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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Do I keep pursuing him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5799 days ago

26 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay.. I've run into a situation that is totaly new to me. I noticed a guy @ work a few months ago, and I thought he was totally hot. However @ the time, I was seeing someone, so I played it cool. Friendly conversation on a few occasions, no flirting. Now I am single.. (For ... (267 words)

I'm 13 and my guy wants to have sex

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5791 days ago

26 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Soo me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 years. Im 13 if that matters. I've given him blowjobs and hand jobs and I've let him finger me, eat me out, fist me, stick things into my butt and penetrate me in my butt. But now he wants to have sex. And im not sure if im ready... (103 words)

I think he's a player but he's so nice!! All confused!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5800 days ago

26 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm 42 and was dating a 39yr man for about 6-7 weeks. I fell for him really hard - and he knows it. The problem...he moved to my state from another about 7 months ago and legally still married however to a woman in another state, supposabily they eventually are to split just ... (587 words)

How do I get back what is missing

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5800 days ago

26 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey guys, this mite sound a bit strange...but here goes... so, iv been in a relationship with an amazing guy for almost a year and a half. he makes me so happy its unbelievable. we enjoy each others company, we love each other, and we have a good sex life. but recently, i h... (101 words)

What could be wrong with me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5800 days ago

26 December 2008 (M) age - Hello, I hope you can help. I need to know how common is my situation and how to get help. I'm in my late 40 -es, and a few years ago I became impotent. I'm married more than 20 years ago, and I do love my wife. She is attractive, and we get along, but I don't have any desi... (242 words)

Should the next move be up to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5800 days ago

26 December 2008 (F)

- Hi there, A few months ago, a friend of mine introduced me to her male friend. She gave him my number a few weeks after this (she told me she was going to, not because I told her to) and a couple days later, I had a text message from him. We chatted via text message for a wh... (591 words)

Why for sex but not a relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5799 days ago

26 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I go to a big university but cant get a decent boyfriend. I would say I'm attractive and have a good personality but all the guys who are interested in me and vice versa only want to hook up and have sex with me. Even my male "friends" try to hook up with me when they are ... (119 words)

I want to forget her and stop the pain

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5800 days ago

26 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - i am in love with this girl we where together for a year i only want he but she does not care for me i just got back in military 25years old want to stop the pain and forget her... (40 words)

Titanic mentality?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5799 days ago

26 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - As the efforts to tell us how the universe was formed and the machinery to discover the Higgs boson breaks down. A blind man sucessfully navigates an obsticle course with no aids, sensing by some means where the obsticles lie. Could it be we don't know everything we think... (69 words)

What does the word mean

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5800 days ago

26 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hello I have a quick question and I hope someone can help me with this, english is not my first language, and I live in USA, so if someone can tell me what the bulbish word means, and in what context can be used, I would really appretiate it... (49 words)

Guy has angel/devil behavior

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5800 days ago

26 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi! I really need your help. I have been with this mas for 3.5 yrs. We have been broken up for few months. I keep calling. I just cannot make myself stop. One day he is nice. The next he is the devil. We had been talking again for about 3wks and he got mad told me he never ... (253 words)

Can men get pregnant?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5797 days ago

26 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I also have another question.. My dad told me to clean the inside part of my ''p-nis''. I cleaned it out, like he said. ( he wasn't watching by the way ) And then a few moments ( when i was cleaning it ) sperm came out. I was in the bath tub, there was water in the tub. Sp... (135 words)

Good friend/bad friend?

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26 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm friends with a girl who I like a lot. I like her in that special way. She 's made it clear that she's not interested in me like that but that's okay. It hurts but that's life. I am someone who will walk across hot coals for my friends and am there for them any time of day ... (195 words)

How to prevent fanny farts

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5800 days ago

26 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - how do i prevent fanny farts? :'(... (7 words)

I'm in love, but is he?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5786 days ago

26 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - HELP! me and my boyfriend have only been going out a couple of days and he has been sayin that he loves me more then life its self and that he has never felt this way before. but now he is giving me the cold shoulder. he wont answer any of my texts and he hasn't ran out of ... (75 words)

Online dirtiness until I found out she has a BF. Now I feel bad and I still like her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5799 days ago

26 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - ok me and this girl really like each other, we was talking online and we did dirty things online also but then she told me she has a boyfriend, i felt really bad for what i did with her i didnt know she have a boyfriend what should i do? ... (56 words)

How do I let him down gently?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5800 days ago

26 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So there is this guy that likes me, alot. but i just dont feel the same way about him. i just dont have the heart to tell him. he is so sweet, and really a cool friend. but honestly i dont see us having a relationship ever. he is the friend type of guy. nice, sweet, but not ... (110 words)

My girlfriend of 8 years hurts during sex... how can I help her feel more comfortable?

