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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Husband has breath holding fetish!!

This question has 35 answers - newest was posted 4256 days ago

10 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband has a breath holding fetish. He enjoys seeing women hold their breath for as long as they can stand it. He loves to see their cheeks puffed out and get red and to see their bellys contract as they push their limits. He visits fetish sites and looks at photos and ... (768 words)

We're both married to others but have feelings for each other!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5823 days ago

10 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm married with a young child but recently i've noticed i have feelings 4 someone else who is also in a relationship he says he feels the same should we just ignore this feelings ... (34 words)

Did he chose me only because I'm pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5822 days ago

10 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend had a crush on someone else when we started seeing each other. he never told me, but i found out from mutual friends of theirs that he had feelings for her, and that he had told her so, shortly after we got together. i had asked him about her, and he inferred ... (384 words)

Smells bad "down there" don't want to tell my guy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5824 days ago

10 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - im messinq with some guy and we already had sex but i be thinkinq that "down there" be smelling a little. i have a yeast infection i know that but is not really really that bad.it might smell just a bit but i discharged way too much and when i do it drys up and starts ... (111 words)

Stuck in the middle! What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5823 days ago

10 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok this is sort of a dumb question. my friends and cousin have put me in this situation where i have to choose whose side i am on. my friends expect me to be on there side cause they say my cousin is spreading rumors about them and it is killing me cause my cousin is tellin... (141 words)

How do women get swept off their feet?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5823 days ago

10 December 2008 (M)

- Women looooove to be swept off to feet. I'm curious to know what women find especially romantic. Since romantic chick flicks tailor to the masses, I figure they would shed some light on what the normative idea of "sweeping a woman off her feet" is. Could you please provi... (118 words)

Unhappy marriage-in love with a married woman!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5824 days ago

10 December 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I was a married man for 8 years. I have been having trouble with my marriage for 6 years. My wife was abusive physically and verbally. I stayed with her for the kids (that’s what I kept telling myself). I compare our relationship to others around us. I am disrespected by ... (952 words)

Bent penis-should I have surgery?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5824 days ago

10 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - hi, this is really embarrasing but i need some advice. I have a bent penis, it bends down like a banana. My girlfriend says that i have a "massive 8 1/2" to 9" penis (which i think she's hallucinating) but it bends down which can't be normal. I told her that i don't care just ... (140 words)

Ex trying to chose between me & another girl!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5824 days ago

10 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - oh me and this boy use to date during my senior year of high school. and we broke up graduation night. he now goes with the girl he dated in high school. but he calls me 6 months later saying he is in love with me. the catch is he is in love with her too and he dont know how to ... (85 words)

My ex is using emotional blackmail--threatening to cut himself! HELP!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5824 days ago

10 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i was with this really nice guy for a few months then he dumped me, after which i found it hard to cope with as he got a new girlfriend a week after, even though he asked me to wait until he was ready. he even told me he loved me. we stayed friends but it hasnt be easy, we ... (193 words)

My best mate is in love with me!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5824 days ago

10 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my best mate Aaron were both fifteen, and he's in love with me but he doesn't know that I found out. I'm scared that if I tell him I know he won't speak to me again so what should I do?... (44 words)

I would have gave up a long time ago but there is something about this guy that I can't let go of. Something is telling me to not let go...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5824 days ago

10 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey Dear cupiders! I'm going to try to make this as short as possible. I like/love (still deciding) this guy in college. We talked on aim. He told me he was having issues with a girl that he liked. But she didn't like him at the time. He said that he was getting use to ... (280 words)

All he wants for Christmas... is for me to have an orgasm!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5824 days ago

10 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I'm 19 and I am in love with my boyfriend. As often as we have sex I never ever had an orgasm! All of my friends tell me stories about theirs but I have none, what should I do? I'm willing to try anything. And just the other day he told me that's all he wants for xmas. ... (60 words)

Dreaming...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5824 days ago

10 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hi lately I've been dreaming about a guy who fixes my computer and teaches me computers like 5 days a week but I don't fancy him. He's into computers but his social skills aren't great then again he could be a party animal for all I know, I hardly interact if I can avoid it at ... (107 words)

I did something really stupid and need advice...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5824 days ago

