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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

When giving a hand job - do you like to tell the recipient what you are doing - describing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5804 days ago

30 December 2008 (M) age 51-59 - When giving a hand job - do you like to tell the recipient what you are doing - describing?... (19 words)

My wife want's a mutual marriage. That is, she wants to date other men.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5794 days ago

30 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My wife want's a mutual marriage. That is, she wants to date other men. She wants to find me a girl as well. It's crazy and weird. We live in the same house and have a year old child. I do not know what to do. I have always just wanted to be married and love one another.... (121 words)

Can you worry yourself sick?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5804 days ago

30 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I just broke up on Sunday and I have been worrying trying to figure out "What went wrong?" "What could I have done differently?" and such... because we seemed so happy together... I cried for 7 hours straight and only got 3 hours of sleep... then I woke up f... (72 words)

I just don't understanding why he's doing this if he has already let go and moved on??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5804 days ago

30 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I broke up 3 months ago, the breakup was not overly negative. We had no contact since, but I know that ocasionally, he still goes into the 'network myspace' to view my social profile and updates, another thing is he still has not disconnected my cell phone ... (113 words)

She proposed to him over the internet and they haven't even met yet!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5804 days ago

30 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex boyfriend has meet this girl on the internet, well dating site, they started going out the day they started talking she asked him, anyway she seems madley in love with him, talking about moving down to where we live, she lives in Scotland, we live in Devon, anyway she's ... (149 words)

I never got to say goodbye to him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5804 days ago

30 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - On the 13th of November my dad past away with MS and we moved away from him when he was in the nursing home 3 years ago we went over to visit him and the day we went home the day after he died and I never got to say goodbye when he left and it's so hard OMG now I'm crying...... (62 words)

I'm stuck in the "what if" kind of situation

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5804 days ago

30 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, to be honest i'm not really sure why i am writing this. I dont know if i want help or if i just want to get things off my chest. The thing is i met a boy when i was on holiday when i was nine, we clicked straight away. After the holiday we kept in touch for a while via ... (239 words)

Shes chasing me but she has a boyfriend and I feel guilty!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5804 days ago

30 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Well im in a bit of a predicament you see, It all started about 2 weeks ago at a friends party where i started speaking to a friends friend and we swapped phone numbers and began texting (well she texts me everyday) but i found out she has a boyfriend of a few months. but then ... (239 words)

Condom split and now I'm worried about pregnancy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5803 days ago

30 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i started taking the pill, i wasnt fully on the all clear so i used a condom too, it split. i thort i was pregnant so i stopped taking it i then started to bleed, but not like a period. i got a few symptoms of pregnancy, tired feel sick etc, then a week or so later i started ... (81 words)

I think I messed up my relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5804 days ago

30 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I constantly had a fight with my boyfriend recently and I was so mad at him yesterday that I texted him that we should end the relationship if things don't go accordingly. I didn't mean to do so seriously; I was just mad at him at that time and blurt things out without thin... (160 words)

Is it just bad luck? A bad cycle I'm in?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5804 days ago

30 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I cant help but feel like my life is a cycle. Allow me to go further last year ended with me miserable as a girl I had feelings for ends up not just rejecting me and deciding staying friends was no longer acceptable but does so in a rude and terrible manner that was completely ... (318 words)

Used protection but could I be pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5804 days ago

30 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Straight to the point - I had sex with my boyfriend a few weeks ago. We used condoms - No splits or anything, as far as I'm aware. I also recently just started the pill. And yet I have really sore breasts and the odd spotting, so could I be pregnant? Thanks. xx... (53 words)

Taking pill, maybe I'm becoming anemic now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5804 days ago

30 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi!I'm completely new to this website, but I was wondering if someone could help set my mind at ease. I've recently started taking the pill, and I have been sure to take it everyday at the same time, and as instructed started to take it on the first day of my period. But ... (129 words)

Dry humping..now pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5804 days ago

30 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i were dry humpping please i need a reply.am i pregnant but my period is delayed by 4 days im scared please help some one... (28 words)

Girls!! Why do you like the "landing strip" so much?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5804 days ago

30 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Soooooooooooooooo question to all girl, i wasnt wearing a shirt and my girlfriend saw the hair going from my belly button to i guess the lower part of my stomach i guess some people call it a landing strip or many other names. My girlfriend like absolutly loves it and i have ... (81 words)

I want to date my best friend but she has a boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5795 days ago

30 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know if this is just a phase because of my raging hormones but I think I want to date my best friend (Who is a girl just like me) She has a boyfriend, and they have been dating for about a month basically. I've been fighting this feeling but I really think I l... (238 words)

When I'm drunk I get violent

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4911 days ago

30 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - ive been with my boyfriend for 2 years, we live together and we're very happy, but when i go out and get drunk i am violent towards him. I dont know why, im not at all like that when soba and there is nothing wrong with us. He has stuck by me and wants to help me, but ive ... (129 words)

