet and start a online relation but after searching for so many days i can't find anyone. i wanted to ask you how can i find someone over internet to start ... (59 words)

He wont leave his girlfriend, I wont leave my husband, but we still love each other

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5849 days ago

16 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for 11 years with 3 kids. About 4 years ago i met this guy and it was like we were made to be together. It took him over a year to kiss me and 6 months later we made out and that has been all we have done for over 2 years we have not had sex. He lives wi... (112 words)

Is he cheating or just being childish?

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16 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a grown woman, 29 dating a 22 yr old. I have been dating him for over a year. When I met him, everything was perfect. I had just got out of a 8 yr abusive relationship that was going nowhere. I know the signs of cheating. My boyfriend is very jealous. He got on my computer ... (259 words)

All he wants to do is go out with friends and text other girls

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5849 days ago

16 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for a year now in the beggining when we meet i was not really interested in him because of our age difference he is 23 and i am 31 although i look alot younger than him he told me he did not care about the age difference and he wanted to settle ... (715 words)

My ex is angry because he thought I told his brother his password

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5849 days ago

16 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey right if u have eva read any of my other questions , you should know im crazy about my ex well this is the problem my ex were friends , and he told me his password to msn , and his brother asked me to tell him so i made it up , just a made up password , and his broth... (298 words)

Should I go for a ride and kiss my friend or stay with my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5848 days ago

16 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya, I have been with my boyfriend for over 6 months now. At the beginning of the relationship it was like the rush of something new and the heart beating fast and everything, now its just like he is there when i need him whilst i concentrate on my studies. Before my re... (368 words)

My jailbird ex just got out and now I want him back

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5847 days ago

16 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - okay so... this is kinda long. im going to start since my son was born. 2 weeks after my son was born his dad gets locked up for 1 year and 4 months. when he finally got out he was staying with me but things changed as in his attitude and mine. what i wanted to change about him ... (213 words)

He used to fancy me, but now he doesn't want to ruin the friendship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5849 days ago

16 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - people say I am good looking, smart and can talk to anyone ive been friend with a guy about 7 years, he used to fancy me but now he doesnt want to ruin the friendship why would he be so scared? is he simply not interested? he blows hot and cold with me but says i mean the... (80 words)

How can I make this relationship last till I can come and get her?

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16 December 2008 (M)

age - I am inlove with one lady, we haven't met, we just started this relationship in the net, and suddenly we start falling inlove with each other, well i am working as an offshore worker that is why i haven't seen her, all i want now is a little advice that we make our relatioship ... (89 words)

Two long distance romances at once.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5849 days ago

16 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - in the world there are 2 people i really really have a crush on. but they live so far away. one of the girls is 16, she lives 5/6 hours away by car (but still in england) and the other girl is 16, and lives in New Zealand... and im a 16 year old boy that cant drive, cant afford ... (168 words)

How can I keep my online guy interested. He is not ready to meet yet.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5849 days ago

16 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there all, iv met this guy a month ago on internet, i do like him alot, he lives near me too. jus from talking, i can tell we get on well. we swapped numbers and talk everyday, through sms. And we flirt like crazy. I asked if he wanted meet, and he told me i should gi... (170 words)

She acts likes she's possessed by a demon during sex!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2654 days ago

16 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi guys i have been with my current girlfriend for 2 months now. Things are going great, and we have just started having sexual intercourse recently. The sex is great, but is sort of getting over shadowed by the way her reactions are during. Her reaction seems like she is ... (214 words)

After everything she has done to me is it worth trying to be with her or am I flogging a dead horse?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5846 days ago

16 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, this is my first question on here. And I'm using this service because I am in complete bits over recent events with my ex-girlfriend. I am 30 years old, am in a top job at a top bank in Canary Wharf, London. Career is going brilliantly despite the Credit Crunc... (1533 words)

What does it take to make a girlfriend or get the number one spot?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

16 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - What do guys look for in a girlfriend? Brains, beauty, good physique, sophistication? What do they want?... (19 words)

