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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Will her tightness go away?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5833 days ago

1 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Well this is kind of a reply to this question I asked a week ago http://www.dearcupid.org/question/will--my-true-feelings-interfere-with-us.html . Things have been going great with her after our first date we hit it off and this sunday we were fooling around and we had sex with ... (153 words)

Feeling Lost -sorry for the length

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

1 December 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Hello, I seem to be troubled with my g/f and mostly our sex life. We've been together for almost 8 years and just had our second child. I love her very much and thought about marriage several times. We had great sex were both of us were satisfied. We would have sex several ... (380 words)

Will this rumor ruin my chance of getting back with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5833 days ago

1 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Me and my boyfriend of two years just recently broke up. we tried hooking up for a while but I decided we shouldnt hook up with out dating. Im still deeply in love with him and would do anything to get him back. now the problem is, theres a rumor going around that i hooked up ... (95 words)

How long does a penis have to be to break a hymen?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5833 days ago

1 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Can a three inch penis break a girls hymen? i wanted to know how much it takes, i know you can pop it fingering yourself or with tampons but how long does a dick have to be to pop it?... (40 words)

What’s the best approach to get to this guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5832 days ago

1 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I’m so confused about this right now so please help! A friend of mine was going to set me up with a friend of hers and asked me to check his profile out on her Facebook before she mentioned me to him. I had a look and wasn’t too interested and told her so. BUT…while lookin... (380 words)

I need to know how to give a BJ to my BF bad!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5163 days ago

1 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok im 15 and my bf says he wants me to give him a bj but i dont really know how to do it. like i know u suck but i dont know like quite how to suck. i really really want to but i dont know how to please him. can u help me and i also need to know how to make it feel REALLY GOOD ... (90 words)

I'm tired of the pain she causes me, how do I leave her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5833 days ago

1 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - There is a girl i love who is my friend but is very flirty and it causes me great sorrow because she doesn't flirt with me only with other boys. How do i break up with her because i am tired of the pain she is causing me.... (48 words)

I just found out that my BF cheated on me 4 times, how do I deal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5833 days ago

1 December 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I just found out my boyfriend cheated on me 4 times (1 of them was my best friend) and he didn't tell me about any of them. I found out from everyone else. I'm in love with him and don't want to let him go but hes betrayed me and hurt me. How do I deal with this?... (58 words)

Does he like me? I feel like I need a manual to read this guy!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5833 days ago

1 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey everybody, thanks in advance for your opinions so i guess i wondering what is going on with this guy i am seeing... so he 10 years older, and we met through a mutual friend, we met mid september we hung out every weekend he was home (he works out of town abou... (649 words)

Fellas, how do you really feel about pretty 19 year old virgins?!?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

1 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 19 year old virgin... take my word for it, its not because lack of offers.... I'm moving to Scotland and going to live on my own... I feel like an "adult" but I still haven't had sex, oral sex, I haven't been fingered or nothing! Every time the topic comes up I feel lik... (110 words)

How can I solve this problem without leaving him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5833 days ago

1 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years after 5 years we broke up and then i found out that he was lying and cheating on me all that time so i had a relation with another guy and we had sex one time. after 1 year i got back to my ex-boyfriend and i told him that i had sex ... (147 words)

How can I get closure with him so that I can get on with my life and be happy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5833 days ago

1 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I recently had a boyfriend leave me without giving a reason. He just stopped talking to me. We had a disagreement on the phone the last time we spoke (political in nature, not personal), then nothing. We were together a year and 4 months, never had fights, got along well, ... (230 words)

Is my penis big enough for my age?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

1 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - am i big enough? i am almost 14 years old and my penis is 4.5 inches long and 3 inches girth. i dont think i am big enough for my age. am i rong or right. what is the average size for ME? also, i do not "shoot" yet. is this normal... (52 words)

My Mom thinks it'll be eaiser to break up and stay friends, but it's not that easy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5833 days ago

1 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 13, and am obviously unsure of my sexuality and who i like etc etc. but i do have a girlfriend. She has had girlfriends before and is more serious than i am, and everything has been fine until recently when my mum found out. My mum is not against gay relationships, but ... (231 words)

How can I give him confidence so that he'll kiss me again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5833 days ago

