New here? Register in under one minute Already a member? Login

245057 questions, 1084625 answers

Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!

New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us . Articles . Sitemap

To browse questions by day in December, 2008, use the links below (in brackets, number of questions on that day)

1 (116), 2 (96), 3 (102), 4 (120), 5 (115), 6 (95), 7 (125), 8 (110), 9 (107), 10 (103),
11 (95), 12 (91), 13 (97), 14 (102), 15 (131), 16 (117), 17 (117), 18 (86), 19 (77), 20 (95),
21 (128), 22 (88), 23 (93), 24 (85), 25 (53), 26 (89), 27 (104), 28 (109), 29 (127), 30 (137),
31 (99),

Archived questions from: 12 December, 2008 (see latest questions)

(More questions from December, 2008)

Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is there any hope for this possible relationship

No replies yet: Be the first to answer!

12 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok I have a long one for yous. There is this amazing guy I like. He isn't even the nicest looking but to me he is perfect. Everything about him seems so great, his smile is to die for, his eyes are just deamy, he is a lovely person and his hugs are just so good. We are so close ... (366 words)

Tired of my lazy fiance!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5853 days ago

12 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am really tired of my fiance's bullshit. I just asked him to go to the store for us cuz we needed food for the house--boy did he have a fit. he kept laggin about goin, he still layed on the bed n didnt move, i wan on the computer doing my online skool, n didnt want to go cuz ... (379 words)

How soon can I find out if I"m pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5853 days ago

12 December 2008 (?) age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I are both 18 and have been together for almost 3 months and are very close. We were both virgins when we met (although he is a little more experienced but still hasn't had sex) we and have gotten intimate and wanted to have sex but have been wanting to wait ... (386 words)

He has a controlling girlfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5853 days ago

12 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so i have this guy! his name is tom he is like the all time greatest guy in the world! he is like my dream come true! i love him like IN love with him! but he has a girlfreind! he likes me but he likes her a little bit more! he always tell me im sexy and just all the sexual ... (118 words)

Does a German woman/woman marriage "count" in the US?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5852 days ago

12 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hey every one out there!!! got a question i 'm still married to a woman back in germany but i live here since 2006 and i'm also married to a man !!! does the marriage count here i mean between woman a woman?? cuz i here it don't!!! everybody make a mistake and i... (80 words)

Is masturbation giving me headaches?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5853 days ago

12 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone I have a rather odd question. but ok here it goes. I have been having a lot of headaches recently... I have also been masturbating more often then usual. can these to be related? could masturbating more cause my headaches? ... (51 words)

Should I risk our friendship to tell him I like him as more than just a friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5853 days ago

12 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have known this really great guy for about 1 1/2 yrs. I met him at work, and I guess you could say we hit it off, we talked constantly at work, even if we weren't working in the same area we still would at least stop by and talk a little. I pretty much fell for him... and he ... (642 words)

What do you Scottish/English guys think of us American gals?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5853 days ago

12 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello I'm moving to Scotland... Just wandering about you scottish/english guys out there... what do you think of American girls? How do American and Scottish women differ? and... is there anything I should know about Scottish/English guys before I go... how d... (74 words)

What visual characteristics are guys attracted to?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5829 days ago

12 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - What are some visual characteristics that get guys attention in a good way? Such as clothing, hair, make-up etc. What are guys attracted to? more skin/ hair down-up etc. I know to be myself... just asking for opinions that can help.. that I might not have thought of yet ... (81 words)

Should I reveal my true identity to my crush?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5853 days ago

12 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hello i have had a crush on a guy for a year and my mate gave me his number. he knows who i am but he doesnt know that i have his number. he has said that he thinks i am good looking in the past and i have been texting him (he doesnt know its me as i thought i would keep ano... (120 words)

I recently broke it off because the way he was juggling our relationship with his "family" responsibilities was hurting my feelings.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5853 days ago

