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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Help!!!! I don't know what to do... I don't want to lose him...

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17 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and we are extremely close. he is honestly my best friend. Just recently he got his phone and computer taken away because he failed chem with a really low grade like in the 50s. His parents are extremely strict and told him that ... (213 words)

I'm too devastated and don't know what to do. I love him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

17 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend dumped me and treated me awfully, calling me names and basically blaming me for everything. What did I do? Well nothing, almost. He couldn't deal with my past. Once he asked, I told him what he wanted to know and it was chaotic. So next time he asked I lied. And ... (275 words)

I know he's stalking my internet profile...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5808 days ago

17 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a bit confused... Llong story short... we were friends for a long time... had a fight didn't talk for 5 months... then he said he missed me a lot and wanted to go out with me... I agreed... 2 months went by I said something he didn't like he decided to break up... I... (159 words)

I'm trying to work out if I should be worried or if my insecurities are shining through.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

17 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm trying to work out if I should be worried or if my insecurities are shining through. My new girl that I have known for 5 months and been going out with for 6 weeks met my friends today and we all had a nice time. Problem is, she spent the whole time talking, agreein... (112 words)

I love you. You love religion.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5808 days ago

17 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid... Well first let me say that you must be at least this tall to ride my emotional roller coaster. Age; I'm 16, she's 16... high school. Don't laugh. I swore to god that I would never fall in love. Now look at me. There was this girl. Let's call her THE ... (410 words)

Was I too hard on her after our argument?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5798 days ago

17 December 2008 (?) age 30-35 - My girlfriend's mom didn't want her when she was 1 years old. She had foster parents after foster parents. She's a bit sensitive about it. Well one day we had this huge fight about me working too and not spending enough time with her. Then (it somehow to our family lives... (101 words)

I think my fiance is or has cheated and I am wondering what I should do about it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

17 December 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I think my fiance is or has cheated and I am wondering what I should do about it. ... (18 words)

How to be comfortable with my boyfriend touching me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

17 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 15 and a virqin and I've never done a lot with a quy but kissinq. Me and my current boyfriend have been toqether for almost three months. I'm qetting really curious about sex and stuff and I'm slowly trying new thinqs. I just got into kissinq his neck lmao. but the thinq is ... (124 words)

What can I do to get his guard down?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

17 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, here's the deal. I'm basically with this boy.. but were not exactly official! he claims he wants to take this slow.. which is completely understandable being that we both just got out of something hurtful and we've been at it for 2 months now. But the situation is that ... (125 words)

How long do you need to be in a relationship to consider sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

17 December 2008 (M) age 30-35 - Ladies please answer. How long do you need to be in a relationship to consider sex? What things need to be considered? What things does the relationship need to have to consider sex? Ladies do you like to take things in stages (ie kissing, making out, etc) or are you likel... (88 words)

I hate rejection - I have a fear of being rejected solely on my looks.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

17 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - There is a girl in my History class that I recently became attracted to. We haven't had any prolonged contact besides this year of school. She is sending me some mixed messages that I don't understand. She'll tell me about her personal life and all that, but it seems she ... (183 words)

I'm so into my boyfriend but I can't be intimate... I don't know why.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

17 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm so into my boyfriend but I can't be intimate... I don't know why! We have been before... We have been friends for a long time, had a fling, for a reason too long to get into we didn't see each other for a while, now we've got back in touch, feelings are still there, b... (96 words)

My emotions are all over the place after losing my dad last month...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

17 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Last month my dad past away with MS and my emotions are all over the place, if someone starts to get me in a mood I just lose it and my boyfriend said he is there for me but he's not, he thinks evry thing is okay when it's not. I tell him I'm not okay and he's like it will ... (97 words)

Silent treatment after six months of constant contact

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5808 days ago

17 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Six months ago I met a man on-line. We e-mailed each other several times a day, talked on the phone constantly and developed a great friendship. Being on different coasts I suppose made it safe for him. He's 43 and has never been married and definitely has some big issues ... (321 words)

