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Those who have been cheated on, how did you find out?

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Question - (4 December 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 22 December 2008)
A male Canada age 51-59, anonymous writes:

Those of you who know that you have been cheated on by a long term partner, how did you find out?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2008):

i found out the same way as the comment above ^ and emails/notes that were left about out of lack of care i guess

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A female reader, Jadedgirl United Kingdom +, writes (4 December 2008):

My instincts made me suspect he was up to no good. Very secretive, would not let his phone out his sight, always suspecting ME of cheating when i was totally faithful! In the end he was acting so distant that i dumped him. Few weeks later his ex contacts me on facebook and tells me they were together most of our relationship and even had a baby together behind my back. I will always listen to my instincts i truly believe that they are always right. .

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A female reader, vikkicutie United Kingdom +, writes (4 December 2008):

vikkicutie agony aunti was with my ex for a year and a half. i had a little feeling that he was cheating on me because he went very distant from me. i mean we were very close did things together then the next thing he didnt even want to hug me!

i finally found out a few weeks after we broke up that he was seeing someone else! as she posted comments that she was a proud boyfriend stealer!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2008):

Hmm......just before dinner, he blurted it out, he had been wiv 3 other women in the course of 3 months.. and then said we should go have dinner! Aww i wasn't hungry after that and cried in the bathroom for 2 hours.. but got over it

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2008):

he feel asleep after one of his nights out with his mates and for the first time ever he left his phone in his pocket. i took it out and turnt it on and there was text messages from a girl he had been seein for a year started when i was pregnant. his phone now remains in his pocket and goes in the bath with him always on silent i think if you feel somethin is wrong go with it cause your instincts are usually right

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