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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I wrote to my father in law telling him what I thought of him and his girlfriend. Was I right to do this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

21 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - my brother in law has been thrown out of his home by his girlfriend because of his laziness. My husband's family (his 3 sisters) are financially well off and have space in their houses. We are poor and have no room. My father in law has a large property and is wealthy, he has ... (202 words)

A letter to my ex: your thoughts?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

21 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - For background please see: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/what-is-my-exgirlfriends-intentions-here.html I'd appreciate your thoughts on this letter. (Sorry for the length). J, I have been thinking about how I feel of late, and there is something that I need to say.... (699 words)

How much authority do managers have?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 December 2008 (M) - Does a manager have the authority to send an employee home without issuing him some type of papers that states he is being sent home from work for a reason. Does a manager have the authority to tell an employee to come back when he wants them to. Is there suppose to be some ... (144 words)

I can masturbate up to 12 times a day and it is still not enough, what do I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

21 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I’m a virgin and I’m horny all the time to the point that I get headaches if I don’t masturbate! I can masturbate up to 12 times a day and it is still not enough What do I do? ... (47 words)

Can two friends have sex for fun now and again and still be good friends after?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Can two friends have sex for fun now and again and still be good friends after?... (16 words)

He's back in my life again but I don't want to give myself false hope.

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21 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Two years ago, I fell head over heels for someone. We were together for 5 months. There was an amazing chemistry between us and it seemed obvious we were meant for each other. At some point he told me that he had recently been dumped by his 7-year fiancee and that he was ... (633 words)

I really like a girl at work, what should I do!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

21 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, there's a girl at work who I really like. It might seem strange to say this, but the kind of things she does (in particular her sense of humour is very much like mine) she seems perfect for me! There's a few issues though! (otherwise i wouldn't be here!) - I can be... (561 words)

How do I deal with my brother's horrid girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5812 days ago

21 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I think my brothers girlfriend is horrid to him. they were together for 5 months when she came to live with us in my mum n dads house, and id just had my baby at the time. she didnt have a job or any income, and didnt pay board to my mum, but she also doesnt do anything to help ... (238 words)

Why do some people have all the success?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

21 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - why do some people have all the success(nasty and two faced people) and others have none at all the hard working and unlucky .me i have no nothing no job,no house,i live in isolated town with nothing not even jobs,no car,still living at home, some people always whiles ot... (110 words)

How can I lift my breasts without telling anyone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my breast are very unattractive My nipples are big and light colored, my left is about a half of size smaller than the right, and worst of all there saggy…..I am only 14 years old so I cant have any kind of surgery and I don’t want to talk to my parents about it. So is the... (90 words)

I'm getting sick of his porn/masturbation addiction!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend likes to masterbait alot!!! When I ask if its me he says no....We have been together for almost 4 years I thought our relationship was fine but I seem to always find porn sites.....I was thinking that he was addicted to porn but I just cause him masterbaiting in ... (97 words)

Is my waiting for him pointless?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5812 days ago

21 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - So I'm back posting again after a month since my ex (20) and I (22) broke up. Let me say it has been a really hard month too... To recap, he broke up with me because he realized he wasn't ready to be in a relationship because he realized how immature and how much more he needs ... (855 words)

Should I have kept quiet about the one night stand?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5801 days ago

21 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend asked me the other day if i'd ever had a one night stand the other day and i admitted that i had thinking that teeling the truth is always the best (and not thinking very much at all as well - it just came out). She siad she didnt really mind but i could tell she ... (124 words)

My boyfriend and I got in an argument and now he won't respond to me!

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21 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, i really need your help, it was recently my boyfriends birthday we went out and he constantly told me he loved me like he always does, we were very sreious about eachother he told me i was the only one for him but the next day i went to go and see him we were still ... (132 words)

My boobs are really embarrassing for me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my boobs are really embarrassing for me :( first off, my nipples are really big and really gross and really not cute! secondly I always get pimples on them! third, on my left boob I have two cysts and getting a third. what's wrong with them?... (58 words)

Can I keep this a secret and still be a good girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 December 2008 (F) age 30-35 - Please try not to judge me. This is my first relationship and I've made tons of mistakes. We've been together for two years and almost 4 months, and I love him. He is the jealous type. He has issues with my past. My past is not at all crazy, but well. To avoid problems I... (537 words)

How can I convince him to give me my files back without putting myself at risk emotionally?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