10 December 2008 (F) age 30-35 - I need help, I did something rly really stupid. Basically there's a male teacher who helps me with sooo much stuff, and today I kinda gave him a quick kiss on the cheek, and I'm soo worried that someone might have saw... I don't think at the angle I was at anyone could have ... (87 words)

Faking it...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5824 days ago

10 December 2008 (F) age 51-59 - When my bf starts to massage me with his fingers to try and get me to have an orgasm, I become embarrassed an I cannot get an orgasm so I fake it. Help me so I can stop faking and start feeling an orgasm?... (44 words)

We're running out of things to try...any suggestions for things to try in bed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5824 days ago

10 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - What are some new things to try in bed? We've done a lot of positions and are pretty adventurous. We try brainstorming new ideas but get stuck in ruts. Any suggestions? Thanks!... (32 words)

How do I get him to come to ME?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5824 days ago

10 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am currently going on 19 and me and my exboyfriend dated for about 4 years he is the same age as me starting around end of 12th grade he started to break up with me and we got back together at prom and then we go to the same college he keeps breaking up and with me over ... (210 words)

Should I hire a private investigator to see if he's really single?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5824 days ago

10 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 24, and currently single. My best friend's 23, and had a lucky escape from a guy she met in a bar. She said he was 5 years older than her, single, and seemed like a nice guy, but when she told her friend about him, her friend suggested she hire a private investig... (182 words)

What is "Lolita Syndrome"?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5803 days ago

10 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - hi my moms new boyfriend told me that i have Lolita syndrome and i better fix it before he is alone with me. is that some sort of disease? could he catch it from me? should i tell my mom so i can get checked?... (45 words)

Should we try to get custody like his family wants, or give up on this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5823 days ago

10 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband's ex girlfriend and him had a daughter 4 years ago. He pays child support but never gets to see her or if he does get to see her the women takes the child away if he doesn't do what she wants. "Takela"(we'll call his ex) is never with "Missy"(we'll call her ... (369 words)

Here it is ten years later, what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5824 days ago

10 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi My husband and I were talking and he and I have been married over ten years. Around ten years ago we were separated for a year but were still close, didn't live together but it was hard to tell we weren't married. Anyway the question is he just told me that ten ye... (198 words)

My boyfriend wants me to induce a miscarriage if I'm pregnant!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5823 days ago

10 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I had unprotected sex and now the worry of pregnancy is in thought. He said that he had everything figured out and if I did end up pregnant he would be there for everything (that was before). Now that he has talked to his dad about it his dad said that if I am ... (268 words)

I'm confused. What does :P mean?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5823 days ago

10 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi thanks for taking the time to read this what could my friend mean when he said to me that "you wont be single for ever and the fact we enjoyed fooling around together is proof of that!!"? i told him i was confused and he said "i hope you understand :p" and when i told him ... (101 words)

A confused male, a tricky situation: Seeking wisdom!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5824 days ago

10 December 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I’m not very good at this.. (thus your collective wisdom will be appreciated) To make matters worse I’m not sure if I’m going to do good job of explaining this but… here goes… It’s a typical rubbish male story. I am seeing someone now but… Six years ago I was d... (471 words)

Is he depressed or is it something else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5824 days ago

10 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi Agony Aunt/Uncle, I'm so confused... My husband wants to file for divorce as he is feeling trapped within marriage, as we only have been married for 2 yrs and we have been together for 10 yrs altogether. He suggested that we'll divorce, so we can wipe the slate clean ... (82 words)

Do I trust my instincts? Or my friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5824 days ago

10 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I am currently very attracted to a girl, she seems almost too good to be true. According to my friend, who is best friends with her, she is psyched about me liking her. When I talk to her she seems a bit dry. Not much to say in the conversation. I've told her how I feel but she ... (105 words)

My husband is hitting on men! Is he gay??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5824 days ago

10 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 26, my husband's 28. We've been married for 6 months, and are well-liked locally. We like socializing, and do it fairly frequently. However, there's one problem which is affecting our marriage badly. He's flirting. Not with other women though, but my friends' husbands... (396 words)

My boyfriend's friends are all young guys! What's up with that??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5824 days ago

10 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi - my boyfriend is 32 and I am 36 we have a long distance relationship but see each other as often as we can. When he moved from our home town 2 years ago he struggled to make new friends and joined a local informal football team which sounded like a great idea. The concern ... (523 words)

Did I break up for the wrong reason?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5824 days ago