Have a baby with my guy or wait for someone better?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5803 days ago

30 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Just a quickie Im 36 and in a relationship that I'm very unsure of. My boyfriend of 2 yrs can be sulky and childish and is never wrong. He wants us to have a child and I really want to start a family more than anything. He wont ever change and I know that. Friends tell m... (104 words)

In love with the geography teacher!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

30 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - okay, it's all common and stuff, but like. i think i am in love with my geography teacher. there's an age gap of 15 years, but i really don't care. he always looks at me in lessons, and everytime he says my name he smiles and says it in such an upbeat tone. he never tells me o... (571 words)

Myboyfriend is living with his ex, its killing me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

30 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for approx 20 months. I love him very much and we get on really well. However, I am really struggling as he lives with his ex (they have lived together for 20 years now). I trust him and am positive he is not having a sexual ... (260 words)

Religion causing problems!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5804 days ago

30 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've been dating this guy for a couple of weeks now. And so far everything's doing great - he's really sweet, nice and cares about me. And I really like him too, I may even be falling in love. I don't know. (We're both 18 by the way.) But the problem is that we belong t... (242 words)

I'm hiding forbidden love from my mom

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5799 days ago

30 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - im in a relation that im 15, and he is 18. its a forbidden love, and even though i am really pretty, and he isnt, i really like him(which no one really gets why i hang out with him)i really like him, he is himself, and when we USE to talk we talked for 5 hours at night, or ... (218 words)

He just wants to be friends so why does he still want sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5804 days ago

30 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - ive been with boyfriend for 10 yrs have a child which shes 6 now and he recently broke up because ive made mistake and he can forgive but not forget hes made alot more mistakes than i have anyway he says he doesnt want anymore relationships just want to be my friend but why ... (93 words)

Am I in over my head or should I see what the future holds?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5803 days ago

30 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am wondering about my relationship. I am 31 years old in a very serious relationship with a 36 year old man that has 4 kids. One of his kids is by my distance cousin. He tells me he loves me and even gave me a ring for Christmas but I have this gut feeling that our ... (152 words)

Why does he want to be 'just friends'?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5804 days ago

30 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I dated for 28 days. We were soo happy together. He would text me all day the 1st coupe of weeks and he'd make me every morning with a 'good morning baby!' and it was so nice. The on the 18th I was with him and some girl popped up on MSN saying "I thought ... (628 words)

Is it worth trying to get him back? He's fallen in love with someone else.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5804 days ago

30 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i have been with my boyfriend for 1 and half years and we have just split up. i just dont know what to do. he joined friends reunited and got in contact with a girl he knew at school, they have been chatting on msn and texting and apparently have fallen in love. he told me that ... (132 words)

Does this make sense to anyone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5804 days ago

30 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - WOW. It's finally happened for me and my man. At last we have connected. He final found away through. Here is how it happened. He told me he could no longer continue in the realtionship because I had no heart to give. We had a massive row but eventually calmed down e... (253 words)

How can I find the truth without tearing my family apart?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

30 December 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - How can I trust my wife again? We have been married 10 years and we have 3 young children. I thought we have been very happily married with no major problems, but got the shock of my life last week when I found some very inappropriate text messages between my wife and a man wh... (363 words)

Is it possible to stay in my marriage?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5803 days ago

30 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm sorry if this is really long but really need some advice. I have been with my husband for many years. He is very much a father figure and I do love him so much in the same kind of way I love my cat - with massive affection. The problem is that everything I do seems to ir... (255 words)

This guy keeps giving me mixed signals!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

30 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - im confused? a few months ago I was having funny broody feelings you know the feelings a women gets when ever she sees a baby.my boyfriend picked up on this and made it clear that he does not want a child. but last week when we were out shopping, he started dropping hints ... (100 words)

Finding it difficult to trust my wife....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5804 days ago

30 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - im finding it realy hard to trust my wife ive bin wit her 7 years at 12 mmonth we went out and i caught her talking to another lad i think she kissed him but cant remeber for certain then at 15 month we had a break in our relationship she went out with a friend and got pissed ... (89 words)

Is my boyfriend gay and just not admitting it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

30 December 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Is my Boyfriend Gay? Okay so my boyfriend and I have slept together (when I say slept togetehr I mean beside each other NOT sex). He's spent the night at my house about 3 times and we've been in the same bed. I dont wear a bra to sleep in. He's never made a move.(Which is g... (192 words)

My Dad's behavior is way over the top!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5804 days ago

30 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My dad's been embarrassing me, and not in the "Dad dancing at a wedding kind of way". At a close friend of mine's engagement party (she's 25, he's 28), he stripped to his Y-fronts and began dancing to the music manically. Everyone looked on in horror shocked. He then said "LE... (192 words)

Could an STD affect my sex drive?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5804 days ago