Doctor worries...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

17 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know what to do. I've had so many stomach aches and period problems that my mom has offered several times to take me to get checked out. My problem is that: a)I have an issue with exposing certain parts of my body to ANYBODY and I don't want doctors seeing this even... (122 words)

Since I had the baby he doesn't want sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

17 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am starting to get worried about the emotional/ sexual relationship between my boyfriend and i. We just had a baby boy and i was sure that our sex life would change, that something would happen! but there is still no sex what so ever... i am feeling lonley and upset all the ... (265 words)

Will he forget me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

17 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Will he forget me? I am involved with a man who lives in another city who has his own life but we ring and meet up from time to time! - The problem is although I am madly in love with him, think of him ALL of the time and keep photos of him near me - I worry that he may fo... (118 words)

I wanna break up with him but don't know how

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

17 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - well i have this problem with my boyfriend! he is very shy and i kinda made him jealous! it was not that i wanted to it was just that my friend asked me out to the movies and i said no because my bf was there! i want to break up with him but i dont know how to! can you please ... (63 words)

What are the reasons that people have sex because to reproduce

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5808 days ago

17 December 2008 (M) age 30-35 - Besides the reproductive reasons what are some other good reasons to have sex? People are not always having sex just to have a baby. Women I am interested in your reasons. ... (37 words)

Even on meds I'm always stressed!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

17 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - why can't i just be happy? i always have to worry about something. i hate it. i'm like a big stress ball. and it wont go away.. i take anxiety medicine from my doctors. but it clearly doesn't work.. my doctors don't know that and my mom doesn't. i always tell my mom i'm ... (143 words)

He comes bringing up his ex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

17 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Even though my boyfriend says he loves me and lives with me I still find myself wondering why he keeps comparing me to his ex. He says things like "she was fat, i'm happy you're not" "oh its so nice you don't watch so much t.v, she always did", "your perfume smells great, hers ... (95 words)

I don't know if I'm depressed because I'm sick or its my boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

17 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, so i have a boyfriend. i am 15. he is 16. i really feel like i'm in love with him.. we've been through so much together and we lost our virginity to each other in the summer. i have anxiety/stress issues that i take medicine for. and i'm kinda sick right now and it's ... (211 words)

Is it over because I screwed up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5806 days ago

17 December 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been involved in a long distance relationship for a little over a year. Everything has been fine until recently. She was studying for finals and informed me not to try to reach her until it was over, due to her busy schedule. She would occasionally contact me and over ... (265 words)

Will he hook up with his ex tonight?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5802 days ago

17 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - so there's this guy that i have been seeing, he has an ex girlfriend though and they just broke up 3 months ago, i know that seems like a while but they also went out for like 3 or 4 years maybe more maybe less i'm not really sure, long story short they went out for a long time ... (265 words)

Boyfriend - bestfriend troubles...break up,or stay and lie ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

17 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Please Help ! I don't know what to do, I've been coping on my own for so long, I have a boyfriend, I've been with him 2 months on xmas eve... we have been together before, quite a few times but I have always broke up with him mainly because I realise I don't love him, or eve... (155 words)

Why do we do this to each other?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

17 December 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I am sorry for the long story I tried to make it as short as possible. I got married in 2000. 2 months before I got married I tried to tell my parents and friends that I do not love this person anymore and she doesn’t respect me like she did when we were dating. They co... (997 words)

She is treating their dog like their kid, calling him about meeting for visitation etc saying he doesn't spend enough time with it. ITS A DOG!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

17 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My BF's divorce will be final in a month - no kids. His is complaining that his ex is not accepting their divorce. She asked about Xmas eve and xmas being with him and his family and she got upset when he said he made other plans. She said it was tradition. Why doens't she ... (153 words)

I lost my virginity about 2 weeks ago and now my period is late!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5804 days ago

17 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I lost my virginity about 2 weeks ago. We used protection and everything went well. The condom didn't split because we checked afterwards. However, my period is a few days late and I'm starting to worry I could be pregnant. I didn't think you could get pregnant if the condom ... (59 words)

Depressed and confused, did she mean more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5809 days ago

17 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Did she mean more? This guy I've liked for a while, got into a relationship over the summer with a girl who he hung out with, texted constantly, made presents for her and planned to fly to see her on his spring break. However, he flirted with other girls during it, cheat... (202 words)

I dont' know if I should worry about his fidelity or hope that it was just because he had been so unhappy.

