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| | *a petite belle's profile:Hello all,
First of all I want to thank you for taking the time to visit and truly I want to say that we appreciate the time that each one of you takes to help others... sometimes we just need a word of encouragement and/or an unbiased point of view. THANKS!
I guess I will start by answering some questions.. what qualifies me to help people?
I honestly don't think that I am qualified at all, all I can offer you is a sincere and unbiased point of view. I usually think of the saying "Do unto others as they do onto you", treat others as you wish to be treated.
I have gone through a really long and rocky path to find my prince charming (I have yet to find him...) but I keep thinking that it will happen one of these days and everytime I meet someone I just get a little bit closer, even though I usually get hurt in the process but a friend once told me, "think that when you get hurt, it'll be that much better once you find the love of your life".
Perhaps, my best advice is to always find the positive in EVERYTHING, keep your head up and learn from you mistakes. :)
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Is it normal to miss a toxic relationship?
Q. We are both 30, in the good days, we had an amazing relationship, we had a TONNNNN of things in common, we agreed on a lot of things, we traveled many times and we were a team, when things were good, they were amazing... rarely things that we ...
A. 15 June 2018: Thank you so much for your response. YOu are 150% right... sometimes, it is hard but I do feel that there were many issues as to why I allowed him to treat me the way he did...it's all on me now to be strong and weather the storm...... (read in full...)
How do I save this friendship
Q. My best friend and I had a fallout and we both missed each other and agreed to figure out our differences but I don't think she understands that I hate to be lectured. I do not want to sound pompous or like I know everything, because I don't,...
A. 3 November 2017: We do other things, this was never an issue as of lately. I feel like she started feeling a bit more influential when she started getting trips and tickets to events for free. I absolutely mean no strings attached AT ALL. People like her, She is ... (read in full...)
Is moving to a big city a good idea? or am I leaving a REALLY good life?
Q. Hi all, Thank you for taking the time to read. I have a huge question. I am 29 yrs old, I have a finance degree, I live in a pretty good state (UTAH, USA), the economy is booming, the state is clean, safe. I rent a pretty cool apartment, I ...
A. 27 June 2017: Hi all, I have been to Florida almost every summer for the past 5 years (wedding, music festival, vacations, reunion). I love the weather, I love the sun, I feel happy when there is a lot of sun... I also like the hispanic culture. Everyone does ... (read in full...)
Is moving to a big city a good idea? or am I leaving a REALLY good life?
Q. Hi all, Thank you for taking the time to read. I have a huge question. I am 29 yrs old, I have a finance degree, I live in a pretty good state (UTAH, USA), the economy is booming, the state is clean, safe. I rent a pretty cool apartment, I ...
A. 26 June 2017: btw, I do not mean to come off as a show off, all I am trying to say is that currently I can afford to live pretty well off in this place but I am sooooo lonely and frustrated when Im out of work... Miami is my dream place but everyone that has ... (read in full...)
He's a slob but I'm afaid to let go
Q. I don't know what to do any more. My relationship seems like it's going nowhere quickly. I use to be really happy with my boyfriend, but now he constantly blames me for everything. He's never happy with anything. The other night I called him o...
A. 26 June 2017: I know how hard it is to leave a man that is not good to you. I feel like you know this deep inside (and Im telling you because I knew my ex' was not good for me but I chose to keep making excuses for me to stay until one day I couldn't anymore, and ... (read in full...)
I'm questioning the relationship because my boyfriend often blows me off for his friend
Q. Hi, I have been dating my current boyfriend for about 9 months. I really like him when we are alone, I feel like we see things similarly, we have similar opinions about things, we have the same taste in things, similar humor and sometimes he...
A. 3 June 2016: hi honeypie,
Thank you for replying... I guess I am wondering, if he was "off the hook" when I asked for the break, why did he have to pursue me again? why did he end up goign to therapy with me? wouldn't it just be much easier to be like "wh... (read in full...)
How can I tactfully reject him?
Q. Hello, First off thank you in advance for taking the time to read and offer advice :) I have a FRIEND that insists on hanging out with me and stuff. He invited me to a wedding in Washington state, he calls me "sexy", "Pretty lady" and things...
A. 23 May 2013: Correction: i didn't mean that he will "always be readily available" I mean that he is always willing to accomodate to my circumstances and while that is AMAZING... it just loses its appeal after he is willing to accomodate to my every ... (read in full...)
My ex is torn/confused between me and someone else. What to do?