30 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - dear cupid, i'm a 24 year old man and have always had a high sex drive but in recent months it has taking a bad turn for the worse, my penis hurts sometimes while having sex and my urine stings to sometimes and i think i might have an std! could this be da reason i... (79 words)

I have strong will power but around him, I just melt!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5803 days ago

30 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay well, this is my first post on this site and I really need some advice as I have nowhere else to turn. I'm going to sound like a horrible person, and I guess I am on some level, but I can't stop. Here it goes. I've been with my boyfriend for two years now. We have a l... (588 words)

14 and worried about getting pregnant!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5804 days ago

30 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey im 14 and i have a 17 year old boyfriend and i want to have sex with him he says he is ready when i am as long as its not years and years he said , now im fine with that im just worried of getting pregnant its so scary on tv i dont want it im just worried you no i need help ... (73 words)

Do you think the long distance ruined our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5803 days ago

30 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - For the past 6 years, my husband and i are in a long distance relationship. My son who is 6 years old (he left a month before he was born) and i visit him twice yearly for a total of 10 weeks. Initially when he left, i would cry all the time and get very depress because of how ... (100 words)

Will my ex husband's behavior damage my son?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5804 days ago

30 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello I hope you can help me with my problem. I am divorced and live with my 3 daughters and son who is the youngest. Last week at school there was a slight accident with my son. The headmistress had advised the other female teachers to take the signs off the toilet doors so ... (154 words)

How do I save our marriage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5804 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) age - I don't know what to do from this point. My husband doesn't have any affection toward me, and he won't touch me. He has ED. For non- medical reason. I don't know what is the reason for his ED. He says he loves me. Should I believe him? He says he does not want to hear me compl... (138 words)

How to end my relationship, without breaking her heart??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5803 days ago

30 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I have recently posted a question asking whether i should stay with my girlfriend or not. After alot of thinking i have decided to end things, my question is How do i tell her i want to end things, i love her so much and i know this will upset her and i can't stand to see her ... (105 words)

Why does he still have his ex wife's number?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5803 days ago

30 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it normal for a guy which has been devoiced for 2 years now to still have his ex wife's number on his cellphone, just not under any contact name but 'sweetheart', she left the county to marry another guy. we have been dating for 7 months now, i know a lot about his ex wife ... (110 words)

Genital Warts present During Pregnancy in Last Trimester

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5804 days ago

30 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am currently 36 1/2 weeks pregnant with visiable warts present.I was reading someone else's questions about the same topic and agree that I am always getting a different answer from various people, including mid wives and doctors. I am worried about passing the virus onto my ... (124 words)

Teen stuck at home, how to cope till college?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5804 days ago

30 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I think I feel stuck or something. I'm 17 years old and I'm a junior in high school. Everything seems to be getting so old... My friends, how my days go, school, being a junior... I'm just sick of it all. I stay home all the time because the kind of people I go to school wit... (279 words)

Should I stay with a money leech?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5801 days ago

30 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - my question is why does my boyfriend keep asking me for money? he says he needs help paying rent. hes got a job i think? not unless hes been kicked out of work and not bothered to tell me? sometimes its £100 or £300. i told him all this money begging has to stop.but it hasnt.im ... (65 words)

Has anyone stayed with a guy who finds sex painful?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5804 days ago

30 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for nearly a year and we have not had sex and I can count on one hand the number of times I have had success in giving him a hand job. When I try to give him oral sex he prefers me to just use my hand. I find that this is destroying the ... (427 words)

I'm being forced into marriage in India. Please help!!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5802 days ago

30 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My parents have arranged a marriage with someone I really do not want to be with. He is 17yrs older than me, short, balding, overweight, unattractive and the few times I have been forced to sit with him I found him to have bad hygiene! I know people have said to me that loves ... (647 words)

Are forgiving and forgetting the same thing in my case?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5804 days ago

30 December 2008 (F)

age - I started living with my husband when our daughter was almost 2 years old. He would go to happy hour everynight after work at his favorite bar, he asked me not to come there unless he took me, he said it was his space, so i did what he asked. I started getting told that he was ... (1706 words)

Sould I continue a relationship that is illigal and my parents wouldn't like?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5804 days ago

30 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 15 and a freshmen and my boyfriend is 18 and a sinor, and illegal for me. We arent going out really cuz we are school only has a student body of 600 students the which 30 no my parents, and im not allowed to go out with anyone cuz of church so these people at school can't ... (169 words)

Am I missing the big picture?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5804 days ago

30 December 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - OK- I need a little more advice. I have been dating this lady for 3 months. just don’t see enough of each other. We used to see each other a few days out of the week. But now it is maybe once a week or longer. I try calling to say hello and get no answer. She has friends ... (316 words)

Why is it so hard for him to tell his ex that he met someone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5804 days ago

30 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm a little concerned with my relationship. My BF of 6 months is recently divorced and we met while he was waiting for it to be final. He still hasn't introduced me to his friends because his ex is friends with them too and I also haven't met his family. On xmas his family ... (404 words)

How can I tell him to leave me alone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5804 days ago

30 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 14, there's this boy i used to like in my primary school,(started all in year 5) he was nice one year, next year i guess hormones kicked in didn't like me much he done one of them hate things, were he totally hated my guts, swore and said many evil things to hurt my ... (574 words)

Is it time to give up on this relationship?