21 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex of 5 months has all my computer files on his external hard drive. My computer was about to crash so we put it on there for safe keeping months before we broke up. Well I kept asking him to find a way of giving them to me beforehand and like a typical lazy boyfriend kept ... (370 words)

My husband is obsessed with Johnny Cash and he wants to name our son SUE!!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5805 days ago

21 December 2008 (?) age 41-50 - My husband is obsessed with Johnny Cash and he wants to name our son SUE (I'm 5 months pregnant) as in the song. I honestly hate that name for a boy (and for a girl). He won't change his mind about it. I think he just is stressed about being a dad. What do you think?... (56 words)

Pregnant! Husband left to clear his head, I don't know what to do next!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

21 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Well where do I start?? I've been with my husband for 8 years (married for 2.5 off them). We split up 5 years ago as he had a one night stand, after a few months apart we decided to give it ago but took it very slowly it was 6 months later before we moved back in together. ... (530 words)

My boyfriend's Christmas present?? - 20 years old.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. This is very last minute but I don't know what else to get my boyfriend for Christmas. We've been dating for a long time, and we have been talking about taking the next step and getting engaged. We live together and we are both 20 years old. A lot of the ideas I heard were ... (117 words)

We finally become initimate and I want to throw it all away for no reason, why am I like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a problem with staying with people after we become intimate. I met this guy and he is really cute and nice and everything that I say I want and we finally become initimate and I want to throw it all away for no reason, everything was great, no complaints so I am ... (111 words)

I am not happy with my body image, how can I change it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am not happy with my body image. Some people my say I'm small but in the stomach area I'm not. I wear a size 7,8,9 (depending on the brand of clothing). I also play basketball and workout (lift weights) so I have a some muscle. How do I stay determined about working on ... (88 words)

Do men ever leave a relationship for reasons other than having met someone else?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Do men ever leave a relationship for reasons other than having met someone else? My boyfriend left me without giving me a reason, and my mind is going crazy. We weren't fighting or anything like that, as a matter of fact I thought we got along well. The relationship was 1.5 ... (112 words)

I think I'm in love.... but she's a WOMAN!!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well I am from Greece and I think I am in love... the problem is that, I should not be with this person... the reason for that is that this is a girl!!! A girl from my school. We do not even talk.. I doubt if she knows my name... the only thing that exists between us is that ... (75 words)

Does she like me? It seems like she is trying to give me a hint or something????

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5809 days ago

21 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so I'm bi and there is this girl I met a few months ago. I felt like being honest and told her that I liked her. She said that it was fine and that she would still be my friend and stuff. After telling her she talks to me more. Now every time she tries to give me something ... (97 words)

The damage has been done.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - i am in love with my step brother. it started when we were teenagers our parents meet they interduced us kids to each other at the time they were just boy friend girl friend. when he first looked at me i knew what i was in for. during this time i wasnt in to boys. he pursude me ... (142 words)

Am I overreacting? How do I stop doubting her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, so I've been dating my girlfriend for almost 11 months now, and she is the best and longest girlfriend I have ever had. She is the first girl I have really loved. We both go to the same University, have the same major and live in the same dorm building, so we end up see... (239 words)

Can we get back together for good?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5785 days ago

21 December 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I am a 39 year old divorcee. In May this year I met and fell in love with the most wonderful woman of 32. We had so much in common and spent a lot of time together. We travelled a lot and were making plans to move in before Christmas. She built a great relationship with my ... (542 words)

I can't function like this much longer. And sooner or later I'm going to break completely.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm new to this forum and I only registered because I have run out of ideas. I am a 24 year old male, soon to be 25, and I work as a Graphic Designer. I hate my job so much that I am actually getting sick just thinking about it while typing this. My life is going no where... (462 words)

Are these teachers at School getting Married?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

21 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - At school there are 2 teachers in my house, they seem obsessed with each other, they hug in house meeting a lot and sometime kiss each other. A couple of years ago they did a sponsored kiss 4 5 minutes. Our house had a party before the xmas holidays and you know you have to ... (151 words)

Should I be concerned that he doesn't like me any more, or that he just doesn't want to be with me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5809 days ago

21 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - The guy I'm seeing, went shopping with this girl who is in fact going with another girl, but when they got back from shopping she tried it on with him, he said that nothing happened and all that did happen was that she just sat on him, apparently they never kissed or anything, ... (149 words)