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26 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Help me please. I have been with my girlfriend for for almost 8 years now. we trust, and love each other very much. My problem is she has a hard time with sex. It hurts her. Ive done lots of research and every couple that has this problem seems to have been together less than a ... (291 words)

Has anyone else experienced a late period after the morning after pill?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5800 days ago

26 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - About a month ago my boyfriend and I had sex and the condom split - so obviously I got the morning after pill. A few days after this I started "spotting", I went to the doctor and they said it was fine. But the other day we had sex, however this time it was unprotected - he was... (163 words)

"backdoor" accident--how to clean it up

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5795 days ago

26 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - so, last night my boyfriend and i was having sex. we was doing it "doggy-style" and he accidentally went in the a-hole...then he put back in the front! i know that isn't good because of all the bad bacteria...so what should i do to keep my "front" clean??? ... (48 words)

Why can't he just be with me and be happy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5800 days ago

26 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I meet this man and and from that moment on we were together, literally, i moved in with him and we were an automatic couple. he had noticed me for 4 months and had wanted to be with me so he says but i never noticed him till he actually told my brother (he didnt know ... (357 words)

Does he really care about me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5800 days ago

26 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hello I have a situation with my boyfriend, he is 29 years old, eastern european, but he is extremely introverted, shy, and have a lot of troubles expressing emotions, he doesn't get mad either, I have never seen him mad in 10 months of relationship, but at the same time it... (351 words)

Was this just a normal curiousity phase I was going through?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5800 days ago

26 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - When I was about 12 or 13 years old I was babysitting this 1 year old boy. I still had not fully gone through puberty so I still had some maturing to do. When I would change him, I noticed that sometimes his penis would come up sometimes almost as if it was erect. I had never ... (354 words)

So scared that you ended a relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

26 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Has anyone on here actually been so scared of love that they ended a relationship? Most people would always see it as an excuse to end the relationship. I believe that people can become so afraid that they end things thinking that the other person would hurt them. They take ... (154 words)

Where does all of this leave me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5800 days ago

26 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid I met this lad at college and we hit it off right away and became really close but we are both really shy so none of us had the guts to ask each other out, so we just stayed friends but then we started drifting apart and hardly spoke for a while. Then one day he... (177 words)

Does he think I am easy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5800 days ago

26 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - well when i first went out with my bf, he said to his mate over email, that i was "up 4 it". does he think im easy? or am i just unstable from previous relationships that sounds the same as this situation?... (44 words)

I'm a pupil that got involved with a teacher and now everything is messed up

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5800 days ago

26 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi. ive been thinking about doing something like this for a long time, but ive always put it off. basically i started having feelings for my teacher about three years ago when i joined my school. pretty soon it developed into a full blown obsession, and i never thought ... (387 words)

We had sex and now he doesn't call..what went wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5800 days ago

26 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so here goes I got out of a four relationship about five months ago. It was one of those break up everyday type of relationship where we had a lot of serious issues. I have to honestly say that I am a better woman without him. A couple of days ... (572 words)

No sex! My boyfriend says "All you ever do is think about sex!" when I try to bring it up

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5800 days ago

26 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my bf a year and 4 months we used to have sex very often but now theres nothing what so ever we love each other to bits and he is very good to me but he does not have sex with me. If i say something to him he just says "All you think about is sex" like he has ... (114 words)

Is he hiding his true identity or is he a jerk?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5800 days ago

26 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - can a guy who does computers be bad boy this is example of the behavior: Cute,tall,sporty,competitve,cheeky,forward,spiteful, overconfident,full of the themselves , always ogling girls, lots of girlfriends, boosting about his newest conquest till he tires of her . Locker roo... (143 words)

