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Does it sound like my boyfriend is still in love with his ex?

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Question - (4 December 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 5 December 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Me n my bf have been going out for nearly three months and one of his past ex's did some horrible things to him when he eas with her.

Earlier today he was out with her and did not tell me till about an hour ago. She cheated on him 5 times and dumped him the day before valentines day. He is always talking to me about her and what she did to him and am like yes i know.

Like if we are talking about cars or school he will randomly mention her. He dunt usually talk to me as much as he talkes to her as he has shown me print screens of their convos in msn.

Is he still in love with her even though when i ask if he still likes her he says no and then starts talking about her?

What should i do?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2008):

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like today he said he dont want to come out cause its too cold and i said well wear some more clothes then and he sed no al come out on sunday and i said yeah what ever and he said fine and put the phone down on me and he has never ever put the phone down on me not even when we talk normaly.

I realy dont know what to do?

I really do love him but I don't think he understands am hurt :( x

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2008):

I am having the same problem. To tell you the truth you

need to confront him about it. Tell him you don't

feel comfortable him talking about her or talking to her

on msn. if he really likes you, he would not talk to her.

Seems to me like you need to talk to him about alot of

things. I'm only 16 and having the same problem, I told

him not to talk to his ex who is in love with MY boyfriend

and he doesnt talk her anymore,and the crazy chick doesnt

talk to him surprisingly. Just talk to him about

It will help your relationship.

T

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2008):

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They just walked round with each other talking and he always calls me a chav n never her.

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A female reader, petina1 United Kingdom +, writes (4 December 2008):

petina1 agony auntsounds like he's not over her yet. And what was he doing out with her earlier. I should ask her if he is seeing her if he doesnt want to tell you the truth. You need to get to the bottom of it before you get hurt. hope this helps.

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