Q. My ex of 3yrs has recently came into the picture after being broken up for 7 months. It started with her texting me on my bday. I kept it short and sweet and said Thank You and that was it. I just started dating someone (nothing serious) around t...
A. 14 August 2012: Oh my! I'm almost on the same boat... except he only told me once that he missed certain things and after I told him to stop talking to me like he never talked to me again.... and I think he LOVES this girl, while he lusts after me... breaks my ... (read in full...)
Is it possible that my ex still likes me even a year after breaking up or am I reading too much into it?
Q. Hello, Big question, I went through the most painful breakup of my life last year, it took me almost 12 months to stop crying on a semi-daily/monthly basis for him. I must admit I still cry for him once in a while but I now have a boyfriend and ...
A. 24 July 2012: Also, because i genuily love him and he seems happy I won't do anything. I will keep him as a friend, I am done running form the pain so I feel strong enough to return back home and face him and if things be, I can meet her and maybe even befriend ... (read in full...)
Is it possible that my ex still likes me even a year after breaking up or am I reading too much into it?
Q. Hello, Big question, I went through the most painful breakup of my life last year, it took me almost 12 months to stop crying on a semi-daily/monthly basis for him. I must admit I still cry for him once in a while but I now have a boyfriend and ...
A. 24 July 2012: thank you for all your responses, I hate to sound weird (for the lack of a better word) but I agree with the comment form female anon... It got me thinking about the fact that I wouldn't tell any of my other ex-bfs that I miss their kisses or their ... (read in full...)
Is it because I'm a virgin?
Q. Hey, so im 16 and im dating my brothers friend who is 23. We are very close and have no secrets. He wants to marry me and have me live with him once I turn 18. He has this issue down south and he gets an extremely unbearable pain if he doesnt have ...
A. 8 July 2011: Don't believe him!!!! I was told a similar thing by just such a douche!!! all I said was "I am sorry you feel that, you can touch yourself. Oprah said that in her show about guys that have blue balls" I know that was lame but I played dumb and it w... (read in full...)
Is it because I'm a virgin?
Q. Hey, so im 16 and im dating my brothers friend who is 23. We are very close and have no secrets. He wants to marry me and have me live with him once I turn 18. He has this issue down south and he gets an extremely unbearable pain if he doesnt have ...
A. 7 July 2011: Blue balss huh?... I am so sorry... in my experience (I lost my virginity a year ago when I was 22)... and trust me!!!! GUYS WILL SAY THE STUPIDEST THINGS and will do DUMB DUMB stuff because they want your virginity. i had a guy trying to get me ... (read in full...)
How can I help my GF who has very low self esteem?
Q. My girlfriend thinks that she is ugly...and the problem is, she's been told this all her life by various sources(including her parents) to the point that she believes it is the only truth...when I tell her she is pretty(she is), she just tells me ...
A. 7 July 2011: I agree with Drew, it's hard for us girls to believe positive things about ourselves... but oh! boy!!! say a negative thing and that becomes "BRANDED" in our skulls!!!.
When my ex used to tell me he liked something about me (THAT I thought ... (read in full...)
Should I ask her out or wait and establish more communication?
Q. OK. Here we go friends. I have a job. I like this girl over there. She is single. I have talked to her 2 or 3 times by now and last time was 2 days ago and the longest conversation with her. It started like this: Me: Hey, I saw you on facebook...
A. 7 July 2011: Your situation is not complicated at all. Just invite her out! personally I would rather to go to a local coffee shop than the same ol' same ol' Starbucks!. Invite her to a local joint you like and you guys can talk about why you chose that place. ... (read in full...)
He said not to call him, fine! But why does he keep calling me?
Q. I broke up we my boyfriend of a year. He's 36 I'm 19. We broke up because he didn't have time for me and he's not the into me no more. I pretty much annoyed him most of the time. I decided that I don't want to be with someone that would be mean to ...
A. 1 July 2011: Do not even waste your time!!!! I have never believed in age. I think that love is blind but this guy just doesn't sound right. I think that he likes feeeling young and like he's still got game. Keep moving on... if he was done he was done! why... (read in full...)
Is he using me?
Q. Hi, thank you for taking the time to read my question. I feel like there is a need for a background but I'll try to be brief. Thank you for helping me! My boyfriend is 21 yrs old and I am 23 (we're both from Latin America, attending colleg...
A. 1 July 2011: Hello, thank you to everyone that has helped me. I am currently evaluating my current relationship and will take a break from it all for a couple of days. I will let you guys know what I decide.
