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writes: When a guy is watching a porno with big breasted women, what is he thinking in that moment if his girlfriend has small boobs? What about afterwards? When they are watching, do they wish they could squeeze, lick and just play with big breasts? Do they feel unsatisfied that their girlfriend's breasts don't give them as much possibilities as bigger ones could? (Like titty f*cking and well, just being able to grab something).Only honest answers please, I won't feel bad, promise! ;)
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reader, NightStalker  +, writes (9 December 2008):
I am going to be honest here instead of trying to make you feel better. . .
I personally do have a breast fetish and most men have them, the reason we have them is that it is a mirror of the bum. This being from when we evolved (DONT START A CREATIONIST ARGUMENT) from monkies their arses got bigger as they got fertile. As we stood up we developed breasts to show fertillity (thus why the breast size makes no difference to the quality or amount of milk produced). This being said guys usuall have a limit, this can be bigger the better (like my self) and love nothing more than to f*ck about with big breasts, but it isnt needed for most fantasies and if he does really find you attractive then it shouldn't make a bit of difference. I would say the best thing to do is ask him about it but dont do 'are my breasts small' as he will auto jump into 'NO!'. Ask him who his fav celeb is for attractiveness and compare your self.
Then again I have a fiance with H cup breasts so I am biased.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2008): ask him.
shallow guys who allow themselves to get totally taken in by it probably do.
but those guys arent worth your time and they can just keep jacking off to porn their whole lives right?
most guys i know hate big fake boobs because theyre all hard and weird and arent even made of real boob which is kind of a turn off
real men wont compare or associate their gfs with porn but place her on a much higher level!
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reader, eddie  +, writes (4 December 2008):
 Most men are pretty open minded and liberal about sex with women. Most men are thrilled to be chosen as a sexual partner, never mind who the woman is. It's not quite that bad and I'm trying to be light hearted but trust me, most men have a very wide scope when it comes to sex. We're not that picky.
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reader, Trent Gear  +, writes (4 December 2008):
 Hello, hormonal almost 18 year old here. I believe I'm the target audience of this question.
For guys, Sexual Fantasies in no way overlap with reality, let me repeat that, in no way overlap with what we want in real life.
Pornography is the fulfillment of a fantasy that the viewer knows they can't achieve. Porn fills up the sexual 'bucket', but its a pretty poor bucket. Very leaky, easy to fill up, and no obligations afterward.
An emotional relationship like that of boyfriend and girlfriend fills an entirely separate 'bucket' for a guy, one that is much harder to fill up and matters far more at the end of the day.
If you really feel self-confident about your breasts, ask him. It is much healthier to get it out there than leave it smoldering under the surface.
I hope this answers some questions, I hope your relationship irons out any kinks.
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reader, petina1 +, writes (4 December 2008):
 My man looks at big boobed women also. Lets face it, most of them are fake. my partner said said that he wouldnt like to have a girlfriend with fake boobs for fear of them 'popping', which I thought was funny. It's actually in mens nature to look at other women and to tell the truth they don't like other men looking at their own women so I think they would feel threatened if they did have a glamour model as a girlfriend in reality. Don't worry too much about it. As long as they are only looking and not touching. hope this helps.
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reader, crystalangel108 +, writes (4 December 2008):
hey to be honest i dont know what a man would be thinking at that point however it is pretty much common knowledge that a man usually wants the opposite to what he has got, but he will soon realise what he has got and how lucky he is to have you, be patient and things may change and if they dont talk to him about it!
hope this helps!
Crystalx
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