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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm falling for him, but I don't want to!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5832 days ago

2 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i think im falling for a guy at college. i dont want to but its still happening and i hate that old feeling returning, of thinking about them always, staring at your phone, urgh iv had disappointing experiences and dont expect anything from him so why is everything logical ... (60 words)

Is it okay that I'm falling for an older man?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5822 days ago

2 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Im 27 and dating a 43 year old man? is that ok? i feel like all eyes are on me when we both go into public... what should i do?... (30 words)

Friends with benefits and now everyone knows!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5832 days ago

2 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Yeah I'm Katie (I'm open to it) and I was with this one guy, Cowboy. Cowboy chose me to be f*ck buddies with and wanted to keep it a secret. we made out at the basketball game last tuesday and now everybody knows. this one girl now knows and is telling everyone. Cowboy had said ... (378 words)

Should I loose my virginity to this guy that's a player?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5828 days ago

2 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 31 yrs old and still virgin. I've being a virgin b/c I haven't had chance to loosing it. I'm in the middle of two guys who are military both. One I met and being in love with almost 2 years ago. I consider him the love of my life. Couldn't had sex with him b/c time was my ... (270 words)

Was I rejected? What do I do now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5831 days ago

2 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - PLEASE COULD YOU DELETE MY PREVIOUS ENTRY OF THIS Q, AS I MADE A CRUCIAL SPELLING MISTAKE THAT EFFECTED MY Q AND AS I RESPONDED TO AMEND THIS, MY MSG IS DISPLAYED AS ANSWERED, THEREFORE I'M UNLIKELY TO GET A REPLY FROM ANYONE - THX (SORRY COULDN'T FIND A WAY TO EMAIL ADMIN'S) ... (899 words)

I need help talking to a friend of mine!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

2 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Right this might sound abit pathetic but i need help talking to a friend of mine. Thing is i've has strong feeligns for a really long time n i thought he did me but obviously not and people started making it worse but we sorte it all out between us n decided to put all that... (231 words)

Guys have it easier!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5831 days ago

2 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - it is easier for a guy to get a girlfreid then a guy getting a boyfreind. how is it when a guy likes girl he doesn,t get rejected .but when a girl likes a guy she gets rejected that is very unfair. why is it so easy for guy to get girlfreind any time likes.how is that .... (63 words)

Do I continue being his friend? And why does he need my friendship so much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5832 days ago

2 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been seeing a married man who is now in Iraq. He's told me repeatedly that he is not in love with his wife but feels he needs to do the right thing and finished what he started. He has a daughter and is afraid that his wife will use her against him. I told him that I can't ... (112 words)

Help me to give my boyfriend a better blow job PLEASE!!!!!!!.....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5831 days ago

2 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok i took some of some of ur advice and when i gave my bf head this morning he didnt cum and im kinda worried that he didnt like it. it was my first time. i just need to no some other ways to make my bf happy when i do something like a bj. i just dont want to be trying to ... (83 words)

Can your growth and height be affected by smoking?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5826 days ago

2 December 2008 (?) age 30-35 - what can cause growth to stop earlier than it is supposed to. im not going threw this but my dad did, he stopped at 16 and he was 5'9 he also smoked cigarettes, does really cause this. Just curious, i also heard that 2 much soda can cause an early stop in growth. is this also ... (59 words)

How do I get rid of this "shadow" from shaving?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5808 days ago

2 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently have started shaving 'down there' but noticed that there is always a sort of shadow left, even if I do a really good job when shaving. I just wondered if this is normal and if not how I can get rid of it. Thanks.... (48 words)

Haven't heard from him, what do you think is wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

2 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Can someone give me their views please! I've been seeing this guy since July, we knew each other before but started talking through mutual friends this year, I been going to his house almost every week sometimes more, longest I haven't seen him was a month as I went on holiday, ... (113 words)

He likes someone else, but is willing to have me as second best... Should I get with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

2 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Do you think its silly if you dont want to get into something with someone that not only admits they are a commitment phobe, but also that has always liked someone you both know, but she doesn't like him in that way? Would you feel 2nd best? And would you think its a wise move ... (65 words)