10 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i quarrel over sex. we are both virgins and he wants to sex but i am not ready for sex. i called off the relationship yesterday cos i felt we both need a break to know if its infatuation. i really love him and already missing him. did i do wrong by breaking... (59 words)

Is this a bad sign? Or I am just freaking out??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5824 days ago

10 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I had unprotected sex two nights ago. We were both tested prior, so went into our relationship clear of any STD’s. We have been together for 31/2 months, however, I remember learning in school that you can be carrying a virus for 6month and be undetected or ... (372 words)

Boyfriends bad aim cause me to be pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5824 days ago

10 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay, first off, I am 23 years old and my boyfriend is 28. Kids are in our future, and however this turns out we will deal with it. (We both have good jobs and could support whatever happens) I cannot take birth control because of health issues. And I am allergic to most... (267 words)

I can't handle my girlfriends past!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5797 days ago

10 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a 26 year old guy and am in relationship with a 24 year old girl.I am deeply troubled by her sexual past. My girlfriend is a caring,lovely person,she is highly emotional and friendly person. My girlfriend was molested multiple times by her uncles when she was between ... (213 words)

Too angry & too aggressive!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5824 days ago

10 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i have an anger issue . i get angry really fast and shout at my boy friend. he hates it . i tend to be very aggressive some times. we had a fight 4 days ago and now boyfriend is very distant . i m scared will he hate me forever?? will he leave me? i know i need help with my ... (82 words)

Anger problem in overdrive!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5824 days ago

10 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I have sort of got a bit of a anger problem, whenever I play football games on my xbox I get so mad and start ranting and raving my head off. I get so stressed I start shaking and need a cigarette. Thing is when ever my loved one is with me I tend to lash out but I can't help... (70 words)

I can't count on my best friend! She's too flaky!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5824 days ago

10 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a friend problem, and I'm really getting sick of being messed around. My best friend, or so I thought, and I have known each other for about five years. We were so close in high school, until about two years later she just stopped being my friend. Like she was bored of ... (269 words)

He moves too fast and then he's gone!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5823 days ago

10 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - So i'm dating this guy who likes to get really serious really fast and then he gets tired of having the chick around. I made the mistake of letting him do this with me and now I am afraid he's getting tired of me being around. How do I keep him from getting sick of me and ... (61 words)

She doesn't show the love

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5824 days ago

10 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I'll try and keep this short. I meta a girl 9 months ago, we began seeing each other 2-3 times a week and fell in love. we became a couple and things went great until around a month ago which was the last time we saw each other. She's now giving mixed signals. One day sh... (234 words)

I don't know whether to walk away from him, and should I meet him next week.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5822 days ago

10 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I'd been single for many years. Got chatting to a guy and we just clicked. Same sense of humour and had such a laugh. Ended up going to see him, then it was about four months before we saw each other again. Distance is an issue. we text and chat every day, and he tells me he ... (215 words)

What does it mean to have "game"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5824 days ago

10 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - When someone asks "do you have game?" or when one says "I've got GAME" what does this exactly mean? I know sometimes it can be said in quite a conceited way, usually said from one to the opposite sex, but what does it exactly mean??? Thank you!... (49 words)

Was he just scared to commit?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5824 days ago

10 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello, I recently dated a man who has just finished with me (he is 52, I'm 36). He's never married nor has children. We were friends first and then started a relationship. We enjoyed all the same hobbies and spent every day together. We were only with each other for 9 ... (140 words)

Are there any other options for me apart from counseling?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5824 days ago

10 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I posted the question what should I do now that my life seems worthless, I think was the title anyway, I say thanks to diovan lestat and others for answering, but counseling is not for me, I have tried it and it brought me more down I just could not talk about it without ... (130 words)

What is the best masturbatory device for us men?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

10 December 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi guys an gals - ok so we keep hearing about 'rampant rabbits' and the like for you gals, but what do y'all think is the best masturbatory device for us men? (Bin on my own lately an my right arms' knackered!)... (42 words)

Got back with ex boyfirned for one night, now cant see him for 6 months!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5824 days ago

10 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I split up around 6 months ago as we were "bashing heads" and were arguing all the time, we couldnt see a way to compromise. I wanted him to be a bit more outgoing and social, but he was happy to be at home all the time. He ended things to give us space and ... (621 words)

