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I'm concerned about my girlfriend. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5815 days ago

18 December 2008 (M age 30-35 - My girlfriend (14)who was being controlled by her dad thru fear just moved out of her dad's house and is living with her mom. She moved out because he is going to prison because she finally was able to tell somebody she was molested by him a few years ago. She is now extremely ... (150 words

Has anyone out there been dumped by their first love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

18 December 2008 (? age 30-35 - This is just a general question for anyone who has been in a long relationship. Has anyone out there been dumped by their first love because that person needed to sort out their feelings, and then had that person realize their mistake later and come back? And if so, is the best ... (94 words

How do I tell her she is attractive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5815 days ago

18 December 2008 (M age 30-35 - My friend recently confided in me that thought that she wasn't attractive, and that no guys like liked her. The real case is quite the opposite; i think she's a stunner! Her main complaint was that she had spots/acne that made her face look ugly. She made no complaint about he... (184 words

Guys - what makes for amazing sex with a girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5796 days ago

18 December 2008 (F - Hey, quick question for the guys - what is it that makes a girl really good in bed? I mean, REALLy good? Because right now I'm seeing a guy who is AMAZING at sex, and puts 110% effort into pleasing me, it's awesome. But although my last boyfriend said I ws good in bed, I feel ... (90 words

I'm pregnant with my ex boyfriends child.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5782 days ago

18 December 2008 (F age 36-40 - I'm pregnant with my ex boyfriends child. We dated for five years and were engaged for two years until I found out he cheated on me by sleeping for four other women during the course of our relationship. He tends to lie a lot- just small white lies. Please just give me your ... (54 words

I LOVE my wife but I'm not IN LOVE with here any more.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

18 December 2008 (M age 51-59 - Dear All, I have been with my wife for close to 18 years now. A lot has transpired during out relationship. We have had the good and the bad as most do. However I have had the brunt of most of the bad. During our time together she has had numerous affairs. I have forgave but... (713 words

Looks and boyfriend advice needed.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

18 December 2008 (F age 41-50 - Is there something wrong being deperate for a boyfriend after never having any at all? I don't know even know what it feels like and I really badly want to know, but no guy would own up to liking me because I look like ugly betty, glasses and weight and the whole lot. Help! ... (56 words

Some questions to single mothers...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5815 days ago

18 December 2008 (F age 51-59 - Single mothers please help. I am a single mother with children in elementary school. I have been rather close with this new guy. He is very caring, nice, etc. I think I love him and he does me. We have done some kissing and making out. We are to the point where we want sex. ... (110 words

Please tell me how he feels for me agony aunts I need to know before I get things straight.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5816 days ago

18 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - hey.. well I am having a problem figuring out what this guy actually feels for me.. so here it goes I have been talking to this guy for the past 6 months he was introduced to me by a close friend of mine and we hit it off really well..he stays in a different city anyways he ... (308 words

Is he interested in me as a girl or just someone to hangout with?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5815 days ago

18 December 2008 (F age 41-50 - Ok, so I have this guy friend that I've known for more than a few months now. When we first met I was starting a new relationship.. so, he would ask me out and I would answer jokingly like.. yeah, yeah soon. But out of respect for my current bf I just didn't let it get to that ... (234 words

Symbolism of ring: Could it be given as only a christmas present?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

18 December 2008 (M age 36-40 - I'd like to get my 22 GF some jewellery for Christmas. We have been dating for 15 months and this is our 2nd christmas together. I have already given her a necklace and bracelet. Should I get her a ring? I feel like the symbolism of a ring is so huge that you should ... (149 words

If I leave, could I be leaving the love of my life? Or if he is the love of my life, should I have realised that by now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5815 days ago

18 December 2008 (F age 41-50 - I am currently living with my man of 4 years. We have signed for a lease of one year. Thing is, i feel guilty, i am always feeling unsure about our relationship, as to whether or not we are best as just friends. He is so lovely to me, and I know he would do anything for... (289 words

I am married and am developing feelings for my sister in law.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5815 days ago

18 December 2008 (M age 41-50 - Hi there, I like everyone else am a normal guy, loved a girl, got married to her and I am happy. I love her the most in this world and she does love me too. Her parents have a great deal of respect for me. The problem is that she has a sister, who has had 3 relationships go ... (377 words

My husband seems too chummy with my girlfriends!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

18 December 2008 (F age 41-50 - Well I've been with my husband for 8 years and for the past 5 someone is always here and it's got to the point he don't touch me and he don't have a desire for sex but he waits for me to take a bath or if I'm still in bed he calls one of my friends and talks to her and always ... (140 words