He's got no secrets from me but it still feels wrong to spy and check up on him.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5830 days ago

2 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my man for about 4 and a half years. about 2 months ago his ex fience found him on facebook, then started calling my house. She stopped for a while but the other day she stared messaging him and everytime I entered the room he would close the conversation ... (141 words)

I liked him first but she didn't know and now they are going out - what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

2 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi to who ever answers this. My problem is my best-friend likes this guy,and weeks before i had been hinting that i like him as more than a friend. But she was completely navie to what i was telling her. Then last week she tells me that she likes him a lot. She hasnt had much ... (107 words)

Living in somebody's shadow?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5831 days ago

2 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey, Have you ever felt like you live in somebody's shadow? Like you're a support beam for someone who's meant to be happy and prosperous and at the same time your one and only purpose in life is to make them feel better? Well, this is just about how I feel lately. We've ... (358 words)

I feel awful for cheating - but feel tempted to do it again!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

2 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i cheated on my husband about two weeks ago with an old fling that i had previuosly been intimate with, (way prior to meeting my husband). i have been married for 3 1/2 years, and we have 2 children under the age of three. our relationship has been rocky for about 2 year... (196 words)

What's the deal with men in their 40's losing interest in sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

2 December 2008 (F) age 41-50 - This question is for finding out, a very confusing secret. I hear all the time , that man losing interest in sex, in their 40 -es, now they say this is aging. But I don't see that anywhere, I know at least 50 man in this age, but I don't know anything about they would be... (227 words)

How can one enjoy anal sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5831 days ago

2 December 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - how can one enjoy anal sex... (6 words)

I want to get my mate's mum naked!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

2 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - most will think this is fake but thats your opinion. anyways i was at my friends house and i slept over. the next morning we had a soccer practise so when we got back he went to have a shower first. while he was upstairs i was downstairs playin gears. his mom was vacuming at ... (271 words)

Pregnant but my husband may be back on drugs and is lying to me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5832 days ago

2 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and I have been married for 18 months now and we are expecting our first baby in 6 weeks. He has had a drug addiction in the past and we got through it.. I had thought at least. For the past 6 months he has done nothing but lie to me. He hurt his back a while ago, ... (282 words)

I can't just be her friend, is there a chance to get her back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

2 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi basically iv lost the love of my life and want some other peoples perspective on this, i was with my fiance for 11 months and i was a jealous git lol, i couldnt help it just constantly getting jealous over her male work colleagues, we split about 3 weeks ago and iv been ... (422 words)

I'm seeing the doctor but I'm scared this could be herpes!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5781 days ago

2 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have had itchy redness on my vagina and now find an ulcer on my vulva. I'm afraid this might be herpes even though we used a condom. I see the doctor tomorrow. Anyone out there who can give me advice... I'm incredibly upset.... (45 words)

Is it cheating if he feels her breasts?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

2 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey is it considered cheating on your girlfriend if your boyfriend feels another girls breasts? x thanks x... (21 words)

Is my husband a serial cheater? Or just a man who made a mistake?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

2 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Just two weeks ago, my husband of 16 years told me that he received oral sex from a woman he worked with at a Christmas party 8 years ago- in her car. This woman apparently only worked there for a period of a month or two before getting transferred to another dept. in another ... (367 words)

My boyfriend is being horrible now I'm pregnant and chatting up other girls!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5832 days ago

2 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Im 7months pregnant and i feel so insecure unattractive u name it. since i've been pregnant me ang my boyfriend don't have sex he says its because my stomach is a turn off then he has never called me sexy and hes all on the computer callin these girls sexy and much more it ... (89 words)

Have I been rejected? What do I do now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5832 days ago

2 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear All I would really appreciate any advice you may be able to offer, I’m so distraught in confusion, thank you. Heres the story... I’m in 5th year of secondary school, I’m leaving next June. I have been really fond of this girl since the first year, so for nearly fi... (847 words)