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17 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I am trying to make a decision and it's hard. My BF is recently divorced, I know he loves me, he tells me constantly and if he forgets, he'll call me to apologize for not saying it earlier. He is always saying he wants this to work, he'll do anything he can to keep me etc.. ... (240 words)

How do I get my boyfriend to "play" during sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

17 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. Havent recently started sleeping with my boyfriend and need some advice. When we started going out, I openly admitted I'd had a bit of a sexually experienced past. I went through a stage of sleeping with a lot of people - some good experiences, some bad and although I ... (208 words)

Do nice guys finish last?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5806 days ago

17 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - hi, A girl I met at uni a year ago now are really good friends. Last month I asked her out but she said that she just wants to be friends and that is all that she wants from me. So just now she is seeing someone. Her flatmates don't understand why she is seeing him... (303 words)

Said he was getting back with ex but then starts dating someone new not me???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5808 days ago

17 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in the very common situation, where i have strong love-like feelings for a friend - who i've only known since September. But these feelings are real, I think about him non-stop. However, i'm a little confused right now and was hoping you could help me analyze the situ... (416 words)

What does the phrase "just friends" really mean

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

17 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - does just 'friends' always mean the guy is not into you? what if he says "your the most amazing person i know" and he has kissed you before? he also used to fancy me. .could there be any other reasons this guy wouldnt want to get into a relationship?... (53 words)

What excuse can I give my mom

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

17 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Im a 15 year old muslim girl. I wear a head scarf all the time, and only take it off on special occasions. Non-uniform day is coming up soon, and i dont want to wear my scarf. Previous times i have worn it, but for once i dont want to. Also this time hardly anyone is wearing... (126 words)

I'm a party girl and he's cramping my style!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

17 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I need help people, ive been with my present boyfriend for over a year now, i left my ex of 4 and a half years to be with my present boyfriend, but problem is he isnt the guy i fell in love with, his attitude has totally changed and he says he was only pretending to be a ... (223 words)

I don't want to break her heart but I want out!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

17 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - i am 20 i have been with her for almost two years now and i am beginning to like other girls but she says she is IN love with me. i dont want to break her heart but i dont want to keep going on like everything id okay. any ideas anyone?... (52 words)

Do I start up something and possibly lose a friend? Or just leave things as they are?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5809 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) age 36-40 - Hi, I have a bit of a situation going on, firstly I have this great friend I have known quite a few years now who I get on with so well and I know he would definitely like more between us. There's been the odd time together but nothing thats gone very far. I know it sounds p... (286 words)

What is the right age to have sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5808 days ago

17 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hiya people i have a problem what is the right age for sex? I am 18 and my girlfriend wants to have sex. should i do it or am i too young?... (34 words)

What did the x in the text mean?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

17 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey right about a hour ago , i told this boy who i like, that i love him , but hes got a girl friend i texted him saying "im sorry but i have i bit of feeling for you xx" and he texted back saying "ok x " with a kiss did that mean any thing (the kiss at the end of the ... (146 words)

She's been abused and has mood swings, but I want to help her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5674 days ago

17 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I am having trouble dealing with a friend who is recovering from an abusive relationship. And I am asking "What do I do next?" I am at wit's end and ready to give up... but I love her and don't want her to fall back into a bad situation. I believe that I am one of the few ... (684 words)

Can it be passed on if I've been treated for STD?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5809 days ago

17 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - If someone has had chlamidia and has been treated for it is there a chance they have still got it, or it can be passed on??... (26 words)

How do I get over hopeless love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

17 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - How do you get over someone you are very much in love with, who is also in love with you - but for many reasons...you two can not be together?... (30 words)

