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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I can't handle the guilt

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

14 December 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Theres this married guy at my work. We flirt ever in a while or so. But recently it got a little more serious we made out. I know shouldn't have and I feel disgusted with myself after it. I mean dont want to disrespect his wife or myself. Im a single mom with a one year ... (81 words)

Is it wrong for a woman to be on the prowl?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

14 December 2008 (F)

age - i am recently divorced from my second marriage and is it wrong for a woman to be on a sort of prowl or a look out for a man to satisfy her intimately, emotionally and privately? in this day and age society is making a big hoop to do over sex but i see it as dating......and ... (235 words)

Why is he acting like this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5811 days ago

14 December 2008 (?) age 30-35 - My guy friend has a girlfriend since then he been ignoring me and all the other girls. If I say to hi to him he'll give a funny look and keep walking. Then a new kid came to my school (he gets in trouble a lot) we become friends. My friend (the one ignoring me) came to me to ... (106 words)

Is it good to defend him when he's being treated like this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5812 days ago

14 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating my current boyfriend for 2 years now. I'm 16 and he is 19. We've known each other since we were really young, and we were best friends before we got together. The problem is his mother. I've never really felt like she's liked me, or accept me for who I am, I su... (258 words)

Had the breakup not hit him yet?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

14 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - is it true when your boyfriend breaks up with you; and your relationship was a little serious that hes not really thinking about it because hes so excited he doesnt have to talk to you; hangout with you; and be around you; to where he wouldnt realize the mistake he made ... (88 words)

How do I repair this relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

14 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I relocated to New Zealand with my fiance and 4 month old baby from South Africa. On coming here, I thought I would find a job quickly but it has not been the case as my skills are very specific to the SA market. As a result, I have been very down and despondent not to mention ... (194 words)

My 5-year-old daughter has a really naughty attitude towards me lately, how to deal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

14 December 2008 (?) age 41-50 - My 5 year old girl has had a real sassy attitude towards me lately. Copying the way I talk in a rude way, saying "FINE" in a snotty way when I ask her to do something..etc. I've tried shouting, naughty chair, taking away privileges, threatening to wash her mouth out with soup ... (123 words)

The thought of pregnancy makes me very nervous and scared, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

14 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - OK, so i feel weird asking this, but I can't ask any friends or family. I am not a young teen, but I'm not like 18 either and I know a lot of families with kids and I don't wanna have kids when I grow up and get married. I always think about adopting. So last night I had this ... (146 words)

Any encouraging advice for me? My relationship is bringing me down...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

14 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've lost practically all my friends because of the relationship I'm in. I feel completely inadequate to everyone else in my life. I'm frustrated because my biological father doesn't give a flying crap that I'm alive. I've lost the spark in my relationship, and I have horrible ... (91 words)

My boyfriend is an escort, am I crazy that I continue to stay with him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4171 days ago

14 December 2008 (M)

age - My boyfriend is an Escort. He meets with much older guys every so often, either on long trips or one hour sessions. I am "ok" with this because we have an open relationship, and, its' guys that I am not threatened by. However, I have confided in two of my friends, and, th... (102 words)

Is it wierd for a guy to shave his genitals?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

14 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Is it wierd for a guy to shave his genitals?... (10 words)

How can I last longer in bed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

14 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - How do i keep from ejaculating so quickly during sexual intercourse?... (11 words)

I can't get over my boyfriend's past and always seem to bring him down, help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

14 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Im in real need of help. I cant get over my bfs past, I think I need help. Im so insecure about him. I love him dearly but feel as though Im pushing him away. Im worried he still loves his ex, as he used to talk about her a lot when we first got together, and everyone ... (153 words)

My ex wants us to be friends, any chance of getting back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

14 December 2008 (M)

age - Hi my recent girlfriend left me and says she dosent love me any more she has since dated but i desperetly love her and would take her back.but now out of the the blue she wants to be friends What does this mean is there a chance she might want to come back. I have told her i ... (73 words)

Should I wait for any positive reaction?