How do I know if I've had an orgasm? Should I be having one?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

2 December 2008 (?) age 41-50 - Okay - so I've been dating this guy since July. The sex is amazing and we connect so well. The only problem, although he always makes me feel amazing and makes me crazy wet --- how do I know if I actaully had an orgsam? He asked me the other night if I had one, I told him ... (93 words)

How do I deal with an infectious colleague?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5831 days ago

2 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi All, i need to pick some brains here. I work in a small office with no windows which we can open for fresh air but that isnt the problem...The problem is that 1 of my colleagues is always ill!! She always has colds,coughs,tummy bugs etc... But instead of staying at... (173 words)

We've been going out but he says he doesn't want a relationship!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

2 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have dated my friend now for 4 months. We talk everyday and go out very frequently even though we both have very demanding careers. The problem is that he has refused to define what the relationship is. He keeps saying he isnt ready for a serious relationship bec... (95 words)

Can't get pregnant but they have been trying....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5831 days ago

2 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone. I need some advice. My friend has been trying to get pregnant since August. she's 22 in a stable relationship (engaged) and is financially stable. Both she and her boyfriend even purchased a house instead of planning a large fancy wedding. The thing is she ... (186 words)

Is this an eating disorder? I don't think starving myself and throwing up is wrong...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

2 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, I'm female and 5" 4. I recently had a still birth. After the loss of Dillian I weighed 14.6 stone (202 lbs). In the last month I've lost 3.7 stone and now weigh 10.9 stone (149 lbs). I've often made myself purge after eating and do a lot of exercise. I force myself to go ... (243 words)

How do I start a new life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5832 days ago

2 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - How do i start a new life. Iam 24 years old i still live with my parents, I dont have a job, And i have never had a boyfriend. I'am not ugly but I'am not a super model either. I went to a community college I'am massage therapist but i havent found a job. I dont have any ... (130 words)

First date went well... no call back!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5830 days ago

2 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - First date went well.... no call back? I All, I met this guy online and we got on really well when we spoke over the phone. He asked me if I'd like to meet him and we agreed to meet up for some drinks on Saturday. The date went well, we had lots in common and talked throug... (215 words)

How can I get back on track?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

2 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Would be grateful for any advice. Each day I start with all good intention to make an effort with my appearance, wear nice clothes, do exercise, make progress with some of my projects and just feel like I've achieved something. Intead I default to wearing jeans, old cardigan ... (396 words)

YOUR views on commitment please!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5831 days ago

2 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Do you think most guys don't want to "commit" in their 20's even if they REALLY like a girl? Or would even a guy who doesn't like commitment commit if he found the perfect girl? What do you guys think?... (44 words)

Miserable!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5831 days ago

2 December 2008 (M)

age - I have been married to a lovely lass for 20 years. At present she is very depressed due to losing her Dad whom she was very close to. We have 2 children in their teenage years. My wife has just told me she had a fling 17 years ago with a neighbour who is not around any more. ... (156 words)

Why was I attracted to this man when I'm happily married?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5832 days ago

2 December 2008 (F)

age - I'm happily married, have had ups and downs. Recently met a man, we connected right away and I soon started to have feelings for him. So many things about him are different from my husband. He's also falling for me as well, we say we are good friends but both of us feel more. ... (96 words)

How do I REALLY pleasure him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

2 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a virgin.. my boyfriend isn't. I know what to do.. but not how to really pleasure him like he does me. I want to make it good for him too.. e.g.; like I know how to touch him but what would he really like?? Sorry if that's a little graphic sounding but I am a bit shy and ... (68 words)

How to let go of your ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

2 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - In july 2007 i posted this question: My ex and I were best friends. We started dating in high school. Recently we were together for about four years, but my ex broke up with me to marry one of his ex-girlfriends. They have a baby on the way. However, my ex calls me after five ... (452 words)

This will be our first real date... any tips?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

2 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I've got my first date with a guy I like on Friday. Thing is thugh, we've been going for coffee together for the last fortnight, and always chat on msn so we already know each other a fair bit - we go to the same uni and study the same course. Because we already kinda ... (87 words)