12 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating a guy with 2 kids for almost a year. We have gone away together. I have met his brother, mother and friends. When we are together it is nothing but fun. When we can't be together because of our schedules, we text each other all day long. I recently broke it ... (153 words)

Boyfriend Wanted To Take A "Break"

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5853 days ago

12 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - This is a VERY long story. And I'm not sure if I can get proper answers without starting from the top and explaining as much as I can... My boyfriend and I met in Feb 2008, and were a couple by the end of March 2008. Shortly after becoming a couple, he wanted me to move an ho... (1574 words)

I can't match up to his ex and that scares me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5850 days ago

12 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hey guys need some serious advice as i dont think i can feel any worse then i am at the moment... ok so here goes... I recently got together with a guy who got together with me after a long open relationship... after i got with him i found out the reason we were in an open ... (414 words)

Should I call him back or is this risky business?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5853 days ago

12 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I'm very confused. I've been interested in this guy for a while, he's in one of my classes. Anyways, last wednesday we went out on a date and it was absolutely awesome. I feel like we both had a really good time. However, at the end of the date he tells me that he will ... (286 words)

Trying to repair my love afair with a beautiful, bipolar and troubled lady.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5853 days ago

12 December 2008 (M)

age - I am 53 - my girlfriend is 55. She lost her son last year and is also bipolar. She likes to party but also has a spiritual side to her. When she is loving she loves in a big way. When she flips she is like a woman posessed. She has dumped me and taken me back about ten t... (448 words)

My BF is ashamed of my past and I'm scared we'll bump into my ex's!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5853 days ago

12 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in a long term relationship and very happy. The only problem is my past. I've been with a lot of guys, I used to have very low self-esteem and was constantly going from guy to guy trying to be happy. Unfortunately a lot of these guys are at the same uni as me or go to the ... (342 words)

I really don't want hurt my best friend, and really don't want lose him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5853 days ago

12 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone. Sorry that this is a rather long story, but I am desperate for some outsider opinions. This summer I learned that my best friend had feelings for me since last year, but since I had a boyfriend last year he didn't think that we had a chance. Actually I suspe... (435 words)

Should I wait for her or get on with my life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

12 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Last week I made a post about my girlfriends ex wanting her back after six months apart, she still had feelings for him and she didn't know who she wanted. On Monday this week I told her that we should just be friends because its unfair for anyone to get hurt just before... (229 words)

Is my ex-partner on the rebound and will I ever get closure?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5853 days ago

12 December 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - My partner of 18 years left me for another man. I didnt get any closure and she has made no contact at all. It been a few months now and Ihave heard that she has moved away to another part of the country away from friends and family and started a new job. Is she on a rebound, ... (73 words)

How can I pleasure him with my hand down his trousers?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4794 days ago

12 December 2008 (F) age 30-35 - hi how would i go about pleasuring my man while he is standing up with his trousers on and i put my hand down them? ive never done this before, how would i touch him and things PLEASE HELP ME! x x x ... (48 words)

How can I fix the erections that he's NOT getting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5853 days ago

12 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - me and my boyfriend have been dating for over three years. in the beginning of our relationship we had sex about 5 times a week and know its about 5 times a month. the last time we tried having sex he couldnt get hard. i was wondering if this is normal and what i could do to ... (60 words)

I'm completely scared that I might be pregnant.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5853 days ago

12 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i had sex with my boyfriend and we used a condom and he sayed it didnt rip but im just really scared in case it did and hes not telling me.he wasnt inside me for too long but it was for about 10 minutes. he did come though. im due my periods soon but im really scared to take a ... (82 words)

Is he over his ex more than I am?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5853 days ago

12 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been serious for a year and are very in love, but before me four years ago he was dating a girl for two years that he was supposedly very in love with, also who I despise because i for some reason i still feel like he cares about her even though he ... (429 words)

Is a man's orgasm more intense when he cums inside his partner?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4376 days ago

12 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - This a rather silly question but maybe the answer will resolve a dispute between my bf and I. Is a man's orgasm more intense when he cums inside his partner? I've been with my bf for over 2 years. I never refuse him sex. I don't make him wear a condom. I generally give him what ... (193 words)