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14 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi every body my problem starts when my friend and i felt love to each other although he is much younger than me about 14 yrs.we didnt fell any age differences between us till one day he quarralled with our boss and he decided to go to somewhere else for work.actually we were ... (271 words)

How do I avoid the friendship zone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5812 days ago

14 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - There is a new girl at work who is extremely cute, she laughs, and seems like she decent person unlike many other girls in Orange County. What would be a good way to start talking to her some more without falling into the friend zone which happens with a lot of girls I meet... (54 words)

Would I be stealing him away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5811 days ago

14 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend has a girlfriend who goes to a different school, but I have a crush on him. We've been going to the same school for five years and been friends for two or three. We sit really close together, and he always offers to share his iPod in study hall. He always looks me in ... (87 words)

I'm scared he will get back with her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5812 days ago

14 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - im seeing this guy, he cheated on his gf with me when we met at a music festival n then they split up a few weeks later because he told her. i was the one he called to talk to because he was so hurt and i helped him feel better. we've recently started seeing each other and ... (202 words)

Break in and take me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

14 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - what is the deal????? my sister said she has a weird fetish of sort, and asked my opinion. here goes.She wants her boyfriend to pretend to break into her house, and pretend to rape her! she loves really hard core sex, and thinks its sexy when a guy gets rough with a girl..(dont ... (70 words)

Flirting: what's the best way a girl can get a guy's attention?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5804 days ago

14 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - this question is for the guys.. what is the best way a girl can get your attention? Say when simply "going out for a coffee"..? i dont want to appear overly flirty- i want to be seen as fun and interesting guys tips would be great... (58 words)

She kissed another man!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

14 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Here is the situation, My girlfriend got together with me when i was hung over my ex. Things started out well and we fell for each other. I soon had to leave to study abroad 6 months into the relationship. While i was away i got lost in influences of others at universi... (246 words)

I'm a virgin and plan to wear a condom, should I?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

14 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hi im a virgin and my girlfriend is not we have talked about sex and im all ok for it however i was wondering what would i do at the end when im am about to ejaculate i plan to wear a condom but i just dont know what to do thanks... (55 words)

How can I make this less painful for her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

14 December 2008 (?) age 30-35 - My girlfriend is a virgin (im not). Recently we started having sex. Usually she im hurting her or im being too hard when im being gentle as possible. She'll in so much pain and makes me stop. Then we wait a bit for her to recover then try again its like a pattern. How can I ... (62 words)

Am I just kidding myself over this guy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5801 days ago

14 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - ok i have already posted this question. but i think i jumped around too much so i'll start from the begining. could get boring see this guy whom is 27, and i also work with him.it all started out innocent we flirted and joked at work with each other. well i went to a friends ... (533 words)

I really need some advice on how he can notice me and how I can talk to him without being so nervous.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

14 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I realy like this guy in two of my classes. I think he is the cutest thing in the whole world. He's tall, cute and funny. My heart skips a beat when I see him, I turn red if he looks at me. It's really hard for me to talk to guys especially if I like them. We've only talked ... (104 words)

By friends betrayed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5808 days ago

14 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Scenerio; Girl goes out partying with a group of friends, lots of alcohol involved.. later, while partying, she has to pee, and wanders off. As she is finishing up, one of the males is suddenly there.. she tries to walk past him, and he starts to hug and kiss her "We're gonna ... (226 words)

We want to explore one another without full sex, any suggestions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

14 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I are only 14. We really want to explore each other and stuff, but we don't want to get carried away and well... end up doing other things. Any advice on how we can do that, but not have sex?... (44 words)

How do I overcome this phase... or is it a phase?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5812 days ago

14 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - So here is the situation. Me and my gf have been dating for over 2 years. For the past couple month we been arguing on and off every few days. And they were not huge arguments, they were the small ones that were settled the same night. But recently she got really really busy ... (290 words)

Why is it so hard to depend on other people???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

14 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Why is is so hard to depend on other people/ Must I do everything myself if I want things to get done? Why can't people just say no or I can't from the very beginning instead of making promises they cannot keep? I am just feeling very overwhelmed because I really feel like so ... (87 words)

Is it right? Can this work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5812 days ago