Should I just cut my losses and dump him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5830 days ago

2 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I am 20 years old, and have been going out with my boyfriend for 5 months now since we met through a workmate of mine. He’s 27 Everything was going great until he dropped a bombshell after we had been going out for almost 2 months, - that he had been married ... (402 words)

She seems to have cut off all contact... please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5831 days ago

2 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, There is this girl(H) I really adore her a lot or I can say love her a lot.. even she used to like me a lot but past week don't know what happened, she stopped calling me or even texting me. I cannot call her coz the parents are always spying on her.. It was going ... (265 words)

Cheating with a married man who used me as his playtoy

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 5797 days ago

2 December 2008 (F)

age - Hi to eveyone out there, I have been having an affair with a married man, this is not something I am proud off, we have split up now for a number of months, I feel totally rubbish at my lowest ever point in life, I got close to this man who I thought could just become a good ... (1437 words)

They seem too friendly and she already has his number, should I be worried here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

2 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I tried to make it clear what happen but it becomes quite long. Thank you for reading it. I am mid 20 and she is early 30. We started our relationship after we chat online for 2 years. Things are great at first and since we live quite far, we meet once every 2 to 3 weeks. Ot... (636 words)

How can I restore my relationship after an affair?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5830 days ago

2 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, I have been in a relationship for 7 years, we have a two year old daughter, I also have a son from a previous relationship. I recently discovered my partner has been cheating. I'm unsure of the full extent and when confronted he absolutely denies full sexual acti... (142 words)

Could sugar and caffiene be causing my stress?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

2 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - i have been gettin very depressed lately and stressing out about the littlest things and losing alot of sleep due to i. there is a lot cafienne and sugar in my diet. could that be linked to it?... (38 words)

Did I break my hymen? Am I still a virgin?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

2 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i was in my room and experimetin with a ----- as my partents were not home, to start with it wouldni go in to my vigina and then i added a little water to it and it then when in really easy, but it went in really fast to andd i felt a small pain and i took it right back out and ... (174 words)

Can I ask my brother to watch him masterbate?

This question has 40 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

2 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, hope u can help bit of a dodgy question but I walked into me older brothers room hes 15 and cought him touching himself. We both freaked out but it was to late and he came, he insists that he didnt but i saw it, he was shouting at me and chased me out the room and hasnt r... (150 words)

I love him to bits... how do I get him back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5831 days ago

2 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - How do i get him back? i am totally confused! i dated this guy for 5 months, he had just came out of a long term relationship. while we were together everything was amazing, he told me that he loved me and i replyed how i felt about him. i told him that i loved too. we split ... (241 words)

Trying to conceive...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

2 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my partner have been trying to concieve for the past 6 months, this month was messed up and didn't get to have sex until day 20, 23, and 24. Could I stand a chance of being pregnant, I know you couldn't say I would, however I understood it would only be within two weeks ... (78 words)

How can someone change like this into a complete dickhead?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5824 days ago

2 December 2008 (F)

- I had a boyfriend of seven months. We split in june 08. He promised me the world told me he loved me and would never leave me and i thought that he meant every single word of everything he ever told me. I had never felt a love like it and feel i never will again. I fel... (273 words)

Boyfriend kept a previous relationship secret for no reason.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5832 days ago

2 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - A girl (lets call her A) has a dispute with her bf (lets call him R.) They have met whilst studying abroad and had a long distance relationship. Whilst abroad they were just dating, but their talks and the way they related to each other could be described as intimate. During ... (621 words)

He say's I'm bad for him, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

2 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Dave* and I have been friends for around 5 years, he's always claimed to have a 'thing' for me but due to his popularity with other women I've never believed him. We lost touch for around a year and when we began talking again in March there was an instant spark and so we decid... (586 words)

One up the bu*, no harm done. Is this true??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

2 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - so I'm kind of confused about anal sex.. me and my girlfriend were joking about it when we first started dating (how gross it is). but then a few months ago my girlfriend told me she wanted to try it with me.. i kind of want to try it, yes because its supposedly realllly tight, ... (114 words)

