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Things have got bad with my girlfriend, and I'm beginning to have feelings for another girl! Advise, please!

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Question - (4 December 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 5 December 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I have been with my girlfriend for 2 years and things have been ok but recentley things have got bad and its argument after argument. I have a good friend who is female and I have been going out with a lot recentley but I am begining to feel as though I have feelings for her and I would rather go out with her other than my own girlfriend. I dont know what I should do because I dont like hurting people. also I have been thinking about me and my girlfriends past arguments and problems. does any one have any advice for me.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2008):

Tell her the truth, it will be hard for her and she'll be upset for a few days or weeks and you may feel bad but i'm afraid thats how it's gonna when you tell her. Don't cheat on her, it's one girl or the other your choice.

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A male reader, tux United States +, writes (4 December 2008):

tux agony auntBe with the girl you want to be with. If you do not want to be with your current girlfriend, you need to let her down. She deserves to be free if that is what you want to be as well.. DO NOT DATE both at the same time. End your current relationship first. Follow where your heart leads you. You are still young and will probably experience this many times over... and will make a few mistakes along the way, but I am going to tell you to be with the girl you want to be with.

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