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I love this woman that has 3 children. My family think I'm making a mistake. What should i do?
Q. I have been divorced for a little under 1 year, i have no kids of my own. Now i am falling in love with a woman with 3 kids and my family thinks that i am making a mistake........ i really love this woman. wht should i do?...
A. 27 August 2007: I agree with smeedle. I'm seeing/living with someone who has 4 kids. As long as your ok with it then I dont think it really matters. Who you see doesnt really have that much to do with your family. They maybe think your making a mistake because of ... (read in full...)
My mother in law told me she's having an affair, I told my husband. Now she is angry with me!
Q. My mother-in-law confided in me that she was having an affair. I kept the terrible secret for a long time but finally broke down and told my husband about it. He told his mother that he thought she was betraying his father and he was disappointed ...
A. 27 August 2007: I agree with skye here by the fact thee shee muust trust you very much to tell you a secret that huge. But then again I dont think that it was really fair. Do you think she could have told you thhis as a plot in which she new full well tat you ... (read in full...)
I feel like our sex life is making us argue all the time!
Q. Hey guys, I need alot of in depth help with my current relationship. I'm 16 and i've been with my girlfriend who is currently 14 for 10 months. I was so happy when i first got with her, we had great times together, but after 3-4 months, we start...
A. 26 August 2007: First of all I'm not going to be one of these people that giv e the morals of what the law does and doesnt say but I am going to say that sleeping with a 14 year old is a dodgey thing to be doing. I'm not saying this is what WILL happen but I am ... (read in full...)
How can I please him in bed?
Q. How can I please my 27 yr old bf of almost 7 months in the bedroom department?...
A. 26 August 2007: would people stop judgeing please.this is supposed to be for advice not to be judge by people. everyone that needs to be happy with me and my bf are aand we are not doing anything wrong. And for the record IM NOT 16, and i think i can make my own ... (read in full...)
We both cheated and cant trust each other
Q. my boyfriend and i have been together for 7 years. i cheated on him about 4years ago but i never told him. we lived together for 1 year last year.while we were in Europe and it was there that i got pregnant. so we decided that we should return home, ...
A. 19 July 2007: I dont mean to sound nasty but I think that you are both as bad as each other. Cheating hurts everybody. And just because you openly admitted that you cheated out of a guilty concence doesnt make the fact that you BOTH cheated on each other any ... (read in full...)
How do I choose which guy to go after?
Q. Im a 23 year old gay male living in UK. I have been openly gay for 3 years. Recently I have fell for 2 guys. Both have told me that they are very interested in me. One is 19 and the other 17. At the moment i haven't even kissed either of t...
A. 19 July 2007: This is probably one fof the hardest things to decide lol. What I would do is compare the two. Make a list of whats good and bad about both of them. I do understand that you want to go with the 19 year old because the age gap is less but that doesnt ... (read in full...)
Should I have sex with both men to double my chances of conceiving?
Q. Hi, I am a single female, 39 years old, and I am dating a new guy. I am anxious to have a child right away, and have shared this with my partner,. he is ok "if it happens", but it not interested in working as a team to test my ovulation and ha...
A. 19 July 2007: Personally I dont think you should. You have to think about the child in the long run. Who is it that you really want to be a father to your child. Also, I dont mean to make you sound old but you have to think are you ready for a child, as there is ... (read in full...)
She doesnt want sex and I am getting bored
Q. my girlfriend doesnt want to go further :S what can i do? me and my girlfriend have been going out about a year now and all we have done is kiss and hug and the really petty stuff but i want to go further as im quite a 'exploring' guy if that kind...
A. 19 July 2007: Maybe you need to think about why she is being like this with you. Maybe she has had bad experiances in the past that she has never told you about. But I do agree with eyeswideopen in the fact that if your not intrested in the lovey dovey stuff and ... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and I'm scared to have sex with my 17 year old boyfriend; he wants me to get pregnant!
Q. i am a 14 year old girl and i am going out with a seventeen year old boy and i am stuck in a situation because he wants to have sex with me but im scared because i do not no what to do when having sex!!and he said that he wants to get me pregnant ...
A. 19 July 2007: Sorry to be blunt about this but I think you need to find someone closer to your age. Fist of all it is illegal for you to have sex with him ass you are under the legal age and he could go to prison for it. Also he is pressuring you to do something ... (read in full...)
I love him; he doesn't love me back but wants to kiss me
Q. Hi, I am a 16 year old girl, and i really love this guy, but he told me he doesnt love me back. I dont know how to get over him because he is always in my face and I have kissed him once last week. He is proposing that we kiss again, but I just want ...
A. 19 July 2007: I think you are mistaking love for lust here. It is easy to fall in love with someone when your young like that I know that one lol. But i agree at least he was being honest with you and maybe he just wants the odd kiss every now and then and I ... (read in full...)
I said 'I love you' and he only said 'I heart you'
Q. hi i have a boyfriend and i told him 'i love u' his reaction was huggin me and kissing me and holding me tight for a pretty long time, his respons was 'i heart you', which i honestly dont understand what that means does anyone understand what his ...
A. 19 July 2007: First off all to clear things up lol I heart you is what guys use when they aren't quiet in love with you yet but they do really like you and when lust is tottally out of the question. Maybe he thinks that if he says it back to you that you will ... (read in full...)