1 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for over 2 year. He's great, the relationship is great, and we have our problems like everyone else. But over the last year he's become less... affectionate, for lack of better word. He'll hug me and all when I ask him. I know its a ... (368 words)

Should I finish with this guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

1 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya. Right I've been going out with this guy for almost 3 weeks now, not long I know. Problem is, I like these 2 other guys, there is no chance of anything happening with either of them as they are both off to the Marines next year. My boyfriend knows both of these guys. I ... (263 words)

Should I pay attention to the guy I like, or the guy who likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

1 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - there is this guy i am in love with and there is another guy who i like and who is also interested in me i dont know whether i should carry on lovin that guy or whether i should pay attention to the guy which is interested in me?... (49 words)

Do I still love my ex or is it just that I need closure?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5833 days ago

1 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I confronted my boyfriend today about the feelings I still have for my ex boyfriend, I can not understand how I am feeling, do I still love my ex, or am I seeking closure, etc? All I know is that I cant stop thinking about my ex and what could have been and feel constantly ... (162 words)

Why is his semen clear??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5833 days ago

1 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. Okay so let me start by saying i'm 17. (my age is wrong on this) anyway. So i just started giving my boyfriend handjobs, and his cum is clear. (Hes hit puberty and all) (hes 18) Why is it clear and not a whiteish color? I'm worried. Is something not right or wrong. (we ... (76 words)

All I want is to be able to have her half the time.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5833 days ago

1 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Well here it is. Me and my girlfriend of 5 years had a baby last year. She just turned 1 last week. For a while had been using meth. My girlfriend found out about 4 months ago. In a way I thank god she did or I would morelikely still be using. But anyways she found out and ... (793 words)

How to start a conversation with a fifteen year old girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5833 days ago

1 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I'm from puerto rico and I'm fourteen and theres this girl from high school that I want to talk. And I cant find the way to talk to her and start a conversation.I have looked in a few websites in a few websites but they just talk about seducting women and I dont want that I ... (84 words)

Is brown discharge normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5833 days ago

1 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, i was wondering if anyone would be able 2 tell me if brown discharge is normal? im 2 scared 2 go 2 doctors:( i also keep gettin tummy aches only when i wake up i get this :( ... (41 words)

How can I tell her that I love her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5833 days ago

1 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - She's 25, and very beautiful. I'm 32, and not. We met at a summer school being held at a university. I have been deeply and desperately in love with her for nearly two years. No matter what I do the feeling does not fade. I made a clumsy pass at her once, and she shut me ... (345 words)

I'm so confused about my two guys...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5833 days ago

1 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - A while ago I met this guy and we got together and I fell very very deeply in love with him. So deeply that I knew I wanted to spend my life with him. But I am young and I didn't want to be held down yet so I broke up with him in the intention of getting back together one ... (275 words)

My GF cheated on me with another girl and hasn't told me! What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5828 days ago

1 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 25 years old and have been dating my girlfriend for almost 5 and a half years. I just found out that she slept with her friend, another female. We "took a break" last week for less than 24 hours then she came back to me saying she was sorry. She felt confused and kep... (212 words)

I've never had a boyfriend or kiss. I'm 29 and nobody wants me.

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

1 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hi i was wondering can any one help me . i am 29 years old and i have never had a boyfriend. i never even got my first kiss. i don't know and everyone else does. all but me. every guy i like rather someone else and never me. they reject me in the coldest of ways. i am v... (168 words)

Help me with these feelings of guilt over my rebound boyfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5833 days ago

1 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help me deal with these feelings of hurt, doubt, guilt, anxiety. I told my rebound relationship today that I have just realised we are moving to quickly and I think we should put the breaks on because I have just realised I am not over my ex. My ex broke up with me ... (207 words)

Is it normal not to have a baby bump at 8 weeks?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

1 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am pregnant, my last period was around October.8th so I'm about 8 weeks pregnant right now. My symptoms have got better REALLY fast, tho i still puke at least once a day when i first wake up or at night when i get tired. I thought before my belly was growing but I guess I was ... (99 words)

I want a baby, but I don't know what my parents would say!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5804 days ago

1 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi the thing is im 18 my boyfriend is 21 i have been with him for 3years and i really want a baby with him i understand the responsibility issue and not just the cute baby side. me and him would but we're both worried about what my mum and dad would say. i dont know what to do, ... (80 words)

Do I want to be with my BF or my guy (his friend) on the side?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5833 days ago

1 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Iv been with my boyfriend for nearly two years. Before we got together i had a thing for one of his friends and his friend liked me. About 6 month ago my boyfriends friend told me he liked me and we ended up kissing. This was on a night out. Then on several other nights out we ... (172 words)

Does she like me? Do I tell him I'm gay?