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 5789 days ago

30 December 2008 (F)

age - Hi, I will keep this as short as i can,it is quite long story. I had to go into hospital, this was approx 4 yrs ago because of my marriage break down, I was suffering from severe depression. I met a guy while i was there, he was also in for depression. His wife had devorse... (1542 words)

What to do to see my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5804 days ago

30 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have told my dad that my crush and i are going out. He was happy for me. I convinced him to let me go to his house, thought he cant take the decision alone. My parents are separated and have different point of views.Im afraid my mom wont let me go. What should i do to get to ... (63 words)

I'm a lesbian but I'm not like other lesbians

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4694 days ago

30 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - A lot of people seem to think I'm 'weird' for various reasons, but I always tell myself that I'm a perfectly normal teenage lesbian. But some of the things others, including other lesbians, are saying is starting to make me wonder... One thing I often hear is that it's normal... (376 words)

3X a week handjob ok?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5803 days ago

30 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I am 20 years old guy i doing handjob three times in a week its good for health not ? ... (24 words)

My self esteem is shot!

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30 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married 2 1/2 years. Honestly in the first couple years we would have sex twice a day. So spontaneous, new positions, new places and now nothing for the past month. The past six months I am lucky if it has been twice a month. I crave to be touched,it is how I feel ... (309 words)

Tried to get through, came back to bite me in the butt

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5804 days ago

30 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Well, I guess I was wrong. He ended up taking his wife back and it was the Saturday before X-mas eve and I found out on X-mas eve by driving by his house and seeing her car in the drive way, he says he didn't want to hurt me but not only did he hurt me he hurt my son too. My ... (338 words)

Do you believe in trusting gut instincts? I predict an affair!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5775 days ago

30 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I went to see his long lost sister who brought one of her friends, let's call her susan (who is married and has kids), but I couldn't help but get this feeling that something will happen between my boyfriend and this Susan. I have also noticed that since we ... (145 words)

Tired of all giving and no getting

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5793 days ago

30 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Im 26 my gf is 25. We met 5 years ago, at the 1st year of the Uni. We've been together all the time, we started living together 2 years ago, in the meanwhile we graduated, got jobs etc. She is a great person you know? Very honest, she never lies to anyone, never has any hidden ... (942 words)

Getting off on pornography....need some advice!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5797 days ago

30 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married to my husband for three years now,when i first met him we would walk around and he would turn his head at any sexy girl,i thought this would pass,,,but since last september of 2007 he has gotten worse,on once occasion we went to the university student dental ... (238 words)

Going to visit ex--good sign right?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5803 days ago

30 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have an update on my situation. If you remember my ex boyfriend dumped me, then got back in touch before he went travelling, we had sex and declared our feelings, then he went. I was all over the place. He said I could go visit him but I wasn't sure. Well, he has been gon... (162 words)

Am I doing the right thing by giving her some space? Why do you think she freaked and backed off?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5804 days ago

30 December 2008 (M) age 30-35 - I've met this 18 year old girl she's quiet, pretty, cute, and shy. She's never had a boyfriend before, so she's an innocent girl. I’m 18 and I like her, she's something different and special to me, but the problem is she is a challenge. I’ve impressed her in many ways, shown ... (387 words)

How can I tell if an off-limits woman is in denial, or blatantly does not fancy me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5802 days ago

30 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Good afternoon! I was just wondering how to tell the difference between a woman trying hard not to show that she fancies a chap (since she may already be in a relationship/bequeathed to someone else for example), and a woman who blatantly just does not fancy a particular chap. ... (88 words)

My husband is having an affair with MY MOTHER!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

30 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I found out earlier this week off a good friend (female) of mine that my husband was having an affair with my mother. She said that she'd seen my husband passionately kissing my mother outside a well-known pub and whispering into her ear how sexy she was, and the two of them ... (252 words)

Obsessed with wife's ex-lover/experience

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

30 December 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - This sounds ridiculous but I need some perspective. I've been married 10 years. Good enough marriage. My wife isn't great in bed, and isn't enthusiastic about love-making, even though I sometimes make her howl with delight. However, I've been obsessed with the fact that my ... (246 words)

Fed up with husband who never shares...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5804 days ago

30 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband never shares anything with me. I don't know how much money, loans or feelings about me he has. He is a real holder who holds everything to himself. It took over 14 years of our marriage before he would let go of some control of the house and let me do any decoration ... (178 words)

Does the pill actually allow you to have a period or does it have a fake period?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5804 days ago

30 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I haven't had my period yet but I'm due in a couple of days and I was wondering. I'm on the pill and I was wondering does the pill actually allow you to have a period or does it have a fake period. I've heard rumours that it isn't your real period it's a fake period to give you ... (307 words)