Is my wife lying about her late night cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5853 days ago

12 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife did not come home one night. She lied about where she was, but finally i found out that she was with someother guy all night long (well until 5 a.m.). She wants to make-up and she tells me they did not do anything except kiss. Should I believe her or is she lying. ... (55 words)

How can I give a smooth blow job?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

12 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i've never given a guy a bj before. I want to know how I can go about taking initiative and doing it smoothly without making it into an awkward situation. also do guys find virgins a total turn off? ... (42 words)

How can I increase my sex drive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5853 days ago

12 December 2008 (F)

age - How can I increase my sex drive?... (7 words)

If someone says that they are in a relationship with you, but you are not intimate, what does that mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5853 days ago

12 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - When someone said i am in a relationship with you but we not intermate.What does that mean... (17 words)

He asked me if I have had sex, and when the answer was yes he stopped texting!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5853 days ago

12 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello Cupiters! Okay, I started talking to this one guy..he's 26. Just by phone and text..we still haven't met because I think it's still too soon. I want to give it a lil more time since I met him thru an online dating site. Anyways, it's been cool..so far. He keeps sayi... (140 words)

How do you make dry humping last longer for him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5853 days ago

12 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf doesn't like to dry hump that much because he says its to fast for him. Him comes way faster than with me just giving him a hand job. But i kinida get tired of giving a hand job especially if we do it many times we are together for the nite. Is there any way to make dry ... (72 words)

His girlfriend cheated and he says he wants to get back at her. Does he love her, or do I have a chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5853 days ago

12 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this boy I like. Me and him are real close and he means everything to me. I'd love to tell him how I feel but he has a gf. Whats confusing is that she cheated on him 3 months into there relationship and he has held a grudge ever since. They have been goin for 10 months ... (128 words)

What should I do about these feelings for my brother in law?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5841 days ago

12 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - he is my brother in law and i know i shouldnt feel this way but i find myself being attracted to him. i dont know why. theres just something about him i cant seem to let go. this started when we were both young and as we are growing up, these feelings are becoming stronger. i ... (92 words)

Poll question: What is the most arousing part of a mans body?

This question has 36 answers - newest was posted 5842 days ago

12 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Poll(for women/gay men): Whats the most arousing part of the mens body? Shoulders, Abs, Penis, Ass, Back, Legs, Face... (30 words)

Is it dumpers guilt or just that he realizes we cant be together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5853 days ago

12 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been having an affair with my ex boyfriend who just like me ,is also married to someonelse...and eventhough we are thousand miles away apart we had intimate moments. Until finally, we decided to meet up after 21years and ofcourse one thing led to another..I felt so ... (258 words)

Why arent I getting morning sickness?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5853 days ago

12 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hello everyone. I am 19 years old and i just founded out i was pregnant like two weeks ago. my baby daddy is 38 years old. and he already have for kids. and this will be my first one. how i found out was a test while i took two differnt kinds of test's so all together it is ... (70 words)

His ex keeps butting in and telling me she is sleeping with him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5853 days ago

12 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband I love very much and I guess what bothers me is that he talks to his ex girlfriend wich they don't have any kids together. But she sticks her nose in our marriage by calling me and saying that she sleeping with him and when I ask my husband he says no so I'm ... (158 words)

Why does she hide her figure with a sari?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5850 days ago

12 December 2008 (M)

age - i am fond of looking and talking to 43 years single lady with adult kids, she allows upto that but she hides her waist and bosom fully with saree,why, Is it to draw attention or to avoid sex appeal.... (39 words)

Is it true that men love it when you play hard to get?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5853 days ago

12 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Interested in getting lots of opinions please - is it true that a man is more interested in you if you play hard to get, and that being available 24/7 to a man can be a turn off? I have been reading up on different sites and this seems to be the impression I get. ... (56 words)

Should I have allowed a thief to sleep in my house?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5853 days ago