Where can I meet a decent guy apart from pubs and clubs?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - After a fairly bad relationship, and having been single for 8 months, I feel ready to begin thinking about dating again. Now, all my friends have babies/are married/settled in a relationship and as a result I don't go out clubbing/pubbing much, not that i would want to me... (87 words)

I had sex in the heat of the moment with my best friend but I have a boyfriend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am seventeen years old and I'm in a healthy relationship with my boyfriend. However, at a party one night, me and my best friends brother (age 24) decided to have in the heat of the moment sex. Now I'm worried if my boyfriend finds out he'll dump me. I'm also scared of my ... (58 words)

Male behaviour... help me understand please!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it the bigger the ego the bigger prick he is? Why do you men act so macho I'd love to know! Why are so many guys so up themselves they think they can have any girl they want and get away hurting a girl's feeling and be rewarded for it and they don't deserve it? What do ... (120 words)

How can anybody accuse you of cheating when he cheated me by not giving 100% and he thinks this is okay?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My long term partner recently ended it with me as he is convinced I cheated on him just because I spoke to a guy a few times I once knew, I never ever cheated on him, had no reason to. The thing that bothers me is that he never put 100% into us he held back his love from me ... (89 words)

It's 4 days till christmas, and I have no idea what to get my boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 December 2008 (F)

- Hey. Ok, I have a problem. It's 4 days till christmas, and I have no idea what to get my boyfriend! We've been dating for over 3 months now and we love each other The only problem is, I know he's bought me a lot of things! I've got him COB [children of bodom] dogtag a... (96 words)

What can we do to save our marriage?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 December 2008 (F) age - I really need some opinion on this case. My husband is impotent with me at the last fews years. He has no desire, and finally when we try to have sex he stays soft. But not because he is MEDICALLY SICK... He had all the medical check ups, he is not sick. And he has the... (184 words)

Are these all pregnancy symptoms. Should I wait to do the test?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5807 days ago

21 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been eating more then usual and it's not like me as I'm a small girl. I have a bump for a belly that is normally flat. I have extremely sore, enlarged and darkened nipples. Have felt sick past couple of mornings am getting dizzy a lot. I am getting nosebleeds, I have ... (88 words)

Sleepover party in big hall!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5812 days ago

21 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - A massive group of my friends may be having a big sleepover/party in a big hall, the guy I really like is going, what can I do to make sure he likes me, rather than this bitch that always hangs around him. I used to be best friends with her but she is a really horrible person. ... (64 words)

Should I let her go even though I love her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

21 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - When you love a girl and you think she likes you (Or thats what the signals seem to be when im with her). She speaks to you in person but not via phone, email or SMS and when you see her in person it's only with her friends. I really love her and the more she does this the more ... (103 words)

He doesn't want to tempt the friendship...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5812 days ago

21 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i have a bisexual guy best friend. he says im amazing but doesnt want to tempt the friendship..even tho he used to have a massive crush on me he sends me mixed signals..for example on friday we went for lunch then out that night ..he came over and hugged me and kissed my ... (129 words)

Can you truly fall out of love with someone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - my wife has left me.... she told me that she loves me but is no longer in love with me. she said that it feels odd when she kisses me and cant give me what i want. i have so many questions that i want answers to but she says she cant give me these answers. we have be... (220 words)

Is she lying to me about this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5805 days ago

21 December 2008 (M)

age - Is she lying to me? I sugested to my girlfriend to experience anal sex and she accepted. That was about 48 times ago (an average of one per month) and she still insists it is painful to her. I don't understand why since I feel no resistance during penetration. My penis is not ... (313 words)

Will this awkward aura keep us apart?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

21 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Well guys, i really need you help on this one. So there is this girl that i really like and i somehow get a feeling that she likes me back, however this IS just a feeling. but anyways we get along fine when were alone together (this isn't a lot of the time) but we always se... (221 words)

Can someone tell me what he wants?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - We started dating and everything was fine until we had sex for about 2 months and next thing i know he says he just wants to be friends but he still acts the same but we aren't having sex anymore. Soo I don't know what he wants? We also work at the same job but different ... (162 words)

How can I be single and happy??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

21 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, Basically I want to have a boyfriend, but at the same time, I really just want to stay single and be happy. I hate the fact that I can't get one, which is why I want to learn to accept the fact that I will be staying single for a while. I mean, I feel pretty pathetic ... (94 words)

I'm caught in the middle between two wonderful women that I have feelings for.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5803 days ago