Missed pills... can she be pregnant???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5804 days ago

30 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend has been on the pill for 2 years. Two weekends ago we went on vacation and she forgot her pills, so she didn't take them for 3 days. During those 3 days we didn't use condoms but I tried my best to pull out before ejaculating (a couple times I wasn't fast enough ... (140 words)

I'd like to get him to take the first steps. How can I do this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5802 days ago

30 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, I've got a problem and are looking for a solution. Maybe here I can get some help? I had a wonderful relationship but all of a sudden my partner became weird, didn't talk as openly to me as he did before, started to draw back. Then he broke up in a really painful way. Had... (155 words)

Not in love with my wife and having an affair but can't leave because of my kids.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

30 December 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been having an affair with someone for 3 years. I have two children aged 7 and 5. I am not in love with my wife any more. I want more than anything to live with the girl I am having the affair with because I am in love with her but I don't want to leave my kids.... (60 words)

My mum wants to rule my life and ruin my relationship, what do I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5785 days ago

30 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I really love my boyfriend, we have been in the relationship for 3 months, my mum found out that me and him have been having oral sex. And now she keeps trying to split us up. About a month ago she ordered me to dump him but I just couldn't do it. I'm 14 and he's 13 but I don't ... (216 words)

I'm not ready to talk sex yet!

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30 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 23 and have just started University. On my course and around University campus, I have met a few guys who seem friendly. We became friends and I decided to hang out with them but they seem to only want to be in contact with me because they intend to have sex with me. Thing ... (94 words)

I really am in my 30's and don't know anything about kissing...

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30 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I was woundering is it strange to never have experencd a kiss of any of descrption at 35 years old. I never had a bofriend, always had problems getting one because I am very quiet and shy and innocent. How do I get a kiss me when they don't want to kiss me and always wa... (67 words)

Problems conceiving...

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30 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have been trying to conceive since July, and so far nothing. I'm starting to worry there may be a problem. Should we go to the doctor or keep trying another few months? Also I noticed when my husband ejaculates most of the time it doesn't shoot out, it ju... (101 words)

Crazy girl is making me Crazy too. What should I do?

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30 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Am in love with this girl or am I just crazy? I suppose I'll begin at the start, because more than likely, answer-ers ask for more detail. Let's call her 'C' for short. It all started freshman year. Me and C never knew each other existed for the 14 years of our lives. U... (769 words)

Should I try to keep my feet on the floor or just go with the flow?

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30 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Just over 3 weeks ago I was on a dating site I occassionally visit. I normally go on and wait for guys to approach me (even though I don't usually have any interest in the guys who do) but on this occassion I decided to message a guy 5 years younger than me. I have no idea ... (334 words)

I feel fat and ugly and don't think I can get a boyfriend. I need support.

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30 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - why do guys hate all ages hate to be seen with with fat and ugly girl,why don,t these girls ever get asked out and treated nice. why do guys have to be so shallow and egologstical. thats not fair, to treated girls like this like they don,t extistt.have you blokes ... (59 words)

I am depressed with my sad existance. Do looks improve everything?

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30 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i feel life is very unfair the way things are .the goodlooking /cute ,girls get good jobs,good freinds,a fair share of boyfreinds,good exams ,there have figures . goodlooking /cute people are lucky . i try very hard and i get no where.i have no job,no freinds,no socia... (75 words)

How do I deal with my difficult friend?

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30 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Okay, so I have this problem with a friend. He's perfectly nice when sober if a bit oblivious to the way he behaves. But he's a hard drinker and when he drinks he acts in a strange way. we're both gay and when we go to gay clubs, he is only really there purely to get laid or ... (412 words)

Has my mental illness pushed him away?

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30 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my partner have been together over a year now. We have both deeply been in love for the whole of the time but have had a bumpy ride. I developed high anxiety at the beginning of the year when I was with him. This has mean't he has been taken from his friends and been at ... (724 words)

I feel like I'm the one leading the realtionship all the time...

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30 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - How can i get my boyfriend to be more assertive? we just started dating, but i feel like im the one leading the relationship, which im not against but i just dont want to be ALL the time. what can i do about this?... (44 words)

Do you think he is really into me?

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30 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I met this guy a couple of months ago. We started seeing each other a little over a month ago. I've spent the weekend at his house 3 times. The first weekend we hung out with his best friend, but we also did things by ourselves. Christmas day, I met him at the movie ... (225 words)

He is not interested in me anymore, why is this??

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30 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend has no interest in sex anymore. It's been within the past year. He always had trouble keeping his hands off me, and now theres is nothing. We have sex about once every 1-2 months. I remember me telling him to cool it down cause i was getting sore, but i never said ... (88 words)

If a guy is taken and plays seven minutes in heaven with another girl, is he cheating?