12 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - So, me and my girlfriend live together and one night her uncle kicked her cousin out of his house. I've never met the uncle but I hear he is a real piece of crap. My girlfriend asks me if her cousin can stay the night at our apartment for a night. Normally, I wo... (243 words)

He is still in the process of breaking up with his ex.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5853 days ago

12 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, am in a relationship with a wonderful guy, just recently i got to know of his ex and ask him about it. he cliamed they had broken up but still sorting things out. and that things are becoming more complicated than he thought. though he said he loves me so much, am scared ... (89 words)

He gave his number to a girl at a bar. I don't know what to believe or what to do!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5850 days ago

12 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone... I need a bit of advice. My boyfriend and I have known each other since we were about 3 and dated on and off for years. We started dating about 2 and 1/2 years ago and have lived together for 2 years. I answered his phone the other night and it was a girl he met ... (186 words)

How do I stop thinking about my teacher?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5849 days ago

12 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a girl of 16 and I think I am in love with my teacher who is a lot older. Is this just a stupid crush and if so how can I stop thinking about him? We hardly talk anymore and he has never said outright that he likes me, but I read to much into his actions and am now a girl ... (67 words)

Need a guy opinion: What is he thinking?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5850 days ago

12 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'd really like some male input on problems I'm having with my ex. Everything he does is just confusing me so much I have no idea what's going on in his head. We'd been dating about 4 years and a few months ago he broke it off after cheating on me, then that girl ( he o... (600 words)

Do guys ask you who like for no reason?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5853 days ago

12 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - do guys just ask who you like for no reason? or do they like you/have a friend who likes you? I have a guy friend who asked me out of nowhere if i liked anyone and i asked him why, he said he didnt really know he was just wondering. Do guys ask that, honestly for no ... (62 words)

He says time apart will make us appreciate each other. All it does is make me feel rejected and angry.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5853 days ago

12 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfreind have been goingout fover over a year now. Recently me and my boyfriend have been spending a lot of time together, and I've loved every minute of it. However a a few weeks ago he said he didn't want to see me as much anymore because we see too much of each ... (120 words)

Should I just be polite when I meet the 'other woman' at the office Christmas party?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5850 days ago

12 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi last year my husband and I went through a really bad patch and he left me for a few months. Before we broke up though I found out that he had been flirting with one of the girls from his work. They had been sending text messages to eachother. Anyway when I pulled him up ... (221 words)

She is dating someone else now, can I still get her back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5853 days ago

12 December 2008 (M) age 36-40 - how to get back with my ex-girl friend she is dating someone else we work togeter in the same group at college so i see everyday (she dating a relitve of another person in same group) i had huge fight with her becouse of her best friend had a problem with my best friend i e... (107 words)

My boyfriend has been unemployed for 2 years and it is freaking me out!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5853 days ago

12 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in a state. I have been dating my boyfriend for almost two years. When I decided to go ahead with the relationship he has just lost his job. I thought it was not going to be long for him to get another job back. He has a masters degree and he plans to start his own ... (250 words)

Financial problems and swinging issues are putting a strain on this relationship

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

12 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello Agony Aunts/Uncles and readers, I recently found this site and found it to be so insightful. I have a problem that I have been bouncing around in my mind for the longest time and really would like a different perspective on this. If anyone does respond to my question p... (954 words)

I'm suddenly insecure about my size!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5853 days ago

12 December 2008 (M) age 36-40 - I have a penis size of about 4.8" in length and 4.5" in girth. I'm a very malnutritioned guy at 19 years, really skinny. I'm wondering if exercise would have any effect on my size? I'm pretty much new to this 'penis envy' thing, I never really even had a slight thought a... (104 words)

I'm in love with my wife's best friend and even my wife thinks we'd be great together!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

12 December 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I've been married for about 3 years now and the wife and I had female friend and our relationship with her went a little farther than friendship. For my birthday the two of them had a little surprise for me in the pool. It never went as far as sex, but real close. About 3 ... (272 words)

