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writes:i was a single parent for five years and i love my children so much. my son and daughter have been threw alot. i have moved them from home to home. i worked at places who don't pay enough and been putting up with thier father long enough...........so far things had changed. my friend whom ive worked with invited me over for a cook out at her house. her husband's friend came over and we talked and shared a fruit dish that he made. a week went by in i was shocked that this man wanted to talk to me. at first he was not sure that i wanted him to communicate because of the age difference he is 15years older than i am. after awhile he was there for me and my children. This man helped me alot and i was thinking about my children father. he didn't anything for my children. until i met this man who is very nice and caring. the months went by and we ended up dating. now we are planning a wedding that i'm scared because it's my first wedding. i'm old fashion-after i i get married i don't want to get a divorce. so i have mixed feelings some days i'm happy to get married them some other days i don't want to get married..........im so confused!!!!!
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reader, katatonik  +, writes (4 December 2008):
 If you haven't even married this guy yet and you are already concerned about the prospect of divorce, you may want to take another look at why you are marrying this man and what you expect out of the marriage (not in terms of material things but in terms of where you think it's headed.) You say you have been a single mother for five years now. What's another month or two to think things through and make sure what you're doing is really what you want? Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2008): If you are not sure you want to marry him then give it more time as marriage is for life. No point in rushing into things just because the man is kind, you have to sort out your feelings first.
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reader, Teacake +, writes (4 December 2008):
 You haven't given much information. But if the main reason to marry this man is because you need a father for the children and you are putting their needs above yours, why not?
Hopefully he won't change after the marriage. Best to you!
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