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Is my masturbation an addiction or a phase I'm going through?

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Question - (4 December 2008) 9 Answers - (Newest, 28 May 2009)
A male Mozambique age 30-35, anonymous writes:

What`s up guys. I`ve got a question that im really concerned about. Here it goes: myself im 18years old and ive never had sex with a girl and don`t have a girlfriend. So to satisfy my sex appetite, i am used to masturbating a lot. Sometimes i can even jerk off 4 to 5 times a week. Been a virgin i want to know whether it is an addiction to sex or it is just a phase that im going through? I would appreciate some reply. Thanks for ur time

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A male reader, jordan888 Sweden +, writes (28 May 2009):

jordan888 agony aunt4-5 times a week, dude I'd do that in a day O.o a lot of guys would too... NO your probably on a very very avarage scale!

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (5 December 2008):

DoubleM agony auntWell I must differ with some others regarding how much masturbation is reasonable, but your frequency is well within the normal amount for a young man with raging hormones. In your age bracket, even daily relief is quite reasonable, although I would think that four or more times a day means that a young man seriously needs to lay off the porn and get a girlfriend. Otherwise, one may become so addicted to masturbation that normal sex with a woman, when available, may be difficult.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2008):

people do that amount in a day. For me, it makes me feel better and more at peace in my mind. I say do it as much as your body will allow, it can't do any harm.

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A male reader, yum yum Switzerland +, writes (5 December 2008):

yum yum agony auntIt is not a phase!. Masterbating is normal and most healthy people would do it once a day. If you have sex with a partner it is important to masterbate in order to control your orgasim longer so you don't come too quick. Masterbating regulary can help avoid prostate cancer when you get older and its also good as a stress reliever and also good to release sexual tention. So in conclusion it is imporant to masterbate for many reasons. Take care!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2008):

Masturbation is perfectly normal,( even when you are in a relationship). I think you must relax; you have no need to worry. The frequency of how often you masturbate is not serious and may vary from time to time. Don't stress and accept this as a very normal way to release your body of sexual frustration.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2008):

im a girl and i do it more than that...you're fine lol

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States +, writes (4 December 2008):

TasteofIndia agony aunt4-5 times a week? Nahhh, you're okay. Maybe if it was 4-5 times a DAY, you'd have a problem.

You're totally fine!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2008):

You're human. You're a young male in his prime. Humans like sex. I vote for normal ;)

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A female reader, petina1 United Kingdom +, writes (4 December 2008):

petina1 agony auntI't s perfectly normal so don't worry about it at all.

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