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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I want to meet him, do you think I should?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5837 days ago

28 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya, I wrote in earlier this year (few months/weeks back) to ask for peoples opinions of whether or not i should meet this incredible man from belfast. I am 17, and i live in glasgow. He thinks i am 21 however, but we really do get on great, we speak on the phone all the time... (605 words)

I've been dumped out of the blue... what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

28 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I have recently been dumped, we were going out for a month after knowing each other for over 4 months. It was all going really well until suddenly she started having doubts, but not sharing them with me, just throught her bulletins in myspace. she did it over msn because ... (146 words)

Sex help needed!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

28 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend have been dating for over a year now and have done everything sexually you can before sex. We have talked about it a couple times and she said that she wouldnt do anything serious until after a year. Clearly we are past this point and i have brought up the ... (143 words)

We want to move in together, what do I tell my parents?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5837 days ago

28 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi I have a question about moving in with my boyfriend. I'm 19 and he is 19. we have been friends for about three years but in a long distance relationship for 6 months. he stays in indiana and he's in school and has his own apartment. he's a really good person. he's doesn't do ... (193 words)

How to make friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

28 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so I've been so very lonely for the past 5 years because since 2003 I still don't have a single friend.. I do have many friends back in China but when I come here in Ireland things change.. I don't know what's the problem.. I dont want to be a loner anymore.. Want to change ... (69 words)

I was just wondering can I predict how big my boobs are gonna be at the end of the pregnancy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

28 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hi, I'm 2 months pregnant, I was just wondering can I predict how big my boobs are gonna be at the end of the pregnancy? I'm a 34e now so what does everyone think they will be? plz help I want to be prepared xxx... (48 words)

She's always wearing pyjamas when you go to her house, does this mean she just thinks of me as a friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

28 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I am soon going to stay around a girl's house for four days, we have talk about sexual activities. And every day I take a picture of her and wank over her. ... (33 words)

If a girl that you're interested is always wearing pyjamas when you go to her house, does she just think of you as a friend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5836 days ago

28 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - If a girl that you're interested is always wearing pyjamas when you go to her house, does she just think of you as a friend? I'm not talking sexy negligee or lingerie, I'm talking flannel matching top and bottom pajamas. Don't get me wrong, she still looks amazing. Her ha... (91 words)

Should it be me that makes the next move to arrange to see him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5806 days ago

28 December 2008 (F)

- Hi there, A few months ago, a friend of mine introduced me to her male friend. She gave him my number a few weeks after this (she told me she was going to, not because I told her to) and a couple days later, I had a text message from him. We chatted via text message for a wh... (548 words)

I don't get what I want!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5835 days ago

28 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Im feeling down about the way I am. I'm an attractive 22 yr old female, I get hit on by guys all the time, I like the attention, but I don't take any of these guys seriously. Im so picky! At the rate I'm going, I dont think I'll ever find a good guy, on top of the fact that ... (256 words)

Just lost my job and boyfriend says I should go to live with my dad...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5836 days ago

28 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been living with my boyfriend for 9 years, I am getting laid off from my job next month my bf says I should go and live with my dad, my dad does not know we are living together, I really am confused, I don't know what to do. I want to stay with my boyfriend.... (58 words)

I am heart broken... does he know he broke my heart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

28 December 2008 (F)

age - Ok so I was in a horrible abusive marriage and found true love somewhere else. The new BF was in a dead marriage with no love. We fell for each other hard. Whirlwind romance for over a year. We both filed for divorce... But real life sets in- custody issues, money issues, ... (117 words)

Is it wrong to date my dads ex wife's son?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

28 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it wrong to date my dads ex wife's son? Even if they aren't married any more, but my dad has a son with her which makes him my half brothers half brother???... (34 words)

In love with her cousin, what must I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

28 December 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Im a 36 year old man. My fiance' is 32. Im in love with her cousin who is 32. My fiance and I never got along during our 10 year relationship. She's not financially stable. Her cousin is the ideal woman for me. Her cousins boyfriend is just like my fiance'. I think we should ... (112 words)

He is not who he pretends to be, please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5833 days ago

28 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello.. My name is Shiyu.. i have been in a relationship since 2 n half years. i love him like a crazy but he lied to me alwayz Firstly he lied to me about his financial status. He is a normal middle class guy. HE lied to me about his studies but he had left it in betwee... (205 words)

Gemini Female and Libra Male, Marriage Potential?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5822 days ago