21 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - You've read it before. The typical man is married/engaged/in a relationship and befriends a coworker, where feelings start to develop. My situation: I'm happily engaged with my fiance, but have been getting to know a coworker more in depth. From natural attraction, feel... (210 words)

Does his silence mean something has happened with his ex??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I started dating a guy about a month before everyone went away home from university for Christmas. Before he went we were lying in bed and I asked him if he was looking forward to go home and seeing his family, and he said he didn't know because his ex girlfriend lives in the ... (257 words)

How can I stop wanting to have sex when I lose self-control so easily?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok this may be really silly but im so confused. Ive been with my boyfriend for about 3 months and its going amazingly well. I always thought that i would want to be with any guy i lost my viginity to for at least 8months but with him its different. Around him i lose self con... (106 words)

How can it work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - How can a relationship of a 9 years age difference work? I really like this guy (older), but it would obviously be against the law to date him now. Somehow my parents managed it (13 year age difference), but they met at work when they were both legal. And my youngest brother... (88 words)

How can I find out if he has a girlfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - How do I find out if this guy I like has a boyfriend? I think that he might have one outside of my school. I don't want to use any backdoor tactics and I definitely don't want to seem upfront or confrontational. Please help! Oooh! And by the way, I'm really shy so I don't r... (69 words)

How can I tell if online porn sites are legit?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have some serious questions about online porn. There is this one site that I would love to buy some from but I'm worried it could cause some future problems. How can I tell if they are legit. I mean in college I saw one of their porn videos that I downloaded for free but now ... (132 words)

Should I settle for my boyfriend of 3 years who has been abusive and has a bad anger problem.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Should I settle for my boyfriend of 3 years who has been abusive and has a bad anger problem. We were living together and I just kicked him out a couple of months ago cuz he tried to choke me at home while my kids were home, luckily they didn't see anything. We were trying to ... (118 words)

I don't feel so excited and don't beam when he says he misses me...

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21 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - heyy A year ago I was cheated on and seven months ago I never saw a train wreck coming [where I basically thought I was in a perfectly normal relationship, only for him to turn around and say it's not right and was gone before I could make sense of things]. Any way so now... (274 words)

I think the condom might have broke!!!

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21 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I lost my virginity 2 days ago and he used a condom but I'm kinda nervous it broke. I know it's been two days but I'm having weird pains. Could I be pregnant??... (33 words)

My family doesn't approve of current boyfriend but approves of ex and I'm confused about who to choose!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm from an asian background (mauritian) and is a fact that mauritians marry or go out with mauritians, however i thought i was the different one and i'm going with someone who is black and my mother doesn't approve. He's a nice guy and everyone knows he adores me, but i went ... (139 words)

I need some way to get rid of this jealousy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, just wondering if anyone had any advice. There's this boy that i like, but he doesn't know i like him. Recently i was getting jealous feelings towards this girl that was always by him and talking to him. My friend has some classes with this boy and kind of finds things ... (226 words)

Time to make it up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 December 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I saw a girl for two years, then I find out she is seeing someone else. I’m hurt but walk away wishing all the best with meaning. It hurt me but remained calm and asked no questions. I aimed for a friendship. We all work in the same building. I caused no trouble. This all ... (629 words)

Had sex with ex now wondering if it was wrong

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - friday nite i had a friend of mine round, she used to be my girlfriend but i dumped her, anyway we ended up having sex and after she stayed for an hour, we where on my computer both looking at it laying on are bellies and just talking, then all of a sudden, i was rubbing my ... (256 words)

What can I do? Does he feel the same?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this guy(Ricky) and he is so sweet, he's gorgeous, and he seems to get really shy around me. But one of my friends really likes him, I feel guilty every time I think about him. He acts as if he likes me, but how can I be sure? Should I forget about him if my friend ... (128 words)

Confused about his actions

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5807 days ago

21 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - There's this guy i really like and he is always acting weird when my sisters friend is around and its just really annoying when he hardly talks to me when this guy is around he says he loves me and he wants to be with me but still its just lik eerrr i really like this guy i ... (71 words)

Will we be together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i been seein this guy for a week now yes i know a week is not long but its nearly to weeks anyways his mum has had it tuff with her husband cheatin on her n leavin her n she decided its easier to run away.anyways he then tells me he is leavin at the end of the month so all is ... (390 words)

Why did she lead me on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5803 days ago

