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writes:im a fourteen year old girl, and today a boy asked me if id like him to finger me. i think i would, but i feel self conscious because i have very small boobs, only a 34AA/A. also, my friends say they shave all their pubic hair, but i dont. i dont mind shaving it all off at all, but i was just wondering, should i or should i not? also, any advice for my first time? thanks x
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2009): Don't worry at all about your pubic hair...It is only a fad. And your boobs? What are they for? Your babies to suck on to get milk. Boob size does not matter at all. People have ran out of things to do. Leave your pubic hair alone, don't worry about boob size, and enjoy life hun.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2009): Hmm well first of all it doesn't matter what your age is, everyones gonna have sex one day. Small boobs? Who gives a damn. Boobs are boob they will grow your still young.
Personally I'd shave it all off. But its whether you feel comfortably to or not. Your choice.
Oh and being fingered may hurt a little bit but it should feel enjoyable afterward.
Just make sure that if it gets more heated that you have a condom.
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reader, xxidkxx  +, writes (18 December 2008):
 ok this is kinda a late answer but i wanted to answer this, it dont matter it your 14 or 30 everyones ganna avenchaly have sex. thats your choice on when you do it, just use a condom and maybe comnciter birthcontrol.
-from the top, shaving. i do it, and most girls do but you dont have to its really a persional choice.
-getting fingered, its more of does your boyfriend no what hes doing? and noes whats ganna make you feel good? other then that its not ganna like hurt or anything.. might feel a little weird at first but starts to feel really good.
-haveing sex, ive only done it once and im 15, it was more of in the moment, and we both kinda new it was going to happen. but yeah, we didnt use a condom and that was so unbeleveably stupid of us, because i though i was prego(im not btw) but just use one.
anything else?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2008): wow that's a sexy one.
yes u shold shave off the hair, if u wish 2 go ahead, as it will b a real turn on for both of ubelieve me. as for your boobs, do not worry, just leave them 2 your BF,he will take good care of them & u will c an appreciable increase in size shoirtly.
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reader, pomgirl10 +, writes (5 December 2008):
 If i know my b/f are going to be together and we will be doing stuf fthen ilol shave if not it doesnt bother me to let it grow. Like the others have said your 14 take it slow I dont start doig wnything with my b/f of 3 years till about of 4 months ago and im 17.wel still arent having sex and its just dry fingering. so just be young whiel you can.if it happens it happens if not dont worry about it and make sure you want it to happen. About your boob size I went from a 32A to a 36d in like 10 months time just last year. it all depends on your mom and when you start puburity if your mom has big ones chances are you will to just give it tme, if not well im sure your beautiful without big ones. Trust me sometimes they get in the way it sucks=]GOOD LUCK!!HAVE FUN!!
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reader, CherryCupcake +, writes (4 December 2008):
First of all, your boobs, dont worry about it hon, in 9 month i went from a 30aa to a 32c..seriously and i was around your age, so dont worry love!
Personally, i shave, my boyf cant stand hair and i think thats the general opinion out there. If you wanna, i reccomend using shaving cream and a new razor blade or razor, dont atack straight away, go slowly and in the direction of the hair. You can also look up sites on the net about it.
Good Luck!
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reader, werenotincontrol  +, writes (4 December 2008):
Well I personally prefer it shaved, But thats just my opinion.
Yes you are only 14 but I know alot of people who were having sex at 14 and turned out ok. Just be careful and dont let the police/Garda/Cops find out k?
Best Wishes, xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2008): First off, you are 14. I personally feel you should hold off from sexual encounters for at least another year or so. Though this is your decision.
Secondly, you are 14. Breasts grow at different rates, and as an older guy, I find girls older to be perfectly attractive without massive breasts. There is no reason the younger crowd should feel different.
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reader, ryandude18 +, writes (4 December 2008):
 hmmmmm tough one to answer but............ i know this sounds creepy but i went through a stage of experimenting with shaving down there when i was younger and as long as you dont mind a little bit of itchiness i think its ok..................and does look better most of the time
but remember your 14!
nothing wrong with taking it slow ok? Some boys like the hairyness anyways, ask him but again ask yourself.......are you ready your 14
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