His "finishing pattern" is weird when we have sex.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5823 days ago

10 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hii! :] My bf and I have been having sex lately for the past 3 weeks... he's 19 and I'm 17. Usually about 5 times a week we use protection and everything but his pattern for finishing is weird.... our first time he lasted about 10 minutes and now he can last for like.... 30 ... (146 words)

What does it mean if a guy says he 'used to fancy you' and is worried to tempt the friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5824 days ago

10 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - What does it mean if a guy says he 'used to fancy you' and is worried to tempt the friendship? Also he blows hot and cold, he flirts then acts distant. We have kissed before when drunk.. We don't text for weeks then all of a sudden he rings me to go to lunch? It's such str... (72 words)

Please help just don't know what to do.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5824 days ago

10 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - This might be a bit long so sorry but really don't know what too do any more.. me and the boyfriend/ex have been together coming up 2 years!! 6 months ago he changed and decided he didn't wanna be with me any more and got with some one else. Him being my 1st love it broke my ... (174 words)

Is my penis too large?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

10 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey I'm 15 and my penis 9 inches flacid and 10.5 inches erect. I am a bit scared as I was going have oral sex with my girlfriend but she declined me due to my size. I feel my penis is too large and I don't know what to do. Is this normal and if not is there any medical advice I ... (64 words)

Looking for contraception that will stop me bleeding all the time.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5824 days ago

10 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help me... I am 31 and have 2 children age 8 and 4. I am trying to find a contraception that will stop my constant bleeding. I tried the injection for 9 months and bled all the time, so I am now on the mini pill and this is even worse!! Any ideas..? I am just sick of ... (66 words)

I have lost ALL my confidence...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5824 days ago

10 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I'm so confused and just lost all my confidence :( A guy i was with for 4 months recently text me asking to go on a break as he said he cant cope being in a relationship atm as hes got 4 jobs and just needs time by himself which i thought fair enough but just wis... (160 words)

Anyone know if it's okay to take both these tablets?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5824 days ago

10 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm currently on Metronidazole tablets to deal with an infection "down below" and because I'm now about to start my period and I'm getting cramps, I need to take my Mefenamic acid for period pains. Does anyone know whether it's okay to take both? The metronidazole has ... (88 words)

Is he shy or does he just not love me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5824 days ago

10 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My Boyfriend and I have been dating for about 3 weeks now. But it seems as if he's not even my boyfriend, I hardly ever see him at school (Btw I'm 14 I had a bit of an age mix up) and he doesn't hold my hand, or hug me or kiss me or anything. The thing that's botherin... (124 words)

The condom burst! Could I be the big "P"?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5824 days ago

10 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - okay well here it goes on Nov 15th i started my period and ended on Nov 18th and had sex with my boyfriend on Nov 19th and the condom busted and he came inside me and at first i feel hungry all the time but right now sometimes i would feel sick idk what to do and i dont want to ... (95 words)

Is this a phase that most men go through at mid-life or is he just being a complete cheating jerk?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5824 days ago

10 December 2008 (F)

age - I’m 45 and have had two children and my body isn’t what it used to be of course and I suspect that my husband is lusting after a younger woman really, really bad. My husband keeps comparing me to younger women and makes comments like “you used to look like that” (referring to ... (302 words)

First time sex, and now we are worried. Please help??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5781 days ago

10 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - me and my girlfriend had sex for the first time, there was blood after that, i did not cum inside of her. she had like period for two days after that. could that be her period or what. we are so worried.... (42 words)

Shall I just let him go without saying goodbye?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

10 December 2008 (F)

- Hello Guys, need really need some help... my mind is going mental. It's a bit of a long story but hold tight... I was with my ex boyfriend for abbout 3 years, and we spilt up about a year and a half ago on his terms. In the last year we have kept in contact, remained friends ... (344 words)

How can I admit to lying about such an awfull thing.??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5823 days ago

10 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So when my b/f and I started dating he really wanted sex. I didnt, so I told him I was raped and it was still so clear i didnt want sex so he backed off. we have gotten really close over the last 3 years. but how do i tell him i lied to him is it better left un said or should i ... (70 words)

Please Help, I am so embarassed over this!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5824 days ago

10 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I was just wondering if anyone could help me... Ive been having this problem for about 6 months now and its really getting me down. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years and i love having sex with him, but about 6 months ago i started getting this really wet creamy disch... (288 words)

