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female
age
36-40,
*oneysugarz
writes:I know this guy from Facebook. At first we just chat via emailing. But later, we exchange phone number. We are having a good conversation. We flirt at each other through phone messaging. He the one always hurried to meet each other. But I always rejected him because I’m a bit of scared. Every night before he goes to sleep, he either will message me “goodnight” or gives me a call. But I never make the first move to call him or text him. But sometimes I will give him a morning call or message to wake him up to work. He say that he into me, but I never admit whether I into him or not. After 4 months, I decide to meet each other. I invited him to my pre-birthday celebration at a club. And the club is where we meet for the very first time. Although he taller than me but his body is quite petite if compare to me. I’m not very fat and not very skinny type. The first time I saw him, I think that he will no longer interested with me because I do not think a guy could accept a girl which is bigger size than him. So, I do not put too much hope that we can start a relationship with each other. After the first meet, he still messages me and calls me to chat and have the WILL to courting me. He calls to sing a birthday song to me at 12am sharp on my birthday and he even pass to my brother a birthday cake and a little gift to me during my birthday. And I really get touch of things he done to me! A week later, he asks me to have lunch together which is the second time we meet. Comparable to me, he really looks petite in the body size. And we have lunch together and he sent me back to home. After we meet for the second time, he never calls or even message me before he sleep. And I even once message him a morning message to wake him up but there is no reply from him (which last time he sure will reply or call me). Every night I can’t sleep well because I just feel like waiting for his goodnight message. But he did not even message me. I’m not sure whether I’m into him. I just feel uneasy when there is no message or phone call from him. Maybe I need some times to adapt to it. Already 4 days he did not call or even message me. Did everything he doing now showing that he is not longer into me? Or he is waiting me to take the first move to call him? Or he wants to test me whether I’m into him? What can I do? Anyone can help to give me a solution.
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reader, honeysugarz +, writes (6 December 2008):
honeysugarz is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthx for read! i text him to ask whether he is ok or not cuz i have been few days did not receive his msg even a call for him. but he did not reply.. guess he might lost interest!
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reader, nokutenda  +, writes (4 December 2008):
he may be playing the game or he may have lost interest.
call him to find out
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reader, honeysugarz +, writes (4 December 2008):
honeysugarz is verified as being by the original poster of the questionBut my friend suggest me not to text him or call him pretending I’m not bother at all. Do you think he’s the one playing the game right now?? Because he is the one always message me and call me. I never take the first move to do all this stuff.
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reader, nokutenda +, writes (4 December 2008):
l think you should call him thats the only way you can be sure about his feelings.
don't be too forwarding just say you called to see how he has been doing since it had been long
his response will tell you the way forward
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