He said he can't give me what I want...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5849 days ago

16 December 2008 (F)

age - I have been chatting to a guy on the internet for a year, said he loves me, but can't give me what I want, says loves chatting etc, he has my address but I don't have his. He has never mentioned meeting, but sent flowers for my birthday. We are both in our 40s, with children, ... (70 words)

Because of the lies she's not talking to him any more.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5849 days ago

16 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey guys, Thanks for all your answers they were good. All right this is regarding my friend.. this guy likes this girl(K) a lot.. Girl(K) is around 4 years younger but they are like very good friends. My friend, he loves that girl(K) and about that girl(K) even he don't know ... (308 words)

I feel like my world has been crushed, all our wedding plans have been made.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5849 days ago

16 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I had been with my boyfriend for almost 7 years and we got engaged last Christmas. He also moved in with me around the same time and we were never happier. Around 4 months ago he started to get down and depressed, we put it down to money worries, wedding stress etc, the wedding ... (279 words)

I slept with my best friends boyfriend, and probably will again!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5847 days ago

16 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have fallen for my best friends boyfriend. I didn't think anything would happen, but last week we ended up sleeping together. He's joking that it is bound to happen again, and we're in constant contact but I feel like the worst person on the planet. I haven't felt like ... (115 words)

Is having phone sex cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5846 days ago

16 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - What do you think about a person that loves having phone sex with another women besides his wife. My boss calls this women on the phone almost everyday just to listen to her have phone sex for him. He does not consider this cheating, I think he is wrong?... (51 words)

Is jewelry a good idea for Christmas when we have been dating a short time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5849 days ago

16 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Is jewelry a good idea for a girl you've known for 5 months and dated for 1. If so what type and how much should i spend? ... (27 words)

Does it mean anything if a guys asks if the man you are with is your boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5849 days ago

16 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Does it mean anything if a guy asks you if the man you are with is your boyfriend? On two separate occasions I have been out for a drink with two different male friends of mine and this guy that I like, has asked me both times if my friends are my boyfriend. The second t... (197 words)

Does she like me or just want an ego boost from knowing that I like her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

16 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I met a girl a few months back and we really got on well and it seemed we were about to get together properly until she went back to her cheating ex. Anyway to cut a very long story short, she now happens to work with a female friend of mine and the other day my frien... (227 words)

I would deny it to anyone who asks, but I am crazy about my teacher!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5845 days ago

16 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Am I in love? I think about her constantly-I can't get my mind off her. Everything reminds me of her, and something inside me hurts when I realise I won't see her for however long. My heart flutters whenever I see her, and I agonise constantly over everything she has ever said ... (449 words)

Wierd smell

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5849 days ago

16 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This isn't really a sex question but I've recently noticed that my urine smells a bit strange, I can't describe it. Can anyone help me? :)... (26 words)

Do guys like athletic girls?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5849 days ago

16 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - do guys like girls who combat sport?... (7 words)

My friend acts like she thinks my son is hers!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5847 days ago

16 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok I know this site is basically for sex, dating, etc. questions, but I've got a big problem. I have a very cute 9 1/2 mo old boy. One of my friends, who I met thru work when I was a few months pregnant, acts like my son is hers! We don't work together anymore, but we are good ... (704 words)

I am still having doubts about him after 7 years!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5843 days ago

16 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a problem- i have been with my boyfriend for 7 years and i still have doubts! he knos how i feel and believes ill always have doubts and thinks we are good together. I am scared because i duno if hes the one, and its been so long!! Is there always the one? i was young ... (204 words)

He lies and doesn't want sex - AT ALL!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5849 days ago

16 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 26 year old woman who is in a relationship for the last 9 years and we have two kids and a house together. For the last two years our sex life has gone down the drain. He claims this is because he has no sex drive because he was on tablets for depression (sinc... (262 words)

Which pen to get my girlfriend for Christmas?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

16 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - For christmas I am going to get my girlfriend of a month an engraved pen as she loves stationary - would it be meaningful enough just to put her name on it or should i add a message too and if so what should that message be considering we've only been together a month? As a... (91 words)

