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male
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41-50,
*hbetheone
writes:Hello me 24 and my ex 27 broke up with me 1 week and a half ago after almost 3 years together. It all started with her saying shes not in love with me anymore, but she still loves me. She said it was over, but tells me with all of her exes she knew it was over for good but with me its different. That feelings can change ,that she can wake up next month and be back in love, and she tells her parents that she feels as if she is going to regret this but right now it feels right . We bought a home together a year ago, which I moved out from, she wanted to get the house for us to start a life started together, so did I . We talked about getting married and all that stuff. Her parents went over to our home yesterday for dinner. Her mother asked her how can she have all of our pictures still out, and she said well he is a great friend still I hope. Yet she dosent ever have any pictures of any of her other exes out anywhere that she is still friends with . Well I found out she kissed on her good guy friends a week ago, I confronted her about it and she said she drank way too much. That it was nothing but a mitake , and that she dosent see him in that way , that she told him she dosent want that type of relationship , that all she wants is his friendship,and what they did was nothing but a mistake. Im trying to go on with my life hanging out with my friends, and going out on weekends. I just dont know what to think about us. Is it completely over or is she confused I dont know . I cant get any answers out of her, I dont call her at all she has called me though. I dont know HELP!!!
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (13 September 2007):
 What's the story on the house you bought together? She gets to live in it and you had to find another place to live? That's hardly fair. She's has you sitting in her back pocket while she's waffling back and forth. At least you guys should sell the house and split the money. Then she can do all the waffling she wants while you move on with your life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2007): hmm sounds like my situation except for the kissing part. anyway if u still love her then just try and wait it out. I know its hard cause I goin thrue the samething but me and .my ex wife just recently started hanging out. just as friends though. she did say that her intentions are to see how she feels around mw again since we broke up 1 month ago and it wasn't a pretty break up. anyway at first I was allttle down but then I really started missing her presence about a week ago. it doesn't help that she also has a myspace so I can't neva stop visiting her page. anyway listen just don't pressure her into anything. ask her why and what are her intentions with u. then just try and be cool about it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2007): Don't contact her. I have a feeling she's involved with someone else but is trying to keep you close at bay incase the other relationship fails. She's stringing you along.
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