I think my husband is involved with his sister!
Q. I Think my husband is involved with his sister!! She was living with us and caused a lot of arguments between us such as butting in on our finances and everything. my baby son started callin her mama she would get happy! They would always be ...
A. 25 September 2007: Get that divorce and make sure you get every penny you can from the nutcase. Consider your life not as ruined but just beginning. That situation was sick and wrong, good riddance to bad rubbish. Good luck Honey, you'll be just fine.... (read in full...)
Having sex and not losing virginity?
Q. is there a way to have sex and not losing virginity? What does sex from the back means? is oral sex dangerous? ...
A. 25 September 2007: Please tell me that at the ripe old age of 22-25 yrs. you aren't asking this question. You clicked the age bracket incorrectly, right? sigh...... (read in full...)
I'm 18 and no longer attend my old school. Can I approach the teacher I had a crush on?
Q. ok so i'm an 18 year old girl and i have the hugest crush or whatever you'd call it thing for what used to be my 10th grade science teacher who's about 15 years older than me. I know it sounds so typical but it's not, i get so excited when i run ...
A. 24 September 2007: As long as he isn't married or in a relationship go for it but don't be surprised to find out he isn't the slightest bit interested.... (read in full...)
My bf beat me up, now he wants to talk about it and it's making me uncomfortable! Am I reacting how I should?
Q. a while back my boyfriend beat the crap out of me, like literally. i don't even want to talk about it. and for some silly reason i decided to stay with him. now he's getting into the wanting to talk about it phase and the other night he was like "ho...
A. 24 September 2007: Next time he brings it up ask him to go first. Did beating you up make him feel all big and powerful. Did he have fun? Did it remind him of the animals he used to torture as a boy? Did it feel good to cause you pain and humiliation? So good that he ... (read in full...)
She can't have sex b/c of a medical condition and is unwilling to talk about it! I already flirt w/ others, but feel I may crumble altogether!
Q. I've been living with my girlfriend for a couple of years now. About a year ago she developed a condition which makes it too painful for her to have sex. The doctors can't offer any hope that she'll ever recover. Meanwhile I'm finding myself i...
A. 24 September 2007: I agree with philatiger, I've been around a long time and I've never heard of your girlfriend's condition. Of course I'm not a doctor but the fact that she is not willing to accommodate you in any way sexually or even talk about it makes it highly ... (read in full...)
He broke up with me b/c of his family - now I want to make his weekend as miserable as possible!
Q. this is the third time that i have been to this site to ask for help in the last two weeks. i am in my sixtes and my so called bf is in his late sixties. it involves a very emeshed and fused together family.we have been dating for almost 3 years ...
A. 24 September 2007: Good lord you two sound like two little kids. He's a grown man for crying out loud, why on earth is he allowing ANYBODY to tell him who to date and who not to? Tell him to grow a backbone, I sure wouldn't allow myself to be sneaking around hiding in ... (read in full...)
I'm really insecure about his ex. What can I do?
Q. I feel silly for posting this... but, a few months back, my boyfriend was in touch with a girl. I got quite jealous and an instinct told me this girl was something else... well, my boyfriend told me she was just a friend, and I was ok with it, ...
A. 24 September 2007: Pretty is as pretty does so I guess she isn't all that pretty after all since she cheated on him. Try not to dwell on her looks but on her character, obviously you have her beat in that category. Your boyfriend is with you so just sit back and enjoy ... (read in full...)
I have lost my daughter and grandchildren forever because the boyfriend controls her! Help!
Q. my daughter quit talking to me. how can i repair our relationship? it was over her relationship with her boyfriend of ten years. please help! my daughter won't even give me her phone number. i know her boyfriend is behind of all of this. when she ...
A. 24 September 2007: Boy oh boy, I sure feel for you on this one. Her boyfriend sounds like a real peice of work. He has her totally under his control. I just hope she isn't terribly unhappy. There is little you can do except to let her know that you love her and will ... (read in full...)
I've re connected with someone from 20 yrs ago. He isnt single. The guilt is terrible. What should I do?
Q. I am older than probably most people that post here but recently I reconnected with someone from my past that I haven't seen in over 20 years and I feel like I have come home in a sense. I cared for him back then and those feelings have not ...
A. 24 September 2007: You are right you need to disappear out of his life and let him work out his situation on his own. If he decides to divorce then he can look you up. In the meantime just try to stay busy and involved with your own life. Each day will get easier and ... (read in full...)
I'm begining to get very anxious about the future with my husband when our daughter leaves home.
Q. Iam beginning to get very anxious about the future.My husband and I have been married for nearly 30 years are in our early 50s and have been happy apart from the usual niggles people in a long marriage have.For awhile now I have been getting really ...
