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writes:i cant sataify my lady friend the way she satifys me?i recenty was left by the women i loved 4 month ago. i did everything for her and treated her like a queen.i started dating a women who i enjoy spending time with she makes me laugh and keeps my mind off of the ex. for some reason i can not get her to climax this causes doubt in my mind and i think she gonna want to find someone else. that is fine i just wanna no why my penis isnt working the way i was 6 months ago. im gonna be 30 i have a high stress job smoke weed , and is overwight. i just want the new girl to enjoy the sex as much as ido. he satrts fine then just gives up mid way through i get upset she asures me all is fine but i dont know what can i do to help myself and her
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reader, Teacake +, writes (4 December 2008):
 If you're using her to get over someone and you are over weight as well, this doesn't sound like there is any sexual chemistry going on. Women tend to need chemistry more than a man does.
Also, women can sense when a man is still in love with the former gal, and this too is not good for satisfying sex.
From what you haven't said, this is basically a rebound sexual relationship. Also for women, what gets them in the mood for great sex is how you are to them outside of the bed.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2008): It might not be you. Some women find it easier to climax than others. Why not try talking to her and asking her what she really wants.
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