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2 August 2008: Girls love to be "loved." This is the reason they try to make themselves attratrive to men---sexy clothes, careful makeup and hairdoes, cleavage, etc. If you want to please a girl so that she will do anything to please you, make her feel loved ...
Why boys are interested in breasts so much
This question has 8 answers by readers of DearCupid.ORG.
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1 August 2008: People wonder why boys are so facinated with girls' breasts. One reason is the peek-a-boo or hide and seek faxctor. In our culture, breasts are almost always covered, even with the skimpiest bathing suit. This doesn't prevent girls from teasing ...
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Masturbation-how long is too long?
Q. How much time is too long to spend masturbating? I have only been recently introduced to it and I've found that it's very liberating and I've been trying to see how long I can "hold it in". I recently spent 2 hours trying different things and it f...
A. 13 September 2009: The ability to "hold it in" surely increases the fun of masturbating. Engaging in masturbating for long hours enables you to perfect that ability. Generally speaking, the longer you hold it in the more wonderful it feels when you finally let it ... (read in full...)
How can I show her I don't mind sharing her with my brother?
Q. Hi friends, There is some thing happened in our life. Mine and my wife's. My brother came and stayed with us for 3 months. He was 19 and my wife was 22. She once told me that he is playing around and in a tricky way, as if happens accidentally ...
A. 11 September 2009: I don't see what the problem is. As long as she doesn't let him go all the way, it should be okay with you. You love your brother and you want him to have as much fun as possible. Letting him feel your wife up is your gift to him. Evidently it ... (read in full...)
She asked what was in my pocket, but I had gotten an erection! So embarrassed!
Q. Hi, I'm 14, about to be a freshman in high school, and I have a problem. I've been best friends with this girl for longer than I can remember. Last week, our school had the end-of-year Spring Fling (a dance). We went together as friends. When I went ...
A. 29 June 2009: She was trying to be funny. She was referring to the old gag in which the girl asks the fellow "Is that a gun in your pocket or are you just glad to see me?"... (read in full...)
Friend is a teacher and students behavior is very disturbing to her
Q. A friend of mine teaches in a middle school. Two increasing practices worry her. One is that boys are pressing girls to give them blow-jobs. Good girls who resist are made fun off, by both the boys and the girls. The other practice is that gir...
A. 13 May 2009: My teacher friend came over this afternoon and I showed her all your remarks, for which she thanks you. She thinks the fingering is rare, but she knows how negative actions spread like wildfire amoung the students. Regarding the girls without ... (read in full...)
He's in jail and wants phone sex
Q. my boyfriend is in jail and is asking me to have phone sex with him. i never had sex with him as i was only with him for 2 weeks before he went to jail and wanted to take things slow. he has a moblie phone (cell phone) in jail which he bought ...
A. 12 May 2009: Go for it. Have mercy on the poor guy.... (read in full...)
We were drunk, skinny dipping and my lady grabbed my friend's package!
Q. Hey, Ive been seeing my girl for about 1 year and a bit and generally things are sweet and our relationship is mostly healthy on all levels. A small issue for me is her flirting when we go out drinking. Typically it doesnt bother me as im quite ...
A. 10 May 2009: Don't get all stewed over this. She was just having a little fun. After all you were all naked and feeling sexy. She was just teasing and having a little exiting fun.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend thinks it would be a turn on to watch me having sex with our dog!
Q. Hi everyone, I am 26 and have been with my current bf for almost 3 years. We have a great relationship, he is perfect in many ways. We get along great and have a great sex life. We are both very open at trying new things sexually and I will admit ...
A. 4 May 2009: Your boyfriend must really only be kidding. He gets turned on by watching your reaction to his suggestion.... (read in full...)
My brother keeps spying on me!
Q. I'm 16 and my brother is 12. He keeps spying on me, hoping to see me undressed. Should I invite him to look and get it out of his system, or should I continue to try to hide?...
A. 8 March 2009: The anonymous reader who wrote on March 7 is way off base. If you want to teach your curious brother all about sex, there are plenty of instructive sites on the internet, plus plenty of pictures of naked girls to satisfy his curiosity.... (read in full...)
She enjoys sex in public!