They were always flirty and now I've seen them kiss on the lips; is my worry and overreaction?
Q. Just saw husband and bf kissing on the lips. Granted we were in the process of leaving and they were in the house alone while the rest of us were out side. I went to walk from one side of the deck to the other and turned around and saw them kiss ...
A. 19 July 2007: I'm not trying to imply anything here but there is one thing that is confusing me. You said husband and boyfriend (this is the little bit that confused me). To be honest I would just confront them but in a nice way. The worst thing that can happen ... (read in full...)
We're cuddly after our fights but we're fighting far too much
Q. Okay Help My boyfriend and I are fighting too much. But after the fights we are all hunky dory and cuddley. But the thing is were fighting TOO much every day. It's making me wory,I dont like it at all its unbarable. I love him too much to loose him...
A. 19 July 2007: First of all every couple fight some more than others some not at all. Personally I dont think that you have anything to worry about mainly because of the fact that the arguments do stop and that after them he doesnt ignore you or is awkward with ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants me to move in with him. How do I tell my mum I'm going???
Q. I'm 17 and my boyfriend is 28. I love him so much and he loves me. He wants me to move in with him b/c my stepdad treats me bad and he just wants to be with me. i don't know how to tell my mom i'm moving out....
A. 18 July 2007: I no exactly where your coming I was in the same situation a few months ago. Im 16 and my bf is 27. There is no easy way to do it and you can feel really guilty for a few months after but thers nothing you can do about it. But I would talk to your ... (read in full...)
After 17 years we broke up and my partner found someone else within weeks!
Q. My partner of 17years spilt up and found another guy within a few weeks. I didnt get any closure and she has not made any contact for a good few months. I was extremely hurt and have had counselling. I just wondered if she might have cheated on me ...
A. 18 July 2007: First of all I would like to say that no breakup is pretty or easy to handle and I feel for you there. It could be possible that she had cheated on you and that could have been part of the cause of you both breaking up. But if she didnt cheat on you ... (read in full...)
Can you love your boyfriend but still have feelings for your ex?
Q. Can you still have feelings for your ex and be in love with the boyfriend you have now? I'm in love with my boyfriend and we have a great relationship but occasionally memories of my ex come up and sometimes I've dreamt about him occasionally. I ...
A. 18 July 2007: I understand you problem but Im coming from the opposite of you situation. I think my bf has feelings for his ex still. But if your current bf doesnt no about how your feeling towards your ex then there could be a problem. Everybody thinks about ... (read in full...)
Is our relationship illegal if we are not having sexual relations?
Q. i am a 15 year old girl and my boyfriend soon to be fiance is 18 and i was just wandering if it was illegal to date or to get engaged if there is no sexual realations?...
A. 18 July 2007: I understand your problem. But you have to think why would an 18 year old want to get engaged to a 15 year old girl. Im not saying that your not attractive or anything like that but your young and you still have all your life ahead of you. I dont ... (read in full...)
I don't think I love my girlfriend any more... Meanwhile another girl has come on the scene!
Q. I (mid thirties) have been living with my girlfriend for the past 4 years, I don't think I love her anymore and I don't find her attractive. I was recently introduced to a girl at a party and can think of nothing but her at the moment. I have been ...
A. 18 July 2007: It is never an easy thing to having to tell someone that you dont love them anymoren and people react differently to that sort of news. But if you dont think you can be happy with her anymore then the best thing to do in my opinion is to sit down ... (read in full...)
Should I be worried about another girl?
Q. i was with my b/f watching tv and i had a movie on for a few seconds and changed it and then he said i thought you liked so and so(he said the name of the movie) and i said umm no..i never saw the movie. And he said oh i thought you said that...i ...
A. 17 July 2007: sound like typical guy behaviour to me, its in there nature to look at everyine that they find attractive and it does get irritating after a while. My bf has an obsession with Mariah Carey and it is annoying. espically when your there with them and ... (read in full...)
I've broken up with my married lover...any help?
Q. I know this sounds like the old cliche, I'm going with a married man, and it is but ... how do I deal with this. I'm single\divorced. Ive been seeing a married man for 17 months. I live in London and he lives in Manchester however he lives...
A. 17 July 2007: i dont mean to sound patroniseing or like a cow but i think it will work out for the best in the end. After all you have to think about how his family would feel if they had found out. I sort of no what you are going through because my boyfriend of ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesnt show me any affection
Q. my boyfriend says he loves me but never shows any affection to me. Could there be anything that im doing wrong?...
A. 17 July 2007: Thankyou all for replying to my question. i take all of your replies into account. My boyfriend is 27 and i am turning 17 the age gap isnt a problem in case anyone thinks. His relationship with his family is excellent but the proble has only been in ... (read in full...)
Should a guy stay with his girlfriend if she has faked a pregancy?
Q. Should a guy stay with his girlfriend if she has faked a pregancy? ...
A. 17 July 2007: Kenny has a point. but maybe she had a good reason for doing it. if she had then it probably wasnt the right way to do things. im not saying that it was right after all theres people who would love to be pregnant and cant and in my opinion it is ... (read in full...)
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