A. 24 September 2007: If this is the only sore spot in your marriage then I think you can find a solution that will be acceptable to both of you. Maybe he can cut down on the beer and maybe you can get him to go to bed instead of falling asleep on the couch. Surely some ... (read in full...)
12 and been having sex with a married man. What should I do?
Q. hi i am 12 years old ands I live in wisconsin. I've been having sex with this guy (i baby sit for) he does not use condums when we doit he says hes alergic to them. I dont know what to do but i think i am pregnant. for the last 3 months he has not ...
A. 24 September 2007: I personally feel this whole story is just hog wash. Somebody has a very active imagination.... (read in full...)
He is never very affectionate.
Q. I know my bf loves me alot but he doesnt seem to want to be affectionate towards me... for eg, he doesnt want to stroke me to slp (if I asked him to... esp since I dont sleep easily) or a massage if my body's aching. He's ever ready to make out with ...
A. 21 September 2007: I don't he's selfish I think he just isn't a "toucher". Some people are just more affectionate and like touching their loved ones. I doubt if you can get him to be something he's not. Don't let it hurt you he's not doing this to be mean. Encourage ... (read in full...)
He said hes begining to like me but he has a wife and child. What am I going to do?
Q. I like this guy and he said he's beginning to like me too..but the problem is he has a wife and a child..what am i going to do?..should i believe him?...
A. 21 September 2007: He is only looking for sex, he is a cheater and a cad. Leave him alone or you will be responsible for a lot of pain and that would include hurting yourself. Hold yourself in higher esteem. ... (read in full...)
Why do I flirt so bad with other guys when I'm with my bf?
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend now for a year and a half and a couple of times when we go out we are drinking and i flirt with other guys i mingle and dingle and flirt and kinda forget about my bf then on we'll usually get into a fight and on the ...
A. 17 September 2007: Personality change after drinking alcohol is a red flag. You have a symptom of alcoholism. If I were you I'd lay off the sauce, you can't trust yourself under the influence. Stay in control.... (read in full...)
Should I let my 16 year old daughter sleep in the same bed with her bf?
Q. me my husband and our daughter are going on holiday for a week soon and i've told her she can take her bf who i know extremely well and have known all his life. I was just wondering what you would think if i let them sleep in the same bed. They...
A. 17 September 2007: I have raised two daughters and a son. What you are allowing is irresponsible as far as I'm concerned. Children need to have limitations and rules in order to feel secure. It also gives them a face saving out with their friends and boyfriends ie. "I ... (read in full...)
My life
Q. hello ladies and gentlemen i met this wonderful guy named Will Baety from Utah over a month and a half ago on Inklink we are going to meet this Christmas since he coming down to visit me and have a New Year with me we are in love. But he says he is ...
A. 14 September 2007: Of course you shouldn't plan on marrying someone you haven't even met face to face, that's just nuts and especially nuts considering your age! What's the hurry? Are your parents cool with this?... (read in full...)
How likely is it to get pregnant when only the pull-out method is used?
Q. Hey guys...=) Well basicly last night I had unprotected sex...i know it was stupid...I definatly wont be taking risks again... i know the guy/his history etc so STI'S isn't an issue... but I'm worried there could be a possibility of getting pregn...
A. 14 September 2007: Of course you can get pregnant with the "pull out" method. If you are smart you'll go to the pharmacy and get the morning after pill ASAP. ... (read in full...)
How do I get my husband of 15 years back after my mid-life crisis affair?
Q. is there such a thing as midlife crisis,i'm a women of 44,been split with my husband of 15 years.i went off and had affair,never even look at another man before,started flirting with men,wanted my life back i suppose.then one morning i woke up and ...
A. 14 September 2007: Well you can sit around waiting and hoping he and the new woman don't last or you can get on with your life. He may feel that since the trust is gone the relationship with you is just too damaged. ... (read in full...)
My fiance said it didn't matter if he thought of other women, that he loved me. I'm confused!
Q. im engaged and afew months before we are to be married i asked if he ever fantisize about other women...his reply, what if i do,what does it matter,i love you...im lost and dont know what to do with this......
A. 14 September 2007: He should have lied and said, "No dear, never!" lol. Of course men fantasize on occassion there's no harm in it. They should just be smart and keep to themselves.... (read in full...)
How do I get my husband of 15 years back after my mid-life crisis affair?
Q. is there such a thing as midlife crisis,i'm a women of 44,been split with my husband of 15 years.i went off and had affair,never even look at another man before,started flirting with men,wanted my life back i suppose.then one morning i woke up and ...
A. 14 September 2007: Sounds like you are S.O.L. Your affair must have killed off any feelings he had for you. Dust yourself off and move on.... (read in full...)
If a female family member is home alone with her relative's husband, what are the chances she will have sex with him?