LDR is hurting my girlfriend, how can I keep her happy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5800 days ago

26 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hi ppl, I know this is silly..n i dont know whether anyone will reply or not..but i really need some advise.. I m 18..me and my girlfriend were 2gthr in school and we were 2gthr for like 6 months in cl 12 th..but then we went to different cldgs..we continued for another... (184 words)

The kissing factor

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5800 days ago

26 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone! Okay I have a pretty typical question, and I'm sure its on this site 5436 times but I want specific advice. I do stats for wrestling, and I get to spend my weekends with the team going out to eat and at the tournaments and such. The bus rides tend to get pret... (153 words)

Use protection but still haven't had period

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5799 days ago

26 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hii all, every month i get my periods regularly but this month im still waiting for it. 10 days back i had light spotting but its not my regular periods. i had sex with my bf but always safely with pill or condoms. how can i get my periods soon? plz help me out. im worried... (57 words)

My husband is abusive, drinking..should I divorce?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5800 days ago

26 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I was in an 8 year relationship that ended up abruptly because I wanted a future with him and he was unsure of what he wanted and didn't find it fair to me so he ended our relationship. I was heart broken, shocked and devastated because I thought we had a future and ... (437 words)

How do I show that I care and feel his pain?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5798 days ago

26 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I cheated on my 8yr boyfriend. He came to know, i asked for forgiveness. Its been a year, but he is still hurting a lot. He says i have not participated in his pain, though i have cried and gone through a lot emotionally myself in trying to win him back. How do i show that i ... (62 words)

Is my new husband cheating or am I just paranoid?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5798 days ago

26 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have only been married for eight weeks, and for the last five weeks i have been going out of my mind with worry, my husband works away from home, and we only see each other every three to four weeks for a day or two at a time, however, i received a phone call from a woman, ... (263 words)

Is he silently pushing me away??????????

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5800 days ago

26 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My bf of 4yrs was offended by me talking about our future. I want to marry him, and I told him. Ever since then we went 8 days with no contact or talking. Then I finally cracked and called him. He is very distant on the phone with me. I did ask him if we were going to do ... (153 words)

Am I just afraid of being a single Mom again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5784 days ago

26 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i am trying to decide whether or not to leave my boyfriend, the problem is ,is that sometimes he can be a real jerk to my daughter and i can't stand it anymore. we get into fights because i stick up for her and he gets mad so i don't know what to do. i think the only reason i ... (76 words)

Ex is confusing the hell out of me, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5800 days ago

26 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So a few months ago my first real love broke up with me. I was so heart broken. We try to be mature about it and be friends. Well that doesn't work. I guess we are so sexually attracted to each other that every time we try to hang out, we end up fooling around. Which is a ... (112 words)

Weird confusion about my girlfriend, is it an anxiety disorder?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5800 days ago

26 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, so I had my girlfriend for half a year now, and everything's just perfect - we never had fights, never offended each other, always joked around and it's just great and dream-like - until now. Sometimes, I feel extremely empty in my chest and just feel that I don't lik... (133 words)

Am I married to the most selfish man alive?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4248 days ago

26 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Is it just me or is the man I'm married to really selfish? We've been married for almost 2 years and together for 3 years. Last year for Christmas I spent $2000 on him. He bought me $100 worth of junk that to this day I don't use. For his birthday last year I took him to a ... (741 words)

Swingin' bachelor dating a single Mom - I'm not a family man, can this work?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

26 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - So, I've found the almost perfect woman and we've been dating a year now. She's the best g/f I've ever had. I always had a rule against dating single moms, but when I met her, I chose to break that rule and now I'm in love w/ her, but I can not stand her kids and don't ... (326 words)

Did he pop my cherry? Or am I still a virgin... please reply!!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

26 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so last night (christmas) i went over my bestfriends house...(its a boy) and we were kissing.....so it led to touching then it led to clothes coming off...next thing i know he's on top of me....i'm still a virgin (i think) so when he puts it in I tell him to stop because ... (157 words)

What could be the possible date of conception?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5798 days ago

26 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - hi everyone i just want to ask, i think my partner is cheating on me, i need to know this.. my partner is due to give birth on 16th dec, can u tell me the date of conception, roughly?... (39 words)