28 December 2008 (F)

age - Does anyone have input on a Gemini Female and Libra Male relationship? I feel like it is a match made in heaven-it is a long distance one but wow. Would love to hear +++ or --- personal stories. Also Marriage potential between a Gemini Female and a Libra Male.... (52 words)

Finding inner peace without God..advise please!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

28 December 2008 (F) age 41-50 - It is a spiritual question, and I hope I can get some opinion. I'm not a religious person on this point, but I wish to reach out for some spiritual answers and help. It is difficult ,as I can't pray to a God I don;t believe in on this point. I wish to , but it didn't happen ... (254 words)

My 17 year old boyfriend wants to have sex...I'm afraid!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5576 days ago

28 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - hi,i'm 14 years old and my boyfriend is 17 he's always asking me if we could have sex but i'm afraid!! should i or not at this age?... (29 words)

Gay guy is touching my privates

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

28 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i have a male friend i like him a lot,he just touch my body and touch my private parts and sit on my private parts i dont know what to do,is he a gay answer fast please... (38 words)

He said yes ...but yes to what??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

28 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I met a guy that works in my local pub and we have been flirting for a few weeks now. I'm new to the dating scene as I have been in a long-term relationship for a number of years so I need some help please to understand the signs. This guy told a mutual friend that he h... (210 words)

Don't trust and afraid of being hurt

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5836 days ago

28 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a problem with trusting boys. i used to trust them but i hear things and it just makes me think they're all the same. i have a boyfriend and i love him so much, and he loves me. but i hear guys around my school and they talk about cheating on their girlfriends. i would ... (199 words)

Single and pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

28 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok I was talking to this guy... we've been talking for a while.. And one day we had sex... Big mistake.. He used a condom the first time.. Then we went at it again.. But he didn't clean himself after he took off the condom... Although we waited like 20 minutes until we did it ... (186 words)

Do I have an atachment problem?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5836 days ago

28 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a girlfriend and we have been dating on and off for 2 years; we break up then after 1-3 days we are back to together then it repeats after a week or 2. I am confused about this relationship. I don't know whether this has grown into and attachment problem after being with ... (279 words)

How do I make him forget the ex wife?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

28 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, im 'dating' a guy 12 years older then myself, he has been divorced for 2 years now although his ex wife is still not out of his system. Maybe times he would talk about her and tell me things of her when we are places they were together. Every now and then i dream of her ... (294 words)

We don't trust each other!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5835 days ago

28 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - he im new to this but i really dont know what to do.let me start be saying this i had to have surgery and i was so scared of have to go through something along.i ask god please send me someone to help me through this and he did.we met a week before i had surgery and he was ... (106 words)

Being stalked..what to do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5836 days ago

28 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it ok to hit a man or get someone else to hit him if he is stalking you and threatening to harm your child? I've been to the police but they say there is nothing they can do. I'm at my wits end. Help.... (48 words)

Morning after pill didn't work?? Pregnancy?

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28 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my bf had unprotected sex about 2 and a half weeks ago (very silly, I know) so the next morning (within 13 hours) i had taken the Morning After Pill. Two weeks after I had taken it, my period was due, and I was confident that the pill would work seeing as I took it soon ... (164 words)

I'm very depressed and need help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

28 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I am Not Good!! I am going through a bad depression to where all i can do is sleep in and cry not wanting to get up in the morning and lay around all day .Im not working right now as I hurt my back and I am going through therapy. I am also going through a divorce .I feel so ... (157 words)

Am I gay or is it just lust?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5835 days ago

28 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok i only have sex way guys i like having a cock in my mouth and ass the bigger the better and i have gay sex toys and use then alot. but heres the thing i dont love the men i have inside me. i'm not in the dark my family and friends know i have sex with men but i could ne... (93 words)

My teacher is flirting,sending texts..what to do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5804 days ago

28 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a major issue with my teacher! He's constantly flirting with me, he texts, rings and emails me. and now I think something may happen between us...the way things are going. I want to stop but at the same time I cant because I'm starting to like him I can't write muc... (102 words)

Relationship with step brother wrong?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5793 days ago

28 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel really confused and don't know what to do, me and my step-brother (not blood related) are kind of having a relationship, i always worry about what happens if my mom and step dad or dad and step mom find out, they kind of know somethings going on but not everything... ... (129 words)