Q. what do think the chances are of a female family member on the wife's side having sex with the husband if she moves in with the husband and wife. especially if she is alone with him alot while is wife is at work....
A. 14 September 2007: If you are asking this question then I wouldn't allow the female family member to move in with the couple. There must be a reason for asking.... (read in full...)
Can a 17 year old be jailed for impregnating a 14 year old?
Q. can a 17 year old male get put in jail for getting a 14 year old female pregnant...
A. 14 September 2007: Talk to a lawyer, you may or may not need one.... (read in full...)
Do you think we could get back together and have a future? I just want it to be how it was before.
Q. The problem is, me and my boyfriend haven't been getting on well lately. It's because he meets me at the weekends when he's in a bad mood or else he doesn't bother meeting me at all. He always prefers his friend's company to mine unless he decides ...
A. 14 September 2007: Some relationships just peter out. Sounds like this one has too. I think it's time to move forward and find someone else. Lots of fish in the sea sweetheart.... (read in full...)
My friend got back w/ her abusive ex and said we can no longer talk! I'm tired of her getting hurt! What can I do now?
Q. I need some advice on dealing with a friend and her boyfriend. First some background info: I met her at a church we were attending when I was 14 and she was 7 in 1994, I'm now 27 and she's 20. When we met we hit it off instantly and we were like ...
A. 14 September 2007: It sounds like you have fallen in love with her. That's too bad because she doesn't seem to feel the same about you. That's painful for sure but I don't see anything you can do about it at this point. Stay busy with your own life and perhaps she ... (read in full...)
My wife was harassed when out for a drink with friends. She's scared and blaming herself, what to do to reassure her?
Q. Hi this morning my wife seemed abit upset it took her ages to admit what was wrong but she went out with some of her friends for a drink last night and there was this guy trying his best to well i won't say make a pass at her but he kept hinting he ...
A. 14 September 2007: Eddie's fix on the situation makes perfect sense. Judging by her extreme distress the following morning indicates to me that she feels guilty about something. I wouldn't make it a big deal though since nothing really happened.... (read in full...)
She has trust issues and constantly accuses me of cheating. Someone please help!!!
Q. My girlfriend that I have know for over twelve years andI have been with her for the past 2 years. she always wants to accuse me of cheating. Her ex Husband cheated on her and she walked in on the two of them well you know. and now she is very ...
A. 13 September 2007: She definitely needs some counseling in order to get over her insecurities. The underlying issues that cause this insecurity have to be addressed before she can be helped. They may not have anything at all to do with you but have become her target ... (read in full...)
How do I get over my ex sleeping with another guy?
Q. I want to know how to get over the fear and pain of your ex-girlfriend having sex with another guy?...
A. 13 September 2007: You are driving yourself crazy by dwelling on something you can't do anything about anyway. You need to try and get your thoughts channelled in a new direction. It's easier if you stay busy and keep your mind busy as well. If you find yourself ... (read in full...)
My ex-boss destroyed my marriage. I still can't move on.
Q. I went through several back surgeries that did not work out well, the doctor kept me on pain pills for 2 years and this really put a burden on my marrage, financially, physically, and for me mentally. At that time my boss at work was in charge of ...
A. 13 September 2007: Oh it's fair alright. This is how most mistresses end up, alone and bitter. Hopefully you can straighten out your thinking, especially that stupid revenge idea, and decide to live the rest of your life with some honor and integrity. Remember that it ... (read in full...)
How do I get over my ex sleeping with another guy?
Q. I want to know how to get over the fear and pain of your ex-girlfriend having sex with another guy?...
A. 13 September 2007: Do you mean she slept with another guy while you were together but now you have broken up? Or that you are broken up and she has slept with someone after the breakup? The answers will be different depending on which it is.... (read in full...)
She broke up w/ me, but says she may change her mind! I'm so confused.
Q. Hello me 24 and my ex 27 broke up with me 1 week and a half ago after almost 3 years together. It all started with her saying shes not in love with me anymore, but she still loves me. She said it was over, but tells me with all of her exes she knew ...
A. 13 September 2007: What's the story on the house you bought together? She gets to live in it and you had to find another place to live? That's hardly fair. She's has you sitting in her back pocket while she's waffling back and forth. At least you guys should sell the ... (read in full...)
I want an open relationship! Any experienced people, please let me know how you got on?
Q. Hi I have been with my guy 4 years I was with my ex 17 years Im now in my 30s with 3 children. My guy always likes the women to instagate sex ,make the first move and dress up stocking etc which I didnt mind at first but I get fed up with the havi...
A. 13 September 2007: Whoa, if he doesn't want an open relationship then you have no choice but to end this relationship. Open relationships only work if BOTH parties are willing. If he doesn't agree to this you have to split or someone is going to get badly hurt.... (read in full...)