14 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay. Well I'm 15 and he's 21. We met on the internet and I am in love with him. We have spoke about the relationship and how it could work and he says he loves me and he is not just with me for sex because he said he will wait till I'm 16 which is 10 months away. I've never ... (95 words)

Am I right to feel angry and frustrated???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

14 December 2008 (F) age 51-59 - My husband is healthy and does not have any reason for his lost sex drive. It makes me very frustrated, as if I would know he is sick, I would help him and understand him. I would never let him down... This way, I don't know what to think and makes me so angry and frustrated, ... (223 words)

Threesome with girlfriend and her brother?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5807 days ago

14 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, I've been with my G/F for a long time and have always found her and her brother to have an awkward but really good relationship. Everyone thinks so too that know them. She is older than him and when asked about their relationship with eachother they always say they ... (237 words)

Ex back on the scene... does he want me back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

14 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am so upset at the moment and have been for the past month after my ex-boyfriend came back into my life. He ended things 6 months ago, and after much effort on my part to make things work, I finally gave up and moved on. I met someone else and things were great. I ... (265 words)

Childhood sweethearts...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5807 days ago

14 December 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Two years ago I got divorced. We were married for 12 years. Before that I was in a long relationship with what was my childhood sweetheart. We started dating in our early teens and were together for 10 years. It all ended badly, we both went our seperate ways, got married, had ... (296 words)

I feel stupid!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

14 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend broke up and right after we broke up on wednesday we talked like 10 seconds later then after that 15 minutes later and then we talked Thursday, Friday, and Saturday about the break up. Well it's more like me questioning him about why it happend and ect. and ... (544 words)

Online dating: should I message again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5812 days ago

14 December 2008 (M)

- I'm trying an online dating site. If anyone has any experience with this, I would appreciate your insight. I really don't care if women read my messages and don't reply but sometimes I message prospects and my message is never read nor is my profile ever viewed by them. ... (100 words)

Boyfriend's behavior: I can't wait forever!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

14 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - This is a VERY long story. And I'm not sure if I can get proper answers without starting from the top and explaining as much as I can... My boyfriend and I met in Feb 2008, and were a couple by the end of March 2008. Shortly after becoming a couple, he wanted me to move an h... (1564 words)

I think I may be turning gay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

14 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I think i may be turning gay? what do you reckon, kinda messed up innit? Hey, I'm 17 and a boy. it appears confusing to me, but hopefully you'll understand more at the end. Anyway here goes, i pretty much like girls but over the past 12 months things have been 'differe... (343 words)

How can I stop losing respect for myself and becoming their worst enemy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

14 December 2008 (F)

- Ok Im in search of honest answers for my problem. Basically, Im 25 years old and Im single. My last serious relatonship ended when I was 21. I was with the guy for 3 and a half years and I split with him cos I no longer loved him. I have not had a serious relationship sin... (628 words)

What are some hot things to say while having sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

14 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - What are some hot things to say when your having sex that will get him really turned on?... (18 words)

Is he playing head games?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5812 days ago

14 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - ok there is this guy ive been seeing for 5 months now. well all of a sudden he is having second thought about us he said hes scared im too nice go figure and that hes worried because i have kids and he dont well first off hes 7 years younger then me anyways i only see him when ... (134 words)

How do I make my teacher round my grade up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5812 days ago

14 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, I need your help My teacher gives me an B since I got 89.65%. I mean it's really close to an A, but he didn't round my grade up. What should I do? I sent emails to him three times to ask him, but he sounds he doesn't want to give me an A. In fact, he said he... (154 words)

I could really use the help in dealing with my jealousy and feelings towards this situation.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

14 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok... My ex-girlfriend and I broke up in February, but have remained in contact. We lived together for a year before breaking up. We spoke over the phone semi-regularly but for 6 months we never really saw eachother. We work together but are in 2 completely different ... (424 words)

Should I try and trust my brother again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

14 December 2008 (?) age 26-29 - My brother (he's 19 and im 15) put me and in fotser care a 5 months ago after our parents went to jail. He couldn't take me in because moved in with his girlfriend (also 19) and he rather not be responsible for a immature winey brats he actullay said that to ny face. I just ... (154 words)