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1 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - well here's the thing, I am extremely confused about my best friend. I'm 19 and really fancy her/might be in love with her. I just can't for the life of me work out whether she likes me?! I'm pretty much certain she's not gay, but she does act very 'close' with me when we're ... (242 words)

How do I confront my GF about a sketchy e-mail to her ex I discovered?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5833 days ago

1 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - How do I confront my girlfriend about an sketchy email she sent to her ex that I discovered? I had a feeling my girlfriend was talking to her ex so I checked her email on her phone and sure enough there was a email sent to him. It really struck home because in it she said tha... (156 words)

He controlled, abused, and manipulated, now is angry, because he doesn't know where you live, why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5833 days ago

1 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - why does a person that has abused, manipulated and controlled you not like it when they dont know where you are living anymore?... (23 words)

He abused me and I left, now he wants me to come back, and help pay the rent as agreed, what should I do?l

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5833 days ago

1 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive been with my boyfriend for 7 months now. Our relationship has been nothing but a rollar coster of emotions. We just moved into our own place which was probably the first mistake I made.(i think) Well as soon as we got all our things into our new home, right away things ... (233 words)

Great guy! No sexual activity, to speak of between us, what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5833 days ago

1 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been dating my boyfriend for almost three years now. When i met him he was a virgin, I was also his first girlfriend. He is the greatest guy i ever dated. Except when it comes into the bedroom. He hardly ever wants to have sex or fool around, and when we do have sex, he ... (91 words)

Should I try to ressurect our dead platonic relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

1 December 2008 (M)

age - I made a friends with a girl, aged 44. I am 49. At first I saw her as a possible girlfriend, but after a couple of dates I realised she wasn't for me: she had too much of a brick wall around her emotionally. She's also a drinker, heavy smoker, and is somewhat depressed. But we... (564 words)

For Christmas my hubby wants to go to an all male revue!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5833 days ago

1 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Earlier this week me and my husband were discussing Christmas presents - what to get for each other, family and friends etc. and the conversation was going well until my husband said he wanted to go to see a male revue/review (?? what's the correct spelling?) over Christmas. ... (206 words)

My little sister is flat chested, and embarrassed, is there anything that can help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5833 days ago

1 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i'm a lil worried about my young sister, she's 16 and got her period last year but she's still flat chested, i mean really flat! i was nothing like her when i was her age, but i was chubby while she's sooo skinny! she's always embarrassed and i really want to help, c... (73 words)

The doctor was useless - are there any tests I can get myself to test my discharge?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5833 days ago

1 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I need some female advice. I went to see my GP because I have always felt that I am not normal down below, I always have a lot of discharge and I have just never felt normal and this has affected me having boyfriends (I don't) because I feel that I am not normal, anyway I... (151 words)

I have a health problem with a child, does anyone have any specific advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5833 days ago

1 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex bfs child has become ill at first its like a cold, but 2day the child has not drunk much where they drink loads, not been to the toilet, and when coughts has trouble catching there breath at first thought it was hooping cought, but after going to the doctors they sai... (157 words)

Found my husband in bed with his best male friend, what do I do now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5833 days ago

1 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - [they continued to have sex in your face after you caught them?????????hard to believe? - other mods, what do you think??i'll leave this as it is, please pay attention at the detail I pointed] I'm 31, from the United Kingdom, and my husband's 33. We've got a 8-year-old son who ... (270 words)

He has feelings for me one minute and none the next!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5833 days ago

1 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - im 14 and ive really liked this guy (15) for about 3 years and ive known him since early primary school. Well i fell for him during my first year of high school and that whole year he acted like he had feelings for me and at the end of the year we kinda stopped in the c... (410 words)

