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writes:i kicked my partner of many years out cause he has a drug habit, but he is taking it all in his stride and thinks it is holiday for him to get the best of both worlds. being out with his mates and just poppin to see me and the kids when he feels like it or for sex. he says he wants to come home for good do not believe him and dont think it will work still on drugs even more now i aint tellin him not to please what do i do
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reader, blackroses2989  +, writes (4 December 2008):
 Drling if he's coming by when HE feels like it, to see his kids (assuming they are his) or for sex and his needs, i would say that is a poor excuse to drop by. If he's still doin drugs he hasnt changed at all. Plz trust me I grew up with some, not my mom or dad thankfully but many ppl around me. Most dont change. And what gets me is that he just drops by whenever and wants sex. If it were me I would say heeeeeeeeeeell no and give him the boot, im sorry to say. but you deserve better than a drop by fuck. Your kids need more than a drop by father. I hope this helped.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (4 December 2008):
Stop having sex with him. Tell him he can come and see the kids but then he has to leave.
You are acting like a doormat so he thinks he can come back and you will be too weak to do anything about his drug problem or anything.
Kick him out properly and stop sleeping with him until he truly cleans up his act.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, tux +, writes (4 December 2008):
 I think you know what to do. He needs help. If he is unwilling to get help then you need to let him go.. It's not a healthy relationship if you let him to continue this way,
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