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30 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - If a guy is taken and plays seven minutes in heaven with another girl, is he cheating?... (17 words)

I feel like I'm not much of a woman....

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30 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I am 42 yrs old and with a man that i dont seem to be able to turn on unless he is drinking .Then it is not good because as soon as he cums its all over the foreplay is gone and the holding is gone and I am very depressed because of the cituation I feel like im not a woman ... (94 words)

We can't live without eachother!

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30 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hello, i have been dating my girlfriend for almost two years now and we are very deeply in love, if we could be together all the time there would be no frustration no fights nothing (there hardly is anyway). i am 19 and she is almost 17 it is legal in our state for us to be ... (104 words)

Does he reallly love me?

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30 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm 16 years old and my friend is 17... we use to go out for about 6 years... but since we broke up our relationship has been on and off. we stopped talking for about 6 months. i decided to call him again and see what happened between us becuase i still love him, and i think ... (129 words)

Two guys who want to date me! I'm really confused...

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30 December 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I have two really great guys that both want me to date them. Guy number one is my ex. I broke up with him because my mother hates him, he was really jealous from time to time, and I was worried I couldn't stop myself from having sex with him. I love him very much. He is the ... (455 words)

Do guys like innocent girls?

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30 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So I am 18 years old and I've never had a boyfriend. Everyone tells me that I'm gorgeous and guys tend to be really timid and nervous around me. I'm also pretty quiet, so I would never confess to anyone (tried that and it backfired on me) lol but I was just wondering if guys ... (60 words)

What if he does it again?

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30 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 4 and a half years now, I really love him, he is very good to me and we are moving in together now but we have had a bumpy ride up until now. I always really trusted him but can't let him out of my sight these days as I am too afraid that he ... (292 words)

The more we have sex the tighter it gets...

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30 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - So, my boyfriend and I very much enjoy sex. But it becomes a problem that the more we have sex, the tighter, yes tighter my pussy gets. I don't know what to do, but it almost gets painful, which isnt a really big problem, considering he loves it (thinks it's like the greatest ... (77 words)

She keeps me by the phone waiting for it to ring

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30 December 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I need some advice. I have been dating this lady for 3 months. Things started great. We dated and had fun along the way. Over the course of the 3 months I fell in love with her. She has not and I respect her for taking her time. During this time we have spent 2 or 3 days a ... (244 words)

Is she losing interest?

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30 December 2008 (M) age 30-35 - Ok, I'll start off by saying that I easily get paranoid and self concious, though not near as bad as I used too. I have been in a relationship for a couple months and she and I have already told each other we love each other. Anyways Christmas was hectic with a trip of hers t... (183 words)

How can I solve this?

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30 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a 18 year old asian boy and I love a boy who is 13 . we are same sex and we love each other.But the other people don't accept it and want to forbid it.He is a dependent and live with his elder siblings.They are controlling him everything.I really love him .I don't want to ... (78 words)

Let go of my online love& save my marriage

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30 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - my husband and i have been together for 7 years. i remember when i met him, i felt like i had found the love of my life. here i am 7 years later wondering if he still is. my husband is a great guy. hes not abusive, hes not an alcoholic, he doesnt do drugs, he doesnt get lost ... (490 words)

Is he no longer in love with me?

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30 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My question is as follows: My husband and I have been married for 12 years and have 3 children. Here in the last four months my H and I had a big falling out. To be honest it was not that big of a deal. During the fight he stated that he was done (with us). After this happened ... (286 words)

B/f only affectionate when high

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30 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay heres the deal.. ONCE again about my boyfriend. It seems the only time he will be affectionate wih me is when he is HIGH!! Its really retarded! Him and I have had sex before and afterwards he NEVER.. and I repeat.. NEEEVEEER wants to cuddle or just lay there after, he ... (248 words)

Don't want mom to catch me

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30 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - What do you think your mother would say if she found out you were masturbating? I don't want to tell her, and I know I won't, but in the chance that she catches me, how would I explain it to her. I am extremely embarrassed of it, and I do want to stop. Advice is much ... (61 words)

I had a baby and now I'm so emotional

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30 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - okay, so i have a 3 1/2 month old baby. i have been getting really emotional and i cry all the time, i go from being happy and laughing to crying or anger. i never had this problem before, and my sister thinks i have post-partum depression. what do you think? should i get on ... (65 words)

Can I fix things the way they used to be?

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30 December 2008 (M)

age - See I myself is gay and I live with a few straight guys I work for a carinval company that house a few us including myself for the winter to work or update rides. I met this wonderful straight guy and had a quite a few encounters when no one was around. In those encounters he ... (280 words)

Leave him alone for good?