Objective advice on fledgling relationship scenario?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5816 days ago

18 December 2008 (M age 41-50 - OK down and dirty, I've only ever been in serious comitted relationships, 7 yrs and 3.5 yrs respectively. I've been single for a year now and have been trying to figure out the confusion of the dating scene, and meeting the run of the mill Yo-Yo's and psycho's, until last week. ... (309 words

How do I recover my lost sex drive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5816 days ago

18 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi i have been with my boyfriend for 3years and are still in love and are atracted to each other, we get on well to at the start the sex was great the i was put on the pill and i lost my sex drive then i was taken off it for medical reasons but have not got it back again when ... (149 words

Bewildered...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

18 December 2008 (M age 30-35 - I suspect that my height has stopped me from getting a girlfriend, I'm 5ft9 and girls have told me that I'm good looking quite a few times when I show them a picture or in conversation. I also have a good personality judging by what lots of people have told me and I am also ... (191 words

Break up for school and having feelings for someone else.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5728 days ago

18 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years now and it's been a good relationship but the problem is he wants to break-up because school is coming up and he wants to focus on it so he wants to have a break till his school is finished which is 2 years.. I know if you ... (314 words

Is boob play and hand jobs considered cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5804 days ago

18 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - hi my best guy friend and I have been fooling around, for example he will feel my boobs and i am going to give him a hand job it is just fun between the two of us my questions are 1) how much do you think i mean to him? 2) is he cheating on his girlfriend? please ... (83 words

I feel like I'm failing because my boyfriend hasn't ejaculated once since being with me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

18 December 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hi all i was just wondering what to do? i have a problem during sex i tend to orgasm too quickly where as my boyfriend doesnt Ejaculate at all. ive never made him cum since being with him and i feel like a failure. I think im too quick for him and i try to hold on but i ne... (65 words

My boyfriend is going on a trip with his ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5816 days ago

18 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - im very upset! Me n my boyfriend have been together for about 2 and a half months.. Things r ok but lately i feel like hes pushing away n not calling me as much or trying to get me off the phone! I just found out hes going on a trip with his ex girlfriend and other friends! I ... (98 words

I get erections hugging my girlfriend!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

18 December 2008 (M age 26-29 - i always get an erections when im hugging my gf should i be worryed ... (39 words

My sister ruins my life!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

18 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - my sister ruins my life, she always takes my things and steals things off of other people and i suffer for it at school and at home. All my friends say just ignore her and it will get better but they don't understand I have to live with it everyday. She makes my life hell and ... (147 words

How can I get the truth out of him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

18 December 2008 (F age - I have geetting into some debt to which i come clean with my husband and he was furius he works away and did not come home to sort his son out who has got me into this debt. He had just been on a golf trip to thailand in october but has just been back to thailand. I managaed to ... (279 words

What does "treat them mean and keep them keen" mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

18 December 2008 (F age 41-50 - what does it mean treat them mean and keep them keen, can some explain that to me?... (17 words

He loves to look at me when we have sex, how can I stop being so self conscious?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5815 days ago

18 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - Quick question - my boyfriend loves looking at my facial expressions while we're having sex (thus favours me on top, sitting up). However, I feel kind of self-conscious to have him see what I'm doing and then become very aware of how I look! Do other people experien... (63 words

I like him and I don't think he likes me... please help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

18 December 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hey peoplee :) Wht is is i really like this boy and he knows i like him but i feel he doesnt like me he says he does but i dont know to belive him or not!. i feel like im really pushing him into liking me coz i always comment on how hes looking etc. i jst wanna be with him hes ... (126 words

Do his actions mean anything

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5815 days ago

18 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - hello :) i would really love some opinions for my question it would be alot! its driving me crazzzy, ok lets cut to the point well i really like this lad, lol yes you have probably read loads of these questions but i really have no idea wether he likes me back or not... ... (295 words

Does he really want to be friends or is he playing games?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

18 December 2008 (F age 51-59 - I am a 42 yr old woman going through a divorce after 25 yrs of marriage almost 26 at first I was having a hard time with it ..He has moved on and now has a girlfriend who is very nice she is 6 yrs older then me and 3 yrs older then him .I am not jealous of her and we are ... (322 words

My baby's father is still married I'm not sure if he will leave me for his wife?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5789 days ago