Should I wait to have sex until marriage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

14 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so i want to have sex soon but of course i want to wait for marriage or at least until i'm 18. But if i do have sex soon it'll be with someone i trust and know. So do u think i should wait. Thanks your opinion is appreciated. By the way i'm very aware of the conseque... (68 words)

Is it better the second time around?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

14 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Has anyone ever got together with an ex and it been better the second time around as you had learnt from certain mistakes? I may be getting back with my ex boyfriend and I feel that I have definitely learnt a big lesson, which came with a lot of heartache. I was a demadning ... (126 words)

Do you think he's interested in getting back together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5812 days ago

14 December 2008 (F)

- there's this guy, ive dated him a few times over the past two years, but we had othre things to concentate on (work/college/he's in a band) we've remained friends, not very close ones though, yet he's always been there fro me if i had a problem he had been seeing this gir... (149 words)

Do men like short or tall girls?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

14 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Do men like short girls or tall girls. I am 5 feet, but have gotOk figure, Breast: 36 waist 27 butts 36 fair complextion and long hair. But i feel inferiority complex due to my short height. ... (44 words)

Confusing FWB relationship with my boss

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5798 days ago

14 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey frnds Please help me out! I have been in FWB relationship for 2 years with my married boss. He is very handsome, sexy and intelligent.WE are engaged in oral sex only. I love him very much, but he clearly says that he don't want emotional bond. He only get physical with me ... (131 words)

Is it normal to be 17 and not like sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

14 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 17years old and im not in to sex yet i like snogging my bf and touching him in places i and like to top half but if he take his boxer off in front of me i would probably run my mate is all ways saying to me have you not had sex with him yet and i say no... (129 words)

I slept with my g/f's mom! Do I tell her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5808 days ago

14 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been with my girlfriend for quite a long time now. but only last week, i slept with her mum. i regret it completely, we were both drunk and my girlfriend was too drunk to notice that we'd gone up stairs. should i be honest with my girlfriend, or should i not say anything ... (60 words)

Should I go for her again or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

14 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello agony aunts, like everybody here, I've a problem. I've been in love with a girl for about a year now. We dated three times and we always ended breaking up because she couldn't stop thinking about horses and horse related activities. We wouldn't see each other on week end... (267 words)

Can a married couple love each other but never have sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5796 days ago

14 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Something puzzles me...I have known this man who has been married for more than 20 years.They had a son together and stopped having sex after his birth.They have lived in a sexless marriage ever since.Because she wanted it that way.Refusing help or counseling.Is that normal?Is ... (89 words)

I still cannot get over that one night!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

14 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - firstly hello and thank you for taking the time to read this i feel so low right now i dont know where to begin. me and my gf have been together for 10 years on and off, we split for 3 years and she was in another relationship for that time, but we ended up back together af... (163 words)

Beautiful and "boyfriendless"?!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

14 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - hey, so all the time i get "you are so beautiful", "you look like a model", "you always look so nice", and the "if any girl is mean to you its because they are jealous" from all my teachers. guys check me out at the mall all the time and they are like 6 years older then me. ... (154 words)

I never know when he is joking! He said he wants to marry me before we went out for the third time!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

14 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi! I met this guy from the internet and started to go out with him. I'm starting to like him but it seems we have a communication problem. I never know when he is joking. He has always been hinting that he seriously wants to marry me before we went out the third time. On t... (189 words)

My ex wants no strings sex but I have feelings for her, help?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

14 December 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - im so confused my girlfriend and i broke up 3 months ago then she just wanted to be friends i found this hard still love her she now wants to have sex with me but with no strings she said she still has feelings for me but doesnt want to get back together i done it once and feel ... (92 words)

I can't get over her and she doesn't want me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

14 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My life is just a huge complication. I've liked the same girl for at least 4 years now, and I've recently talked to her about everything again, how i feel, how much i like her. But she says she doesn't like me like that. I've told her before a couple of years ago and it was the ... (151 words)

How can I talk to him and find out if he likes me too?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5812 days ago