My marriage is a nightmare, because of my husbands Friend!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5793 days ago

10 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Please help my marriage is on the rocks because of this. My husband has a friend who we both agreed is a bad one to be associated with. (Drugs, no respect, cont. In trouble etc) so the friend won't stop calling texting etc. We have had problems whenever this friend comes around ... (315 words)

We broke up and he still spends time with me. Why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5823 days ago

10 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't know what to do and I'm really confused about the situation - maybe someone can help cause I can't see the wood through the trees for this. Me and my boyfriend split up about 3-4 weeks ago and he said that he didnt feel anythng for me anymore so with time i've learne... (153 words)

He makes my blood boil! I'm hitting my boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5825 days ago

10 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in a relationship for four years. The first two were great but the last two haven't gone well. My boyfriend is immature and wants to spend all his time with his friends and playing video games. Which starts a lot of fights since we live together. Things have go... (205 words)

Will his small lies turn into big lies?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5824 days ago

10 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone....I'm a bit lost and confused and could use an outside perspective to try to see things more clearly. Sorry if it's a bit long!! My boyfriend of a year is the best! He's lovely and perfect and treats me like a princess. However, one night in our firs... (634 words)

9 months and we still haven't kissed!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5815 days ago

10 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My gf and I have been going out for 9 months. We love each other very much, however, we unfortunately haven't kissed because my gf stills feels very uncomfortable with intimacy due to her last abusive relationship. She wants privacy, which i have given her although i do get ... (142 words)

When is it safe??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5824 days ago

10 December 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi Recently got myself tested for HSV1 and 2 and it came back negative for both. My partner of several months however has the virus and gets outbreaks from time to time. She told me about it about 2 months into the relationship. I thought it was something she should have men... (283 words)

Does he like me? Or just being friendly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5824 days ago

10 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - There's this guy I like at work but I can't tell if he likes me back. He'll tease me over silly things i.e Once I cam late from my break he was teasing me that I was seeing a mystery guy, he know's i'm single or if I'm applying make-up he thinks I'm trying to impress someone.... (184 words)

Will he ever drop all the other women and just be with me?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 5791 days ago

10 December 2008 (?) age 36-40 - I will try to make this as short as possible. I met my BF, we'll call him Ami, when I was 17 and he was 24. I moved in the middle of my senior year to a totally different state and had to leave all of my friends and family. I gained a new group of friends through a girl at ... (1665 words)

I don't think he likes me

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10 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I really really like this guy....but I don't think hes that interested in me...i really really like him....please help...... (19 words)

Do I accept my husband's wandering eye?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4588 days ago

10 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - This may sound like a silly question but here goes....Im a 40yr old married woman and mother. My husband and I have been married 20yrs and have 5 great kids. The issue is that everytime we go out my husband is constantly eyeballing women half my age.....I see Ive given up a lot ... (183 words)

Girlfriend cool one minute, crazy the next!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5824 days ago

10 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - What do i do about my girlfriend?! She acts real cool one min the crazy angry the next. She just told me she cant trust me but i think the one who feels no trust must feel guilty about something they have done. I don't even question her fake marriage to get someone to become us ... (57 words)

I'm not as important to her as she is to me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5824 days ago

10 December 2008 (M) age 30-35 - ************ JEALOUSY ************** I am jealous to do with my partner's sexual past. She is 15 yrs older. I was a virgin and hadn't even kissed a girl! She had been married for 6 yrs (still has ex's surname and has a child-whom I adore) and had other long relationships. I... (418 words)

When a woman has an orgasm. how much fluid is normal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

10 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - When a women does ejaculate, how much fluid is an average amount?... (12 words)

I try to eat right, he wants crap, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5825 days ago

10 December 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Im a vegan and I eat very healthy but for my boyfriend (also he smokes which I don't approve of) he eats a lot of crap, he does go the gym with me. Then he had some health issues from the junk he eats. His doctor's orders are to: Eat more healthy foods Stop eating crap and ... (131 words)

Can I get pregnant with clothes on?

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10 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I have a question. okay so. me and my boyfriend have not had sex at all, the furthest we've gone is I'm naked and he's on top of me with jeans and boxers on, and we kind of act like we have sex, just humping until i have an orgasm. well he told me he hasn't cum at all, but ... (166 words)

Parents won't let me travel to see my guy!