21 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - So this semester, I met this girl and was instantly attached, I paid so much attention to her, txted her, called her, just in general wanted to be around her, problem is, she just got out of a relationship and said she didn't want anything. I said I understood, but still ... (233 words)

Sleeping with an ex what does it mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - When u still sleep with an ex does it mean that there are still feelings between the 2 of them, even tho u split a month and a half ago? Thats what me and my ex are doing, and a lot of people we know down the club we go to, say that you both wouldnt sleep together if there was... (132 words)

Low sex drive

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

21 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have always had a very low sex drive...I enjoy it once I get into it but it sometimes feels like I have to force myself to get into the mood. I've always had a much lower sex drive than boyfriends, which has often led to problems. I feel like such a freak. Can I do ... (62 words)

I can't be intimate with my boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5812 days ago

21 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Why do I feel like this? I've been with my boyfriend a couple of months. I recently went to the doctor who said I was seriously stressed out (about various issues in my life) and has referred me for counseling. I'm not eating, sleeping, and feel teary alot of the time. I... (165 words)

Ex involved, having sex with me. I feel guilty, he doesnt!

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21 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hiya everyone, i made a really big mistake last nite, basically im still really good friends with my ex bf we split nearly 4 months ago, but we where still sleeping together until 2 weeks ago, he found this girl through face book but she live in isle of man, so hes never meet ... (245 words)

Name on birth certificate! Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya.. im really confused over what to do! I had my first baby in the middle of november, me and the father were not together when i gave birth and hadnt been for about 2 weeks.. he wasnt there when she was born, and saw he for the first time when she was bout 4 days ol... (263 words)

Does he think I've done something bad when I haven't?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 December 2008 (F)

- first of all I have ocd, paranoia and anxiety. Which makes my problems alot worse and gets me worked up about them. Im 15.. and this problem may seem petty and stupid, but it is really getting me down. These problems make me feel ill and I wont feel better till they are ... (329 words)

How can I figure out if he's straight?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

21 December 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - to make things clear, i am a bisexual thirteen year old. i like a guy, but he likes my ex girlfriend. i completely hate my ex. (i told her that im bi, and made her promise not to tell, and only a few people know it. and she did. she told ALOT of people) im not sure if ... (136 words)

Most erotic sex ever! Any ideas?

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21 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend recently told me he'd like to have sex more often, obviously i agree, but it's finding the time, it's not that i dont get horny, it's just that i get tired. so i want to have the most erotic sex ever imagined, any ideas? thanks.... (48 words)

He's given me an STD twice?? I don't trust him!

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21 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - help! im so confused, me and my bf have been together since july, we are now engaged and movin out before march, a week after i got with him i had a chlamydia test and that came back negative, i had another one about a week after that and it came back positive, the nurse said ... (302 words)

Tell him how I feel?

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21 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - dont know if i should tell him - IF it comes up. I tried to speak to him about how i feel, he's confusing me so much. But he thinks im trying to say "extreme things to get his attention" which couldn't be further from the truth. When i said i needed to talk he said "not thi... (393 words)

He's acting different is something wrong?

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21 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Im confused about my boyfriend, I dont know what to do...I have this feeling...my chest hurts...I think somethings wrong with us on Thursday I was sitting beside him while he was on his laptop. some girl got on MSN and messaged him saying 'I thought you wanted to view m... (530 words)

We broke up said I wouldn't contact him, but I wished him a merry christmas. Should I not have done that?

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21 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex and I had a horrible break-up. We were only together a few months, however I was living with him and going to work with him everyday. We spent 24/7 together. He wronged me by lying and playing head games. THAT I know. We stopped talking, even though it was more on his ... (232 words)

I should have told her my feelings but I didn't. Do I tell her now?

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21 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a best friend for 4 years now she is the prettiest thing i have ever seen i want to tell her that i love her and that i cant be with out her but its to hard because shes been in a relationship with her boyfriend for nearly 2 and half years. In the beginnnig of their ... (179 words)

Why am I always rejected?

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21 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - does any thinks this is unfair guys rejected me and hate me all the time.they guys who rejected me always find a girlfriend even if a few months.but me i get nothing only yet another broken and cold rejection.and only good things happen to nasty people.bad things happen to... (115 words)

In love with best friend what to do?