What should I do so that he doesn't leave because of my sexual past?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5806 days ago

12 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend of 4 years and i have been constantly fighting about my past sexual relationships, which unfortunately he knows the details about my exes. he keeps saying he will leave because i expect him to live and love a person like me, who gave herself away so freelyy ... (73 words)

Could someone explain/ go into depth about ther experiences with morning sickness?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5853 days ago

12 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello all! I was just wondering if anyone could explain a bit more about morning sickness. I know it differs between each individual, so I'm just curious to hear about personal expiriences. I suspect I could be pregnant but probably am not, there is no way to tell for sure ... (127 words)

My boyfriend brought me a vibrator, I'm a virgin, how should I use it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5853 days ago

12 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey This probably sounds really stupid but I don't know what it is, when you're meant to find out etc. My boyfriend recently bought me a vibrator and he keeps asking if I've used it yet. He's being sweet and not forceful and I want to try it out, however, how do you actually ... (110 words)

A coworker has a crush on my man. Why doesn't she get the idea he is taken?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5853 days ago

12 December 2008 (F)

- I just went to a work Christmas party. My partner was perfectly attentive as usual and gave me some kisses in front of people as he usually does. There was one girl who was prickly and I commented. He told me it is because she fancies him (or did do until he put on quite a ... (330 words)

Pregnant Again...and ALONE.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5853 days ago

12 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Over this past summer I changed my birth control from the Pill to the Shot, but I continued to have unprotected sex with my boyfriend. I hadn't had my period since July and around early October I started to have terrible morning sickness all the way up until the abortion, not ... (285 words)

The married guy I'm saying has a cheek to say I'm cheating on HIM!!!???

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5853 days ago

12 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey guys I am single but in love with a married man. We have sex once in a month. I am not sure about his feelings. Sometimes he says he has feelings for me and sometimes says he don't have. He has one other girlfriend also which I came to know recently. Now I have decided to ... (111 words)

How do I figure it out? Should I give him another chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5853 days ago

12 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I left my boyfriend 4 days ago because we had been having a rough time for the past few months as in it was a one sided relationship in that i was putting in all the effort. The week before I left him he told me he realised how much of a jerk he was being to me and told me he ... (311 words)

I haven't had an orgasm since the birth of my child 3 years ago.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5853 days ago

12 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Please can you help me, I've been with my partner 3 months and when we have sex I don't orgasm, he has not noticed this. I had a baby 3 years ago and thinking back, since I've had sex I haven't cum, please can you tell me is this normal? ... (51 words)

Is it a good idea to start a relationship when I'm this anxious, worried and insecure?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5853 days ago

12 December 2008 (F)

- I feel like something is seriously wrong with me. There is this guy, who really likes me and I like him alot too and we both want to be in a relationship but im not sure if its a good idea because I am constantly feeling anxious, worried, insecure and down. If he doesnt r... (355 words)

What should our anniversary date be - when we met online or in real life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5854 days ago

12 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, i met my boyfriend on internet, we are very happy, just that we are in long distance relation, my doubt is what counts for a anniversary date, the day we met online o the day we met in real? thanks so much for your answers guys!!!! Kiss ... (55 words)

How do I deal with my out-of-control 5 year old brother?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5854 days ago

12 December 2008 (?) age 30-35 - My brother (who's 5) lives with me and my boyfriend (for personal reasons). My bro keeps swearing at me or my boyfriend when he's not getting his way. I put him in time outs almost everyday. He'll stay in time out like 2 seconds then he'll ran off so that's when I add 5 minutes ... (109 words)

I want to leave my nice comfortable marriage

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5853 days ago

12 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have been married for 12 years with a period of seperation of 4 years within that due to infidelity on his part. Since we have been back together (around 2 years) things have changed. The simplest way to explain is that I live with one of my best friends:- - we l... (328 words)

I want her out of my head for good!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5853 days ago