18 December 2008 (F age 41-50 - I just had a baby with my boyfriend of bout 10 months. He is still married and was hanging with his wife up till we started our relationship, they have no kids together. He has said in the past that I did not break up a happy home. He tells me all the time he loves me. He still ... (188 words

I'm 22 still a virgin, should I go to a prostitute even though I'm afraid of the risks?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5805 days ago

18 December 2008 (M age 36-40 - What I'm about to share with you may seem to be an absurd and juvenile concern that is unworthy of your attention and time, but nevertheless, it's important for me to discuss it with those who might be in a position to empathise with me and offer advice that may be helpful. ... (576 words

Anxiety & panic attacks are ruining my life!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

18 December 2008 (M age 36-40 - hello friends, i suffer from anxiety and am tired of this problem. it keeps haunting me all the time. life has become a horror story for me. i have thought over this problem to the depth but i feel anxiety without any obvious reason and it has become a habit. more i think ab... (231 words

I doubt his feelings for me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5816 days ago

18 December 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hi I really need an advice here, I have been with my boyfriend 10 months, he is a very good guy, he does everything to please me and I do the same also. I love him but sometimes he has attitudes that makes me doubt of his feelings for me. For example he can go like one or two ... (565 words

Freaked out by my staring teacher!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

18 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - Ok so the title is 'My teacher seems to stare alot. . .' but he does other things too! To make it simple i will put it all in a list: 1. He stares. . .alot! 2. He always asks to check my work. 3. He looks at, well 'parts' of my body. 4. When he is on duty in the yard... (235 words

Intercourse after a two year break.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5816 days ago

18 December 2008 (F age 41-50 - I had not had a boyfriend, or any sexual activity, for over two years but have now met a super guy. However the first time he tried to make love to me the pain was excruciating, just as though I was a virgin again, and he had to stop. The second time I tried not to cry out but ... (137 words

My friend is so unreliable... any tips?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

18 December 2008 (F age 36-40 - Because of my lifestyle, job etc I always need to work by a schedule. There are people who exist with everything last minute - like if they are meeting their friend they can happily call 10mins before to make plans - but with me I need to have a rough idea at least a few hours ... (631 words

Long distance relationship with single mum!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5816 days ago

18 December 2008 (M age - I'm back again. I wrote a couple of weeks ago about a problem I was having with my long distance relationship with a single mom whose son recently deployed to Iraq. I want to thank the person who answered for the guidance, because I truly think it is true. Anyway, over the ... (288 words

Could there be other guys she has done this too and lied about that also?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

18 December 2008 (M age 36-40 - I have an issue in my marriage that I am seeking advice. My wife and I have been married almost 3 years, no kids yet, but we have started talking about it possibly this coming year to start trying. My wife told me she was very inexperienced in the 'guy' department. I kn... (606 words

New girlfriend and orgasm.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5814 days ago

18 December 2008 (M age 51-59 - Hi Been with a new partner for quite a few months now, everything is going very well. Except in the area of her orgasm, she never orgasms through normal sex, though this isn't the first partner I've had like this (about half my previous partners didn't orgasm through i... (370 words

Should I receive the engagement ring and hope for the best or wait to see if he's really changed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5816 days ago

18 December 2008 (F age 36-40 - I'm wondering if you could give me some advice. As we speak my bf of nearly 5 years is shopping for an engagement ring (he's with my best friend. she told me). The thing is i'm not sure if i want to get engaged at this point in my life. We've been engaged before n he broke my ... (230 words

Could this still be post natal depression? I feel I have fallen out of love with my husband.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5816 days ago

18 December 2008 (F age 41-50 - I have a strange sort of problem which is beginning to scare me a little. I am 25 and gave birth to a beautiful little girl 6 months ago. After the birth I had post natal depression which really came between my huaband and I, and although I have loved him since we met (we ... (324 words

Is he making some stupid kind of joke with me, or did I just get hit on for a gay weekend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5806 days ago

18 December 2008 (M age 36-40 - I'm a 20 something guy who is not very experienced with women (1 'real' girlfriend). This guy I work with who is 2 or 3 years older than me came up to me and asked me if I went away overnight with some guy and woke up in the morning with a sticky face would I tell anyone. I... (127 words

I'm upset that my brother's girlfriend wants to abort, any help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

18 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hya im only 16 and really need help. Im not supposed to know but ive just found out my brothers ex girlfriend is pregnant. Now she wants to abort it, but she will be 12 - 13 weeks pregnant. Now i know im only 16 but i think its a wrong decision and she will regret it. But i do... (114 words