THANK YOUUUUU SOOOOOOO MUCH TO EVERYONE THAT HAS... (read in full...)
How do I boost my self confidence? Please help!
Q. Hi. Am female, 21, about 4 ft 11 and am not physicaly developed and because of this, i really lack self confidence. How do i boost my self confidence and how can i dress in a way that will flatter me. Also i have stomach fat, folds and love handles, ...
A. 30 June 2011: OK! briefly, I know that this is probably not the best way to do but I'd like to thank every single one of the aunts who are gladly trying to help each one of us! you are awesome!!! :) Ok, sorry, back to your question, I used to have those same ... (read in full...)
My most embarassing sexual moment
Q. If youre really honest ladies, you might relate to my experience. One day i was having sex with my boyfriend and i was on top. I was busy enjoying myself there when he distracted me, "honey, is this pee on my stomach?" and im like "no way!it cant ...
A. 30 June 2011: That has not happened to me... It should be natural!, I think the most embarrasing thing was that I got a cramp one time and had to drop to the floor, he got scared for a while and I was both laughing and in pain! he was like "what did I do?" ... (read in full...)
How do I stop from being so obvious when I am checking out girls?
Q. Hello, I am 17 and I'm gay. :) I love everything about girls. Their body, the way they move and laugh and smile. Literally everything. And that's..... becoming a slight problem to me. The problem is: I don't know why but sometimes, I find myself...
A. 30 June 2011: hmm, that's tough i think... well I am straight and I find it offensive when guys are checking me out (specially at the gym!). I am trying to put myself in your shoes.... if I we re to want to check out guys without being too obvious i would ... (read in full...)
Looks or personality?
Q. Hello, would you say looks is more important than personality? I have had this boy who has been asking me out for the last week or so, i didnt no what to say because to me he is not very good looking at all, and looks realy matters to me! But his ...
A. 30 June 2011: I agree with honesty. We all go through that phase! trust me! i was there once, but do realize that looks fade with age and even when we are young, a guy/girl that is extremely good looking/beautiful but has NO INTERESTING content to say...it ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's sister is acting all jealous of him. What should I do?
Q. My boyfriends sister has just started acting weird. When i first started dating him she wasn't that jealous of him spending time with me. Now that my boyfriend trys to see me 2 times a week she doesnt like to be around me and i told my boyfriend of ...
A. 30 June 2011: wow... this is odd behavior... I think that it might be because before she didn't really make much of the relationship but now that you guys have been together for so long, this might bother her a little bit.
I think that you should first tr... (read in full...)
Daughter takes back abusive BF - Why?
Q. I have twin 21 yr old children, Jordan and Jessica. Jordan has been friends with "Luke" since they were kids. I always liked "Luke", he seemed like a good kid. lasy year he started dating my daughter and I was fine with it, until I seen how this ...
A. 30 June 2011: I am so sorry to hear that, no girl should go through that!. pLease do not allow for that to happen, I think that she loves him too much and she is probably focused on the good times they had together (that is what I found out happened with me... I ... (read in full...)
He doesn't treat me that well, but I'm still so drawn to him!
Q. Hi there everyone, I have a question for all of you and any help will really be appreciated. Last year me and A were together for about 10 months on and off he even lived with me at one point but we both had our problems both drink and mental ...
A. 28 June 2011: OH! my! it hurts me so much to see how many girls are in almost my sme situation!... I think taht us girls tend to get fixed in the good times taht we forget the reasons that triggered us to want to move on!... I think that you should just move ... (read in full...)
Is he using me?
Q. Hi, thank you for taking the time to read my question. I feel like there is a need for a background but I'll try to be brief. Thank you for helping me! My boyfriend is 21 yrs old and I am 23 (we're both from Latin America, attending colleg...
A. 28 June 2011: last thing, he said that he after being a month without talking to me he wanted to start from scratch as if we didn't know each other... but i am confused... to me if you don't know someone you'd want to get to know the other person... you'd want to ... (read in full...)
She never told me !! should I bring it up or leave it incase it hurts her?
Q. I have been with my wife 19 years. We have been married for 10 years. Recently, she reconnected with an old college friend of hers. This was a girl that I knew back in the day, too, as I met my wife in college and she was roommates with this ...
A. 28 June 2011: I was kind of in this sitaution. however, I am not married but I see her point and i told my ex this over and over and over and he never understood. I had a really good male friend whom I knew that he had feelings for me, I enjoyed his company and ... (read in full...)
Messing with my head or is she into me? I'm so confused !!
