My partner wants a baby too but won't talk about it with me. Tablets I can take to help me get pregnant?
Q. i want a baby but dont know how to go about it, i know my boyfriend wants one but he wont talk about it with me, i feel as if our relationship is falling apart because of it, is their any way i can take any kind of tablets to help me get pregnant? ...
A. 25 October 2007: sigh....... (read in full...)
The sex is great but he's married
Q. I have been seeing this guy that is 26 years older then me, he is married and has 3 kids 17,16,13. He does not like his wife and they dont sleep together or even speak. We have the BEST sex ever. I am so in love with him what should i do?...
A. 25 October 2007: I'll tell what you can do, buy this bridge from me, it's really cheap and in a nice location...Brooklyn. Interested?... (read in full...)
Underage kids and sex - whatever happened to youth?
Q. I have to say that i am noticing a lot of KIDS aged 12ish asking questions about sex. What on earth is happening? Or are they maybe older and just putting this age? But, what has happened to kids and their youth? They are under age and shouldnt be ...
A. 25 October 2007: One of the disconserting things about these little kids having sex is the fact that they have no idea how human reproduction even works. Their questions prove it. Some aren't even clear on human anatomy. Scary very scary.... (read in full...)
My partner wants a baby too but won't talk about it with me. Tablets I can take to help me get pregnant?
Q. i want a baby but dont know how to go about it, i know my boyfriend wants one but he wont talk about it with me, i feel as if our relationship is falling apart because of it, is their any way i can take any kind of tablets to help me get pregnant? ...
A. 25 October 2007: Listen, if you want to have a baby but don't know how to go about it...you are too young. If you think your boyfriend wants a baby but the two of you haven't discussed it...you are both too young. If you think there is a magic tablet for ... (read in full...)
Abused twice - by a supposed friend and a coach. It wasn't my fault, and I'm scared...
Q. I was sexually assualt by a friend who i thought was a good friend at secondary school he did unspeakable things to me. and said some nasty things, now words trigger things of or comments. It caused me so many problems then. I eventualy went to my ...
A. 24 October 2007: This is a great site, don't get me wrong, but we are not professional therapists and I'm sure there is one at your college. They keep everything you tell them in strictest confidence. You have a very serious problem and a professional will be able ... (read in full...)
I fantasize about having sex with my mother
Q. I have asked this question before but am still curious as what to do. I am now 17, my mum is 43. 6 years ago, i was living with my mum, i was in the need of the drink, so went into the kitchen to get one, only my mum was in the way on the worktop ...
A. 24 October 2007: Good lord you are one sick little puppy. Three words therapy, therapy and therapy.... (read in full...)
Abused twice - by a supposed friend and a coach. It wasn't my fault, and I'm scared...
Q. I was sexually assualt by a friend who i thought was a good friend at secondary school he did unspeakable things to me. and said some nasty things, now words trigger things of or comments. It caused me so many problems then. I eventualy went to my ...
A. 24 October 2007: Honey you've written to us numerous times, and as you've been told numerous times, you need to get yourself to some counseling. You won't be able to resolve this yourself or through this forum. If you can't go through your parents then go to the ... (read in full...)
I had an affair, no love in my marriage.
Q. Im married and had had a affair for 4 and a half years. He is married too. Im 33 and he is 44. Weve been having a great time, really excellent sexual relationship - no comittment - no pressure - the all of a sudden he said he thinks it time to call ...
A. 23 October 2007: He probably realized he's been behaving like an asshole to his wife and decided to dump the chippy. Or maybe he's found a new piece of meat to hang out with. Who knows? Anyway it's not like he owes you an explanation or anything else for that ... (read in full...)
Can anyone crack this code for me?
Q. I guess trust is a relationship question, so I'll give this a try. My husband goes to great lengths to hide a piece of paper with odd letters and numbers on it. I have no idea what it's all about. I do know that he gets up at 3:30 a.m. (3 hours ...