How can I stop thinking about my coworker, when I like her more and more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

18 December 2008 (M age 41-50 - hi, well where to start. i really like this girl at work, and i'm not sure if likes me back. we are quite good friends, flirt around, etc. however, i don't really want anything to happen between us because i'm very busy all the time at work, and she is engaged. this has stop... (157 words

My boyfriend is away for a week and I'm a mess... how to cope?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5815 days ago

18 December 2008 (F age 41-50 - Ok my boyfriend of a few months went to Las Vegas for a friends wedding. He'll be gone a week and I'm losing it! We are still in that see each other 24/7 phase. We never go more than an hour or 2 without getting at least a text from each other. Last weekend he actually cried to ... (186 words

Me and my boyfriend constantly have arguments about facebook!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

18 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - Basically me and my boyfriend always have arguements about facebook because he thinks I have loads of 'random' guys on their which i don't, they are all people I know from work or school. but he got really annoyed yesterday just because i accepted a friend request from a boy i ... (231 words

I never have the chance to talk to my girlfriend in private because of her friends!...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

18 December 2008 (M age 36-40 - Hello I'm a 23 years old guy with a big problem well at least to me ! .. here is the whole story .. i used to go to some uni where i met this amazing beautiful girl whom i liked and loved but the problem is .. she's always with her friends .. our relationship consisted of ... (342 words

I'm sure I'm better suited for this job than my coworker who got it, any advice on what I should do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5816 days ago

18 December 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hi, im sorry this isnt a relationship problem but i really need to vent off. I have just been turned down for a job as a team leader in my workplace that i have now been for 2 and a half years. The girl that got the job is my colleague (we are the same age)and has been wi... (311 words

We act as a couple but are not officially together, should I tell him I'm already in love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

18 December 2008 (F age 51-59 - i've been seeing him for 3 months now although we have not discussed anything official, we have been together every single night, we get along great, we laugh all the time, we have good sex and i feel the chemistry is there but like i said, we haven't made anything official. ... (79 words

How to tell parents that I want to move out and to another country to be with my girlfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

18 December 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hi there, I'm currently living in South Africa and I'm a citizen here by birth, I plan on moving to the USA after April 7 in 2009 because thats when I turn 18, currently I'm 17. I want to move there and go live there permanently for many reasons but the main one is to g... (1062 words

He said we can't date officially but that I should wait for him, until one day out of the blue he stopped contact!??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

18 December 2008 (F age 36-40 - ok im dont really know where to start a couple of months ago me and my boyfriend of 3 years split. this was due to falling out of love with each other. then a couple of weeks later i ended up sleeping with someone else and then we started texting and ring each other and getting ... (209 words

I have not had much experience with guys as no one ever seems to have shown any interest in me in the past.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5815 days ago

18 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi I am 16, almost 17, and unlike all my friends and apparently everyone else, I have not had much experience with guys as no one ever seems to have shown any interest in me in the past. I do not mean sexual experience, what I am worried about is just experience of being ar... (149 words

Problem with apologising

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5816 days ago

18 December 2008 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend finds it so hard saying sorry even if himself knows that he did wrong, he becomes defensive at the end and trying by almeans to prove himself innocent. he doesnt want to listen to me but keeps talking all the time. am fed up with this behaviour and i dont know what ... (60 words

Why can't I forget about this man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

18 December 2008 (F age 36-40 - I need your advce guys, I met a guy in 2006 while I was in my second last year at uni, he was working as a legal adviser and some how we liked each other, he use to call me almost 5 times a week, we use to meet mostly at night because I was doing part time and he had hectic ... (357 words

Bisexual trouble

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5816 days ago

18 December 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hi, I am kind of having problems writing about my issues in a structured way so please bear with me... I always knew I could love a person of either gender, but ended up sleeping with guys and eventually falling in love with one. We have been together for a few year... (460 words

Do I do something or stand on the sidelines and watch?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

18 December 2008 (F age 41-50 - i want to know if my boyfriend of 7 years fancies someone else.she is his brothers wifes sister. i have a horrible gut feeling in my stomach that they like each other. he recently added her as a friend to his facebook.did not mention this to me.i am not on facebook so i dont ... (112 words

Should I settle for what I have or go for what I WANT?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

18 December 2008 (M age 36-40 - Hello Everyone, this is the first time I register to any site about love/relationships, because I need some advice. First of all, I'm a 22 year old hispanic male that currently in a relationship with a 22 year old hispanic female that has been the exact opposite of me e... (654 words