Q. She likes the thrill of having sex in public and won't have sex with me in the comfort of our own home I get a thrill as well but sometimes I love to be at home so we can cuddle and lay with each other after sex.... I'm not asking for too much am ...
A. 5 November 2008: If she likes sex in public and you also get a thrill from it, why not go along with it? You'll both be having fun. I knew a couple who used to go to fullball gamd and sit up high in the stands. They would have sex under the blanket during the ... (read in full...)
My younger sister makes me horny, please help.
Q. hi. I am 15 and i get really horny when i am around my younger sister who is 13. I really want to see her naked but never have. What should i do?...
A. 3 October 2008: Talk you parents into letting you look at soft porn on the internet. You will see what mature girls look like. It will satisfy your curiosty and take your mind off your sister. And when you jerk off, you can think of them rather than your sister.... (read in full...)
He has no respect for girls who show a lot of skin. How can he say that?
Q. Me and my bf are both 19 and I feel that there is alot of inconsistencies in what my bf does and says. My bf has posters on his bedroom wall of half naked women. This really offends me. I find it degrading and disgusting and whenever I go ov...
A. 20 September 2008: Get out of that relationship as soon as possible!... (read in full...)
Is the tingling feeling in my penis normal?
Q. Im 11 and last week i started getting a tingling feeling in my penis and it makes me really horny. It happens 2 or 3 times a day,normaly when i wake up. any ideas why its happening. im not saying that i want it to go away cuz it feels really good ...
A. 9 September 2008: It's normal. There is nothing wrong with you. As you get older, various sexual feelings increase.... (read in full...)
I don't (usually) ejaculate during sex, what can I do for this to happen?
Q. I'm the type of person who has to tighten his muscles to climax while masturbation, and i just plain have the most god-awful time cumming during sex; i once set out on a mission to make it happen, and 4 hours of sex, and i still have yet to cum; and ...
A. 5 September 2008: It is too bad that your girlfriend thinks that your failure to ejaculate means that you don't love her. Make sure that you do all the sexual things to show her that you do. Caress her, suck her breasts, kiss her all over, as well as penetrating ... (read in full...)
We mess around all the time sexually, but never actually have sex ?
Q. Well this is a bit of a weird question, but ive been with my girlfriend for about a month now, we have both had sex with previous partners, and every time we get into bed, we have a real good time joking around, tickeling each other and stuff like ...
A. 5 September 2008: As far as I'm concerned, couples can have a lot of fun playing around and mastrbating togther and cuddling and caressing without actual intercourse. Such activity can be as satisfying, without the consequences or the commitmen.... (read in full...)
Best things to say during sex to impress or surprise him?
Q. hey i love havinbg sex with my partner. i know this might sound starnge but whats the best sound and best things to say during to impress or surprise him ?...
A. 31 August 2008: Some things you can say should be obvious: F___ me hard; you are so good; harder, deeper. You can also moan either soft or loud. You could also scream once in a while.... (read in full...)
Is there any way to stop wet dreams??
Q. Hi, I'm 14 and i recently started getting "wet dreams" - it's quite annoying and how to stop it ? Also , sometimes i wake up after one, I clean the semen with a tissue and flush it down the toilet.. can someone get pregnant if they use the toilet s...
A. 30 August 2008: Wet dreams (nocturnal emissions) are natural for a boy of 14. The dream part is usually a pleasant enjoyable sexual episode. Enjoy them instead of wanting to stop them.... (read in full...)
Premature ejaculation? How do I prevent it?
Q. I cum really fast, how can i prevent that?...
A. 30 August 2008: Here is a sure method to get over premature ejaculation. It is how I got cured. By masurbating bring yourself to just the brink of cumming, then stop. Hold on to that situation for, say, half an hour. Then cum. Maybe you won't be able to hold ... (read in full...)
When I masturbate the day I have sex, I have erection problems. Is this bizarre?
Q. does masterbation normally make a man not be able to get erect? i ask this because when i masterbate every day and have sex i cant seem to keep it up but when i dont masterbate a tall it seems to be fine infact its a lot harder so im not sure if i ...
A. 29 August 2008: Sperm builds up regularly in your genitals. When you masturbate you release that build-up. Thus you can't get an erection because the reason for the erection has been eliminated. Simply hold your sperm for the sex act rather than discharging it ... (read in full...)