Does he love me for real?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

28 December 2008 (F)

age - Question to all of my cyber cupid angels. The guy I have been seeing for the last eight months called me in the middle of the night-after a night of drinking- and told me he had to tell me something he never has before. "I am falling for you and I want to be able to love you ... (101 words)

When I was younger my brother forced me into having sexual activities...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

28 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi there, when I was younger my brother 4 years older than me forced me into sexual activities. I hated it, I use to beat him to stop! He was so much stronger, I couldn't do anything! I have never told anyone before! Shall I? or shall I keep it in for the rest of my life, wh... (89 words)

I can't move on...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5831 days ago

28 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I met my girlfriend 2 weeks after we had been chatting on the internet. It was love at first sight and we both had the best day of our lives, it felt like we had both known eachother all our lives. We lived 100 miles from one another, and the first 6 months were magi... (313 words)

What is causing this white discharge?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

28 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This is quite a personal question. I hope you can help me out with the problem. Some mornings when I get up and go to the bathroom, my underwear has white stuff (like a big blob of it) on it. I don't know what it is. Any ideas? ... (59 words)

I don't want to give him a call card and he uses it to call other girls!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5837 days ago

28 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have got a boyfriend of 26 years and I am 20 years. He keeps asking me to send a call card to him. but when I am with him he spends for me. We quarrel over sex every time we meet cos I am a virgin and he also is a virgin and I am scared of losing my virginity, I also doubt ... (136 words)

My husband has beaten me up.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

28 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Can you help. My husband has beaten me up. What happened was I had affair with his brother and got pregnant. We tried to work through it but my husband had a mental breakdown and was admitted to hospital. When he came out he was a changed person. He also lost his job. We... (82 words)

Can men just be friends with girls?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5835 days ago

28 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - How do men honestly feel about attractive, good looking and even hot female friends? Many of my boyfriend's female friends are gorgeous. He has known them for several years and claims that he only has platonic relationships with them. Is it possible to really just stay purely ... (106 words)

How can I trust him more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

28 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 months. We have been on and off for 3 years and have known eachother for 4. Things started off great, but I started getting really clingy after 2 months or so. Every now and then, I accuse him if I cant get a hold of him, I hate whe... (312 words)

Can it be my hymen?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5835 days ago

28 December 2008 (?) age 26-29 - Hey everyone thanks for any help. The other night I tryed fingering myself but I could'nt get my finger in, there was like a layer of skin. It was blocking the entrance for my finger. Im really worried coz I dont no what it is. Is it my hymen? Also will it hurt as much as sex ... (79 words)

I am 19 years old and feel so unconfident around guys... it's terrible!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5837 days ago

28 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 19 years old and have only had one boyfriend, and really recently. I went out with him for about a month and broke up with him because he just acted too immature all the time. I was surprised that he went out with me because I am not the best looking and he was very ... (325 words)

I try to improve my looks to get a boyfriend but I'm always taken so seriously.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

28 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel I will never measure up to other girls who always get boyfriends, nice guys and jerks want to go out with these. People tell me I should improve on how I look but I can't. I am not very feminine. I look awful. I don't like going to the hairdessers, my hair is ... (168 words)

I cheated on my husband with his best friend...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

28 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a very young girl and I am married and just recently had a baby... Well I have wondered for a while what it would be like to be with another man because my husband is the only one I have only ever been with... so last night I cheated on him and it was with his best ... (86 words)

I'm really worried about my brother and think he is on a downward spiral!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

28 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am writing about my 34 year old brother who I am deeply concerned about. He has never had a girlfriend, the most he has ever done is kissed one girl in a spin the bottle game. He is a hopeless romantic, has a good job as a pharmacist for over 10 years, yet gets very stressed ... (365 words)

Why did I ever let myself be fooled with flattery etc?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

28 December 2008 (M) age 51-59 - I have been with my partner for the past 4 years. We have 2 children and another due in 6 months time. A few weeks ago at the beginning of december, I was at the usual office party and a co worker came on to me strong and told me she was crazy about me. We snogged all ... (248 words)

I love my wife but not in love any more... plus another relationship, what to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

28 December 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I've been married just short of 3 years to what works out to really be my high school sweetheart. She is a wonderful person and loves me very much. I also love her but after 15 years of being together 3 married and 12 dating on and off I don't think I want to spend the rest of ... (213 words)

My partner abuses me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

28 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm so confused and don't know what to do. I have been with my partner for 3 years and I love him so much. He is a lot older than me. In the past, women have taken him for a ride and he finds it hard to trust anyone and this has affected his temper somewhat. He gets mad and ... (167 words)