Just looking for sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

17 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear aunts and uncles, Here is my story. I met this guy last friday and we end up having the usual (and good) one night stand. On the next day, we exchanged some emails and agreed to have lunch together with other friends. When we met, he treated me like a regular friend, ... (182 words)

I'm getting a very short fuse from his depression/insecurities

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5809 days ago

17 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I will keep this brief. I met a man who, over time, I fell deeply in love with. He then went through a stint of depression that was very taxing on the relationship. As he comes out of this difficult time in his Life, he is needier and more insecure than I have ever ... (238 words)

2 months and no "I love you"

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5803 days ago

17 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, My boyfriend and i have been together now for two months. He treats me really nice and i feel very lucky to have him in my life. Tee problem is that he has said he really likes me and has feelings for me and misses me when i am away. but he has never said he loves m... (102 words)

Pic on internet leads to his confession-he doesn't know if he wants ex or me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5809 days ago

17 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey Readers, First of all thanks for reading this. I am probably in the worst state of shock, pain, and confusion that I have ever been in in my life! Here it goes...I used to date a great guy, we'll call him guy 1. I thought he was my future because he was the first person to ... (933 words)

Airing my "dirty laundry" because I need advice!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

17 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship with the father of my child for 5 out of the 6 years we've known each other. It has been a hard five years in all honesty. In 2006 he left me because he said that we weren't compatible. During that time he dated a couple of people one of which ... (1260 words)

Do I leave a 24 year marriage to restart my career?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5809 days ago

17 December 2008 (F)

age - Should I leave my husband after 24 years of marriage? My husband has never been supportive of anything I have chosen as a career choice. I suppose one could say my choices are a little different to many people. I like to sing and I joined a pop rock band about 20 years ago, ... (329 words)

I'm doing a senior project about advice... Any help would be appreciated.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5790 days ago

17 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey I'm Hillary, I'm on here because I'm doing a senior project about advice and I heard of this site from a friend and thought that it would be a good idea to get me started. I'm trying to help people out and get their feedback to write my paper. ... (50 words)

Allowed to stay for a couple of hours then home by myself on the train while fiance stays!!!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5805 days ago

17 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Could you please help me! I am going to my fiance's works night out, but he's only allowing me to stay for a couple of hours! He said I have to get the train home myself while he stays at his friend's house. I think he has plasnned to meet up when I have left with one of the ... (102 words)

Why did he delete me from his Facebook?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5809 days ago

17 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i met this guy through a friend of mine at his birthday party. anyway we got on well etc and basically we added each other on facebook. weeks passed and then one day he spoke to me on facebook chat application and we were having a good chat just generally chatting etc... (117 words)

He says there's something about me that's pushing him away...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

17 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - What do you do if a guy you're dating tells you there's something about you that's pushing him away from you? and when you finally confront him about the issue he tells you that, he wants to be just friends with you?... (43 words)

One moment he won't be able to keep his eyes off me, but then another he doesn't even pay the slightest attention to me...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

17 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I need help! I know this person that "might" be attracted to me, but I'm not for sure. I've debated whether he does, for over 7 months now. This is really hard to explain, but he's kind of off limits, ok I'll just say it, I think what I'm feeling is infatuat... (475 words)

Lost in relationship confusion and broke, too

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5791 days ago

17 December 2008 (F)

age - Dear Cupid, I am going through a difficult time with my boyfriend of 13 years. Essentially, he bullies me about money. He took me off of the joint account we had 4 years ago and it has been nothing but trouble since. We have bills together and when I pay them online and forg... (422 words)

I know my partner is going to have to make a choice but I just don’t know what to do any more and her father simply scares me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5808 days ago

17 December 2008 (M)

- I have been with my partner for the last 2 years and we both are having problems but we are trying to sort thing out and at present we both seem to be making a good go of it. We have a 1 year old son between us and my partner has a 2 and a half year old from another ... (884 words)

I want to change my shit life But how??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