14 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey I'm very happy at the moment because I think I have foud the right guy. He is just perfect. I think there is a chance he likes me too, but I can't be sure, he does very nice things for me like buys me food, and he just volunteered and everything. I still can't be sure th... (100 words)

We don't want this baby!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

14 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - hie.. my gf is 1 month pregnant.. we dont want to have this baby .. can u suggest me whether she has to go for an abortion or whether by taking some medicines or pills we can get rid of this baby????/ please reply at the earliest..thanx... (48 words)

He is getting involved with LDR but I still like him

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14 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hiya everyone this is about my ex, since we split 2 months ago we decided we will stay friend we get on really well and speak on the phone, anyway he joined a dating agency, and has got a reply back from this irish girl, she seems like a real dirty girl and talks non stop about ... (233 words)

What does he mean by saying he liked my name?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5762 days ago

14 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I would like to say sorry for my weak English first. I think it's hard for you to make sense. I have a coworker (Mr.A) and he's calm, he likes sitting at his corner. The first time that I came here I heard something about him and his girlfriend. OK, that time I never thought ... (484 words)

This girl is amazing and likes but she's my best friend's ex! What do I do?

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14 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - well i have this friend and he had this girlfriend they only dated for like 3 days they broke up and she started coming at me i kept saying no. but she finally convinced me to hang out with her on friday and shes fucking amazing she likes every thing i like she even likes th... (110 words)

He said he will tell his friends he saw me naked! How do I get over him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5812 days ago

14 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. I need help in getting over a guy that hurt me. It's a really bad situation. See, I was living w my friend and her brother in an apartment this semester. I guess me and my friend's brother fell for each other and started fooling around. I went past my limits with him ... (260 words)

Am I overreacting, is it abnormal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

14 December 2008 (F) age 41-50 - I have been with my partner for 6 years and have a child together. Recentlty after sex he shocked me by wiping his penis with a tissue then taking a remaining pea sized amount of sperm off his penis and putting it in his mouth. I find this weird and sickening. I have ... (119 words)

My guy & I aren't connecting well, what can I do?

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14 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I have been with my beau for almost 7 years and we each have our own responsibilities in life, but it seems as though we're not connecting well. We barely talk and do stuff together anymore. How can I make our relationship more enjoyable? ... (49 words)

My husband never gives me time or love and never pays me any compliments!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

14 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 28years old my husband is 31 and I love him alot.but since when I have joined him in Dubai he has become very mean.He doesnt kiss me touch me and even doesnt like to do sex with me.whenever I beg him than only he does but with full concentration in order to release himself ... (471 words)

How can I be his friend without leading him on? He's younger and attracted to me.

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14 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - It's kind of a long and involved story, but here goes: I work as a tutor at the college I'm attenting, and one of my co-workers has confessed that he is attracted to me - which is fine, but I don't feel the same way. He is nineteen and I'm twenty-three, by the way, and he s... (257 words)

Should I ask her out again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5806 days ago

14 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - hey, can someone give me advice? there's this girl that i have met and dated 7 yrs., while we were in high school, but we lived over an hr. away from each other; we met at a basketball game. Well now im graduated from college and currently coaching at the high schoo in which... (392 words)

Why doesn't my mother let me stay over my boyfriend's house? I'm 20!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

14 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey my mom wont let me stay over my bf house im almost 20. why is she doing this to me? and she thinks im giving myself away what dids she mean by that?... (37 words)

My girlfriend keeps saying she's ugly (she's not), it's getting very annoying, how to get her to stop?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

14 December 2008 (?) age 30-35 - My girlfriend keeps saying she's ugly as hell or compares herself to her friends. I do tell shes beautiful but she's saying im lying to her. Its getting annoying. Im temptated to agree with her so she'll shup up about it. How I can get her to stop?... (48 words)

Husband's deployed now I'm addicted to porno!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

14 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I am not sure how to say this or ask .. Ever since my husband deployed I have been pretty much addicted to porno.what does this mean?... (27 words)

I am freaking out because I haven't gotten my period yet!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

14 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i have had sex three times now. we have used a lubricated (trojan) condom each time. no birth control. the last time we had sex we checked the condom as usual and it had no holes. we had sex, and he says that he went for a little longer than he should h... (209 words)

Would you be mad if your girlfriend went to parties and got drunk?