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10 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in a long distance relationship with a guy that I am very much in love with and have been with for about 7 months now. Recently we made up this plan that I was going to drive to see him. He is about 1000 miles away. I have my own car, and money to pay for gas, I'm re... (183 words)

Is he just too shy, to talk to me, or what?

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10 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy was interested in me, but too shy to talk to me I guess. But then the other day we did this huge group activity, but no one really talked outside their friends. So I rode the elevator with him and a bunch of my friends. And he made a comment to one of my friends about ... (78 words)

Abusive, and manipulative, but I still hang on, should I break with him and not look back?

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10 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I need some advice urgently. At my age, I cant imagine I'm still having to ask for advice when I know its wrong...so wrong to hold on to this relationship. Well, I've been with this boyfriend of mine who does nothing but ask for money, be abuse, temperamental and what's worst... (407 words)

She is 17 years older, married, but I love her, should I move on?

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10 December 2008 (M) age 41-50 - I'm in love with a married woman, 5 years ago.I can't get her out of my mind. She loved me too, but she didn't want to betray her family.But ,what is a shame, we are so much a like , it was like the most incredible match ever. She is my only possible love, I know. We were just ... (227 words)

Am I anorexic?

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10 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - People say that Im under weight and that I'm anorexic because im 5'6 and I only weigh 118 lbs.. Even my family says I am..am I where I'm supposed to be??... (32 words)

Pregnancy confusion

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10 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I NEED HELP... WELL I WAS SUPPOSED TO BE 9W4D PREGNANT TODAY, ON DECEMBER 8,2008 I WENT FOR AN ULTRASOUND AND THEY SAID I WAS 2-4W PREGNANT.. ON THANKSGIVING NIGHT I WENT TO THE EMERGENCY ROOM BECAUSE OF VAGINAL BLEEDING (THAT WAS 2-3 WEEKS AGO) AND THEY CHECKED MY HORMONE ... (81 words)

Shouldn't she just get over it?

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10 December 2008 (?) age 30-35 - My best friend moved away and broke up with her boyfriend because of the distance. A little while after she had left, her ex and I started going out. One day after school we were making out in the hall and I felt a tap on my shoulder at first I just ignore it. Then I realize it ... (96 words)

Torn between past and present!

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10 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, well it's a kind of a long story but.. When I was 13 I met this kid named, well, let's call him Ken. When I was 13 he was 16, and of course I was head over heels because come on I'm a young teenager and he's an older guy. Well, the thing is, it only lasted probably ... (410 words)

What is the best sex toy for a guy, while masturbating?

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10 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - which is the best way for a guy to masturbate and which is the best sex toy for a guy to use for masturbation?... (24 words)

Been together for 3 years, no romance anymore, what can I do?

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10 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hi,my boyfriend and i have been togeather for about 3 yrs and we have a 5 month old son. ever since the baby came the romance in our relationship has completely died and i cant seem to get him to be more romantic. i tell him this but it seems like he doesnt get the hint. can ... (60 words)

In this relationship for 6 months, still texts his ex, it bugs me, how do I stop this?

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10 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey guys... need some advice about the ex... i recently got together with a guy who got together with me after a long open relationship... after i got with i found out the reason we were in an open relationship... he was still with his ex... after and ultimatum put down by me.. ... (224 words)

I have endured cheating, and dishonesty, still want to seduce him, how do I do it?

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10 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have read alot of the posts re: marriage and porn, and i am one of those wives who has dealt with the lies, dishonesty etc for the last five years....we are 80% of the time really good together (day to day stuff parenthood etc)...my questions are how do I get beyond the ... (206 words)

May be wrong, but I think I am falling, what can I do?

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10 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I am thirty years old and married with two young children. I have, however, been having very strong feelings for a young lady that works for me. She is eighteen, and very beautiful. Most of all, I believe she has feelings for me as well. I find myself going out of my way ... (107 words)

Did I have a miscarriage and was unaware of it???

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10 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I really need some help! Ok I just started taking the Depro-Vera shot going on a month in a half and last week when I was at work I stated having really bad cramps. And later on that day when I went to go use the rest room I notice that there was some tissue in my panties. It ... (179 words)

Do you think I should get out of this relationship after 30 years?