My friend and I have fallen out... how do I patch things up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5150 days ago

2 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a long question for you, regarding my best friend. Ok... me and Girl A have been friends since starting primary school, and after starting the same secondary school together; best friends. We have always been inceperable untill we reached year 10. GCSE year. And I wasnt ... (877 words)

Need to end relationship, want to minimise hurt.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

2 December 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi I've been dating now for 5 months, a girl i met online of all things, we chatted for a very long time as friends before dating. Things have got very close, we have told each other we love each other and i do love her to bits, its a distance relationship (90 miles) so we... (359 words)

Why did he change his mind so quickly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

2 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - There's a guy that I work with that I like. We are the same age (24). We were smoking a cigarette outside together and he said he got off at midnight and to call him so we could hang out. I got his number and texted him around 12:20. He said he was going to this bar, that i ... (249 words)

I love this girl, how can I make her believe me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5832 days ago

2 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I love a girl who's name is riya....she was had a BF 2years ago, who break her virginity and she was very much attached toward him....and 2 years later she is with me now like friend but I like her and I fell in love with her...but now she says she doesn't want... (85 words)

How do I get completely over my ex boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5832 days ago

2 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, Why is life so frustrating? I've been able to break up with my ex boyfriend and is left with a month for me to marry. My ex boyfriend called and memories about him start flashing back. I can never stop loving him. But he is not the right man for me. I need ... (98 words)

Why, cant we have full sex??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5832 days ago

2 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for five years now. I belong to India and over here the concept is quiet different from European or Western culture. In our country they tell us sex before marriage is bad. Although we had these teachings, but whenever my bf and I got a chance, we ... (250 words)

My partner has lost his sex drive!, is it me??

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

2 December 2008 (F)

age - I have been with my Boyfriend for just over 1 year now. In the begining we had sex all the time, he could not keep his hands off me. As the year went on, it dwindled to once a week, to once a month now once every 2 months. He says he loves me. He is very affectionate. He cudd... (357 words)

Simple question, How do I get him back??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

2 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i want my ex boyfriend back with me.... (11 words)

Can a shy man be attractive?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5828 days ago

2 December 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Hello. Do women find good looking articulate loners attractive - albeit strictly those who do not exhibit psychotic tendencies!? Many thanks.... (21 words)

I have no real friends, what can I do to improve my life? Please help...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5827 days ago

2 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - i have no real friends.......only acquaitences but thats it.....my "friends" wouldn't even care if i was around..........i have no one i can call a real friend.........i just think im not meant to have friends..........no one ever ask me to do anything on weekends or ... (325 words)

Relieving the symptoms of Cystitis. Help please!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5831 days ago

2 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Arrgggg I have Cystitis. I'm starting work in less than 3 hours and all I keep doing is running to the loo! I cant do that in my job. What am I gonna do????? This could get embarrassing. Ive bought some stuff in the chemsist yesterday, does it actually work? Had 2 sachets later ... (73 words)

Can a secret love destroy my friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5831 days ago

2 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - About 2 months ago I started hanging out with this guy. He's nice, sweet, treats me right and makes me happy. We hang out about once or twice a week and can just chill and lounge around. I really like spending time with him and we text back and forth and this, I think, is ... (286 words)

How to convince her not to doubt our future so much? We are good together now.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5833 days ago

2 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Alright so heres the deal. Me and my girlfriend used to be friends for a few years before we decided to move it to the next level. Now we've been together for almost a year and its been great..up until recently i havent had any worries. At the start of the relation... (316 words)

Can we fall in love more than twice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5831 days ago

2 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Can we fall in love more than twice? I had a first love at 18 that took me years to get over. Then at 22 even though I didn't think it could happen I fell madly in love again. But he broke my heart recently. Now, I'm 24. I had said to my friend that falling in love the ... (135 words)

Do I have a chance with him after kissing his brother? I kissed both while drunk!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