A. 23 October 2007: Maybe they are initials of women and the dates he's chatted with them online?... (read in full...)
I can't seem to do anything right - can I not even express my opinions over a film?
Q. I am finding things difficult in my relationship. I have been tackling low self-esteem using CBT online, a really good self help book and will shortly start counselling. I had two broken marriages, but am friends with my first husband who is t...
A. 23 October 2007: How about this version using spell checker? Some people are just more sensitive, intuitive, and empathetic of others and and their feelings. They can often be misunderstood by people less gifted in that way. I'm sure he isn't trying to upset you or ... (read in full...)
I can't seem to do anything right - can I not even express my opinions over a film?
Q. I am finding things difficult in my relationship. I have been tackling low self-esteem using CBT online, a really good self help book and will shortly start counselling. I had two broken marriages, but am friends with my first husband who is t...
A. 23 October 2007: Some people are just more sensitive, intuative, and empathetic of others and and their feelings. They can often be misunderstood by people less gifted in that way. I'm sure he isn't trying to upset you or belittle you, it sounds like he loves you ... (read in full...)
My fiance is VERY controlling. What can I do??
Q. he tells me what i can and can not do. he tries to control me. i been in this relationship for 6 months. my fiance is 47 and i am 31. Recently he has start arguing with me about people that I be around. when my cell phone rings i get worried because ...
A. 23 October 2007: Don't even THINK about marrying this guy. If you think he is controlling now just wait until after the wedding! Call off the marriage and tell him you need some space to do some serious thinking about your relationship. Then make sure you get it, ... (read in full...)
I told my bf of having been forced to do things I didn't like by a bad friend in the past. He says I'm "damaged" and that it scares him. What should I do?
Q. I was forced to do things i didn't want to by someone who i thought was a close friend 2 years ago now. Am still not fully over it now, i still have flash backs and get shaky and scared and things when it came to telling my bf he was very underst...
A. 23 October 2007: I'd talk one of your school counselors and see what or where you should go, I'm in the US so I'm not sure what's all available where you are but I'd start with a school counselor.... (read in full...)
We kissed, I told him how I felt but we agreed things couldn't go further because he's getting married. How can I see him as just a friend?
Q. I spoke to a collegue of mine (who I'd liked for ages) for the first time at the very beginning of the year and we immediately clicked. We get on so well and have become quite good friends. I go for lunch with him and a few others quite regularly ...
A. 23 October 2007: I'd be kind of pissed if I were you. If he really was attracted to you he wouldn't be getting married, I mean who's holding the gun to his head? He just having fun expoiting your feelings for him. I'd be pissed and I certainly wouldn't consider him ... (read in full...)
I want to have children with him, but...
Q. Hi. I am 22 yrs old and i've been with my 40 yr old boyfriend for 9 months now. I would like to think we could have children at some point because we are so happy and in love and would love our own family. But he had a vasectomy approx 11 or 12 yrs ...
A. 23 October 2007: I agree with Salad, the best option for you would be adoption.... (read in full...)
I told my bf of having been forced to do things I didn't like by a bad friend in the past. He says I'm "damaged" and that it scares him. What should I do?
Q. I was forced to do things i didn't want to by someone who i thought was a close friend 2 years ago now. Am still not fully over it now, i still have flash backs and get shaky and scared and things when it came to telling my bf he was very underst...
A. 23 October 2007: First off I'd dump the insensitive jerk of a boyfriend. Then I would seek some professional counseling to learn how to deal with what happened in your past. With counseling you will lose the flashbacks and regain your sense of control over your ... (read in full...)
Is it cheating if you're in a new relationship and that person or you haven't said that you love eachother yet?
Q. I am just in a new relationship with a great guy , who is taking me to Paris next month which i am both excited and nervous about , you see i have come out of a bad relationship that lasted 6 years recently. i have a child with my ex and he keeps on...