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14 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend have been going out for almost 3 years, i moved down to florida for college and shes in wisconsin. In about 8 months we are planning for her to move down with me, but there has been some trouble. Ok guys I want to ask you this: would you be mad if your gir... (174 words)

How can I get him to be rougher?

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14 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is a very soft and gentle person when it comes to sex, but, it doesn't work for me! I like to be treated roughly when we're making love but it's always a struggle to try and get him to be a little crazier in the sack because he's afraid that he's going to hurt me. ... (78 words)

Is it love?

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14 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so theres this guy hes a year older but i hang out with almost ever day he recently broke his phone and sence then we havent been talking as much but sence then i realized that i think i might be in love with him i mean we are not dating but hes told me he likes me alot and ... (101 words)

What is wrong with me why can't I get a guy?

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14 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a 25 year old girl and I really need help. I have really "bad luck" with dating. I never dated in high school, the only date I've ever been on was when I was 21. This guy treated me horribly - he said he was desperate for sex and then belittled and criticized me for ... (457 words)

Can we start things up again?

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14 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I want to be with my ex. I have wanted to marry him since we began dating...but we have been split up since February of 2007. That is a long time. I was going through some difficult times on my own and tried to break it off with him, but he convinced me not to only to dump me a ... (177 words)

Asian Boys

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14 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I love East Asian guys. I do not love White guys. I'm a White Canadian girl. I grew up in a very, very multicultural area (I was the only white girl) and then an area that was about 50% Chinese. when I was 10 I moved to an all white area. Until I was 19 I wondered what w... (336 words)

This has been bothering me for 23 years... was I raped?

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14 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a serious question that has been in my head for 23 years or so now. When I was 15, I went cruising around with a guy I had known for well over three years. I had one puff off a joint he offered me, and I also had a drink of his beer. I wasn't high nor was I drunk or ... (317 words)

Do guys really get their hearts broken too?

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14 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Forgive me if my question is ignorant. Do guys really get their hearts broken? I mean I know everyone experiences heart break but how do men cope with it? Do they handle things diffrently than women? What are some things women do when they break a man's heart? I mean besides ... (64 words)

My imaginary guy!

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14 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, Am I completely insane/ loosing it/ marbles gone missing... to get over the guy that I love I made an imaginary guy up in my head to replace him. It's actually helping me not to think of the guy I love, but I get worried... am I getting carried away. I don't t... (148 words)

How can I have just realised that I died 20 years ago?

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14 December 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - How can I have just realised that I died 20yrs ago? I spent my formative years in children's home after children's home and as a result of the terrible things that happened to me in those places I feel like I actually died. Does that make any sense? I don't feel as though I... (112 words)

Confused about what happened...

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14 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm really confused about what happened with me and this girl I knew. A year ago, when we were still in high school, we had a class together and I fell for her. I sat behind her and we ate lunch together with some other people. Anyway, it got to be the last few days of the ... (574 words)

He said we can never be together but he won't leave me alone!

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14 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Back in June I ended up sleeping with a guy 15 years younger then me. He gave me the line oh don't catch feelings etc so I didn't I am 38 really don't plan on anything more from him. Well he started calling, texting and hanging out with me all the time!! He always tells me we ... (156 words)

New Rules!

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14 December 2008 (F) age 41-50 - The guy I met a few days ago asked for my email instead of my number. My friends have told me that now guys ask for email instead of numbers because women are more likely to give out their email rather than more personal information such as digits. I understand this, but what... (75 words)

He never hugs me in bed or initiates any cuddling. This has been going on now for 4 years!

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14 December 2008 (F) age - I'm hoping for some good advice. I'm a very devoted wife, and a good mother. I would do anything for my family and keeping my marriage alive. I love my husband, he is a good man. But few years ago he stopped being intimate with me. He has problems with getting an erection, ... (219 words)

I've got myself so caught up in this its like my heart is breaking all over again, what do I do?