My husband joined an escourt service

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5849 days ago

16 December 2008 (F)

age - Hi There everyone. Iam really glad that I came across this website, Let me tell you something about myself, i am 52 years old, married for 32 years, i have children and 2 grandchildren,I am a young 52 year old and really have not changed that much over the years, so everyo... (305 words)

I'm not ready but I think he's obsessed with having sex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5849 days ago

16 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - im 30 years old divorced and have 2 kids. i met that guy who happens to be my brother's friend about 4 months ago. we have been dating now for a month. i feel he cares a lot about me. like 2 weeks ago we kissed and fooled around. we still didnt have sex and now i feel he's ... (154 words)

Torn between cheating b/f and his friend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5849 days ago

16 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I can't deciede, please help me! I found out from my boyfriend close pal, that his dating another woman. I dont know if i should confront him about it because he did not tell. Also, he told his friend he loves me very much, but yet can't deciede between me and this other l... (76 words)

I Caught wife in the act!

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 5846 days ago

16 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I am stuck with the long hours job and always back at home late nights. my wife is one beautiful woman. one day my school time friend who works in gulf came on 2 months leave in india and met me at my place. I introduced him to my wife. he is so good looking that i could easily ... (368 words)

Men's thoughts on marriage proposal

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5849 days ago

16 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi agony uncles What does a proposal mean to you? What is it like to propose to your longtime girlfriend, if she was waiting for it for a long time and sent A LOT of hints? Do you want to surprise her with the question even she is really expecting it or do you think it is no... (134 words)

What do you think about proposal? Should it be a surprise?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5849 days ago

16 December 2008 (F) age 41-50 - We went ring shopping last week, so probably he's proposing to me soon - but mn, it's as strange feeling expecting a proposal when it's supposed to be um, a surprise. I don't really care about the ring, but I really dreamed of a surprise! Even so he knows my answer, because I ... (110 words)

My vaginal lips are longer than normal I think.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5849 days ago

16 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My inner lips of my vagina are bigger in the way that they stick out longer past my outer lips? Is this attractive to a guy? What is the preferance?... (31 words)

I found porn on his PC, young girls about 14 years old and it's freaking me out.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

16 December 2008 (?) age 36-40 - I should first mention that I have recently been pretty down, dealing with stress, sadness, and so forth. It is taking it's toll and making me suspicious and irritable. My boyfriend and I are in our twenties, and we have been dating for 3 years. On accident, I found some porn ... (263 words)

Are we rushing into things?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5849 days ago

16 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16, my boyfriend is 18. We have talked about marriage and stuff and we have only been togteher for a year, is this like weird or un normal are we rushing into things? ... (35 words)

Why do some women hold back their feelings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4970 days ago

16 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Please explain why women hold back their feelings for a man? Why am I holding back how I truly feel? Why do we put up the defense and not let our guard down? I don't know why I am doing it myself.... (43 words)

I want to keep it on "friendly" terms only

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5850 days ago

16 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - What if a boy purls out his heart to you, about you. But I'm scared to purl my heart to him, about him. Becasue I want to keep it on a friendship level and not anything more. Is that possible?... (40 words)

Is he only in it for the chase?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5849 days ago

16 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - So me and this guy that I have been seeing for about 2 and a half months recently started being a little more sexual with each other. I'm a virgin but he's not and his reputation is somewhat of a player. Anyway, we aren't yet in an official relationship and I would like to be ... (184 words)

She talks about her ex's a lot, intimately. Your opinions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5849 days ago

16 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Just a quick sum up before my issue. It may just be that, MY issue. I have been dating a great gal for about 5 months now. She has great morals and values and our plans seem to line up. There just one thing I can't seem to get around. She talks about her ex's a lot, ... (174 words)

Am I crazy... for even wanting to be his friend?