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21 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Lemme give you the the back story (cause I needs to purge it): I've been friends with W for about 3 years now. The sexual tension between us has always been heavy, but he is masterful at giving mixed signals (not to mention a man whore) so I never capitalized on an opportun... (697 words)

He ignores me and makes me unhappy

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21 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i am dating this guy. he said he is too busy with work to have time for a serious relationship. anytime i visit him, he doesnt write or call to know if i got home okay. not only that he doesnt write at all for 3weeks. after the 3 weeks i write him and his excuse is that he has ... (201 words)

Is he in love with me?

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21 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a question... It's been bothering me for a while now. I've met this quiet and shy guy through my ex-boyfriend and they used to be good friends. After I broke up with my ex-boyfriend, he confessed that he knew that my ex was cheating. It didn't bother me th... (444 words)

Cuts around my vagina

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21 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i went to my obgyn to check my vagina coz i have a yellow dischange and around of my vagina very itchy but theres no odor.. she prescribed me to use 6 albothyl suppositories n to be put every other night.. the problem is after i took albothyl my bf n i had sex.. and suddenly ... (127 words)

Living with a heroin addict--how do I get out of this life?

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21 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi i am new to this site and in need of help! i pretty much already know i am a co-dependant person, i always have been i think .it developed young from growing up in an abusive home but i have 3 teenage children and am living with a heroin addict that i love or maybe used to ... (1355 words)

Should I tell him I don't like the promise ring?

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21 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So my boyfriend and I have been together for like 3 years and we are in college (2 different ones but its going good and I am planning to transfer to his school in the fall) We have talked about getting married but decided to wait and get engaged after we graduated. I got him a ... (225 words)

I can't get closure in this relationship

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21 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently became involved with a guy that I was at college with 3 years ago. When we got back in contact several months ago, we became very close and he admitted that he had strong feelings for me when we knew each other before, and that these feelings were resurfacing again. ... (683 words)

On and off... why is this happening?

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21 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi: I am not sure where to start. About 2 years ago I met this guy online. I wasn't looking to flirt or make a relationship, it was more of a social site. We both were in long-distance relationships at the time, and we started talking. One thing led to another, and after a ... (556 words)

I'm the adventurous type and he sits at home surfing the Web and also drinks, what do I do?

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21 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a 42 yr old female and I know it sounds funny but I am very confused about what I want to do .I am seeing this man that is very sweet but he has a problem with drinking .When he drinks it is very scary .I love him but I dont however wish to live my life in fear of what ... (178 words)

I need male advice: how to keep a man interested?

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21 December 2008 (F)

age - I need male advice: How do I keep him interested without looking needy or like I'm playing games?...and, why won't he tell me if it's over? We've been dating for 3 years, and I'm feeling ignored. My self-employed man said he's too busy to exchange gifts or to see me for Chris... (265 words)

How do I get my boyfriend to plan in advance?

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21 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about a year now. The only problem that I have with him is that he never seem able to plan anything ahead. I would ask him if he has plan for the weekend? he would tell me no but he wouldn't tell me that we would go out until the next ... (88 words)

Does sex reduce hypertension?

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21 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have developed hypertension. as some people say sex is a good remedy to reduce it to the normal level. Is it true? Please forward your comments.... (27 words)

Did declaring my feelings scare him off?

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21 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been talking/texting this guy for almost 3 months. We've been taking it slow, and for the past month that we've been apart realize how much we miss each other and want to be together. So he calls me, and tells me how he thinks of me all the time ..sees a future for us. ... (228 words)

What should I do if I still want him back?

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21 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I dated a guy through all through high school and 2 years of college and he was the first guy I was ever with. We only broke up because the relationship wasn't working long distance (we went to different colleges) and I believe we would have stayed together if we had been ... (283 words)

Why is he still calling me?

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21 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have this ex "boyfriend" or whatever he was. We had a casual relationship for five months but I told him I couldn't handle it anymore. So he asked me out but after a week,he said doesn't want a girlfriend right now because of his grades (he's not very smart and might get ... (290 words)

How can I get him to accept the watch?

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21 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of two years broke up recently. I ask him to gave me back the watch that I gave him for his birthday. At first, he didn't want to but then he gave it back to me. We've made up and I gave him back the watch but he didn't want it now. What can I do for him to accept ... (64 words)

Does it mean he wants me to kiss him?

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21 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid. there is a senior that likes me a-lot my highshcool. he had told people he slept with, me and my friend sent him a message asking him if it was true. he hasnt replied back,and im worried now is to if he hates me or not. i hope not becuase it wasnt from me. me well ... (305 words)

Lovesick over teacher!