I am 38, she is 19 and my daughter's football coach! Is this age gap too big?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5800 days ago

26 December 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, I am 38 years old male, I have 2 girls, 11 and 8. I have 80% custody of my girls. About 8 months ago, my older daughter's soccer coach , hurt herself while playing soccer, she is 19 years old. I am a physical therapy doctor. She didn't have any insurance at that time, so ... (389 words)

What is the normal age for the following sexual activities?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5800 days ago

26 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm curious as to at what age certain sexual activites start to happen. If some one could tell me the average age for the following: Seeing a girl naked (in person obviously and not a baby or something) Fingering Oral (to a girl) Oral (reciving) Thanks!... (57 words)

I'm worried about my friend's LDR with a girl he's just met on a dating site!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5800 days ago

26 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - One of my best friends, has joined a dating website, hes meet this girl throught it they been going out for about 2 weeks she was the one who clicked on him, and they exchanged numbers, by that evening she had asked him out and he said yes, she lives in ireland, and we live in ... (321 words)

Does her reaction mean I can talk to her later?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5800 days ago

26 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey Guys, I had posted a question on this forum earlier on the confusion i was having with the signs i was getting from this girl i have never met and known and have only seen from a distance for the last few months.On that situation i got a strong response from some readers ... (246 words)

Forgive him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5800 days ago

26 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Back in July I met a man that I gave my heart to. Well things didn't go how I wanted them, I got pregnant in August, and in September, the day after I miscarried, he dumped me. He'd already been seeing someone else. It was very hard to get over, and there are still days that I ... (145 words)

First he wants me, then he doesnt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5800 days ago

26 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been talking to this guy for nearly 3 years now. I was going out with his mates older brother.(Thats how i know him)..But yeah... I was round his mates house one night, and he was there. We was having a laugh. When he sat next to me, he complained that no one texts him. I... (496 words)

Is it possible to get someone new that fast?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5800 days ago

26 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - can some good looking/cute looking guys get any girl they want as a girlfriend? I know one guy he broke up with his 1st girlfriend and found a 2nd new girlfriend a month later! His friend is a bad boy i used like but rejected because I wasn't good for him or to be seen ... (76 words)

I don't understand my husband

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5800 days ago

26 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello, I have been with my husband almost 7years, we have two boys 4 and 2. Well last year he started to changed on me. snapping at everything I say, do or don't do. smashing things up, then one time he says he is going to drive me crazy enough to put me in the hospital and ... (328 words)

How to just end things

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5800 days ago

26 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 14, and i have a boyfriend and we have been going out since the end of october. we also went out near the end of july, but i ended it with him in august when i found out he had cheated on me. i got back with him in october because all our friends went out together to a ... (114 words)

Should I send this to my ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5800 days ago

26 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - to cut a long story short, i want to get with my ex link again but he's being long about it even though he said that he wanted a second chance..he said he needed time to think but i don't want to wait, could i send him this text; u cool? i really do want to give it another ... (136 words)

How do I tell my hubby that his dad is a pervert?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5796 days ago

26 December 2008 (F)

age - Ever since my in-laws took a winter home in Florida my husband's dad "Marty" looks for opportunities to grab me(or "hug me" as he puts it)when his son and wife aren't around. If I enter their home last, "Marty" blocks my entry, grabs me and won't let me go. He will squeeze and ... (364 words)

Should I tell her I cheated? It would ruin our relationship.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5799 days ago

26 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Here goes. First of all, My girlfriend means the world to me. Honestly. I've thought about it, and I really, really love her. She's the reason I wake up in the morning. She's the reason I breathe. When I look at her, all I can see is happiness. All I can think about is ... (429 words)

I have got some sort feeling towards my second cousin.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5800 days ago

26 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I am 20 years old. I have got some sort feeling towards my second cousin which i am experiencing 4 d first time. however there s a lot of economic class difference between us. She cares my mother even though.cud see her only occasionally. I wish i cud share my feelings ... (93 words)

Help, what to do... I fancy my sister!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

26 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hey, i had a question, in the back of my head there's a voice telling me this is wrong, but at the same time i feel like it's not so wrong, my sister is only about a year younger then me, most guys her age think shes attractive and she's petite. i myself often find myself ... (111 words)