I''ve started to feel I'm not ready for a serious relationship at 17, any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

1 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been with my girlfriend for over a year now and we've had some great times but i've started to feel as if i'm not ready for a serious relationship and my feeling towards her have changed. Everything feels the same now and nothing changes. She's completely in lo... (290 words)

We are dating but he sees other people too, we have agreed that I do the same but I'm not happy with this "settlement" - your advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5833 days ago

1 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy 6 months ago. We met 3 times within 2 weeks, then he left for his job (which he told me from the beginning) for the whole summer, but told me that he wanted to see me when he got back. He called me once a month for those months apart. He was in town one weekend ... (487 words)

My sister's boyfriend kissed me forcibly, she saw us but doesn't let me explain!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5805 days ago

1 December 2008 (?) age 30-35 - My sister's (she's 14) boyfriend is in my grade (we're both 17) and I always had a bad vibe around him. Well he came over to watch a movie with her when my parents weren't home (my sis paid me like $15 so I wouldn't tell them). She left to go the washroom and well she was... (143 words)

We've never had unprotected sex but I'm 4 weeks late, what could be wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5833 days ago

1 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, so me and my boyfriend have done everything, but weve never atually had sex without protection. And now I'm over 4 weeks late on my period. I'm never exactly regular but I've only ever been late or early by a week at the most. What could be wrong? Please reply ... (61 words)

16 and never been kissed, I feel so upset...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

1 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - arghhh. im 16 and have never been kissed. its really putting me down as all of my friends have and they are starting to sleepwith their boyfriends. its really upsetting me that i cant get anyone. :(... (37 words)

I have some major issues with our sex life, how to bring these up sensitively to her?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5830 days ago

1 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - please bear with the length, i think this is a topic that will trigger discussion and one that many experience. I hate to "complain" as I am in a loving, faithful relationship with a stunning, great girl. she wants to marry me, we live together and have sex about 3-5 times ... (988 words)

My boyfriend asked me to reschedule meeting my friend, will I feel he controls me if I do this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5833 days ago

1 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a real dilemma and I am not sure what to do. My boyfriend and I have been through a rough patch due to lack of communication on both our parts, but we had a real heart to heart today and have patched things up. It turns out that one of the messages he had left me which ... (398 words)

Do I have a reason to be upset that he contacts his ex when I'm not around?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5833 days ago

1 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Not sure if I'm just being jealous or if I have a reason to be upset. My BF who is recently divorced, no kids, shares a dog with his ex. She had him over Thanksgiving and on Thanksgiving Day he waited until I was in the shower to text her to "check on the dog". I ... (211 words)

Why do I get like this, almost uncomfortable, when I become close with a guy I like?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5833 days ago

1 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, i have an issue! Basically, I don't know why or what it is, but everytime I grow close to a guy that I really like and that really likes me, I start to become weird. For example, I am CRAZY over this guy i know, and he is crazy about me , (well, so he says) :) an... (194 words)

...so does he like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5831 days ago

1 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this guy I really like! I was wondering if he likes me to. We go to the same church and school. At church he doesn't talk to anyone but his parents. But almost everytime I look at him he is staring at me. 2 weeks ago I was talking to one of my friends and the guy I ... (217 words)

I don't want to be with some one who doesn't love me or doesn't want to be with me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5833 days ago

1 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been with my girlfirend for all most 2 years now but she never has the time of day for me, whenever I try to get to see her she always "says" she working but I ask all the time every day and she still says they ask them first when one day I asked weeks in advance and she ... (241 words)

I'm in relationship with a married guy

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5822 days ago

1 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm in relationship with a married guy for five years, but now he went back to his wife with the excuse that he got a new job in the county the wife is and now they live together, he want our relationship to continue and promised me that he is trying to get another job in a ... (107 words)

New kid or ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5833 days ago

1 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Kind of a long story, but i'll tell it anyways. I broke up with my boyfriend because I thought i didn't like him anymore. I hated being around him at school and he just bugged me, so i knew i didn't like him. I b/u with him shortly after somewhat ignoring him some days and ... (324 words)

Is it an attitude thing for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5833 days ago