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30 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently had a fight on christmas day with my boyfriend after we've been together for a year and I slapped him, he got mad and left. I called him we argued and he said "you what we should just be friends for a while because I'm tired of fighting", he sounded like he wanted to ... (138 words)

I'm in love with my ex's26 year old brother

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30 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so I am 16 but I am absolutely in love with a 26 year old and don't try telling me I don't know what it is and I'm too young thats not why I am writing this, The thing is I was in a relationship with his younger brother when I met him I tried telling the 26 year old how I ... (171 words)

G/f doesn't trust me

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30 December 2008 (?) age 30-35 - My girlfriend never believes me. I haven’t done anything to make her not believe me, I’m always honest with her, but she doesn’t even believe me when I tell her I love her or that I miss her, but she tells me she loves me. What is going on? What do I do?... (53 words)

4 year old daughter claustrophobic!

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30 December 2008 (?) age 41-50 - My daughter is 4 years old and claustrophobic. Its a challage her the an elevator she crys screens and wants to take the stairs instead (we live in apartment). Once me, my daughter and my wife got stuck in the elevator for 30 minutes or so (no one else was there). She was ... (92 words)

Used protection..pregnant?

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30 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So I'm kinda in need of some help. well I think I might be pregnant. But idk. I'm really nervous about it. I'm 15 and I usually have my periods at the end of the month and my boobs hurt but thats normal for me before my period. My boyfriend and I have had sex but we always use ... (101 words)

How to have sex with a girl?

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30 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a girl and with my second girlfriend. I haven't had sex with a girl before. Can someone tell me how to do it well??? Thanks... (31 words)

What should I say to the doctor about my depression?

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30 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Tommorow I am going to the doctors to try and get medication for my depression. The reason I need these meds is because I'm losing all motivation to do anything, I mean, I've almost quit my job, and I've almost started smoking again! And I'm close to self-harming. My question... (75 words)

How do I make a decision when I have strong feelings for both of them?

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30 December 2008 (F)

age - I had been dating a man for over two years. As he is in mining he was hardly ever home, and I lived about two hours away and would travel to see him when he was. We were in love, but then when I suggested it was time for us to live together he backed off, and eventually we ... (141 words)

Could I get into trouble for not calling after my procedure?

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30 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I know this is totally irresponsible of me, but here it goes. I had an abortion at the beginning of 2008, i had to get emergency medi-cal and they told me that i had to call them and cancel the emergency medical after the procedure. So i totally forgot til now and was wondering ... (76 words)

What's wrong with him? I think there's a lot more to being committed.

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30 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Please don't say break up with him and nothing else. I might break up but what to talk to him about these things. I want to know what to say to my bf about this stuff. I've had a bf for a couple of years. He said he is committed to me because he isn't looking for any... (209 words)

How can I stop being so insecure about all of this?

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30 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay this is my first question on this site and its kind of a simple question but requires a lot of background. So here goes: About 5 and a half years ago I started dating this guy. We were both real young at the time and he is my best friends little brother. He is 2 years yo... (896 words)

What can I do about his controlling, manipulative ex?

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30 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm so unhappy. I'm losing my boyfriend and feel I have to give up on him. I don't want to. I've tried to be there, stick it out and cope with the awfulness we have had from the Mother of his child, but I can't. Basically his life is being controlled by her and he is giving ... (1003 words)

Confused over breakup?

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30 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My Boyfriend just broke up with me today... we have been together for about, a year and half a month.. so im hurting quite a bit. thing is i dont exactly know why we broke up.. i mean hes not sure eather, he said he didnt want to break up with me and he acctualy cryed... um.... (194 words)

Should I keep trying or should I just end this marriage?

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30 December 2008 (F) age - Should I keep trying to turn on my husband, or just give up, and end this marriage? He really don't care about fixing this, so why should I? You can't have a marriage without intimacy,or can you? What do you think how common is this, and what happens if it's stay like this? I... (188 words)

I love him but I feel it's all one-sided!

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30 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - So I have this guy for almost 3 years. I love him very much, but it seems like he does not feel the same. I have caught him lying to me count less times, and have even checked hi emails and myspace (tho i know its completely wrong) because something just didnt feel right. I ... (165 words)

I found a condom in his computer bag. How do I ask him about it?

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30 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been living with this man for over a year and a half now...we have several animals together..I have met, and have a relationship with his family and friends...It seems to me that we are taking steps to lenghthen our future together...BUT..he works all year round..out of ... (161 words)

Straight girl fancies her gay male friend....

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30 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a straight girl who fancies her male gay best friend. I've known him for 3 months and he told me he was gay from the start. We clicked from the start and we have great chemistry. Initially I tried to set him up with dates with some other gay men I knew, but it didn't ... (399 words)

Is once a cheat always a cheat?

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30 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i have had a gut feeling for a while that my boyfrend was seeing someone else so yesterday (and i know its wrong)i went through his mobile phone to see if i could find any evidence on there. there were picture texts from a girl showing just her breasts with the words ..missing ... (133 words)

He lied about wearing a condom and now wants me to forgive him!

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30 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok this guy and I have been seeing each other for the past three months. We talk everday.. all day off and on. Things were really going good so I thought. This past weekend I went to his house after we had a few drinks. This would be the third time at his house and the second ... (209 words)

What do I do? My boyfriend will leave to go into the military...