How do I overcome my shyness?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

18 December 2008 (F age 41-50 - how long should i spend before being involved in sexual activities with a new boyfriend? secondly im shy of kissing than of making love coz i think i dont know how to kiss affectionately,so how can i overcome this?... (39 words

I don't want to want up and be an 80 year old virgin!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

18 December 2008 (M age 30-35 - I don't understand why girls just don't seem all that attracted to me. I'm 19, fairly smart, good hygiene, nice and funny. But women still don't seem to like me, I always just crash and burn in the friend zone. Sure, I might not have a six pack but i like to think th... (208 words

I want my b/f to buy me a Christmas gift

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

18 December 2008 (F age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for a year now, we moved in together 5 months ago and everything is going great. However, I'm from a broken family and have a bad relationship with my father and I think that might be the reason why it is difficult for me to believe that my boyfriend ... (474 words

How do I become girlfriend material?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

18 December 2008 (F age 41-50 - What do guys look for in a girlfriend? Brains, beauty, good physique, sophistication? What do they want? what if none of that works.is possoble that nice girls are attract to jerks vice versa ... (35 words

He's lying and cheating & I want him to marry me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

18 December 2008 (F age 41-50 - He has another girlfriend and he’s denying it and I know that he has a girlfriend. His closest friend told me and this guy doesn’t have any reasons to lie to me. My boyfriend had a fight with his close friend because this decent guy advised me to keep away from him, dump him ... (567 words

My friend is being used for sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

18 December 2008 (F age 36-40 - MY friend need help please....she have a best friend(a boy),they have been in good friendship for 5 years now, one day this boy come into my friends room and they chart until they have sex since that day they been sleeping together for 5 years now...the strange thing is that ... (220 words

How can I help her to improve her attitude towards men?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5816 days ago

18 December 2008 (M age 51-59 - I have a best friend she is 28 and has cheated on every boyfriend she ever has had, she recently has started becoming worse and has stated feeling for me BUT throws in my face every man she is with and what they are doing? how can i help her?... (50 words

Worried and intimidated by a blooming sex toy that my girlfriend is waving around me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

18 December 2008 (M age 36-40 - My new girlfriend and I have known each other for 5 months and been going out with for 6 weeks, she told me today she got a dildo as a gift from co-worker... apparently not as a joke either. We are yet to embark on the sexual side of our relationship and I am rather insecure ... (136 words

Should I keep giving her a ride to college?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

18 December 2008 (M age 30-35 - how are you guy's? me and my ex broke up 3 months ago. she has a bf now. once she asked me " should i break up with him " but im not sure..i think she is happy with him now I never called her in that while .. wanted her to miss me I have been giving her a ride ... (164 words

He thinks I want to break up with him... but I don't!!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

18 December 2008 (? age 30-35 - My boyfriend randomly showed up at house after I ate some spicy food that gave me bad breath. I was home alone and we watched a movie together. He put his arm around me and tried to kiss me. I didn't let him because I didn't want him to smell my breath. I pushed him away and ... (109 words

I am bisexual and feel the need to cheat on my girlfriend with a man, how should I handle this hell?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

18 December 2008 (M age 36-40 - Hi.i'm 23 and bi. I am really upset with myself right now. I have an amazing girlfriend. she is sexy, funny, tall, active, etc...and we share a fantastic sex life with each other. BUT, i still feel lonely(inside) when i'm with her. i feel a small emotional void inside, tha... (309 words

I see EVERYONE in the world as being so much better than me and I feel so inadequate!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5817 days ago

18 December 2008 (F age 41-50 - I am so insecure. I have just started a new relationship and am waiting for him to realise im not good enough and to move on. I have been cheated on before but my trouble is I see EVERYONE in the world as being so much better than me and I feel so inadequate. My paranoia... (78 words

Should I be more vocal during sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

18 December 2008 (F age 36-40 - I'm a virgin, but during oral sex and foreplay (I guess you could say), I've had an orgasm. I only get "sexual" with my boyfriends. So recently, my boyfriend and I have been doing a little bit more than 1st base. I feel pretty lucky since I do tend to orgasm pretty quick and it ... (171 words

Am I obsessed with this girl? And what else do you think of this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5800 days ago

18 December 2008 (M age 30-35 - This is going to be a long and complicated explanation...and I'm not even sure what kind of answer I'm looking for, but at least I'm getting this off my chest. But my main question is, am I obsessed with this girl? Yes, right now I'm a little confused. So I met her about a ... (860 words

I suspect my ex has cheated on me, he lives nearby, how to get over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5817 days ago

18 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - I AM 16 AND i fell deeply in love with my boyfriend of six months then he dumped me and said we could be friends and we were because i still loved him an didn`t know how too deal with the situation.then i saw him with a pregnant girl walking and he told me that she was carrying ... (124 words

Hang in there or let her go?