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16 December 2008 (F)

age - I met someone on a dating site. We agreed to meet mutually after a few emails and about a week of telephone calls. Our first meeting was ice cream. Our second meeting we had great sex (we are a 50 something couple) and this continued on for about a two months no real ... (322 words)

Is it just nerves because this is new or is this a sign that he might be gay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5849 days ago

16 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - my new boyfriend does not get an erection while looking at me or touching me. He only gets an erection if I am stimulating him manually or oraly and likes his butt played with. He said he's not really in to anal sex and when we do have sex he doesn't stay fully hard. He kno... (168 words)

Sex education? What should I read?

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16 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - well i just wanted to be educate myself on sex education..here are a few things i wanna know...what's a clitoris in a woman???what is a sperm count??... (28 words)

Help me understand my heart?

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16 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So this might end up being really long but please bare with me I need help! Ever since 3 years ago me and this one guy I know have been friends. We've been through quite a bit.But the first year while we were still in high school me and him didn't get along that well he would ... (331 words)

Is it ok to kiss an older woman after the first date?

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16 December 2008 (M) age 36-40 - Kissing and the older woman. Ladies can you give some advice? Is it true that in general women like to kiss? Is it ok to kiss an older woman after the first date? Or in general should it wait until the second or third date? Should she take the lead on kissing? What kin... (140 words)

Do you think this married guy is trying to trick me? Please, I need your help!?

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16 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a nice guy a month ago through a business, he offered to test it and it turned out he like it. He´s in the army, and the deal is for his place of stationed. He started helping me out spreading the word and all and told me he´s married with 3 kids (yeah 3) BUT he acted ... (273 words)

Where are some good places to take an older woman out on a date?

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16 December 2008 (M) age 36-40 - I am interested in dating an older woman. Ladies can you give some advice? Where are some good places to take an older woman out on a date? Hiking? Café/restaurant? Club? Dancing? Other ideas? I think women like shopping. Does shopping make a good date? Is clothe shopping... (99 words)

My boyfriend's brother forced himself upon me, should I tell the family?

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16 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Well, I suppose that it started when my boyfriend cheated on me when I was pregnant. I had a really hard time dealing with it, but as with all wounds, time has helped to heal. A few months ago, my boyfriends boss/ brother/ best friend and some friends of ours were hanging out ... (338 words)

He invited me for Christmas so I cancelled my plans, but then he got cold feet, what should I do?

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16 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Help! Everything's going wrong! I've been seeing my boyfriend since September (although we had known each other as acquaintances for six months before that). Things were just starting to feel comfortable and easier than when we first started going out when we were both a bit ... (1210 words)

My wife talks to her ex lover, what should I do?

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16 December 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - WIfe still talking to ex lover. Said "Just Friends" Ask here why she needs to talk to him? No real answer. Ask to let "me" in on the talks... nope.... Said nothing sexual being talked about... What should I do?... (40 words)

I'm crazy in love with my ex who has someone and cheats on her with me!!

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16 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I was with my ex for 2 and half years we lived together and talked bout marriage. I was close hearted and emotionless didn't tell him i loved him. and we broke up once but got back together cuz i said i would try and be more loving and I did 100% then he lost his job and got ... (211 words)

My family life is falling apart, I keep pushing the boy I love and I just don't know what to do anymore!

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16 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - sooo at this point im all over the place... my family life is falling apart and on top of tht i keep tryin to push away the guy i love! i just dont know what to do anymore.. ive been in depression for 3 yrs and can never seem to be happy. i guess thats the reason why i thin... (97 words)

My girlfriend wants an abortion so that she doesn't have to tell her parents... any advice?

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16 December 2008 (?) age 30-35 - One night I got really druck with my girlfriend. Well we ended up having sex (without a comdom)and she thinks she's pregnant because she didnt have her "time" in a month. She wants a abortion so she dosent have to tell her parents. If she does tell her folks they disown her. ... (54 words)

How long should I wait before texting her??

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16 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - i am asking for a little advice! ive been kinda talkin wit this girl, but just through emails and her house phone bc she didnt want me to have her cell # just yet! well tonight she gave me her cell and told me she wanted me to have it. im the type of guy who likes to text mess. ... (128 words)

Can someone tell me what to do?