My mum doesn't like my boyfriend... what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

28 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a boyfriend and we love each other very much. I didn't let my parents know about him, but a week ago, my mom saw our picture on his website and now she told me not to date him any more because she doesn't like his appearance, and he is not from a wealthy family. :( ... (135 words)

What is my ex trying to achieve?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

28 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Back in June 07 me and my ex split up since then we haven't spoken two words to eachother until recently, when i have been going clubbing he has been trying to speak to me and everywhere i am at in the club he is right behind me holding a drink for me. Since we split he has had ... (227 words)

I'm too jealous and I don't understand why!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5835 days ago

28 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I've got a bit of a problem. I'm too jealous and I don't understand why!!! My boyfriend watches a lot of porn and I get absolutely furious about it. I don't understand what my problem is, because I love too watch it myself!!! I love watching it with him too, but when I ... (173 words)

He does not want to leave his wife for fear that he would lose his child.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

28 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I fell in love with a married man. He claims he loves me deeply and I'm his true love. While he is married, he has no love for his wife, who abuses him verbally and uses their child against him. She guards their daughter, tells her lies about the father, and tries all ways and ... (219 words)

Does it seem to you like he's cheating? Opinions please!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

28 December 2008 (F) age 36-40 - Hi I'm 22 nearly 23. I'm a mother of 2 and third one is on the way. My fiancee is nearly 30 and I think my husbund is cheating on me. I'm 7 months pregnant and he hasn't touched me since he found out bascially. He goes out till late, not calling and phone switched off and... (144 words)

My wife left with our 5 kids in December and I'm cracking up without her...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

28 December 2008 (M)

age - I've been married 8 years and my wife left me in December saying she can't cope any more. I want her back with our 5 children, she's only 27 years old and I love her and our children very much. It's been a very lonely xmas, she has put herself and our children in the care of ... (262 words)

Is it normal for a guy in his thirties to have wet dreams?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

28 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Is it normal for a guy in his 30's to still have wet dreams? I get them almost every night, and since I don't have a clothes washer I cannot keep changing sheets. What do I do? I am feeling very uneasy and worried about this. Thank you in advance.... (50 words)

My ex is an illegal immigrant.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5837 days ago

28 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend is an illegal alien and this is the reason he broke up with me. He does not want me to be attached if he gets sent back to his country. I can't go because I have a little girl and el salvador would not be good for her. The thing is nothing changed still flirts, ... (168 words)

I feel romantically attracted to my dog!!!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5836 days ago

28 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been having some very strange feelings about my beautiful Dobermann Pincher named Shelly. I have owned her for aout 6 years and she has been a wonderful, loving and loyal pet. It just feels like more than that lately. I don't have many friends and I haven't had a ... (110 words)

Can anyone help me understand my reactions?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

28 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok here is my question. I realise it may offend some people but I am seeking advice for a problem like anyone else. I have feelings too and hope they count as much as the next person. My problem is with gay men, a few years ago my problem was not there. Over the last 6 months I... (167 words)

Will I ever get over the anger?

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28 December 2008 (F)

age - Last summer I fell in love with my best friend. We kissed and made out and decided not to talk about it yet we spoke 3-4 times a day and we were together almost every night. We flirted like crazy and the continued over the phone for a couple of months cause she moved away..One ... (308 words)

Why do guys act so childish, disrespectful?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5836 days ago

28 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok this may seem messed up, but my whole life consists on that. I caught a girl checking out my guy. He gets so mad like red in the face throwing things and so on if a guy looks at me. But yet i let the b!tch know what i thought of her, and he told me off for it. So i started ... (201 words)

I still love the ex I dumped!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5837 days ago

28 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I broke up with my boyfriend a few years ago in a panic even though I was still in love with him. He was nice about it and moved on. He's been dating this girl who used to be my good friend for over a year now and I'm still in love with him. I tried to move on and thought ... (246 words)

LDR--he didn't communicate and I ended it-mistake?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5837 days ago

28 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hello everyone, I was/am having a LDR for about 9 months, and we are so in love and seriously its amazing how much we have in common for example the same birthday, sometimes its scary how much we have in common. But at the start of the relationship he would just go for 48 h... (193 words)

LDR--how often do couples communicate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5830 days ago