1 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I as I have mentioned am very overweight. But everyone thinks I am great otherwise. Kind, thoughtful, warm hearted intelligent. I am working on losing weight. And it is going ok. Yes there are ups and downs and sometimes dead stops but on the whole my attitude is bett... (116 words)

I feel ever so used as my wife has done this before.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5833 days ago

1 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Well, it's been two months now since i broke up with my wife of four years. At first, my wife and i decided to give ourselves a break from one another yet still being husband and wife. I soon found out that my wife was starting to go out with friend. And have our two children ... (125 words)

Should I go back just to make him happy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5833 days ago

1 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there, I was in a relationship which lasted for 2 months, as time went by I realised that he is not what I wanted (being with him), so I decided to call it off, when I told him my decision he was very absent confused, fustrated and said that if I don't want to be with him he ... (95 words)

First Date... HELP!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5833 days ago

1 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - We both go to the same college, so, it's not like the guys a total stranger. I'm 19, and he's 20. We have alot of the same friends, but we just started talkin the past couple of days on a 'non friend' basis. And we decided to go on a date Tuesday after classes are out. He's in ... (133 words)

My boyfriend isn't calling/texting...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5833 days ago

1 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Thanks for anyone spending the time to answer my question. I'm 17 and I'm dating an 29 soon to be 30 year old guy. I'm in college , so this takes away the "still living with my parents" factor Nobody knows about our realtionship. If my parents did, they would kill us.... (353 words)

Do I wait 6 months to get back with ex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5833 days ago

1 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex broke up with me 6 months ago, won't go into detail, but it wasn’t because he didn’t love me, but because he thought at the time we wanted different things. He has just contact me and apologised for being stubborn and said he feels really bad for everything and in ... (197 words)

How to improve a relationship that is falling apart due to unbelievable stress and hard times

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5833 days ago

1 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I would like someone to tell me how to fix a relationship with my partner thinks that I am the one to start every argument. He has not noticed any of the things that I have improved upon in our relationship, and he thinks that he has changed completely, for the better. But when ... (766 words)

How likely is it that you would get pregnant if you have sex when on your period?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5826 days ago

1 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey People, last night my girlfriend and I had unprotected sex, now we're worried that she might get pregnant. She was on her period. How likely is it that you would get pregnant if you have sex when on your period? Any help would be appreciated... (47 words)

Is there any right way for foreplay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5833 days ago

1 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I want to really show this girl how much she means so I don't want to mess up is there any right way for foreplay ... (25 words)

Has your husband ever left you to be with the mistress? Did they work out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

1 December 2008 (?) age 41-50 - Has your husband (or long term boyfriend) ever left you to be with her (the mistress)? Did they work out? Posted yesterday but wondered if there was anyone else out there with a story. [Moderator's note: Please don't hesitate to write updates if your new questions have to do... (60 words)

What does this mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5833 days ago

1 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm going to make this as simple as possible. I used to like a girl who I was very fond of. But it was not recipricol, she was not interested. So I let her go and moved on... to my surprise she wanted to remain friends so we became friends, I put the attraction behin... (192 words)

I'm a girl who loves her female best friend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5823 days ago

1 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm a girl, and I absolutely adore my best friend, who is also a girl. I think I'm definitely in love with her. She's all I think about, sometimes I think about her so much that it hurts. This got too much, so eventually I just told her that I liked her. She took it well, bu... (151 words)

Should I tell my partner that his best friend kissed me? We all live together.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5833 days ago

1 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in somewhat of a dilemma. I have been dating a man for 2 1/2 years now. We moved in together and recently his best friend moved into our house too. All was fine until his best friend kissed me. Nothing major I'd say but its made it uncomfortable for me. I don't want to ... (108 words)

My girlfriend wants to break up out of the blue??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5833 days ago

1 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - So here's the thing. Me and my girlfiend were friends for a year and then we dated for two years. She's going school and working full time. She doesn't have a lot of time to c me. Day before yesterday she calls and says she wants a break. She is too busy to have a boyfriend. ... (264 words)

I don't want to hurt anybody.

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1 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello This is going to be very detailed. Hope you'll bear with it. I met this guy online from a dating site and we hit it off immediately as we seemed to have the same values and good chemistry. He was 30 and eager to settle down (according to his profile and wh... (1056 words)

My boyfriend barely talks to me...