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30 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - where do i begin exactly!lol im 16 turning 17 and i have a rather amazing boyfriend who's 18 of whom i very much love with all of my heart :)we are verry close but however live a good few hours away from each other but have a stable and consistant relationship as i see him ... (517 words)

Weird after I love you

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30 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey all, just looking for a bit of advice and help to understand my girlfriend really, sorry if it's long. Anyways I met this girl at uni, start of September and we hit it off straight away she really is spot on and we have so much fun together. Anyways things literally... (216 words)

Is it okay to have sexual desires towards your cousins?

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30 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - OK so from reading a lot of people's questions, i have one myself. My question is, is it ok to have any sexual desires towards your cousins? would that be called incest? or would incest only apply to relationships between father/daughter or daughter/brother??? i'm really ... (46 words)

What do I have to do so he realizes that she is not meant for him?

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30 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So the first day of class this semester, i got my eye on this one really cute guy. I guess he noticed, because that weekend he started texting me. He got my number from one of his friends that i was good friends with. We texted that whole weekend, and finally when monday came, ... (532 words)

Keeping it in the family!

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30 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey Cupids... Basically i'm with a my new boyfriend about 5 months or so. It's lovely. Initially it was a light hearted sort of affair, but now we're very into each other and it's great and as each day goes by i love him a little bit more, and i know he feels the same. Pr... (267 words)

I'm worried sick out of my mind and don't know who to get help from.

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30 December 2008 (F)

age - My partner has been lying about going to work, says he had bad nerves we were fighting, he hates the fact my teenage son leaves his room a mess we got over that. He then stayed, said he loved me etc, i tried calling him all day no reply then i called his sister to see where he ... (121 words)

Can someone give me an idea how to tell my parents I'm moving out?

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30 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So im 17 and a senior in high school. im plannin on moving out when i turn 18 in the middle of the summer. im not sure if my parents are against this...i know they dont want me to but idk if theyll go to the extremes about it. Can someone give me an idea on how to tell my ... (161 words)

My friend likes my girlfriend and she likes him...

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30 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm with this girl there for the past 6 weeks and for the past 2 days things haven't been going that good!! she likes my friend and my friend likes her too! They were supposed to meet each other before we got with each other but it never hapened! For the past 6 weeks they have ... (197 words)

It's all very tense between us now and I don't know what to do about it...

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30 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok... I started talking to this guy off of a social networking site. We exchanged numbers, and started talking. We talked all day, every day. I loved our conversations. Some how emotions got involved before we even met each other. So, he went away for the weekend. And he told ... (160 words)

His parents don't like us dating...

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30 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in love with this boy that I been knowing since high school. it took me some time to finally notice him because I was in a relationship with someone else. now that I'm available I really feeling him and I know he loves me too. we've been in a relationship for about 8 ... (91 words)

He seems keen one day then he doesn't seem to have any interest in me at all

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30 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some help bad!!! ugh i hate it when you REALLY like someone that has NO interest in u at alllll!!! i really like this guy ****** and he is so cute, funny, nice, and sweet. I love to be around him and i could be on the phone with him all night and not get bored even if ... (144 words)

I am unsure whether to date a girl due to how my friends would treat me.

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30 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - This may seem shallow, but I am unsure whether to date a girl due to how my friends would treat me, when I'm with her they make comments for a joke, I'm not sure whether actually dating het would make them mock me even more.. Should I follow my heart? Or should I leave it?... (55 words)

Can anyone explain "the career guy' please???

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30 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Can anyone explain "the career guy' please. I grew up in the burbs, dated and married my high school boyfriend who was anything but a career guy. I now find myself divorced and living alone downtown in a big city full of career guys. I don't understand them. Do they ever settle ... (142 words)

I'm sick of being alone in his house!

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30 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Right so my bf and i have been dating for six months at first everything was great, until I moved to a different town for him and in with him, first night he didn't come home, he made some story up and three months later I found out the night before I moved he'd cheat... (282 words)

Should I stay with my girlfriend or not?

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30 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been going out with my girlfriend for a little over a year now, at the start of the relationship everything was great, and about 6 months into the relationship, she cheated on me with her ex, he was her first love and she says shes needed closure, i was very upset but a ... (221 words)

We had an argument and now he's not talking to me...

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30 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 13 months then on christmas day we had an argument and now he is mad at me nor talking to me. When we were arguing I pushed him in is head and he told me not to call him and he won't call me or answer my calls. After we argued he said ... (88 words)

I'm terrified of gaining weight!

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30 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Not really a relationship question here, but I do think I need some help. I'm 19, 5'5", 112-3 lbs, I have a pretty healthy diet... and I'm terrified of gaining weight. I had a mild case of anorexia when I was thirteen and I'm wondering if it's coming back. And how to prevent ... (59 words)