28 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm dating a guy in a long-distance relationship and I'm wondering how often we should communicate. I've known him for 4 months and we've been dating for 2 months now. He's a Ph.D student (getting his Ph.D next spring) and he also teaches. We talk about 2 or 3 times a week, ... (282 words)

Lots of problems all rolled up together

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

28 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been dating this girl on and off for 3 years (mostly on). We have been through so much stuff. From our family's hating the other, to jealousy, to control issues, etc.) Well, we broke up about two years in for almost four months. We broke up because I was having some maj... (462 words)

Secret relationship with best friend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

28 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hi to everyone, i need your advice about this im falling to my best friend and i can say she's hot which i think is not that good because she has a boyfriend who is one of my friend she's my friend for a long time which leads us to become best friends we're like brothe... (623 words)

My baby's father questions the baby is his, I'm hearbroken and alone...

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

28 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm currently pregnant and due on Valentines Day, February 14th. I am depressed and alone. I mean..my family is around but having my sons dad around during my pregnancy would be grateful unfortunately, we've been in and out of our relationships. I mentioned it to ... (199 words)

Should I feel bad for being happy that I didn't end up marrying her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

28 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - About 8 years ago, I dated a girl who I had known for a couple of years after her divorce. We started out as friends and dated on and off for 3 years. We broke up because I wanted to get married and have children and so on, but she was unable to commit. I understood, told ... (233 words)

He is a Flirt: how to make him stop?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

28 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am concerned with my boyfriends flirting. I have never questioned him until now (6 months into the relationship). I recieved a forward from HIS myspace to a girl. And was one line that made me happy and several that just had me heart broken. "Ill be honest too, I have been... (212 words)

My boyfriend hit and abused me, how can I trust another guy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

28 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok im 15 and not that smart so if i spell wrong please dont make fun of me. ok well i had this boyfriend that i loved verymuch but one day something went wrong he became mad 4 every little thing i would do. i once was talking to a guy that i new 4 a long time and he got so mad ... (378 words)

My husband is a crossdresser, I dislike this and suspect he is gay, any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

28 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I need any advice I can get, I realize my situation isn't the norm so it really doesn't matter if you've had personal experience just tell me how you would handle my relationship? I'll try to make my very long story short and to the point but it may not be easy (sigh)! ... (763 words)

Wrong to date my half brothers half brother?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5830 days ago

28 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - my dad married a woman that had 2 kids, then had another child with her, which made me a step sister and half sister. my dad is divorces now, is it wrong to date my half brothera half brother even though im no longer a step sister???... (47 words)

Love is it too complicated

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

28 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - please help me. i dont know what to do. i have fallen head over hills for my best friend. and i just cant stop thinking about it. i think about him constantly, and i find myself wanting to txt him or just talk to him that way i feel close to him. i dream about him, and get the ... (175 words)

Reasons why a guy would talk to a girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

28 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - what are some reason why a guy would want to talk to a girl... (14 words)

How's it feel to have sex with same gender

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5833 days ago

28 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hmmmmm how does it feel to have sex with the same gender....?... (12 words)

Want a relationship, I'm bi

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

28 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - First off, my situation. I'm bi, but only a few ppl know. I have a friend, mybest friend and I really like him. He knows how I feel, he says he even likes me some. But he only recently came out to me as bi and I'm the only who knows. I really want to go out with him, but I'... (78 words)

What do the guys look for in girls!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

28 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - What kind of Looks does a guy look for in a girl? Blonde hair? Pretty nose? Big Mouth? Big B00bs? big booty? being thin? being tall? being stupid(not really a look but still common in many girls with boyfriends)... (39 words)

He doesn't text me back!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5402 days ago

28 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been going out with my boyfriend for over 3 weeks now and it really aggrevates me that I text him 1-2 times a day and sometimes he never even texts me back. he says he likes me alot blah blah but why doesn't he say a simple hey how are you?? Especially today (saturday) ... (197 words)

Forbidden relationship with teacher

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

28 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i am in relationship with my teacher.... it's been a week and im still nervous and scared to be caught.. i dont want her to lose her job.. but on the other hand im soo happy. no way im letting her go.. she's the most beautiful thing on earth. to avoid getting caught we could... (182 words)

In love with friend but she doesn't return it

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28 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, I recently contacted an old friend of mine that I had not spoken to in a while to wish her a Happy Thanks Giving. After the initial contact a new friendship was rekindled from it and we have been attached by the hips ever since. I have somehow found myself having fe... (235 words)

In love with a moonie

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

28 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I am madly in love with a member of a cult. She admits to loving me but she fears god... I need help. It hurts to see her do this to herself... i just found this out and I'm on the verge of tears........ ... (44 words)

We broke up but we still love each other and I'm really confused

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5834 days ago

28 December 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Im in a scary situation right now and im so unsure about what im doing. my ex and i were together for what would have been two years this may. we broke up in august, got back together on and off for a while and broke up for good on thanksgiving. he kept changing his mind abo... (794 words)

Leave my guy for what could be just someone I fancy?