Does it make me a bad person to do something for myself for once?
Q. What are peoples reactions to thinking of number one. I have spent my whole life making others happy over myself, being walked all over, let down, used and a human punchbag (verbally) for peoples problems. Does it make me a bad person to do so...
A. 13 September 2007: Of course it doesn't make you a bad person to insist on some "me time". Everybody should take time out for themselves. Go for it.... (read in full...)
I was drunk and had sex with my neighbor, I am not sure if it was rape. What should I do?
Q. ok, not too long ago, i was home alone and my family was out on vacation. well one night, i got drunk by myself and then i heard the doorbell, i opened it thinkin it was one of my friends came to visit me. but it was my neighbor, my 58 year old ...
A. 13 September 2007: "all night we did it till the morning" if you were not tied to the bed or restrained in some way, then this is not rape just a bad decision to have sex with the old geezer. I understand your regrets but did agree to it. It's water under the bridge ... (read in full...)
A 27yr old man was persuing me on the internetnet and I called the police. Now my friends make fun of me.
Q. i was online a couple of weeks ago in a chat room and was talking to a whole bunch of people and trying to make new friends. after awhile a man who said he was 27 started talking to me and things were nice. we spent a couple days talking and soon he ...
A. 13 September 2007: Ignore your friend, she's way out of line. You may have saved your own life or some other young girl's. I hope the cops find the perv. You and your sister are a heroes pure and simple.... (read in full...)
I'm married to the man I wanted to make him jealous with, but I'm still in love with him, which my husband knows. Do I reestablish contact?
Q. While in school i met a guy and fancied him, he was shy and took him a year to kiss me. This was wrecking my head so i tried to make him jealous and be more manly so to speak. So this other guy fancied me and i went out with him, i got pregnant and ...
A. 12 September 2007: Get a divorce, I can't imagine why your husband wants to be with someone he knows doesn't love him. He deserves so much more than a cheating wife. Do him a favor and cut him loose so he can find some true happiness. Once you are free maybe your old ... (read in full...)
My ex keeps contacting me and blaming me for our breakup
Q. I split with my girlfriend 4 months ago. I'm 36, she's 40. I still have strong feelings for her and during these 4 moths I have not contacted her once. Although she wants to believe the decision was mutual, it was more her doing. She wanted to ...
A. 12 September 2007: Since the contact is causing you pain, I would avoid it. She sounds very self-centered. If you can't avoid her on the job, you certainly can off the job. That way you will only have to deal with her every two weeks and keep that at a minimum as much ... (read in full...)
How do you tell if a man is lying about wanting to sleep with your sister?
Q. how do u tell if a man is lieing about wanting to sleep with your sister?...
A. 12 September 2007: Based on all the information you have supplied...the only way to tell if he's lying is if you don't have a sister?... (read in full...)
18th birthday and no gift...
Q. Hi, I have a bit of a problem, and I'm not sure what I should be feeling. Today is my 18th birthday. I've had a brilliant day in all, and I'm very thankful for everything I recieved.. But something has got to me. A month or so ago I split up w...
A. 12 September 2007: I think you are being ridiculous.... (read in full...)
I got married 3 months ago even though I am in love with the other man! I feel trapped and alone.
Q. I am married 3 months, we live 2gether for 5 years and we were ok I though,but something always seemed missing,but we were so busy planning a new house and the wedding I never really asked myself what was wrong. Just 3 weeks before the wedding a ...
A. 12 September 2007: Get a divorce or maybe you can get an annulment since you have only been married for three months. It was a stupid mistake but people make the same one every day. You are hardly trapped just take care of business and start over.... (read in full...)
I'm 24, she's 53. Most of her children are older than me and they accept me, but will this really work?
Q. Can an age gap relationship work? I am 24 and she 53. I lover her very much and have fantastic sex together. The thing is I sometimes worry that the relationship will not last, even though we are living together and talking about marriage. The re...
A. 12 September 2007: Wow you've got quite the age gap there, Dude. I'm assuming you are okay with the fact that she won't be giving you any kids and that when you are 34 she'll be 63, and when you are only 44 she'll be 73, and when you are 54 she'll be 83...I know I ... (read in full...)
During break from my guy I got pregnany by someone else. How can I get my guy to take me back?
Q. my x R and i were recently on a break. well during this "break" i should have continued to be faithful but i wasnt. i had a one night stand and i am currently 5 1/2 months pregnant. as soon as i became aware of the fact that i was pregnant i told my ...
A. 12 September 2007: Well there is not much you can do at this point. He doesn't want to be with you. Time to focus on the baby and his/her arrival. You can cling to the hope that he will change his mind but I think I would just move on. With a baby coming you have lots ... (read in full...)
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