A. 23 October 2007: I would put the incident behind me and vow never to let it happen again. Enjoy Paris.... (read in full...)
I feel like a prisoner. My wife is trying to alienate me from my family. What can I do?
Q. My wife has been bringing up divorce lately, sometimes jokingly, sometimes not. I've never been in this situation before so I'm hoping someone can tell me whether our relationship is worth saving or if we're better off apart. My wife doesn'...
A. 23 October 2007: You are a big boy, go visit your parents whenever you want to, you don't have to ask for her permission. You are a prisoner only because you allow it. You can talk to her about it first and let her know what you've decided but just put your foot ... (read in full...)
I fancy my sister...
Q. Iam 15 and but I fancy my 22 year old sister. I find her so sexy and want to have sex with her. What is wrong with me?...
A. 22 October 2007: Pleeeaaaasssseee quit digging up this old chesnut.... (read in full...)
No sex was involved until I got separated from my husband. When I can't see him when I want I get depressed and frustrated, so what next?
Q. This party in my life (married man) has been in my life for over 30 years. He got married first, dued to child born into a relationship he had before meeting me. Married her so the child would not be without a dad, as he did. I moved on, with other ...
A. 22 October 2007: Just what exactly do you expect to be next? I can guarantee you it will be more loneliness, more knots in your stomach, more frustration and a lot more depression. There is nothing here but second class crap. Dump him and grow your own backbone. ... (read in full...)
We are fantastic together, but he always leaves to solve his marriage issues and ends up returning! Will he come back?
Q. I have had a wonderful relationship with a man for nearly 3 years. We are best friends as well as having so much passion and chemistry. We miss each other terribly if we ever have to be apart. I love him with all my heart and soul and want to spend ...
A. 22 October 2007: Don't bet the farm that when you see him next he'll be ready to make a committment to you. Don't sucker for the lines he'll have either. This is a no win situation. Find someone who can love you and your child and be a role model for him/her. This ... (read in full...)
How do I go on being married to someone I don't love, and daydreaming about the man I do?
Q. I am in a situation that I never thought I would be in. I am 29, have been married for 10 years and have 3 beautiful children. About a month ago my best friend reconnected me with someone from my past, my very first love and the man whom I gave my ...
A. 22 October 2007: It's funny how time will allow us to forget all the bad crap and just remember the good. I doubt that if you were to leave your husband to go to you long lost love that you would find happiness. In fact I have no doubt that you would deeply regret ... (read in full...)
Should I contact her and tell her how I feel?
Q. Please help, I am still in love with a woman after 14 years. I met her 14 years ago,we worked together, I feel deeply in love with her, like I have never experienced love. I was married at the time with two young children and she was only 22 and had ...
A. 22 October 2007: Of course you shouldn't contact her. Leave it alone, man. Married is married. Focus on your own family and leave her to hers.... (read in full...)
We are fantastic together, but he always leaves to solve his marriage issues and ends up returning! Will he come back?
Q. I have had a wonderful relationship with a man for nearly 3 years. We are best friends as well as having so much passion and chemistry. We miss each other terribly if we ever have to be apart. I love him with all my heart and soul and want to spend ...
A. 22 October 2007: You can wait around hoping his marriage will finally fall apart or you can get on with your own life. If he eventually does decide to divorce his wife, I'd think long and hard about a relationship with this guy, he sure doesn't sound like he has ... (read in full...)
When he isn't with someone else we get on well - how can I get him back?
Q. I was seeing someone he told me things were not going to work out because the feelings was just not there,however we were still sleeping with each other i got pregnant he didnt want the baby i did he got a new girl friend, we didnt talk for months. ...
A. 22 October 2007: Sorry but he doesn't sound all the interested in having a committed relationship with you. I don't think you'd be happy for very long if he did come back, he'll only leave you again. I hope he is supporting the baby however. I would only see him ... (read in full...)