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28 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - There is a man i have fancied from afar for a long time. I dont know him very well, however the other night, we were both at the same bar for a party, and we hit it off, flirted all night, and ended up kissing... Thing is, i am currently in a relationship which i just dont seem ... (275 words)

Depressed & lonely! Need help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5823 days ago

28 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 17 year old and live in NYC.. Since I can remember I've never had friends for long.. Since age 14 I dont have any friends male or female... I DONT GO ANYWHERE.I only care for a boyfriend as my companionship.BTW:I am only ATTRACTED TO OLDER MEN AGED 20 TO 27. I have suffered ... (137 words)

Do I go with the crush?

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28 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a crush on a guy, and recently found out he feels the same, however i am currently seeing someone. He knows i am seeing someone, and is leaving me to sort out what i want. Thing is, i have been with my guy for over a year, and still can not imagine having his child... (110 words)

I'm 13 and ready for sex --how to tell my boyfriend!?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5174 days ago

28 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - hi im 13 and my question is how do i tell my boyfriend im ready for sex??? me and my boyfriend been together for along time and told me to tell him when im ready but i dont know how...can u help me oh yea i thought this over for the last 2months... (62 words)

I kissed a girl

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

28 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Iam 17 and hav just kisd a 14 year old girl is this ok.... (14 words)

Nasty texts! How can I find out who is sending them?

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28 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - recently, a few of my friends have been recieving anonymous text messages from somebody which have not been very nice. we know the person sending this knows us, as references are made to personal things, but the person seems to be using an anonymous number. is there anything we ... (86 words)

My b/f wants a virgin..I lied and told him I was!

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28 December 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I have been recently dating thsi guy, we are together for two months and a bit now. He does not know i am not a virgin, no one does. The other day we were talking about things and he is a virgin, and told me how he wanted his fisrt time to be with a virgin, because there "was ... (116 words)

Someone took my virginity!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5835 days ago

28 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok im jst going to ask a real quick question im really scared someone took my virginity the other day and we have sex and he used condom but then after we done it im start to feeling kinda sick like my tummy hurttt soo bad and I feel throwin up do u think im pregnant or not ? ... (62 words)

Mood disorder?

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28 December 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I think i suffer from some mood disorder, ro something. at time si feel EXTREME happines and at others i just want to dissapear, hurt myself then i sumtimes i feel very irritable and get moody easily. what could it be?... (47 words)

Feel like a jerk-what should I do?

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28 December 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Hello all, well, my situation is simple yet complex. I was dating this FANTASTIC guy for almost two years and only now i realize what a jerk i had been to him, and nevertheless he always forgave me and understood me and was always with me. I broke up with him for the second ... (296 words)

My husband is an alcoholic & addict but I love him! how can I help him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

28 December 2008 (F)

age - I have been married to my husband for 27 years, and a few months ago I found out he was having a affair with a woman he met at a treatment facility. He is a Alcoholic and is Bipolar. This woman is also an Alcoholic and Addict. The first thing I did was yell, scream and cry, ... (253 words)

2 kids another on way, think my man is cheating on me!

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28 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi im 22 nearly 23 ima mother of 2 and third one is on the way my fiancee is nearly 30 and i think my husbund is cheating on me im 7 months pregnant he hasnt touched me since he found out bascially he goes out till late not calling and phone switched off and tells me its ... (144 words)

Should I wait a few more days?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5831 days ago

28 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend had sex while i was on my period without a condom. i was spose to get my period around the 20-22nd of this month but it hasnt come. i dont have any signs of being pregnant so what do you think? should i wait a couple more days?... (52 words)

She doesn't want to have sex/tatoo should I drop her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

28 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi can you help me out. My friends 8 of us have decided to go out on the town and have tatoo's done. Also we are all trying to get laid. However my best friend Susan is not coming and says we are all dim wits. Should i remain friends with her? ... (55 words)

I have boy friends and a boyfriend who thinks they are more than friends... help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5836 days ago

28 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - so i have a boyfriend.. we went out before, all summer. now we're going out again. it's been a little over a month so far and it's just amazing. i really feel like i'm in love with him. people say you'll know it when it happens.. and we really believe that we love each other. ... (199 words)

The note I'd love to give to my Spanish teacher, but won't...

