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Advice needed. 15, pregnant and don't know what to do... please help!

Q.   Im 15 I Am pregnant and dont know what to do.. Please help me? If your gunna judge than dont say anything....

A.   17 March 2010: Lexie, I posted early in your thread, but I havn't posted since..I have been keeping up with it tho, and I am so glad to hear that you are doing so good. :-) Being pregnant is an amazing experience... I am glad that you are looking at your situatio... (read in full...)

I feel guilty about asking my mum to move out when I got married

Q.   I wanted my mom to be on her own and get her apartment after I got married. She finally got one and will be moving soon and I feel sad and guilty now about this, I thought that this is what I wanted but now, im not sure. I have mix feelings about ...

A.   23 February 2010: There is nothing wrong with you wanting to have your privacy. Being a newlywed can be hard/stressful enough with out having another person sharing your space. That doesn't mean that you don't love your mother. Your mom probably understands that, but ... (read in full...)

Now my husband has lost weight I cant help but be turned off by him!

Q.   okay, my husband starting working out again but only after I got some diet pills to loose weight. It really bugs me that he has lost more weight than me and built more muscle. He has always been on the thicker side since we got married and I loved ...

A.   17 February 2010: Your husband has tried to better himself, and all you can do is complain? I have an acquaintance whose husband is very large , but any time she says anything about him losing weight he just eats more. She isn’t saying it because of his look, she is ... (read in full...)

Advice needed. 15, pregnant and don't know what to do... please help!

Q.   Im 15 I Am pregnant and dont know what to do.. Please help me? If your gunna judge than dont say anything....

A.   16 February 2010: Sweetie, just what are you wanting to know? Have you told your parents or your baby's daddy? If not then that is the first thing you need to do, then you need to find a doctor. They (your parents and or your doctor) can tellyou what to expect as far ... (read in full...)

EX boyfriend wants to get me pregnant!

Q.   Me and Ex were together for just about 2 years. Lived together and were talking about marriage. We prob moved in too soon and the arguments got worse and worse. He decided he wanted to split for a while so we both could figure out our issues and ...

A.   4 January 2010: Your concerns are defiantly legit! No matter how bad you want a baby, it is not a good idea to have one with a man that is not committed to you. If I were you, I would tell him that you would be willing to try for a baby, ONLY after you are in a ... (read in full...)

Young male, pretty overweight - how should I dress to hide this?

Q.   I'm a young male, but I'm pretty overweight. Not morbidly obese, but pudgy. How should I dress/appear so that I am more attractive to women?...

A.   28 December 2009: I agree that baggier clothes are more slimming, and a sense of humor is much more important than weight! But you are asking about appearance... the most important things, in my opinion, are neatness and personal hygiene. Also, a nice cologne can go ... (read in full...)

He's making me feel guilty because he pays for me on dates!

Q.   i've been in a relationship with a wonderful guy for over a year now. in the beginning of the relationship, things were fine. i was in high school and he was in college. neither of us were quite financially sound (hey, we're students), so it...

A.   28 December 2009: I'm sorry, but it sounds to me like you need a new boyfriend!!... (read in full...)

What does a laugh mean in response to a display of affection?

Q.   Hey everyone. I'm in need of some female opinion. Will take male opinion too if you wish. Ok long story short. I have a girl for a best friend who I am very much in love with. She knows all about this and though she says she doesn't want the ...

A.   28 December 2009: I don't know your friend so I can't speak for her, but if I were in the same situation, I would probably laugh also... not because anything is funny, but more because I feel self-concious and am not sure how to react. I don't know if anyone else has ... (read in full...)

Does wanting to bite her neck make me like a vampire?

Q.   HI im 14 and i have a girlfriend and we cuddle and all that stuff but every time she puts he neck by my fae i want to bite her its wierd and scary, it like vampire shit...

A.   25 December 2009: I think it depends on what you mean when you say you want to bite her. Are you wanting to cause her pain? Taste blood? If so, then yes, I think you should be worried by those kinds of desires, but if you are wanting to nibble on, or even lightly ... (read in full...)

I can't stop thinking about my teacher!

Q.   I need help! I had this teacher last year he was amazing he is so sweet and caring he is 12 years older than me .i really love him.I know that he knows that i like him because one of my bestfriends asked him out for me .He makes me get shivers a...

A.   23 December 2009: Sweetie, it's just a crush. I am not trying to downplay your feelings, crushes can involve some very strong feelings, and they can be very fun if you handle those feeling right, but very painful if not! Enjoy those "warm fuzzy" feelings you get when ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is so lazy, I feel like his mother!

Q.   my bf seem so lazy all the time and im starting to feel like his mother. when i ask him to do anything he take weeks to do it. for a few examples i asked him 7 weeks ago if i left one of my fave tops at his and he still not looked, 8 months ago i ...

A.   22 December 2009: If he loved you and really wanted to live near you then he wouldn't need to be reminded, repeatedly, to take care of the details, i.e. job, house, etc. It sounds to of like he is not mature enough or responsible enough for a serious relationship. If ... (read in full...)

Is it okay to make out with someone when you're about to break up with your girlfriend?