2 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so there is this boy. Im afraid i may have screwed things up badly ha. So ive seen him around school before when i was younger and its been 2 years since hes graduated. not very cute in high school but recently i was formally introduced to him at my friends house an... (470 words)

Got this from my ex today. What does it mean?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5831 days ago

2 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Got this from my ex today. What does it mean? "I think I know what my tension is with you sometimes like when we talk on IM. I think it’s because we go so much longer now without quality time that I forget what you’re like when you are just here and wanting to be with me. ... (114 words)

How can I get her to stop taking diet pills which I view as unhealthy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5833 days ago

2 December 2008 (?) age 30-35 - My girlfriend keeps asking me to buy her diet pills (call me fashion old but they don't to sound healthy to me) , I got mad and usually storm out of the room. She's 18 about 5'8 and weights 100. I think she's feeling pressured from her friends most of them are very skinny and ... (79 words)

He wants to have a baby before he is deployed, but I want to graduate first!

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2 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is in the Navy and i'm a sophomore in college that is pre-dental...he really wants to have a baby before he gets deployed and I do want to have children with him but I want to graduate first. He's afraid that he might not have another chance to have children and ... (70 words)

I eat and then throw up trying to lose weight, please help me!

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2 December 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I hate my body i am 15 stones just 5 10" i eat and eat and eat then throw up i do this at lease 5 times a day i try to loss weight but it never happens i so fat and ugly i don't understand how others think im beautiful. ... (51 words)

I need help, with my sexuality!!!

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2 December 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - I am confused on a lot of things. I am 14 years old. I am attracted to girls by their looks and beauty but same with boys. The past few years I have always gotten off to gay/bi porn and enjoyed it but never thought about being in a serious relationship with a guy. I have had a ... (188 words)

How can I help my depressed friend out? I fear this guy is only playing with her emotions, yet again!

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2 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This may be a little lengthy but I need you to understand the whole situation. I have a friend who has always been slightly low on self-confidence. We have been close friends for a long time and I love her dearly. About 7 months ago, her mom passed away. She and her mom were... (496 words)

We don't know how to tell our parents about our age difference!

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2 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 16 years old and I've been seeing this guy who is 5 years older than me. We are afraid to tell my parents about us because of the age difference, which shouldn't be a problem. His family is friends with mine and he's been friends with my sister for years. I need help because ... (72 words)

I am wondering what are the possibilities that I am pregnant...

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2 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I took antibiotics a few days before I started my birth control for the month. I started my pack about 2-3 days late and have had unprotected sex 4 days before the end of my active pills. I am wondering what are the possibilities that I am pregnant. I have checked many ... (103 words)

Do you still bleed?

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2 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Do you still bleed the first time you have sex even wen you have used a tampon before?? Also my boyfriend said that it takes about 3 minutes for sperm to come out is this is true? ... (37 words)

He doesn't pursue me in a eager way! Is he just nervous or dates me out of boredom?

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2 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a guy online and now have been out with him twice. He has my phone number. We have briefly talked on the phone but mostly played phone tag on each others voicemails. He keeps emailing me to ask me out not only that but each time he takes a few days to do so. To me this ... (171 words)

The interior of my vagina feels uncomfortable, what could it be? I don't want my husband to know!

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2 December 2008 (?) age 41-50 - okay this is a bit embarrassing but do I have a yeast infection? My "thing's" walls are not comtable and they feel tritchy. I dont want have sex with my husband because Im dont want him to know and dont want to talk about it with him. Im embarrassed about it. Help ... (52 words)

I am a late bloomer and feel so jealous of teenagers who are experiencing what I never did at their age!

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2 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 23, and i get very jealous of teenagers and pre teens who are experiencing things that I never got a chance to when I was their age. In middle school/high school, I was very darkskin and ugly, and boys never paid me any mind. I remember one boy saying that I was not a... (408 words)

Please help! I am desperate to get him back.

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2 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I saw my ex-boyfriend today. It's been 2 months that I've been without him. He's dating someone else, but just last night, she kicked him out of her house. I just talked to him on Friday because I went to his family's house for Thanksgiving. Let me remind you that his entire ... (565 words)

Would you stay or just get the divorce now instead of waiting 3 years?