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28 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I’ve had massive crush on my Spanish teacher for few years. I know nothing is going to happen between us; she’s married and I’m under-age. I sure miss her when I don’t see her, especially on weekends. I’m really having a hard time now since we are off for the holidays. I ... (327 words)

How do I get to know him better?

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28 December 2008 (F) - I like a guy who works at the gym I go to. He has the most beautiful eyes. He oversees the gym and helps people with the equipment when asked. I don't think he is a personal trainer. He seems to be working almost everytime I go to workout, I can't leave without him smiling ... (171 words)

I love my best guy friend but he's going out with my best friend.

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28 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I love my best guy friend but he's going out with my best friend and I want to tell her that I like him but I'm too scared. He also calls me a lot, I try to ignore him at school but I can't. I try to ignore his phone calls but he keeps on calling me. He also makes me laugh ... (72 words)

Can a warm, kind feminine heart survive in the harsh environment we live in.

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28 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Can a warm, kind feminine heart survive in the harsh environment we live in? Have they been hardened to survive. I know what I'm looking for but where is it? Should I look towards another country/culture? Become religious? Join some hippy commune? Make do with what's a... (64 words)

Should I alert him to what his girlfriend is doing (prostituting)?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

28 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex and I broke up over 2.5 years ago. I got over him pretty quickly and am now happily married. The problem is, his "new" girlfriend is an insecure piece of trash and has been cyber stalking me for the past two years. She would send me hateful e-mails and call my home num... (158 words)

What is the correct way to address your contemporary?

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28 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Why is it common to address another man as mate? I've looked in the dictionary and it gives two conflicting views. The sexual partner of an animal. A marriage partner. A friend of the same sex usually male. What is the correct way to address your contemporary?... (55 words)

My boyfriend sleeps with other women when he gets drunk!

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28 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I need some advice, so anyone who could be of any help - i'd really appreciate it! I have been dating my boyfriend for about a year - on and off. But we grew up together. anyways, during our off times, he goes to parties - gets drunk - and sleeps with other girls (including ... (215 words)

We broke up a month ago but he still flirts with me...

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28 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Boyfriend broke up with me 1 month ago. Wanted to be friends. Nothing changed, still sees me and flirts at work, even spent Christmas eve and day with me and daughter. Made comment I need to get out of management so he can kiss me at work before his decision. Now this week on ... (67 words)

Is it a reason to cheat on someone because he/she is skinny?

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28 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well i never done this but i need to get this off of my chest. Ever since my ex cheated on me, i'm having difficulties with my self esteem. The thing is he cheated on me with a girl who has more curves then i do(probably size 10 or 12) and i'm a size 2. I have been always ski... (211 words)

Please help - need advice

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28 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help, am feeling lost and in need of some advice. I have found out after my partner of 3 years used my laptop to access the internet that he has subscribed to a dating site. We have been in a what I thought was a good relationship for 3 years - what do I do? ... (56 words)

I am a straight girl who has always had feelings for women and have in the past acted on my feelings.

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28 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a straight girl who has always had feelings for women and have in the past acted on my feelings ...until now it has never been anything other than a fumble. i met a lesbian through mutal friends and we have gone from friends to lovers. she is brilliant and i really do want ... (187 words)

Did I really start my period?

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28 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay this is kinda awkward but I have been getting this brown discharge (it started last month for about a week) and I know that it means I'm about to start my period for the first time, well about two days ago it started again and today when I got out of the shower I went to ... (105 words)

Missed taking pill 5 days and now could be pregnant...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5836 days ago

28 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay I have a problem I have been on birth control for about 2 months now well I forgot to fill the prescription for my 3rd refill and their were 5 days I didnt take to pill. Well on the 5th day I took the pill and then that night me and my husband had intercouse and he ... (124 words)

When is the safest time of the month?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5835 days ago

28 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - It will be my girlfriend's first time (not mine) and we don't want to use a condom to make it special. When would be the safest time of the month for us to do this (and I ejaculate inside her). I know no time is 100% safe but I know that it's much less likely to happen ... (81 words)