Will masturbating stunt my growth?
Q. Hi i am 13 and i am starting to hit puberty and i always find my self getting really horny and it turns to a result of masturbating. after masturbating for quite a while i now have veins i can see really clear in my penis that i didnt see before, ...
A. 26 August 2008: Male masturbation is normal. Keep doing it and enjoy it without worry. It is the normal way of getting rid of the sperm that builds up in the genitals. The other two methods are wet dreams and the sex act.... (read in full...)
If a guy adds girls from myspace who look like they have nothing on....what does it say about him as a person?
Q. Has anyone ever seen those girls on myspace which get random adds from people all over the world? You know, with the really big boobs and barely any clothes on? Well they have g-string/thong but you cant even see the string bit, so it looks liek ...
A. 26 August 2008: Remember the double nature of a boy's interest. He loves to LOOK at imaginary girls, but the girl that he likes to be with (and eventually marry) is one with a beautful character who likes to please him. Don't be troubled by the male imagination.... (read in full...)
My large breasts are sooo uncomforatble! What should I do about it?
Q. Lately ive been feeling very self concious about my breasts. Im 17 and im a G cup.. but im small in comparison with my breasts, i wear size 10 clothes. I dont have any bras that fit and feel really uncomfortable. My question is.. can breasts be too ...
A. 26 August 2008: I don't think that any girl should be unhappy because her breasts are too big. The saying should be "the bigger the better." A girl with big breasts should be proud of them and emphasize them by the way she dresses. She will get a lot of male ... (read in full...)
Should I masurbate or will it affect my health?
Q. HI all, i want ask that can i masturbate ? i'm 22. i masturbate every week after watching some porn. i never had sex with any girl. will this effect my health or not. some time i'm curious. i'm 22 170cm and my weight is 65 KG ? please guide m...
A. 25 August 2008: Male masturbation is normal. Sperm builds up in the genitals. It must be released regularly. There are three principal ways of doing this: sexual intercourse, wet dreams, and masturbation. Take your choise.... (read in full...)
Do men release sperm without coming into contact with anyone and without feeling it?
Q. Do men release sperms without even coming into contact with anyone and they do not even feel it coming out. ...
A. 25 August 2008: At times when a boy sees something that arouses him sexually (like a girl's skirt blowing up) it is possible for him to cum in his pants. Of course he knows about it. He just hopes that the stain doesn't show.... (read in full...)
Do men really like large breasts, I am endowed and I am embarrassed about my chest, do men like them better than small breasts??
Q. one more question... do guys like girls with big boobs? i mean honestly because i have a set and sometimes i get slmost self concious about them....
A. 25 August 2008: Be happy that you have big breasts. Make the most of them. Wear clothes that emphasize them. You'll be making a lot of the boys who see you very happy. Be generous and spead happiness.... (read in full...)
What noises should I make during sex??
Q. well im going to be losing my virginity soon as me and my boyfriend are ready for sex. but im really worried about how itll feel like but most of all what kind of noises to make. i mean, just soft moans or screams? what should i be saying?? what do ...
A. 23 August 2008: Don't worry about what noises to make as you first start fucking. After you begin really to enjoy it will be time enough to start making noises. They will come natually. When they start to come natually you might then want to plan some really ... (read in full...)
I seem to be on "hold" with the women I want to date, any advice?
Q. So i have a little bit of a problem that maybe you guys can help me with. I think i am falling in love with my best friend. I really do not know what to do at this point. So let me give you some background information. We have known each other...
A. 12 August 2008: Let things take their course. There are so many ifs, ands, and buts to this situation that it is impossible for you to plan ahead of time what you ought to do.... (read in full...)
Love her and she will love you in return.
Q. Girls love to be "loved." This is the reason they try to make themselves attratrive to men---sexy clothes, careful makeup and hairdoes, cleavage, etc. If you want to please a girl so that she will do anything to please you, make her feel loved ...
A. 12 August 2008: In response to PsyCookie I say that it is not enough for the guy to truly love the girl in order to see her respond in return. She must be CONVINCED that he truly loves her. If a girl is really convinced that the guy loves her, she will respond ... (read in full...)