17 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I wake up in the monings and never know what to do my room gets mess a lot but I don't see the need to tidy it up cos I have been wating for my room to be decorated for 6 years. I go to college to see my friends but when I come home I don't know what to do. My friends l... (128 words)

I go soft during sex...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5807 days ago

17 December 2008 (M)

age - Hi Just a quick question, I have been having problems keeping hard during sex, it's been on and off for the past year. I have taken viagra and I get a good normal hard but it still goes soft durning sex and takes ages to cum. I have a new woman in my life and she wants m... (85 words)

I never feel like I'm someone special to her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

17 December 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I need help, I am in a LD relationship and have been engaged for a little less than a year. Before we made it official I would text and email her every day and even phoned her occasionally but she rarely did the same. It never bothered me at the time cos we were not an item ... (313 words)

What do you think of my poem?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

17 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear people, I'm in need of your very honest opinion. I wrote the following poem from the heart and before I give it to that someone, I just needed to know what other people think of it, any comment will be highly appreciated. Below is the poem - - - - - - - - - - - - -... (524 words)

Bad taste in guys!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

17 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Would a very skinny guy fancy a fat girl? When I am round a very skinny he doesn't want to be seen with or talking or even acknowledge me all because I am heavy and short with a chubby face. I am nice person and I have good taste in jewellery, love sports and classic music, ... (71 words)

I'm just confused now and have some mixed messages that I guess I need to sort out.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

17 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, Looking for some help on this. Hopefully someone can give me some ideas or help. Around 14 years ago I was dating a guy on and off. We met shortly after I had come out of a long term relationship. I liked him but my mind was still very much on the guy I had the l... (700 words)

How do I'm avoid ending up an old maid?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5810 days ago

17 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - would a very skinny guy fancy a fat girl?when i am round a very skinny he doesn,t want to seen with or talking or even acknowledge me all because i am heavy and short with a chubby face.i am nice person and i good taste in jewellry,love sport,classic music, i just have a BAD TA... (77 words)

Friends... or lovers?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5808 days ago

17 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so I began to like this guy and all that... And we dated for a period of time... Like about a month. The reason we broke up is his 'best friend' tried and succeeded in breaking us up like the bitch she is. Anyways so after we broke up.. I still liked him... and well we ... (271 words)

How can I build up my self confidence around guys?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5809 days ago

17 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I am naturally quite a shy person... but I am also fully capable of being outgoing! It's weird, because I'm at ease with girls, but every time I talk to a guy, I just freeze up! :s I would really like to know how I can make myself feel more relaxed and less se... (72 words)

He cuddles me but won't have sex with me. What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5808 days ago

17 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Looks like I have to admit defeat. My husband doesn't even want to try and have sex. I tried to suggest it last night. I said "Hun don't you miss me? Don't you want me to PLEASE you?" He knew what I meant by that. And he snapped at me saying "Can't you see I'm watching ... (121 words)

We've ran out of things to talk about!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

17 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a serious problem. I’ve been with my first girlfriend for seven months now and I’ve been very happy. However she feels that we do not talk enough about different things. I myself have never been a big talker and was always the type of person to listen and five opinions ... (146 words)

I want a guy so bad!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

17 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - soo basically it comes down to should i stick around or should i move on... well me and my best guy friend had sex in oct.[guy a] of this year and i slept with is best friend[guy b] in nov. of this year [i know that makes me seem like a slut] but his best friend was like my ... (146 words)

Is he just playing with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5810 days ago

17 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hi there i need help, am now in a foreign country studying where i meet this other boy also from my country studying,we fall in love with each other,that we we sometimes talk of getting married but there is a HUGE problem.he explained to me that before he come to study he was ... (215 words)

I'm pregnant my boyfriend is an asshole!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4855 days ago

17 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Im having a baby and my boyfriend treats me like shit and i do everything for him yes i will yell sometimes but not all the time but i do everything i can and more and he will be the biggest asshole to me but i love him and i dont know what to do i cry all the time and i cant ... (71 words)

Fishy smell?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

17 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - if i have a fishy like smell what to do... (10 words)

Signs of falling in love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

17 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My question is a very simple one. How do you know you are falling in love with a person. What are the signs you look for. I think i am falling in love with my girlfriend. All help is appreciated. Thank you... (42 words)

My love is fading

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17 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - im 21 yrs old and i have a boyfriend we been together for about 3 yrs and we have a 5 month old son, he is the first and only boyfriend i ever had,lately im been questioning my love for him, dont get me wrong i do love him but its not a strong feeling anymore and im not sure if ... (82 words)

My girlfriend hates my friend should I distance myself?