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10 December 2008 (?) age - I don't know what to do any more, I have been getting into some debt through my son, when I come clean to my husband about the debt he has literally went mad and won't give me any support. He has always worked abroad and never took responsibilty for his four sons, he even went ... (85 words)

He holds me back....

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10 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a problem. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 1/2 years and I really have fallen for him, but things have gone terribly wrong in out relationship. I am turning 18 soon and I really want to live life, but I don't feel I can do that with him. HE just keeps me ... (90 words)

Is this also a form of abuse?

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10 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I was wondering if throwing someone on the floor, or pulling them by the hair, or putting your hand over their mouth so they can't breathe, or even pushing your head against theirs so it feels like their nose will break is as bad as slapping or punching them? Thank you for ... (53 words)

Is it possible you can like two people at the same time?

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10 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I met my boyfriend 4 months ago while I was on summer vacation and we're doing the long distance relationship thing right now (but he's in a different country so I don't see him very often). The problem is that I'm starting to like this other guy I met at college. I really do ... (85 words)

My husband is lying isn't he?

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10 December 2008 (?) age - My husband works abroad and when I went to visit I found condoms in my make up draw which I don't use, he said he didn't know how they got there and hadn't seen them before... he is lying isn't he?... (41 words)

I would like to forgive him as I do believe in forgiveness but I think he is a compulsive liar.

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10 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I had a good friend (male) who I thought I was developing a relationship with and we were taking it slowly. One evening we met up for dinner, but I was due to meet him first in a local bar. When I arrived he was talking to a girl who was a bit drunk and she kept bothering us, ... (488 words)

I am not a sexual person and think sex is nasty.

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10 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been dating a guy for a month and to say I am not a sexual person. I think sex is not a fun (nasty)thing and I really don't want to have it. He on the other hand is into sex and gets horny in seconds just by being next to me in bed when I dont do anything. What can I say ... (81 words)

Why does he belittle me in front of others?

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10 December 2008 (F)

- Hoping everyone is enjoying the holiday season. I broke up with my ex some time ago but am still serving on a volunteer board where I have to deal stil with his little verbal jabs when I say something or he will often caught me off and say we are getting off the agenda. I am ... (141 words)

How do I know that she won't do the same to me some day?

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10 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - She is on her way out of a relationship with long time boyfriend and he doesn't know it yet, we have kept things clean for the most part and I'm kinda waiting in the background to get with her but how do I know that she won't do the same to me some day? ... (54 words)

Why does he do this when he knows it upsets me?

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10 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm very insecure, I've always been, I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year, he was like the popular funny kid at school, we both have a facebook, and literally 95 percent of his friends are girls, every day he's friends with like 3 new girls, and it bothers the heck out ... (147 words)

Married for 5 years and he's cheated on me twice...

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10 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my husband have been married for 5 years, we have 3 young kids, he's cheated on me already and produced a child with the other person and I decided to stay. Now I found out he has cheated again on both occasions I knew in my heart he was. Every time I asked he would ... (67 words)

Boyfriend does not reply to messages promptly, feel ignored

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10 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello aunts, I am in a new relationship and my bf does not reply promptly to my text messages and it makes me thinks if he is just "using" me (we have had sex). Its not like he dosent reply at all but it just feels like whenever he has free time or dosent do anything better t... (288 words)

I feel twisted into many directions... just need some help please.

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10 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Well let's see where shall I begin...? I stayed anonymous because I've wrote here before just don't want anyone to know me.... well I've been with my girlfriend for 3 years, I live in M.O. just moved here 6 months ago from S.C. which is where me and my girl lived together. I ... (516 words)

Does she like me? Too scared to ask!

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10 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - The girl I'm attracted to doesn't show much of herself. She conserves as many feelings as she can inside of her, but I want to know if she likes me. She is also best friends with a friend of mine, and he says that she is happy to talk to me and me switching to her class. This ... (142 words)

Does dildo take away virginity?

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10 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I need to know if you already masturbated with a dildo but u didn't bleed at all does that mean you are still a virgin? Help please!... (31 words)

Comfort zone or baby drama torn between the two!

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10 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I am in love with two men. The first is the father of my son who I have been with for 5 yrs. Not a very happy 5 yrs. He is currently locked up (minor charge) and has been for 8 months. During that time I met another guy who I have fellen in love with. The problem is he is very ... (213 words)