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2 December 2008 (F)

age - My husband cheats on me with porn and innapropriate letters and pictures from women he knows. We have been married for six years.He actually slept with one of the women maybe two. My husband has gotten caught 3 times. In other words, that is all I actually know about. He does ... (691 words)

Why is he shutting me out? I feel like he doesn't care anymore...

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2 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been with my boyfriend for a wile now. Things seemed to be going well for a wile until a couple weeks ago. He stopped expressing that he loved me. He waits until i say and replys with a mumbled 'i love you too'. If i don't say it he doesn't either. I asked him about it ... (122 words)

Why is that I always pick the wrong guy?

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2 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a super bad luck with guys. I'm 31 yrs old, never had an official boyfriend, and the guys I've liked they never feel the same way back, just the losers type which some have become even pathetic stalkers. Now, it's worst b/c I fall in love for a guy that's married a... (186 words)

What is a "meaningful" X-mas gift for my boyfriend?

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2 December 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Ok, so, my boyfriend is 18 and i am 17 and this will be our first christmas together, but i have a problem i have absolutely no idea what to get him! I thought about getting him a nice cologne or something, but my boyfriend said that he was going to get me something meaningful; ... (85 words)

After 2 great years, she starts dating someone 2 months later and not only that... they're in love?

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2 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - O.k. here's the deal... I was in a 2 year relationship with someone. We were like best friends, and our fights were always stupid... we really loved each other. The thing is that 4 months before we broke up, I started my own business, and with that came a lot of changes in my ... (846 words)

How do I tell him that I want to take anal sex slowly?

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2 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have told my new boyfriend that i love anal sex and i like it hard. well when i have tried it before and i found it uncomfortable, but then enjoyed it! how do i tell him i want him to take it slow when we try without him thinking i was just bigging myself up? x... (57 words)

She's seeing a lot of her ex and becoming harder to trust, what should I do?

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2 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi there, I've been seeing a girl for just over a month. Up until now, I've really enjoyed our relationship, but for the past week or so, all it has brought me is disappointment and fear. This girl I'm seeing is on my course at university. When we started dating, she had ... (409 words)

My girlfriend is overly bonded to family/parents, what do I do?

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2 December 2008 (M)

age - I have a girl that I have been seeing for over a year. She is 42 and has 3 brothers and mother and father. She has to consult with all of them before she makes any decision. If they knock down what she wants to do, then that is what happens. She does what they want all the time ... (97 words)

Lump in vagina, is this normal?

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2 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Sorry this is so explicit :-/ On the upper side of my vagina (that is, the side where my urethra is) I have a huge, long lump that begins about 1" below where my urethra hole is and ends where my cervix begins. I have always had this lump, but I'm just wondering if mos... (193 words)

The other guy...

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2 December 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, who ever reads this, my name is kurt. I recently got into a relationship several months ago, 9 to be exact. His name is bob. We met on craigslist. What was supposed to be a one nite thing turned into a 9 month relationship. THE PROBLEM: Bob has a life partner. They hav... (336 words)

How can I approach this subject with her without causing problems with her current relationship?

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2 December 2008 (M)

- Hi, I could do with some advice with this one... I grew up with a girl called Jenny when I was younger... our parents were best friends... she and me (Chris) went to school together, spent the holidays together... did virtually everything together.. we knew each other quite... (254 words)

How do I explain to her in a way to make her see I'm not making fun of her boyfriend?

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2 December 2008 (M)

- Hello, basically there's this girl at work who I've become close with as friends, she's a good laugh, she's 2 years older than me. Us and some other people from work went out at the weekend and I made a comment about her boyfriend, saying she can do better, he's 10 years older ... (201 words)

How long does thrush take to disappear?

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2 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. Me and my bf have had a lot of sex lately using protection. Today I woke up with the worst thrush imaginable! I have used the canesten once pessary to try and get rid of it and the external use cream. I used the pessary this morning and I'm putting on the cream every n... (107 words)