I treat her like a princess but she keeps breaking my heart. What can I do?
Q. Hey Cupids, Really need your help right now. To cut a long and complicated story short. Met a girl at uni, had a relationship, she broke up with me over the summer. She returned a few months later wanting a casual thing. I could'nt do that, but we...
A. 22 October 2007: I think it would be a bad idea to call her. If she wants to talk to you she will call. She probably feels she has you in her back pocket. Don't allow her to take advantage of your feelings.... (read in full...)
I treat her like a princess but she keeps breaking my heart. What can I do?
Q. Hey Cupids, Really need your help right now. To cut a long and complicated story short. Met a girl at uni, had a relationship, she broke up with me over the summer. She returned a few months later wanting a casual thing. I could'nt do that, but we...
A. 22 October 2007: I think you need to email agony aunt Andy. You two have a lot in common.... (read in full...)
Is my mind having a meltdown?
Q. Okay this is one of those things that just confuses me! If you are in a 'fun bud' relationship with a guy, who knows you care about him more than casual, are these things normal behaviour or is he showing that he cares when he can't actually s...
A. 22 October 2007: Sounds like he is very fond of you and had a great mother who taught him good manners.... (read in full...)
My life is in turmoil, I have found that my fiance is a liar and potential cheat - Chat rooms, rude pictures, womens numbers. How can I ever trust him?
Q. Me and my fiance have been together now for 5 years, we met online and lived 135 miles apart for the first year, i trusted him completely but when we moved in together i started noticing things weren't right, he had loads of rude pictures on his pc ...
A. 22 October 2007: Since this an ongoing activity for him, you will either have to accept the fact he will always be cheating on you or decide to end it and find someone who can be trusted. You and only you can decide which one is the better choice.... (read in full...)
Is it ok for a married female to write to my husband?
Q. hi is it ok that a married female writes my hubby that he needs to drive tonight and that she misses him ? they not friends but she heard that me an my hubby have some issues so what should i think? I do trust my hubby but asking me what was ...
A. 22 October 2007: Of course it's not okay for a woman, married makes it worse, to be sending your husband this type of message. Time to sit hubby down for a very long chat.... (read in full...)
I found my dad has been cheating on my mom.
Q. I found out that my dad has been cheating on my mother for the past 4/5 years (maybe longer) with women on the internet as well as women he meets at business trips. I found out because he accidentally left open an internet browser when I went on ...
A. 22 October 2007: You definitely need to talk to your dad. This will fester inside you, it needs to be aired. He needs to do the right thing by your mother, insist that he does, or your respect for him will never be recovered. Talk all this over with your boyfriend ... (read in full...)
I am the other woman, I have had his child, If he stays with his wife for the children, are they more important than mine?
Q. I am in love with a married man and he is in love with me. We just had a child together. He tells me he love his wife because they have been together for over 10 years, but I find him with me everyday, allday. He tells me that he is very unhappy in ...
A. 22 October 2007: You should get used to the idea that you will be a single mother. I hope he is giving you child support. If he says he loves his wife but is unhappy in his marriage, it's a crock and you are a sucker if you believe it. I feel very sorry for all the ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend just hit me 'cause I wouldnt get him something from the fridge!
Q. my boyfriend has just hit me and smashed lots of things in the house because i would not get him something from the fridge when he was in the kitchen and i wasnt what shall i do,we are due to get married and dont think i can spend the rest of my ...
A. 21 October 2007: Thank God this happened before you married the jerk. You know exactly what you should do, I can tell. Good luck Honey.... (read in full...)
Strange question.
Q. I have weird question. Is it true that if you kiss a girl that did oral sex in the past, you will be kissing back her partner's private part?...
A. 21 October 2007: This is a ridiculous question. Thank you for asking and by the way, how's life in the bubble?... (read in full...)
Am I reading too much into this?
