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He didnt tell me his violent ex was back in the country

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Question - (4 December 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 14 July 2009)
A female United Kingdom age , anonymous writes:

today i have found out that my ex partner who said he loved me only 2 weeks ago,knew his ex wife has returned to england sometime ago and never had the balls to tell me,but at the time we was together and was together 5yrs but since may of this year he has been somewhat diffrent and distant causing an argument at every opportunity an i just put it down to stress.now this ex wife of his is a horrible violent woman who has on several occasions abused an threatened violence against myself and my children through voicemail and txt mssgs.now i am not in no means frightened of this woman and will do wotever means necessary to protect my children,1 of whom belongs to my ex partner,what i cant get my head around is why he never told me she was in this country and why would any man put his own sons life at risk,what kind of man is he to hide such an important piece of information from me,obviously he still loves an wants the ex wife an will use me and his son to get what he wants,this woman destroyed him and his family once before and she will do it again,should i severe all contact with him and just wait to see if he contacts me or should i let him know i know about her being here?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2009):

i am the person she is talking about. i did tell her by text that she was living close to the guy she cheated on me with. i think she thought i was just saying it so i could bring up her one night stand,as she did reply to the text.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2008):

This guy is a jerk, if he loved you as you stated he would have at least told you, but instead he has left you in the dark, get rid of him before you and your children come to any real harm from himself and his ex wife.

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