Q. Okay, so I am after this girl now. Shes 2 years older to me, shes really beautiful. Her sisters are also my sisters friends.. But I would just like to list down some of the things she done in the past weeks, which sometimes leaves me in a confused...
A. 28 June 2011: hmmm,... I think that she likes you but sometimes we need you guys to finish the deal. I used to go out with a guy, he used to text me, call me and I would reciprocate but he never asked me to be his girlfriend so I stopped contacting him. We had ... (read in full...)
Should I see if they are back together or just forget him and move on?
Q. hi, me and my boyfriend split about 2 weeks ago now, we split because his ex kept getting involved and trying to split us and due to him having a baby with a different girl, she stop him seeing his daughter due to what his ex was saying. alth...
A. 28 June 2011: HI, I am sorry to hear that you are going through this... relationships can be the best or the worst or even both!. I always think of this saying "if you love something let it go,if it comes back its yours". I think that oyu have to remember... (read in full...)
Fighting a lot, worried I am just a notch on his bed-post and he never stands up for me.....so many problems with this relationship!
Q. Okay so my boyfriend and I have been fighting a lot here lately and we have been through a lot. I love my boyfriend so much but I feel like im getting tired of him and the fighting, we tried dealing with our problems and stop the fighting but 2 days ...
A. 28 June 2011: I am so sorry to hear this! I am going to a somewhat similar situation. perhaps not the details but I know the feeling. I think my problem is that I remember the good tmes I had with him, he was my first.. EVERYTHING!, he showed me so many things ... (read in full...)
Is uni worth it or should I quit and live life like my brother?
Q. I have a question about university and the point of it, because I'm a first year, just finished my first semester and I'm studying for a Bachelor of Arts, majoring in history. Lately it just seems that, for starters, if I did get my degree then ...
A. 28 June 2011: Hi, I will offer you my story, maybe it will help you. I was originally a marketing major. I was suppose to be done with the UNi in4 years, it is now my 5.5 year at the the U and I'm still 1 year away from graduating. In the middle of my car... (read in full...)
He lies about all the girls on myspace
Q. Well heres the problemm..ive been withh my boyfriendd for two months now, and well its not so great but we tend to fix the problems...he knows im a jealous girlfriend but ge doesnt really care..he lies to me about the girls on his myspace and ...
A. 21 January 2011: I am having similar issues with my 9 mo, bf and let me tell you that him e-mailing random girls on facebook is definitely putting a strain to our relationship and I am starting to distrust him... it's not pretty, don't go down this path, I agree ... (read in full...)
He lies about all the girls on myspace
Q. Well heres the problemm..ive been withh my boyfriendd for two months now, and well its not so great but we tend to fix the problems...he knows im a jealous girlfriend but ge doesnt really care..he lies to me about the girls on his myspace and ...
A. 21 January 2011: I am having similar issues with my 9 mo, bf and let me tell you that him e-mailing random girls on facebook is definitely putting a strain to our relationship and I am starting to distrust him... it's not pretty, don't go down this path, I agree ... (read in full...)
He says he likes me, but I do not see any affection
Q. a friend told me his good friend liked me so I started seeing this guy. This guy emailed me, gave me him number, and invited me to coffee. I think I scared him during out first two dates because I was not sure about my feelings toward him. Recently...
A. 14 November 2009: omg!... this is soo craZy!... Im going throught EXACTLY the same thing with a similar guy... although mine is younger but UGH! I'm so fed up with his behaviour!, he is the sweetest guy when we are on dates, but I basically am the one that arranges ... (read in full...)
Have I been expecting too much from my friend?
Q. I'm not sure about what to do with my friends. My one friendship with my friend, "Maggie," seems off and on. When I was in grad school, she never really was there to listen to me when I had a bad day or needed someone to talk to. She didn't get ...
A. 11 November 2009: hello, The same thing happened to me and although my friend has been with me through some rough patches of my life, she did make a very rude, hurtful comments about my own self and she even went on to saying that my bf was using me for sex (when... (read in full...)
After a break up, who should initiate a friendship?
Q. Okay, after a break up who initiates friendship? The person whose heart has been broken or the person who broke the heart? My exboyfriend and I were great friends before we dated and we did agree to being being friends. I miss having him in my li...
A. 11 November 2009: hello, I personally think, that it takes a lot of guts to be the first one to initiate A SINCERE friendship with your ex. I also think that it is admirable but at the same time I also think that it is hard to do if you know that the feelings are... (read in full...)
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