12 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Sorry for bringing this up again. After a little over a year my ex and I split when she began cheating on me with another guy. I cut contact with her for while, but due to our schedules we still wound up seeing each other, even if we didnt speak, upwards of 2 times a week. ... (311 words)

Torn between 2 girls

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5853 days ago

12 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so this is how it went down. I moved to Texas in May and started school in August. There was this girl(Jessica) there who i liked just based on her looks but i didn't do anything because i wanted to get to know her personality. We only had two classes together so it took a ... (463 words)

Marrying another but having oral sex with my boyfriend

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5853 days ago

12 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am involved in oral sex with my boyfriend. After a month i am getting married to someone else. What should i do. Should i continue with him as i have developed emotional bond with him.... (38 words)

He had another woman to his house but he'll call me tomorrow!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

12 December 2008 (F)

age - I've known him for 6 years. Last Monday, I told him I love him and that I'm available for him. He has never said I Love You back. He called earlier and I couldn't answer the phone. When I did call back, he said "oh, well...you were unavailable" I thought he was cheating on ... (226 words)

I don't want a relationship, but I want sex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5854 days ago

12 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid, i really need your help. im 18 and in college. i love to be single and party. i don't like boyfriends. there is this one guy that i like and completely has my heart, but another girl has his heart but its cool. it hurt for a while but i like being single better. im ... (197 words)

Mom engaged now treating me like dirt

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5852 days ago

12 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i have a real problem here.. and its hurting me, and everyone around me. well anyways, my mom is getting married, and for some reason in my family, when the girls get engaged, or dating, they start to treat their kids like dirt.. for an example, my cousin (we're real c... (295 words)

Am I doing the right thing by ignoring him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5854 days ago

12 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have this ex "boyfriend" who I was with for 6 months on and off but officially for a week because he had commitment issues. He broke up with me and said that he didnt want a girlfriend right now but still insisted on remaining friends and said that he didnt want to lose me. ... (284 words)

How do I ask her out when I'm so scared?!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5854 days ago

12 December 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey. I have already asked out this girl in my Hebrew school but she says she wants to get to know me better. I'm thinking it's been almost long enough now but there's only one problem: I'm really scared to ask her!! HELP... (43 words)

Sex takes too long, he'd rather masturbate

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5852 days ago

12 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 24 and my husband is 34, we love each other very much, he was never really into sex, he rather masturbate then have sex because he feels like he may take too long.... recently i have noticed that he does not want to have sex at all, like he has totally lost his sex ... (189 words)

He waits till I go to sleep then watches porn and masturbates

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

12 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i always caught my husband watching porn sexy gals and girl live on webcam and he masturbating i felt so really hurt.he start lied to me and even im in the house he still do it he just wait if im going to bed or busy .he always slept late i always ask him to sleep he always ... (109 words)

Will first time sex suck?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5854 days ago

12 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. I was talking about the fact that I'm a virgin with this one girl, and I told her that I wanted it to have sentimental value when I finally lost it. She said that my first time will suck, and it's not all it's cracked up to be. I'm wondering.. is this true? I've put kinda a ... (69 words)

Falling for best friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5853 days ago

12 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - me and my best friend have been friends for the longest time and I think I'm falling for him! Should I tell him? I'm soooooo confused!!!!!!!!!... (26 words)

My girlfriend has no time for me! Should I end things?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5854 days ago

12 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - my girlfrend has no time 4 me at all if shes not at col shes with her friends getting drunk she said its coz shes having probs at home with her mum and dad but i dunno what to do i like her sooo much but i dunno if i should end it can some one help me x... (59 words)

No affection & I think he's faking orgasms!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5854 days ago

12 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so here is my situation...I recently got into a relationship with a guy I have known for over 5 years who has been in love with me the entire time. I met him through a mutual guy friend and he has always expressed his feelings for me yet I did nothing about it until now. ... (210 words)

My girlfriend has changed I don't understand her anymore!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5853 days ago

12 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been seeing my girlfriend for about a year and seven months now. We've made it through a lot of issues, but lately it seems like steam is running out. She's a year younger than me (making her 21) but very sheltered during her upbringing. Hasn't been in a great deal of re... (542 words)