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16 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Here's my story i've met this wonderful beautiful girl over a Videogame (Final Fantasy XI) a MMO that we have played together for a year then i asked her out. we where dating for a year and a month, she lives in the UK - Essex and i live in Germany - Frankfurt we often talked ... (434 words)

Do penis pills work?

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16 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - does anyone know if those penis pills work? and if they do which ones will work?... (16 words)

Dating for a week and he's already sexual. I'm not used to this and feel weird, any advice?

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16 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i have been going out for more than a week now and today we were making out on the sofa and he got under my shirt and touched me through my jeans. I feel it's wrong and i dont want him to think im a slut but i feel so weird and i dont want it to turn out he's ... (115 words)

What are the side effects of the pill? Should I use them?

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16 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so I (15) am planning to finally give my virginity to my boyfriend, and I'm not doing anything with him unless I'm on the Pill AND he's wearing a condom. We have discussed this many times and done a lot of research. I found out that he's very worried about the side effects ... (91 words)

She led me on for a year, made me think I have a chance with her, now I'm heartbroken and depressed, can you help me?

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16 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Im in so much pain right now it is unbearable. The girl i was in love with led me to beliv for a year i may have a chance with her. That has finally faded after months of intense conversations and the thought of knowing i may have a chace. Now that i know it may never be i ... (221 words)

How do I go about meeting her?

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16 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - This girl i've never met, but we text/email often, seen pics of her, etc. I want to meet her but dunno how to say it. It'll be so awkward. How do i go about it? And what can we do? She does live an hour away so goin for coffee isn't worth it. Lol... (54 words)

Does this mean I'm the rebound guy?

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16 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hey people ok im just a little confused. my girlfriend and i have been friends on and off for about 7 years. this last time we became friends it became more an weve been together for 7 months now. the thing im confused about is recently she told me she only started talking ... (113 words)

How do I get over someone who I have to bump into from time to time?

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16 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My question is how to you get over someone who I know does not care the least about me but I have formed feelings for anyway and from time to time I have to bump into this person? It just seems like I start to forget about him and then I end up bumping into him and the same ... (124 words)

My daughters are calling my girlfriend nasty names and I can't get them to stop!

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16 December 2008 (?) age 41-50 - My daughters (they're only 8 and 5 of age) call my girlfriend (of 2 years) names like b!tch, s*ut, wh*re, ugly, fat, skank, smelly, tramp and the list goes on. I cant them to stop. Of couse I give them time out after time out but its losing its effect. My wife died 4 years ago ... (100 words)

Is there a way to move forward without my cheating GF walking all over me?

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16 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - me and my partner have been together 4 years im male 28 shes 24. it started when i move down south to live with her and her lil girl who over the years i became daddy to as her real dad doesnt want to know. we have now our own lil boy hes 19 months and both lil ones are very... (347 words)

Should I sleep with him so I can get back to my work?

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16 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a question.. I kinda already know the answer, I guess I just need conformation. Here it goes.. So I've worked with this guy for a few months. He is sooo hot. So hot its distracting. I find myself not focusing @ work because I stare @ him.. A lot. And I am responsible for ... (175 words)

Why is my private area darker than the rest of my skin?

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16 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, My virginia is darker then the rest of my skin... I have a sandy golden tan... but I noticed that my private area is more darker... why is this? Do guys find this attractive? ... (39 words)

Went through a phase of listening to my mother masturbate... Help!

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16 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm really not sure exactly when it began but some time around 7th grade I became aware that my mother had a drawer full of sex toys and that she masturbated basically every night. I was very conflicted about this as I was both filled with disgust (it was my mother) but also... (315 words)

Am I just being paranoid, or is it something else?

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16 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Lately I've been noticing one of my teachers seems to be acting differently. In the beginning of the year, he would constantly be staring at me when teaching, (which made me feel uncomfortable at times), but now he's looking away if he catches me looking at him, (but I'm ... (267 words)

I want to know how much I mean to her and if she's ever going to grow out of her tendency to only have short relationships?