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17 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Here's one for you. Firstly, I'd like you to read this situaion, and tell me what you think. There is a girl I know. When we see each other, we hug, perhaps kiss on the cheek, are really friendly with one another. I call her gorgeous, or honey, or sweetie, or whatever, ... (502 words)

My boyfriend masturbates to trans-sexuals

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17 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for over one year and we are both in our early 20's. About 3 months ago, I was dinking around on his computer and I found a site with t-girl porn (men qo view themselves, and live, as women). I asked him about the site and he told me about ... (219 words)

Should I wait or is he giving me a line?

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17 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Foolishly In Love?? I have been a relationship for four years. He cheated and now the other woman is pregnant. Foolishly I hung in there but we argued too much, he moved out and is now living with her (for past month). Problem is that I still love him, we still have sex a... (157 words)

Have youe ver tried penis enlargement pills? What were the results?

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17 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Who has ever tried penis enlargement pills? What were the results?... (11 words)

He broke up with me, however we still live together, any advice?

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17 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i been living with my boyfriend for 10 months but at the end of november he told me his plans for next year . He wantd us to live separate .He said he needed his onw space and his onw stuff. But the problem was that i went nuts ! i got very angry and i blow it up complitly. i ... (251 words)

Am in love or lust with best friend?

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17 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I need to know if I am in love with this guy I have known since first grade. he’s also my best guy friend which makes this so much harder. my friends say they think I am. but I don’t feel like I did the first time I was in love, I mean its the same over-whelming feeling but it ... (267 words)

Custody while having an absent parent?

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17 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hi, i live in ohio. my son's father has not seen him since 3-26-06. the last time he saw him he took him to his house instead of to the bowling alley where he said he was going(i let his girlfriend, now his wife pick him up) when i sent my sister to their house to pick up my ... (306 words)

Will he leave me for his models?

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17 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I NEED HELP! I have a wonderful boyfriend who I have been dating for 4 wonderful years. He is very artistic and loves to do artwork on my body. Recently he got a job to work for Bubble Magazine. He can't use the same model over and over because of his boss. There are more bea... (84 words)

He's a vrigin I'm not!

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17 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everybody, So there is a guy who I have been dating for about about a year. We had known each other for about 3 years but never really talked. He is so sweet, kind, and understanding. He is much older than I and more intelligent. Well he is a virgin and believes in saving h... (127 words)

Married just because I'm pregnant?

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17 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - About three weeks ago I took a pregnancy test that came back positive. My ex and I broke up about 9 months ago after dating for 3 years. We still see each other at least once a month and generally spend a couple of days together. Now that I'm pregnant we don't know what to do. ... (218 words)

I'm the only one who says "I love you", he used to say it too, am I worrying for nothing?

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17 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I know my guy loves me. We have been going out for a while. In the beginning of the relationship, we both kept saying "I love you" non stop. But now a days, I'm the only who says it, and when I do, all he does is agree. Am I working myself up over nothing?... (55 words)

We ignore each other since he found out that I like him, what to do about it?

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17 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - There's this guy in my 8th period class, and the whole class found out that i like him-witch is true... we used to talk and stare at each other but now we ignore each other... He's kinda shy...wht should I do?... (42 words)

We split up, he got married, he calls and wants to get together, I still love him, why?

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17 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I feel like I am in limbo. I am still in love with my ex boyfriend who I split up with 3 years ago. He met somone else soon after we split up and he is now married to her. I thought I would soon move on and find someone else but I realised I havn't been able to move on because ... (102 words)

He treated me very badly, we broke up, I still love him, he drove by my house four times, what does he want?