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21 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help cupid! i've been making myself lovesick for the past year over this teacher of mine. I know everyone hates hearing about these, but i myself, hate me for feeling this way, because no matter how hard i try to forget about these feelings, i cant. I've tried so... (300 words)

Do you think he's ready for a new relationship?

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21 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Earlier this year,this guy i knew in person a long time ago,and have recently got back intouch with online,asked to see more photos of me,as he didnt recognise me,since we hadnt seen each other for a long time,and only knew each other abit in person before,and he asked me if i ... (270 words)

If he was in love with me then how can he talk like that?

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21 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of 3 years broke up with me a few days ago. And I don't really know what to think. This is a short summery of what has happened: A few weeks before my birthday (my birthday is oct. 10th), (let's call him) Dave (bf) had been texting this girl named Amanda (... (1603 words)

Is this weird or is it normal?

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21 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been masturbating for as long as I can remember (though, of course, I just recently found out what the word for it it). I can recal being, literally, a kindergartener and getting it on with myself. I was always very conscious of the fact that other kids my age weren't ... (57 words)

Will he judge my body if we have sex?

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21 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i want to have sex with my boyfriend but i'm a little worried that he won't like the way my body looks. what should i do?... (26 words)

Can you stick things 'down there' while masturbating?

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21 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - im 13 and i was wondering if u can stick things up "down there" while u are masturbating? tips things that are best to suggestions? thanks... (26 words)

Do girls think about guys that much?

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21 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - A few days ago I took a sharpie and put a tally on my arm each time i thought of the girl that i love. It came to around to about 300 times in about 10 hours. I want to know, do girls think about guys that much, or am i just insane? I mean thinking about them as in, repeating... (132 words)

I'm afraid that I'm going to ruin this fantastic friendship but I feel like after wanting him for this long, I need to know how he feels.

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21 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I apologize in advance. This is a very lengthy question, but I feel it's really complicated so I shouldn't spare any important details. I am completely hooked on my best guy friend (Andy). He makes me smile and laugh all the time and I spend way too much of my time talki... (747 words)

Every time I see him I think about what sex would have been like with him...is that wrong?

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21 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it wrong to want an ex-boyfriend because he has an excellent body? Every time I see him I think about what sex would have been like with him... is that wrong?... (32 words)

Do I stand a chance with him this time?

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21 December 2008 (F) age 36-40 - Hi. This might not seem like a big deal, but I was wondering if it's okay for me to go out with a guy who has only recently turned 21 years old? I'm 24, my birthday is in May, so I am three and a half years older than him. He's actually the same age as my brother, who is 21 ... (207 words)

If someone gets it in the ass can they get pregnant?

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21 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, this is a really stupid question but... if someone gets it in the ass can they get pregnant easily. The girl just got off her period and she is worried that it could have gone into her vagina when she was trying ot fix her self.. any advice for her. she is really paranoid!... (55 words)

I need sex tips!

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21 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - hi im 35 and have started a relationship and the sex is good but im not very experiaced and my partner keeps asking me to go on top off him during sex but i dont know what to do in that position ive never been on top b4 during sex and im embarrased to say to him as hes very ... (61 words)

Will dry humping get you pregnant?

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21 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - can a 13 year old get pregnant if she dry humps im eager to have sex with my bf but i dont want to get pregnant so will dry humping help? i ge turnrd on justhinking about it. i really want to ... but i mnot ready to bea mom... (53 words)

Are these symptoms of being abused?

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21 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i don't know what to do. this is confusing and i dont even know but i need some support from people so I dont feel bad. It is such a long story but i'll make it short. my ex will not get rid of his ex. I think has abused me financially, sexually and mentally. After ... (435 words)

Why do my hands tingle when I have sex?

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21 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Sometimes when im having sex i start geting this tingeling in my hands and I feel like i have no controll over them and can't move them. then i start geting it in my face and i have no controll over my mouth..it went all funny and lob sided. its happend to me 4 times now. w... (61 words)

Are there any dating sites about relocation?

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21 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Is there a dating site that will introduce American women to Brits who want to relocate to America? ... (18 words)

How can I get them to accept me and not see me as a bad person?

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21 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - me and my boyfriend had been together now for 2 years and we have a 4 month old baby. we are currently living in his family's house it's quite big so they decided to move us in since they will be supporting us financially. his family doesn't like me, because they think that i a... (172 words)

What is a good way to lose weight?