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16 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend (we'll call her Hiei, and I'll be Kurama) lives in Louisiana and I live in Pennsylvania. I'm 20 and she's 18(now). We have had a sort of on-again-off-again relationship since January 2007. We dated online for six months, the first time, and then she got 'bored' ... (643 words)

Can't sleep without my boyfriend!

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16 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am sitting up right now, I can't sleep when my boyfriend's not a round and just sit and think about him. I haven't seen him for 5 days it's geting to me. What Can I do? plzzz Help P.S. Is this site just for relationship questions?... (59 words)

What to do with my hands when I kiss someone...

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16 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I've never been kissed before and I'm wondering what am I supposed to do with my hands? Hold his hands? Hold the back of his neck? Run them through his hair? Any suggestions? Especially guys, tell me what you like? thanks ... (49 words)

He says the relationship is one sided and I need to prove to him that I love him...

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16 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My name is Sam and me and my boyfriend had one of the best relationships ever and then I had to move to another country and we continued it through long distance. Then because of my work schedule I stopped remembering things I was supposed to at times and this irritated my ... (181 words)

Rough patch or is it over?

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16 December 2008 (F) age 36-40 - I dont know what to do. I have been with my boyfriend for three years we are both 23. I love my friends but I have always felt lonley in the sense that I don't have much in common with them. When I met my boyfriend I couldn't believe it. We have the same taste in music, books ... (159 words)

I attach great value to myself as a person and cannot bear to see myself governed by basic animalistic instincts.

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16 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I really thought I was immune to being constantly hit on by guys over the years. The disgust I felt at the thought that they didnt care to respect I was in a long term marriage helped greatly to combat their attempts. I recently joined a new company and 3 months ago met yet ... (622 words)

Vaginal sex!

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16 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - What does vaginal sex with no clitoral stimulation feel like for a girl? Does it just feel like a massage or does it provide stimulation but just not sufficient enough to climax?... (33 words)

My boyfriend is gay!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

16 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I just found out my boyfriend of 6 months is gay. 6 months may not seem like a long time at all, but for me it feels like my whole world….and yet it feels like it wasn’t long enough. It is all to hard to explain how I feel but I keep trying and I know people are getting bored, ... (445 words)

Is it the whole "chase" thing?

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16 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Cupiters! Question for ya. Ok I really need a guy's point of view..but girls are welcomed to answer as well. I'm getting to know this guy..he seems cool so far. I can tell he's really into me. But is showing his conceited side now... I have to admit that he is good lo... (148 words)

I am so confused, so hurt yet so drawn to this guy!

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16 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I met this guy online just over 2 years ago(about 3 months after my divorce was finalized) and we've had a on off relationship since then. The very first time he broke up with me after we slept together the first time because he is scared of commited relationships. he wanted to ... (528 words)

Does having braces create a problem when kissing?

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16 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey um I have braces and I'm wondering if that will create a problem while kissing. I've never been kissed before but I think I might this weekend on a date I'm going on. will it hurt me or him and like if we like just so happen to french kiss then could he cut his t... (79 words)

Does lube help for the first time if you're too tight?

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16 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and one of my past boyfriends tried to have sex but i was wayyyy too tight so it hurt so bad. We tried like 4 or 5 times but every time it just hurt too much or it wouldn't even go in!! Would lube help? Also, if you are on birth control will you still bleed the first time? ... (62 words)

Should I become a doctor???

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16 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Should I be a doctor and spend 8 years of my life studying? I really want to.. and I really think I have the potential to do so... and I really love medicine.. but should i go for it? ... (40 words)

Do you think he may just be into teenage girls, and when I reach 25 he might go for someone younger?

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16 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This is a bit of a weird one. I am 19 years old. My boyfriend is 25. We are with each other nearly two years. Though I don't act/look my age (most people think I am 25, my boyfriend innitially thought this from my character before we started to date.) I most certainly ... (202 words)