Q.   Hi everyone. I was just wondering if it's okay to cheat if you're about to break up. I have a gf and i'm not really happy with things so i'm going to break up with her when I see her next. I was wondering if it's okay if I make out with someone ...

A.   1 December 2009: No, like SatinDesire said, it is still cheating. You need to break up with your gf first. If it is going to be a while before you see your her then you could do it over the phone. It is rather rude, and she will probably be upset but if it was me... ... (read in full...)

What could this problem be?

Q.   my vagina produces a milky like substance it comes out very slowly it does not have a foul smell.what could the problem be?...

A.   26 November 2009: Is this something that has just started, or something that has been going on for a long time? If it is a recent thing then you should definantly see a Doc but if it is something that you have always had, it could be normal. You should probably still ... (read in full...)

Are they husband and wife?Cousins? Or brother and sister?

Q.   My son married my best friends daughter a few yrs ago and have a kid. 5 months ago i hooked up with my friend and now she is expecting our kid. How do we figure this out. The new baby will be both our kids half sibling making them not only related ...

A.   20 November 2009: Wow, it looks like your question was answered. :-) My family is a little confusing also, but as long as every one gets along, thats what matters, and when people ask how you are related you just smile and give them the condensed version. :-)... (read in full...)

Are they husband and wife?Cousins? Or brother and sister?

Q.   My son married my best friends daughter a few yrs ago and have a kid. 5 months ago i hooked up with my friend and now she is expecting our kid. How do we figure this out. The new baby will be both our kids half sibling making them not only related ...

A.   19 November 2009: I understand your situation, however I don't see a question here. What exactly are you asking?... (read in full...)

I need a light at the end of the tunnel!

Q.   I feel completely alone. I hate school, no one gets me or speaks to me. How do I survive my last year of high school before I go to Uni? I hope Uni will be a fresh start with new people who are more mature/nicer. I am giving up,...

A.   14 November 2009: While I am at a completly different place in my life, I have struggled with some of the same feelings and do understand at least part of how you are feeling. Like anon said we all feel like that at some time, and it feels like life will always b... (read in full...)

Is it normal to blush everytime you see a cute guy?

Q.   hi, i just have a question. is it normal for girls to like several guys at once. well not excactly like but think they look hot or something, because everytime i see a cute guy, i totally blush everytime i see him (like at school) is this normal...

A.   11 November 2009: Absolutly, some people blush easier that others, but it is perfectly normal. However, it is embarrassing at times! It is also very normal to be attracted to more that one guy at a time. ;-)... (read in full...)

My teen pregnancy inspired my 12 year old sister to get pregnant. What do I do?

Q.   I'm 17 and pregnant, and I keep telling my family about how much I love it, and it inspired my 12 year old sister to get pregnant. What should we do?...

A.   5 November 2009: I'm not sure if you are saying that she is already pregnant or that she wants to be, but I think that this is probably not as much about pregnancy and babies, as it is about her feeling left out. Talk to her, she may be feeling like you are "more ... (read in full...)

Should I ditch this engagement? After what she did with this guy?

Q.   I need help. I just found out my fiancee cheated on me a little while ago. I don't know if I should marry her or not. I'm real pissed off and upset, but I love her, but this is not acceptable. I'm a believer in that 2 people who are in love and ...

A.   5 November 2009: If she will cheat on you while you are dating, it is very likely that she will cheat after you are married. ... (read in full...)

If I leave my girlfriend, will she let me see our son?

Q.   I'm 23 and my girlfriend is 22. We've been together for a year and a half. But, we consistently have problems in the relationship, and the love just faded a long time ago...anyway When I let her know whats wrong, or if I have a concern regardin...

A.   3 November 2009: Whether you are with his mother or not you have a right as well as an obligation to be a part of your son's life. If you are concerned that she won't allow it then I would suggest having something set up legally with the costody and support of your ... (read in full...)

Prents!! Prime examples!! "Do you want a smack?" - "Are you going out looking like THAT?" No, of course I don't want a bloody smack! and Yes, I am going out looking like THIS!

Q.   Has anyone noticed, that for all their showing-off, their cars, and their "I'm-dad/mum-so-that-makes-me-right" attitde, that parents tend to be slightly ridiculous most of the time? I mean, I still dont know the answer to "Where did you lose it?" ...

A.   3 November 2009: LOL! This is so funny, but just wait until you become a parent! I can't tell you how many times that I have opened my mouth and heard myself say one of those "dumb" thing that my parents used to tell me! :-D... (read in full...)

Should I have sex with her when we aren't in a relationship?

Q.   There's this girl that I've know since the 6th grade and I've always thought she had a nice body. We're in the 9th grade now. We started talking over the internet and one thing led to another and we ende up having internet sex and now se wants me to ...

A.   1 November 2009: Sex in the school bathroom is a very bad idea! I recommend waitin until you are in a serious relationship 4 sex, but even if you decide to have sex just for the sake of sex, find someplace a little more private.... (read in full...)

How can I retract my foreskin?

Q.   I am 15 and I can not retract my foreskin. Is there something wrong and what can I do to start retracting it?...

A.   1 November 2009: My son is not circumsized and when he was born I was told to try, at least once a week, to pull it back when I bathed him. It took a while, but I think the same method may work for you. Pull it back til you can tell that it is stretching. If you ... (read in full...)

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