How can I attract guys? What's wrong with me? Am I that repulsive?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5853 days ago

12 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My name is Kristen and I havn't had a boyfriend in so long ever since freshman year of highschool (I'm twenty years old and a junior in college). Ever since then,my self-esteem has gone even lower than before. I'm think I'm too short (I'm 4'5"),I'm fat (I'm about 89 or ... (167 words)

I'm having lunch with a guy friend I really like. How should I act?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5854 days ago

12 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm having a lunch "date" with a really good friend of mine in a couple of weeks. We haven't seen each other in over four months. We get along great and we talk and laugh a lot and frankly enjoy each other's company. We email frequently and also talk on the phone. He is not ... (175 words)

I'm still in love but have been crying for weeks... should I break up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5854 days ago

12 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I started dating one year and half ago. However, we've spent most of the relationship as a long distance one since he went to study in another country. After 14 months, he proposed and I said yes. All was magical and I had no regret. However, he had some ... (487 words)

I am dating a married man. Can his wife sue me for loss of affection?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5692 days ago

12 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I am dating a married man. Can his wife sue me for loss of affection?... (16 words)

I'm seriously thinking about ending my first ever long-term relationship...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5854 days ago

12 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there, I'm seriously thinking about ending my first ever long-term relationship and I'm looking for some support/advice on what to do and how to get used to being single again. I'm quite an independent sort, so have never really discussed my relationship with a... (900 words)

I feel like my spirit is broken and I want my confidence back

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5853 days ago

12 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - When I was younger I was had an unshakable self belief in myself almost to a point where that confidence was cockiness I could do anything I set my mind to. I was fit and strong, I never had a problem getting really good looking women and in fact went through alot of them. I ... (308 words)

Does he think about other women while we have sex EVERY time? or just occasionally?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5148 days ago

12 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, new to being a member here on DearCupid, but I have consulted to this site for more "level-minded" answers about certain issues I have had with pornography. I have done kaboodles of reading online, and in book stores to find a better understanding of how men are "har... (482 words)

Is it the guy's fault?????

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5852 days ago

12 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it really a guy's fault when you cry even if they're not around or even know it... even if you haven't hung out with them for a really long time... and thinking about your guy's past you had together... Does it get sad/stalkerish if you have to google or find a webiste ... (98 words)

He's sleeping with someone else and I don't know how to act!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5854 days ago

12 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm basically in love with my flatmate. We met over a year ago as uni friends and if I'm honest I was pretty into him from the beginning but was getting out of a serious longterm relationship so didn't want to go there. Long story short, We spent the year being good friends ... (959 words)

If driving when very tired is the same as driving while intoxicated, is having sex while THAT tired considered consensual?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5854 days ago

12 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been sexually active for half my life now and mostly it's been awesome but sometimes, especially after work I am sooooooo tired my brain hurts, I'm so tired but I still get physically turned on if stimulated so I have "given" in many times both with my ex husband and my ... (159 words)

Should I stop giving advice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

12 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi! I will except advice from anyone. Ok... I 28% of my ratings went to poor. I thought I was doing well, but a big percentage doesn't seem to think so. Should I call it quits, and stop giving advice because that was very discouraging to see. ... (47 words)

What causes some people to be unintentionally so hurtful?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5854 days ago

12 December 2008 (F)

- I thank in advance anyone who helps here. My question involves a co-worker. This is not a clear cut case of a nasty co-worker. I am a consultant and work with this woman once a week as I work in other offices as well. She seems a very real person and states exactly what she ... (249 words)

I opened the bedroom door and found my boyfriend making out with the birthday girl!!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5854 days ago

12 December 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I'm at full time work and because of it I don't get to see to my boyfriend very often. Well one night I went to a friend's party. I didn't ask my bf to come because he doesn't really know my friends and I thought it would awkward for him. Long story short I heard my boyfriend ... (109 words)