What sort of women do men really like? Real? Or fake dolls with fake breasts, fake nails, fake hair...
Q. Ok, I know this topic gets old fast, and that I'll probably hear the same answers that are usually given, but let's have a try and I truly do expect honesty... PLEASE... It's always said men prefer natural beauty, natural looking women. But if th...
A. 7 August 2008: A man has a divided mind. He loves to LOOK at the "perfect" woman who is very beutiful physically, but he loves to BE WITH (and finally marry) a woman who is natually beautiful in her personality. She gets all his love. But remember, he never ... (read in full...)
I tend to only look at my girlfriend's breasts. I think I like breasts too much!
Q. I've recently been worried with my eye for "chests". When I'm with my girlfriend, I tend to only look at her chest area. I must admit she has DD cups and for a 17 year old, that is big! I think I like breasts too much and start fantasizing about her ...
A. 6 August 2008: You are truly normal. If your girlfriend has nice breasts, you'd might as well enjpy them. And one way to do that is to look at them every chanxce you get.... (read in full...)
I am very concerned about the size and shape of my breasts, I am 15, will my breasts grow more, and will the shape change?
Q. this is quite a strange question but im concerned about my breasts. im 15. There small but they dont have the 'breast' look. There just like a triangle off my chest. They dont have the 'drop'. not a 'U' shape. more like a V but sideways. Will they ...
A. 6 August 2008: Remember, ALL breasts are beautiful.... (read in full...)
I hate to think that anorexic, fake breasted whores are better than me! How do I stop being insecure?!
Q. I hate having to compete with media beauties. My boyfriend (23) admitted that the girls on TV are supposed to represent the fantasy of the ideal female. He says they're hotter than the average female because that's what they're paid for, the same as ...
A. 6 August 2008: Your boyfiriend may talk about the ideal girl he sees on TV or in the movies, etc, but he has you. He may admire the shapely legs of a movie star but he can stroke your legs. He may admire the breasts of a movie star but he can caress yours. Let ... (read in full...)
Should I accept that he sleeps with other girls -What Does he Mean By I want "more"?
Q. Recently having met a new man he seems fairly interested BUT he says he doesnt want a relationship and he has also said he "fears" I want "more" because he mentioned someone he was flirting with and I said it wasnt nice when he had invited me out ...
A. 4 August 2008: You have so many questions about this guy and the kind of relationship you want with him that you'd better forget him.... (read in full...)
Should I be insulted, my husband tells his friends he was attracted to me because of my breasts?
Q. would you be insulted if your husband told a group of people we were out with (mainly his friends) that the first thing that attracted him to me was my big breasts and was the reason he approach me. I felt a bit like it was disrespectiful, ...
A. 2 August 2008: Don't be insulted. Just because he was first attracted to you because of your breasts doesn't mean that that is the only reason he married you. When he says what he says he is probably complimenting you. He is saying something like this: "My wife ... (read in full...)
Why boys are interested in breasts so much
Q. People wonder why boys are so facinated with girls' breasts. One reason is the peek-a-boo or hide and seek faxctor. In our culture, breasts are almost always covered, even with the skimpiest bathing suit. This doesn't prevent girls from teasing ...
A. 2 August 2008: Haraka62442 is trying to tell us that a boy sees a girl with large breasts and says to himself: "Wow, look at that
girl. She has the kind of breasts that will feed my child!"
I'd like to see the evidence that any guy has ever said that to himse... (read in full...)
My large breasts are a real hassle...should I get a breast reduction?
Q. This is kinda awkward 2 ask without sounding totally full of myself, but here goes. I have really big boobs, which i hate by the way, and my friends boyfriends always comment on. It makes me uncomfortable. They kinda look fake because im slim. They ...
A. 1 August 2008: Be pround of your large breasts. Other girls are jealous of you, and boys who tease you just want a chance to look at your breasts without feeling guilty. Make the most of your great asset. Wear tight sweaters, and at other times show losts of ... (read in full...)
Do I let my bf suck my breasts??
Q. my boyfriend wants to suck my breasts.do advice me.he is after my breasts....
A. 31 July 2008: Of course you should. To let him do this is one of the friendlist acts you can do. You'll get a thrill out of, too.... (read in full...)
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