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14 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've always thought of this guy as the love of my life, we weren't really together for that long under two years and that was almost ten years ago. Five years ago he contacted me and said he wanted me back that he still loved me had never stopped loving me. I was in a ... (339 words)

Why are some guys afraid to date someone they like?

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14 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been "dating" this guy for a month. We are not dating. But he has already expressed to me that he is interested. He told me that he is not looking for anyone else, that his eyes are on. He tells me he misses me. He tells me he wants to spend time with me. I see him 2-3 ... (145 words)

Can't figure out this, is he trying to make me jealous?

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14 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy and we have been chatting. He seems to be interested and keeps saying hints that he wants to be with me. I'm not as forward as him but I do flirt back. But one day we were chatting and he started talking about the girls he finds attractive, not in detail but ... (108 words)

Guys: do you find it gross to finger a girl while she's on her period?

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14 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This question is for the guys. Buuut, ladies, if you have any helpful answers, you're welcome to reply, too...lol. My boyfriend has been wanting to finger me, and I've been wanting him to, also. He asked me if he could do it when we meet up tomorrow night, and I agreed. Th... (112 words)

Can't stop comparing women to my ex.

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14 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend broke up with me about 2 months ago and I've been trying to replace her in my life. I've done the free online dating thing and I even posted an ad on craigslist. The problem is that every woman I see I immediately compare to my ex and no one stacks up to her. ... (107 words)

Sex jokes!

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14 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey guys. I'm 13 and a lot of guys have been talking to me about me sucking their dicks and crap like that. I won't do it but the thought doesn't completely gross me out any more, in fact not at all. I laugh at sex jokes and things like that, they just don't bother me, I go ... (87 words)

Need a little help with my girlfriend

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14 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I am having trouble with my girlfriend. We have been together for 1 year 7 months and 11 days. I know weird I keep count but so does she. It's not hard to remember it really. Anyways we have been fighting a lot lately and it's been bugging me. I really don't know why. We are a ... (358 words)

Can I tell if I'm pregnant this early

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14 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i had my period two weeks ago. yesterday i was having sex with my boyfriend the condom came off and he came inside me. is there away of telling if i am pregnant this early? what should i do i need to know asap... (47 words)

I want him to go away but then I want him to come back!

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14 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey, please give me advice. I would love to hear whateva you got to say. My question is this, I really like this guy, I think about him all the time and whenever I see him my heart races and I want him to go away but when he leaves I wish he would come back. He smells like ... (109 words)

Haven't had period yet should I get fingered?

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14 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - hello i need some help.. there is a big party coming up soon and this boy in my school who is 14 said at the party he is going to finger me...i want him to do it because all my other friends have been fingered by boys but..i want to know if its alright because i have never st... (78 words)

Still love my ex-can't let go!

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14 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok. so my boyfriend and i recently broke up about a few weeks ago and we remained best friends. even though the both of us are best friends i'm still in love with him. i have all of these feelings left for him and i can't seem to let him go. everytime we are together i can't ... (123 words)

Christmas gift ideas?

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14 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so i meet this boy from my best friend when they broke up me and him started having a secret relationship like as friends its been about two weeks now and he and i where talking and he said he was going to ask me out sometime before christmas and my friend knows everything ... (73 words)

Why are all these teenagers talking about their sex lives on here?

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14 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Is anyone else here fed up - and worried for - all the under-aged girls who come here, desperate for answers about how to solve their problems with their boyfriend who is 10 years older than them? I mean, a lot of these girls are 15 years or younger!! Does that not disturb you? ... (92 words)

Why all of a sudden nothing?

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14 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Any ideas why he's pulled back and stopped talking? This guy Ive known for a while and have a past with have been talking alot recently in the past month. He mostly starts the conversation via text or online asking how Im doing or whats going on? This has happened every d... (227 words)

Homemade dildo?

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14 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi there. Sometimes, when I'm really horny, and I feel the need to masturbate, I really want a dildo, but I don't own one. What are some ways to make-shift a dildo at home, using house-hold items. I don't want o injure myself though... all input is welcome... (48 words)