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17 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i broke up with my boyfriend because he cheated and he was starting to treat me bad. I didnt want to break up but it was hurting me so much. when i broke up with him he acted like he didnt care. i was crying so much and he didnt even do anything about it. I dont know if he ... (173 words)

His parents think I'm going to de-flower him!

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17 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, Last month, I turned seventeen. My boyfriend of almost seven weeks will turn fourteen in March. Despite the age difference, we have a GREAT relationship. He seems to always know what to say whenever it feels like my world is crashing and burning all around me. H... (350 words)

He blew me off hung up on me!

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17 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - help my boyfriend totally blew me off today i called him and he said he had to go and just hung up what do i do he had a friend over but i feel like he hates me but he said he loves me still... (45 words)

I keep having dreams about my old crush, does this mean something?

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17 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey i just want an input on this lately ive been having dreams with my old crush. in my dreams he keeps on coming back into my life.he left my life about a year ago but these dreams are driving me nuts. in one he goes up to me and tells me "we can finaly be together nothing... (139 words)

Fell in love on-line, now heart broken, how do I move on?

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17 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I know this is going to sound sad and pathetic, but I really need help. On Myspace there's this thing called Roleplaying(they probably have it on other sites like it too), it's where you use someone else's (famous or not) pictures and talk with kids/teens from all over the ... (292 words)

Should I always have to call him, when he says he likes me so much?

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17 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - What if a boy don't call and he always expect you to call, but he tells you that he like you so much. So should I keep calling or stop calling and wait for him to call me? ... (38 words)

I'm fed up with my boyfriend!

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17 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - okay well let's just say that i am so fed up. tonight for example my boyfriend of just about 4 months breaks up with me, i'm all sad of course in the mall, and then he asks me back our and i say yes.but he always calls me a hypocrite because i hate when he talks to his ex ... (204 words)

My roommate is straight with a girlfriend. I'm gay, I love him, we make out, what should I do?

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17 December 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Ok so here we go.. I'm gay and all my friends and most of my coworkers know it. I have one straight room mate and about 8 months ago my straight room mate asked me to give him a massage and it turned into more then that. At the time i thought it was a bad idea, but I kind of ... (170 words)

Should I worry about him cheating, when he goes back home?

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17 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - So I have been dating this guy for a while. I have such strong feelings for him. He was with me during my pregnancy, labor and delivery, and is great with my baby as well. (the biological father left the picture while i was pregnant). I can't seem to convince myself to trust ... (342 words)

He sends such mixed messages do he like me?

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17 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So there's this guy in my class. We'll call him Johnathan I knew him ever since seventh grade. When we first met in seventh grade we hated each other. But as the years went on in tenth grade we became very fond of each other where we were telling each other everything. I began ... (231 words)

Am I being too pushy with him?

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17 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, Me and my boyfriend been together for 3 years now and we lived together for 2 years. I moved here in california last year. Before, he asked me to stay with him and not to moved anymore but i said i cant because i cant live with the weather in vegas anymore so he le... (435 words)

He made plans with me, then took another woman shopping, disrespectful or not?

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17 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - A friend who is male and I had plans to do something one day and I made plans to do something that day and set aside time. He text me the day before saying that he had to go out of town. Later that week I discovered that he took a woman shopping that day, totally standing me ... (84 words)

Any tips for making sex beautiful?

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17 December 2008 (M) age 30-35 - Ladies please reply. What makes sex enjoyable for you? What about sex is satisfying for you? How do you define good sex and good loving? Ladies, in your opinion what makes sex beautiful? Any tips for making sex beautiful? ... (44 words)

Do I leave her? Do I fight for her? Am I just lonely and find our relationship comforting?

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17 December 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I am a married man of 11 years with two children under 9 years. My wife and I are on the verge of a divorce and are waiting until after the holidays and figuring out the logistics of the house, finaces and child care. Nine months ago I met a younger married woman and since then ... (373 words)

Who's right? Me or Him?