Really what's going on, does it sound like there is still a conection between us?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5800 days ago

26 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Please,please help me Its driving me mad me and my ex ahs been split for 3 months now, but still talk on the phone every day, anyway i gave him an xmas present on christmas eve, and he had bought me one, which he gave me last nite, anyway, last nite,we had a good evening,... (259 words)

Why's he being like this to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5800 days ago

26 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone merry christmas. This is about my ex bf, xmas eve i went down the pub where he works, i had my camera and taking loads of people with it, especially this one guy,as he's my friends bf, anyway i didn't think much of it but i saw him lastnite and he keept going on... (171 words)

Anyone else had this type if divorce issue?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5799 days ago

26 December 2008 (F)

- My partner is going back to the USA to be at his daughter's wedding. His ex wife will be there but he does not wnt me to go. He says we can't afford it and that it would be very uncomfortable as it is her territory (she will be with her partner). He says he is not looking ... (419 words)

Fantasies involving my girl with other men

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5800 days ago

26 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - i have the fantasy of watching my girlfriend have sex with her exboyfriend that got her pregnant *she aborted* and also with her last boyfriend as well as with one of my friends! how normal is this? ... (37 words)

Too old for a first boyfriend

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5800 days ago

26 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - is 30 years old too old for a first boyfriend and first kiss,i know i am pathetic... (17 words)

I've been mean to my b/f since oral sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5800 days ago

26 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ever since I gave my boyfriend head I feel like I've been really mean to him. do you think it's because I feel guilty for doing it. It was my first time and I wanted to wait until marriage for all of that stuff.. but I guess I didn't I feel really bad about myself. He says I've ... (89 words)

Sex with friends 14 year old sister?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5797 days ago

26 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i am 17 years old can i do sex with my friends sister but she is only 14 years old can i do with use of condom... (27 words)

What to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5799 days ago

26 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - there was this guy i liked from my last year english class and i kinda got over him, i mean i liked other ppl after that but i still had feelings for him..but now i’m starting to like him again and it hit me tonight that it’s our last year together..he’s going to uni, i’m goin... (170 words)

Was the other guy a rebound guy for her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5800 days ago

26 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Don't really know what to do here. A girl and I had been getting close for 2 months but were never official. She had slept with the same guy 5 different times during the 2 months and finally got caught. She came to me crying saying that she wanted me and not the other guy. ... (92 words)

Do I have to chose between my boyfriend & family for Christmas?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5801 days ago

26 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I will preface this by saying my bf is not a family guy (his family is not close and his parents were borderline abusive), while I am very close to mine. I'm trying to be understanding of this, but it's frustrating. The other piece of background info you need is that we are ... (679 words)

I think masturbating is affecting my health

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5800 days ago

26 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I am 22 yr old..but just 45 kg..i am masturbating once or twice in a week..i think it is affecting my health..But i cant control it..What should I do?... (29 words)

Should I call him back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5800 days ago

26 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all,well this guy said 4 me to call him but he wasn't home and I was so nervous I forgot to tell his mom to tell him I called so should I call him back ... (36 words)

I'm more settled than he is, and our relationship is bothering me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5800 days ago

26 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i am into relationship with this guy 4 d last 2 1/2 yrs and though he really luvs me, he dont want 2 express it...i dunno y...but sometimes i really like being pampered n told that he luvs me.... he has been maintaining d same romance frm d start....bt i feel tht i dont get... (270 words)

Will his parents every accept me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5783 days ago

26 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some advice. I am a few years older than my boyfriend, and I have a child. I left my husband for this man, and for this reason ( and for the ones named above), his parents refuse to accept me. He is also from a different culture, and this is yet another reason w... (125 words)

How do I get back with the ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5798 days ago

26 December 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I dated this guy that I really like hella A lot he is funny cute hott. but I just have never dated real I have only kissed a guy on the lips nothin else and he has done way more like have sex and stuff. well I broke up with he because since I wasn't as advanced as he was it ... (164 words)

Ex boyfriends, handjobs info

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26 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey I am a fifteen year old girl and I really need help. So my ex can't seem to let go of me. He has a girlfriend but when he gets bored with her he tries to hook up with me. He tells me how much he misses me, but he stays with his girlfriend. I think he is playing games, but I ... (88 words)

13-household items & sex

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26 December 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - im 13and a boy and i want to use house hold itams to wank cuz im bord of using my hands im also wondering if i shud try and have sex yet cuz i rilly one two its just if i have sex now i wouldent have it with any older girls so thay would have to be 13 as well and i dont want to ... (87 words)

Unprotected sex & pregnancy!

