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anonymous
writes:I'm a bit down and need some help. Two weeks ago I started chatting to a women who I met on an online dating site, we have been talking every day and night since. I have seen her three times in total, the last time I met her was Tuesday night, when I went round her flat and we got very close to each other, we didn't have full blown sex but done pretty much everything else. Last night I get a message from her, it seems her ex from 6 months ago wants to try and get back together with her. She hasn't told him yes or no yet and she is very confused at the moment. I really don't want to lose her as its been one of the best two weeks of my life, but I don't know what to do and I could do with some advice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionCheers for the advice, last night was the first time in 2 weeks that we didn't text each other and i've stopped logging onto IM, i'll just let her make the first move if she wants to carry on with me.
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reader, Teacake  +, writes (4 December 2008):
 All you can do is wait and see. The hardest thing it seems is to get over an ex and try a new person. Don't pressure her or it will make things worse.
Usually with women, the more aloof and disinterested a man is toward them, seems to make them want you more. Also, would you really want to continue being with someone who had another man on her mind and might up and leave a few more months into it?
Let her go and figure out what she wants. Two weeks is not much time to think anything serious is going on. It takes years to really get to know someone.
Its best to act cold toward her and let her go than to act desperate and all emotional.
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reader, nokutenda  +, writes (4 December 2008):
let her make the decision
tell her you love her but you will respect her decision
it will hurt if she doesn't chose you but thats life-you will meet someone else
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