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1 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend barely talk, we're supposed to be going out. Although we are complete opposites (he loves sport, im not really a fan of swimming but he loves it) we should at least be able to say hi, how are you, but not just wave. I really like him and maybe he's shy but ... (75 words)

In love with my flatmate - but is a good idea to make a move?

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1 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey. I live in a shared house with 4 other people. A few months ago the latest flat mate moved in. From the first moment i saw her i thought she was gorgeous, but i didn't do anything about it, as i just thought my feelings where down to her being a new and exciting additio... (234 words)

Forbidden love... how do I get this man out of my head?

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1 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey all, I am 21 years old, and I am in college but I have a very huge problem I think I like my biology teacher more than teacher I know it is so wrong, I do admit it. however, I can not take him out of my mind, he always in my head he is so smart, tall, and so handsome... (629 words)

Is this normal? Pain and wetness down below?

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1 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This is going to sound so gross and its really embarrassing. My vagina always has moisture coming out. like its never dry. I have heard that your supposed to keep it dry, but i cant. And there is a slight odor. not extremely bad but its there. Am i normal? So me and my boyfr... (115 words)

Me and my boyfriend have been trying to get pregnant for the last 2-3 months and its just not happening. Should I take a test?

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1 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been trying to get pregnant for the last 2-3 months and its just not happening. I guess there is a possibility that I still could be pregnant. But im not sure. I have had my period every month, but I have been getting some weird cravings and I have had ... (82 words)

I have been with my boyfriend for three years and I find it hard to get turned on by him. Am I a lesbian?

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1 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't know what to think I've been with men for as long as I have been having sex and I've always enjoyed sex but I've also always secretly liked to watch lesbian porn. If I watch hetro porn I get really turned on by the sight of the penetration but the actualy penis doesn't ... (140 words)

I just want to feel happiness and it seems I can't

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1 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been having so many thoughts go through my head its unbelievable. The thing that has been the worst is my mood swings. One minute I'm happy and the next I just want to cry I'm so upset. Growing up I always had someone putting me down. And now its like I'm always on the ... (185 words)

I want my clit pierced what do you think of this?

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1 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I want my clit pierced what do you think of this? Do you think they look good or do they get in the way? I'm getting it done in a few weeks. I already have piercings and I'm looking to get more interesting ones.... (44 words)

How can I increase my sex appeal?

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1 December 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Good morning. Day one of your advent calendar and it's a shallow question from me. I'd like to have more sexual intercourse with ladies / my lady. Well - I'm a man - that's what we (would like to) do, etcetera! My question is, how does one increase one's sex appeal in this ... (95 words)

How do I get over a 5 year affair?

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1 December 2008 (F)

age - I've been married for 26 years and have been having an affair for the last 5. I don't want to hear about what a piece of shit I am, I just want to hear about how I can forget the other man. My marriage was a good one, but my husband has never been very sexual-he can go... (493 words)

Why is my vagina burning during sex?

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1 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I was having sex with my boyfriend tonight and at first it felt really really good, but then my vagina started burning! its never happened before, so I don't know what's wrong. help! please.... (34 words)

What do guys think about female happy trails?

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1 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Do men care if a girl has a female happy trail (stomach hairline from belly button to pubes)?... (18 words)

It's been three days after we had sex and he still hasn't called!

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1 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay. This is kind of hard to talk about but... I met a guy and we began getting to know one another a little... texting mostly. we smoked together a few times... it was clear that we were both interested...then one day something told me to ask him if he had a girlfrie... (241 words)

Is my wife playing a game or what?

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1 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and I have had a strained relationship for a couple of years now. We have been living in two different houses but see each other everyday. Nothing physical (no sex) however we are pleasant to one another. We have had many crisis to deal with over these past years... (351 words)

His ex is pregnant... should I move on?

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1 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - What should I do? I fell for a guy who just broke up with is girlfriend. We both fell right away, it was perfect. Then he found out that his ex was pregnant (She has been pregnant for 3 months, he did cheat) with his baby. Should I forget about something that seemed so perfe... (86 words)

Will my broken heart even be mended and will I ever find anyone?