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21 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I over heard my girlfriend's sister saying I was a bit chubby, and my girlfriend also agreed. She wouldn't really mind me losing some weight- it bothers her a bit when we're having sex. I want to know what is a good way to lose weight. I have no clue, and online it only giv... (90 words)

What can I do to kick my porn habit?

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21 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Help me. I have a porn habit. What can I do to kick it?... (17 words)

Why do I feel sad instead of moving on? He was abusive and violent.

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21 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Confused, I've been with my off and on again boyfriend for 3yrs who is violent and abusive.just two months ago he tried choking me the 2nd incidents of many.I kicked him out and we tried making it work. Needless, to say I'm a single mom with 2boys 14 and 7.I think that it's ... (99 words)

How do you forgive a liar?

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21 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my dad was a drug addict when i was younger. he sniffed crystal meth right in front of me after he promised he would never touch another drug a day in his life. since then he left and i haven't seen him since. yesterday i get a call from him and he wants to see me but i'm still ... (83 words)

How do I get him to view me as more than a friend?

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21 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - So, I have been friends with this guy for approximately 6 or 7 months. Up until Halloween all we had was a strictly platonic relationship. I invited him over for a small get together on Halloween night and we ended up making out. Afterwards we still spoke and were still friends ... (214 words)

I got emotionally attached and now I feel hurt and used!

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21 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So i met a guy who has a girlfriend who is about 3 months pregnant. He started calling me alot always wanting to hang out. I hung out with him a few times and he was always trying to kiss me but i wouldent let him. I was not attracted to him and i knew he had a girlfriend! He ... (325 words)

Is there the possibility of us ever dating?

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21 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - can someone give me advice? a girl that i have been trying to get wit finally gave me her cell #. we would talk every now and then on the computer and her house phone, but the other nite she called me back from her cell phone and told me that she did want me to have it! well i ... (237 words)

Sometimes I feel like I'm dying with this married life!

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21 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear…friends I am ARI, Male 25, working for a telecom company. And I apply for Australia, hope so soon I will migrate there. I have a kid of 1year. My wife……. When I 1st offered love that time I didn’t see her cause I meet her online then talk over phone. My family members... (657 words)

How does he truly feel about me?

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21 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This seems to be a common question, but there is this guy I really like, I even told him I like him and when I did he sounded really confused. You see the thing is, he has a Girlfriend. Apparently he liked me when I was still with my ex so I was less nervous telling him how ... (233 words)

Why does she text me like we're still together?

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21 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm trying to get over my ex-gf by ignoring her to the best of my abilities (she knows that I am trying to ignore her, too). She is a textaholic and when we were dating she would literally give me updates of what she was doing several times an hour. (She wrote me 500 texts in ... (282 words)

He wants to date other people but how can I keep him?

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21 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I am dating this guy, will I use the term 'dating' loosely. He wants to see other people, and scared of losing him altogether I agreed. Then at a celebration we both went to we told each other that we loved each other, but we were drunk and said it in our mother-tongues s... (173 words)

What should I do to take things further?

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21 December 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - alot of the time when me and my gf are watch a movie or watching videos on her computer she will put her hand on me leg and move it closer and closer toward my fun zone then i get a orgasm but then nothing really happens afer that what should i do? ... (53 words)

Is every man like this?

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21 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i been having alot relationship problems with my boyfriend. i don't know where to start, i with him 2 years. and from day one, woman been in our relationship his ex, her ringing him just friends,. that fine then at job he texing girls from his job, said just friends. he lot ... (476 words)

Does he like me? Please help.

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21 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Sorry to bother you again lol :) What it is I really like this boy and would love to know if he likes me. Some things he does makes me think oh yeah he does and next I think ooh no he doesnt i'll tel you some things he does and you can tell me what you think? I need to know bec... (173 words)

9 years age difference?

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21 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I like this guy who's like 25 and 9 years my senior. I would never date him now because that's obviously illegal, but could I date him later on in life? How could I manage that? I mean, I have a greater age difference with one of my brothers (I'm 11 years older than him) and my ... (86 words)

He's convinced that I'm cheating on him. Does anyone have any advice?

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21 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend says im not tight anymore like I used to be. So he calls me a slut and horror cause he says im cheating. Its really sad actually cause I dont go anywhere EVER and i'm always with him if im not at work, so he says im doing it a work (which is not possible) I tell ... (209 words)