Q. Hey. I'm just wondering if any of these signs lead to one of the teachers in my school fancying me...? He's about 8/9 years older than I am. It's just confusing me a little. Like everytime hes talking to another teacher and I'm walking down ...
A. 19 October 2007: If you see him looking at you then he sees you looking at him. He's probably way nervous around you, young girls with crushes can spell trouble for teachers. I'm sure he isn't romantically interested.... (read in full...)
My bf takes 'speed'..can that affect me having a baby?
Q. My boyfrend takes speed. do u think that can stop me having a baby...
A. 19 October 2007: It mostly likely won't stop you from conceiving but just remember that most speed junkies move on the more toxic drugs eventually and the majority end up doing jail time. Nice father figure.... (read in full...)
My last girlfriend said I was 'boring'
Q. My last girlfriend said I was 'boring'. How can I make myself more attractive to women or I am I taking things to heart too much?...
A. 18 October 2007: Only boring people get bored, Tommy.... (read in full...)
I am in love with my sisters husband
Q. i am 18yrs old, i m in luv wth 39yrs old man(my sisters husband) and he love me too. but he is married and has a kid. the worst part of it is that we live in the same house. He is nice and lovely. He respects me a lot, but sometimes when we are ...
A. 18 October 2007: He is hardly "nice and lovely" and you are just as bad. To do this to your own sister is beyond words. Move out.... (read in full...)
Is there any way to speed up labour??
Q. I'm just over nine months pregant. 2 days ago i had a small amount of clear fluid run down my leg, it's the 3rd time it's happened. I was wondering if theres anyway to speed up labour? People have suggested driving fast over a hill, and one lady ...
A. 17 October 2007: Some of these ideas may or may not work for you, but why risk the side effects? Nobody has ever stayed pregnant forever it just feels that way in the ninth month. Patience is a virtue. Let us know when you have that bouncing baby Ok?... (read in full...)
Why does my daughter accept his behaviour?
Q. I have a 17 year old daughter who has an very controlling, jealous boyfriend. He left for college and is still controlling her. He tells her where she can work, go, who she can hang out with and even what she can/can't wear sometimes. No one in ...
A. 17 October 2007: One of my daughters had a boyfriend I absolutely disliked. I knew better than to try and change her mind about dating him, so I just bit my lip and hoped for the best. One day she asked me what I thought about him and I answered her honestly but I ... (read in full...)
Is he taking a second look?
Q. I flicked my hair when I walked past this guy who is 2 years older than me in school to try and get his attention and he just stared at me for about 5 seconds like he was thinking about something and then he said "do your tie up a bit there" and he ...
A. 17 October 2007: Either he likes you or he's a neat freak. Time will tell.... (read in full...)
I failed..What do I do now? Can I make things better?
Q. I have made unforgivable choices this year and now am paying the price; I want to put things right but have I done too much? Below are the details to the best of my recollection, I suspect that I have not covered everything or all the minute d...
A. 17 October 2007: After all this all you want to know is how you could have done this to your wife? Sheesh. You did it because you have not integrity or honor. Your excuses hold no water. Leave your wife alone, support your kids, and for Heaven's sake try to behave ... (read in full...)
I fancy my sister...
Q. Iam 15 and but I fancy my 22 year old sister. I find her so sexy and want to have sex with her. What is wrong with me?...
A. 19 December 2005: you aunts are suckering for this...he plays this column all the time. IGNORE... (read in full...)
I fancy my sister...
Q. Iam 15 and but I fancy my 22 year old sister. I find her so sexy and want to have sex with her. What is wrong with me?...
A. 19 December 2005: you aunts are suckering for this...he plays this column all the time. IGNORE... (read in full...)
I fancy my sister...
Q. Iam 15 and but I fancy my 22 year old sister. I find her so sexy and want to have sex with her. What is wrong with me?...
A. 19 December 2005: you aunts are suckering for this...he plays this column all the time. IGNORE... (read in full...)
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