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1 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I was once at the peek of my life, had friends, had a GF who i loved and respected. life was great until 1 day my ex turns round to me and tells me that she never really loved me and the only reason she ever went out with me was because i looked like my best mate at the t... (514 words)

Sexy thoughts are keeping me from my studies!

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1 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I always have a difficulty when I study. I have sex feelings, which disturb me during my studies. What can I do?... (22 words)

Should I let my boyfriend hang out with girls when I'm not there?

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1 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Should I let my boyfriend hang out with other females when Im not there, at all?... (17 words)

How can I detach myself from my boyfriend?

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1 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Ive been seeing this guy for 8 months. we were friends before that for 9 months. lately i've been getting so attached that i've been getting mad at him. one, because i want to be with him all the time. I told him a few times i didnt want him to go to work, kinda whining like a ... (107 words)

Why did he try so hard to hurt me?

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1 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Why did he try so hard to hurt me? I can't figure it out. I am trying to understand this maliciousness when he was so wonderful for 2 years? We broke up mutually and limited contact with each other, and texted about him getting his things (which he kept canceling). Even... (657 words)

My boyfriend says his priority is his drinking!

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1 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend says his priority is his drinking, i'm expected to buy all household items, baby items. i'm surprised he gives me half for the babysitter. he recently lent me 30 dollars because i needed to buy OUR daughter a thanksgiving outfit, the holiday weekend isn't over yet, ... (132 words)

I want to wait, so how do I make him shut up about sex?

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1 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - my boyfriend is 16 but i have discussed that with him he just turned 16 though nd. he keeps asking me for sex nd. iht'z not apart of my religion(christianity) i know im going to wait no matter what no one says but what do i need to do to make him shut up... (55 words)

I want to be with him, but his wrestling consumes his life!

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1 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex-boyfriend and I lost our virginities to each other at 15. We dated for a few months and really liked each other but he was always completely distracted by wrestling. About a month after we had sex he told me he would be moving to a different town to get better at the ... (496 words)

Pointy boobs and big nipples - is it okay to have boobs like mine?

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1 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boobs are pointy and my nipples are big. I have small boobs already so neither of these things help at all. i have never seen anyone with boobs like mine. I want a boob job but i'm only 16. My boyfriend says they are fine but sometimes when we are arguing he makes smart ... (74 words)

Do guys get mad if the girl doesn't give them an orgasm?

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1 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey i'm 17 and i have just now started giving my bf of 2 yrs a hand job. I have tried it a few times but i haven't been able to make him orgasm. Usually there are other people in my house when we do it..we are alone but i wouldn't want someone to walk in by mistake...so its ... (106 words)

What is the solution to an addictive, negative relationship, I don't need to be with him?

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1 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - What do you do when you're addicted to someone who is obviously bad for you? My boyfriend has hurt me over and over and over but I always take him back. I let him know in clear terms what he did was wrong and I won't tolerate it anymore and then I take him back. And of course ... (160 words)

How can I be more confident when meeting new people?

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1 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone I have a bit of a problem... I'm very shy. not always but mostly just meeting new people...today I joined a new teen church thingy on sundays ...I met three new people and they were rly nice but I was so quiet... at school I'm the most outgoing of my friends .... (82 words)

Help? I have no social or love life, please give me suggestions?

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1 December 2008 (F) - Hi, I am 23 and student teaching and working full time on my master's program and I am missing my social life. I hardly have any time to go out socially (and I'm not being paid for student teaching, so I don't have the money either-my parents are helping me out a lot)I just ... (103 words)

How can I learn to deal with my BFF and ex dating?!?

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1 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my Ex dated for a while before i broke up with him because he was flirting with other girls and i could tell he had a thing for my best friend (who he is also friends with and has been for about 5 years.) I still had a thing for him but i could tell he liked her and she ... (206 words)

I told my baby sister that Santa isn't real, did I crush her belief?

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1 December 2008 (?) age 30-35 - My sister (she's 5) has been bugging me (im 15) about santa lately. I got annoyed so I told her that Santa doesn't exists. She haven't been quite the same. She when this happy little girl to this depress person. Did I crush her belief? ... (48 words)

I am petite, he is large, how can I make sex less painful?