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18 December 2008 (M age 41-50 - I am in love. I once told her I liked her but it was not reciprical. Its now been a while since then, and we are now getting to know each other little by little. Though it is taking a while, only few months at a time that I get to see her. She knows I love it when I see her, I ... (415 words

Are we really MEANT to be together?

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18 December 2008 (F age 36-40 - Just called me Cheesy. I loves him and he do loves me too.. but he already had a girlfriend which was about 4 years. I met him during Uni and we were best friends and don't know when and why we're in love. The painful part is we can't admit to each other until the last m... (223 words

My dad abused me when I was younger, family didn't believe me, I don't know how to handle all of this...

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18 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - Dear Agony Aunts, This is not a relationship issue, but I would appreciate any answers. I'm in a situation that I don't know how to handle..When I was younger my dad sexually abused me, that went on for about 3-4years or so, until I finally decided to say something. My dad... (219 words

Doesn't want a b/f but still loves me... where do I go from here?

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18 December 2008 (M age 36-40 - My ex and I dated for 9 months. About a month ago she called it quits and said with her schedule and schoolwork, she just can't handle having a b/f at this time. Her cheerleading and her schoolwork were overwhelming and having a b/f ( hundreds of miles away at a different ... (316 words

How should I break the ice after a week of not talking?

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18 December 2008 (M age 30-35 - This girl i was going to ask out last week. I wasnt able to because her friends got in the way and i didnt ask her out. I havient talked to her in a week, i guess i ignored her for 2 days, and i havient seen her around school since. How do i break the ice after ignoring h... (125 words

I saw the text, I heard the lies, someone help!

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18 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - I guess it is my turn to have a question answered. The following text between my boyfriend and his ex.. HIM - you coming home tonight or tomorrow just wondering cuz i don't remember HER - Tonight! On the road now! Him - Cool drive safe roads suck HER- Bud we GOTTA ha... (201 words

I want to be his friend but at the same time I want to be so much more.

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18 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - This is so frustrating I was madly in love with a guy who we will call Nick. Well Nick and I hated each other when we first met we couldn't stand the sight of each other. A year later me and him became the best of friends closer than I could have imagined. I began to fall in ... (171 words

Should I offer to split the bill and pay half the room cost?

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18 December 2008 (F age 36-40 - There isn't a right or wrong answer to this - I am simply looking for people's opinions on what they would do in this situation. My friend decided to go to Venice at the last minute and invited me to go also. I declined because I doubted I could get the time off from work. I... (462 words

I have no confidence and it's ruining my life.

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18 December 2008 (F age 36-40 - First of all I know I am wrong and I hate myself for it. I am 23. I have an insane type of jealousy and I just want to know why. I feel phyiscally sick at the thought of my boyfriend's ex and I replay any information I have about her in my head. I also feel like this about a ... (240 words

Am I in the right or the wrong here?

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18 December 2008 (F age 41-50 - I was recently dismissed from work without notice and I'm just wondering if I am in the right or wrong. According to the contract they can dismiss without notice and pay if I am rude to customer/clients. To sum up the earlier part of the job, I knew from day one that my mana... (1081 words

Global Warming.

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18 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - Okay i am doing a project about global warming for my school i need to survey about 500 people so please help me out..I need to know what you think we are doing to worsten global warming what we should do to change or any thoughts you have on it.. Please anything would be help ... (69 words

I know he's shy, do you think I should call him?

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18 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hello everyone, well I've known this guy for about a year and even though we like each other and have great chemistry we're just friends. A week ago his friend sent me a message on facebook telling me he was wondering why haven't I called him yet, well I replied with since his ... (79 words

How can I impress a guy who is democratic and environmentally aware?

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18 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - How can I impress a guy who is democratic and environmentally aware? I am both of those things, but how can I make it more obvious? How can I seem more mature?... (32 words

This poem is for my boyfriend...

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18 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi im Candice and i wont to no what you guys thing of my poem before i give if to my bf Here gos ... The momont that you became that part of me. I knew that your heart belonged to just me I love it when you look at me with your lovly blue eyes and stare at me ... (224 words

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