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17 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok well about a month or two ago, my boyfriend (almost a year) went to the dentist, but when he came back to school a few days later, i was holding his phone for him, and i got a message from his homeboy, who was right infront of me, then it comes to my conclusion, it was a ... (213 words)

How can I learn to be more open?

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17 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay. I'm 15 years old and have been dating my boyfriend for almost three months but I've known him alittle lonqer. We have a qood relationship. We usually have qood talks- about sex or love and other serious thinqs, but we do talk normal about school and stuff.. But the othe... (231 words)

How can I break his porn habit?

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17 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend of 3 years are now engaged!!! But I have one question... why does he seem to be so addicted to porn?? All of the pictures on his Sony PSP are mainly porn.Every time he gets to use a computer or when he gets to a WiFi hotspot, he always gets new porn pictures ... (109 words)

What's going on with his behavior?

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17 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been seeing a guy for about 2 months now. everything was going well, untill about a week ago really..nothing bad happened..i just didn't see him cause he said he was ill. i went round to see him tonight and things were ok..we were getting on ok anyway. but he didn't tr... (210 words)

Is it just flirting or something more?

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17 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 19, going to be 20 in two weeks. I go to school 7 hours from here but my family lives here and I come home and work during breaks and such. I work at an insurance company. Basically, we have a lawyer who just turned 37 a few days ago who works out of our office and I've ... (216 words)

What do you do on top?

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17 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this is going to sound stupid but I have only ever slept with one guy and thats my boyfriend and he was always on top now he's asked me to go on top but I dont know what you do... I know this sounds stupid but could somebody please tell me what I do. Thank you... (60 words)

Bartending fiance?

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17 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My 29 year old Fiancee wants to begin Bartending. Should I be concerned?... (13 words)

Should I just give up on being in a relationship?

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17 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi and thanks for reading this! Ok here goes ...i joined an online dating site for about a month i was feeling really down because all my friends seem to be in relationships and i'm the odd one out!i'm very attractive and i'm a very educated woman but when i go out guys just... (293 words)

What does he want?

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17 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - We started dating and everything was fine until we had sex for about 2 months and next thing i know he says he just wants to be friends but he still acts the same but we aren't having sex anymore. Soo I don't know what he wants?... (47 words)

Do dreams really come true?

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17 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, Lately mostly every single day I've been having dreams about the one person i truly care about and its always about him and I- Every night I'm just dreaming about him like my dreams never changed just differen't stories- I'm not a true believer in dreams but now ... (176 words)

Is HPT reliable?

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17 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Generally My gf period is on 5th of every month, but in this month already delayed by 12 days. She checked her pregnancy by HPT. But the test was negative. So, Is HPT reliable?? Please tell me the symptoms of pregnancy at this point in time??... (46 words)

Is she with me for what she can get out of me?

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17 December 2008 (F)

age - hi iim really mixed up about my relationship.i am a lesbian, i have been with my girlfriend for 6 yrs. we dont live together as i had a flat before we met. an she had house with her two grown up daughters. whenever i go there its like if she dont want me there really. she.s ... (246 words)

He pours his heart out to me but I just want to be friends

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17 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - What if a boy purls out his heart to you, about you. But I'm scared to purl my heart to him, about him. Becasue I want to keep it on a friendship level and not anything more. Is that possible? ... (42 words)

My partner flirts with her daughter's boyfriend!

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17 December 2008 (F)

My guy has all these rules for me

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17 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i hope somebody can shed light on my situation... I have been seeing a guy 4 8 months, we dont live together, he lives 60 miles away from me, we are in love like truly, but he always tells me how i shouldnt ring him in work and how i should call hi straight back after a phone ... (210 words)

Whats wrong with me? Is it depression?

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17 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm new to this site. Basically I'm 17 (nearly 18) and have had a bit of a tough year. To cut a long story short this time last year I got broke up with my boyfriend, found out I was pregnant with his baby and had an abortion in February. My parent's divorced and I moved ... (432 words)