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1 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a very petite woman, but my boyfriend's penis is too large for me. When we have sex, it hurts! He definitely gets to the end of the "tunnel." I have had partners before him, and I have never had this issue. Most of my girlfriends have the opposite problem, so I don't ... (82 words)

How do I apologive for acting like such a B*&$% about our breakout?

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1 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and I just broke up....he broke up with me for a B* and $% who was talkin S#^! to me when he and i were dating then made me feel even worse when we broke up. i still wanna be friends with him and i still wanna be able to hang out and all but i know he probly h... (95 words)

The guy I love lives seven hours away, he tells me he loves me, should I keep hanging on?

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1 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - As a sophomore in high school I started going out with a guy who became my best friend. We were together until Junior year when he broke up with me during the summer. I had 2 boyfriends in the time period in which we weren't together but they never worked out because I still ... (278 words)

I don't want to do certain things, how do I get him to understand?

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1 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend wants to do more than kissing, not sex but other things .. we did it once before but ever since we haven't because of me, he thinks that i dont like him that much because we dont do stuff but its not that im just dont want to he doesnt seem to understand?... (55 words)

My girlfriend is gaining weight, I'm less attracted to her, how do I let her know or not?

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1 December 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, looking for a little advice really. Ive been dating for about nine months now, think the world of my GF But..since we started dating she has gained, maybee 2-3 stone on a 5ft 9 frame. She has always been fairly large which didnt bother me, but now she is approaching o... (210 words)

After a 15 month relationship, should I , I'm 18, marry my boyfriend, or wait?

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1 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i am 18 years old and my question is should i marry my boyfriend, he is also 18 and we have been dating for a year and three months. i know i am young , but i want to know if the aunts from dear cupid think i should wait alittle longer... (52 words)

Do I break it off with him, and follow my heart?

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1 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. Well rhe story is my boyfriend who has on occasion because of drink and drug problems hit me and been very aggressive. Due to my loyalty towards him as he was a friend and I helped him of off heroin, I can't seem to leave him to self destruct. I'm am 20 and know I could ... (397 words)

How should we tell her, her boyfriend's is a cheat?

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1 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. About a month ago I had a drunken "encounter" with a friends boyfriend. I know what I did was wrong, and that's why I'm now trying to put things right. We were both ridicuously drunk and although at first I kept saying no and that he had a girlfriend, I gave in in the ... (386 words)

In a mess with my ex... I want to be with her.

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1 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and i just broke up last week. We had been going out for a year and a half and everything was perfect until about a month ago. She told me she wasnt sure if she wanted a relationship. We took sometime apart but didnt break up, after a few days she said she wanted ... (706 words)

I think he's going to propose and I'm worried...

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1 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend (16) and I (15) have been dating for 6 months now. We love each other SO much and we love being together. We're compatible in every way but... I think he's going to propose. He's been talking about it the last 2 weeks and I'm getting worried. I don't want him t... (110 words)

Is porn and masturbation everyday bad?

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1 December 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - Im 15 and i masturbate every day and look at porn is that a bad thing to do?... (18 words)

I would love to call myself gay, but I feel unsure about it...

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1 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 16 and unsure what to consider myself. I pretty much watch exclusively gay porn, but women occasionally attract me. I feel an attraction to men and not to women in public. I would love to just call myself gay, but for some reason I am unsure. I am doubting my attractions. ... (58 words)

How can I make sex with her the first time good and memorable?

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1 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I like this girl a lot. When I turn 19 we are planing to have sex, she has done it with one guy who wasn't that good and I am still a virgin so I'd like to know how can I make sure I'm good at it for her plus I'm also a bigger guy and she is a slender girl so I don't want to ... (73 words)

His Myspace is set to private and he won't let me see it!

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1 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, well my boyfriend and I have been dating for about a year now, he has a myspace and I don't, I can't stand the website. He has his myspace set to private and I cannot see it, I am a jealous person and I can't stand it. I don't know what goes on. I trust him with everything ... (146 words)

Is My Friend Being Used?

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1 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have an aquaintance, a 51 year old guy, who in my opinion is being made a fool of. 3 years ago His wife of 25 years left him for his best friend. He met a woman around his age shortly after. They have been on and off for about 3 years.... it's always her breaking up with him... (274 words)