A
male
age
41-50,
*manio
writes: Have been in relationship with alady for about 10yrs. we haven't had sex tog' and recently i fail to communicate with her for about 3wks and she call saying that may be i am comparing here with someone else or am thinking smthng else or may be Gods plan for us to break. is what must be the case. she doesn't want me? or she don't want to loose me. Along with that she told me that she will return the ring to me. Help please. am stressed Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, petina1 +, writes (4 December 2008):
She may want more than a ring, she may want marriage. After all 10 years together, most people have lived and had a life together. This may be the time to take control of your life, sounds like you have been dragging your heels. Women want more out of life than a ring. You could try asking her to marry you, and then you will find out if that is whats upsetting her. Otherwise I'm sure she knows what she wants after 10 years with you. You must let her go if thats what she wants as well. hope this helps.
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