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26 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, first of all, I'm just under 19 and my ex is 18. We broke up nearly a month ago after a two year relationship and neither of us are anywhere close to being ready for a child. Which brings me to this cluster-f*ck: we've hooked up a couple times in the last month and all ... (142 words)

I'm so disappointed by my guy's x-mas present!

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26 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This Christmas I am so upset. I know it sound shallow but I got my boyfriend of 3 years a really nice skateboard (which was a very thoughtful and expensive gift) because he uses his really old beat up one everyday. The board I got him is amazing and he loves it. We are going ... (286 words)

Penis bigger than usual..why?

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26 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright so I'm wondering if anyone can explain this. A few days ago I was having sex with my girlfriend, it was the first time I'd seen her in a little while so I was pretty pent up. Anyways, she kept going on about it being bigger than usual, but I was pretty wrapped u... (209 words)

What makes someone popular? Where am I going wrong then?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5801 days ago

26 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I consider myself to be a caring and sincere person. Being a counsellor was always a dream. I have a good sense of humour I think, a couple of kids, a home, a job, a car, animals. I like being on my own for now. My kids are early teens and I think are well balanced. See thei... (294 words)

How can my daughters father not make any effort to see her at xmas? Have I made the right decision cutting him out of our life?

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26 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - my husband and i split up two months ago due to his paranoia and abusive behaviour towards me,we have the odd contact as we share a daughter whom is 8yrs old.i have been trying to rebuild a life for myself and daughter without any financial help from him,this morning i found a ... (146 words)

This guy wont go out with me because I'm inexperienced. What should I do?

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26 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - i got a huge problem theres this guy he likes me n i like him but he wont go out with me cus i havnt had sex or havnt actually kissed a guy yet what should i do??... (49 words)

Do I have trust issues or am I right to worry?

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26 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - So I'm not officially in a relationship with this guy, but we're very much a couple. For new years, he is planning on going to Whistler (a ski resort in Canada) with his best friend who is a huge major player. I trust my guy but when he's drinking he can get a little out of ... (222 words)

What can I do to prove that I love him?

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26 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I've been reading the questions and answers posted on dearcupid for quite a while now and great answers have been given! And now I have a problem of my own... this may be long so bear with me. I'm currently going out with a man who is 17 years my senior. In addition to ... (998 words)

Jealousy - I feel silly

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26 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok. I feel like an idiot for writing this but here goes. My wife and I have been married over 13 years with 2 kids and one on the way. Anyway she opened up a face book account and is now "friends" with her old boyfriend online. She never tried to hide it and all of the sudd... (140 words)

Living with bi-polar disorder

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26 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello all I am bi-polar was diagnosed about 4 years ago. I am married with 4 great kids. Having this mental disorder has really ruined things. I have done things that looking back on I can't believe I did and really feel that I was in a haze to mention the financial damage I ... (94 words)

I like the man in the relationship to take control. How do I get him to kiss ME?

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26 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been going out with a guy that I really like for three months. This is extremely pathetic, but he still hasn't kissed me yet... well, just a quick peck on the cheek... I'm worried. People have told me to make the first move. That will probably work, but I like the man in ... (67 words)

Is my friendship with this married guy going the wrong way?

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26 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Well, I've been having a long distance friendship with this guy I met 2 years ago in a delivery I made at his office (US airbase). He happened to left shortly after that, but I had to contacted him after that and since then emails have been shared. First once a month, polite ... (284 words)

Should I play hard to get to make my girl come back?

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26 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Should I make her jealous because she is confusing me, one day it looks like she has feelings for me again and saying stuff like love you so much, I miss you, few hours later it seems like she is avoiding me saying things like we need to be apart for a couple of months. So we ... (97 words)