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I cannot get my girlfriends number of sex partners out of my mind
Q. Well, firstly this is a great forum. Hi, My problem is that I cannot get my girlfriends number of sex partners out of my mind..:( I Try though.. I would appreciate very much answers from women and don't be ruff on me. I know I shouldn't care,...
A. 5 October 2007: Pantelis0383. Did it work when you called your girlfriend a slut and then asked her to talk about her past? Just out of interest? ... (read in full...)
He ended it and now he's just being plain nasty to me.
Q. Hi again, If you're not already posted in on what my ex boyfriend is like then read my other questions if you can. Thankfully I have moved on from my ex. Who I could only describe with a word I can't use on here. He's in a relationship now...
A. 3 October 2007: Thanks for your help everyone.
Just to keep you posted I'm happy now with my boyfriend (the one from college) and my ex is having a very troubled relationship.
True what they say what goes around comes around! xxx... (read in full...)
He treats us like buses, when one breaks down, catches the next. I can't seem to be able to forgive him and take him back...
Q. Ok me and my ex boyfriend have been of again on again for 2 years now.. Prior to that a 5 year relationship., so altogether 7 years. When he is gone I miss him, when he is around I am easily annoyed...I know I am annoyed, well more so (hurt) because ...
A. 3 October 2007: You don't love him, but horrible as the truth is will never be able to get over him. You have proved this by not forgetting about his sad ass when he went with this other girl.
Hopefully your not like me, treat me mean keep me keen. Because at the ... (read in full...)
I asked him not to talk to the ex or make it clear he's not interested, but he says it's not in his nature to be mean. While she contacts him (as they shared a dog) I feel we can't be a happy couple.
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 months now and I love him very much. We connect in a way I have never felt before. He and his ex broke up about 4 months before I met him. The problem is that she still calls him and tells him she ca...
A. 3 October 2007: Why did they break up? Don't make yourself feel intimidated by her. I know your probably jelous because it appears to you that your boyfriend still has feelings for her. And at the end of the day, I hate to break it to you but he probably has if ... (read in full...)
He ended it and now he's just being plain nasty to me.
Q. Hi again, If you're not already posted in on what my ex boyfriend is like then read my other questions if you can. Thankfully I have moved on from my ex. Who I could only describe with a word I can't use on here. He's in a relationship now...
A. 26 July 2007: He ended it because when we first started to go out his new girlfriend said that she felt she missed her chance. I trusted them to be mates and they both through it in my face. What makes me the most angry is i always stuck up for my ex when ... (read in full...)
I think he wants me to end it so he wont look like the bad guy
Q. Hi I really need some advice. my boyfriend of 8 years told me he doesn't know if he loves me any more and refuses to discuss it any further so I am in limbo and dont know what to do. We also have absoloutly no sex life even though I try to initiate...
A. 18 July 2007: Hi,
Probably not to your extent but I also feel similar to you. I am still in a relationship - if you can call it that, with someone who I think doesn't want me, but can't let me go. I don't know whether it's because he feels he will miss me, or w... (read in full...)
the day he left.
Q. ok i might just be seventeen years old but i have had some bad experiences in my life and i wish to share it with you. I was born on Monday 25 th june 1990 my real biological father didn't believe i was his so he had a bloo test it was proven i ...
A. 11 July 2007: Your mum is a gem aswell, look up to her as a role model and you wont go wrong x x x ... (read in full...)
the day he left.
Q. ok i might just be seventeen years old but i have had some bad experiences in my life and i wish to share it with you. I was born on Monday 25 th june 1990 my real biological father didn't believe i was his so he had a bloo test it was proven i ...
A. 11 July 2007: I admire your strong personality, you have come across bad men but that doesn't mean that all men are bad. And I'm sure you will find someone so special that will treat you like the princess that you are. I wish you all the best x x x ... (read in full...)
I cannot get my girlfriends number of sex partners out of my mind
Q. Well, firstly this is a great forum. Hi, My problem is that I cannot get my girlfriends number of sex partners out of my mind..:( I Try though.. I would appreciate very much answers from women and don't be ruff on me. I know I shouldn't care,...
A. 11 July 2007: Thankyou 'eyeswideopen' for backing uo my point of which the 'oringinal poster' is being unfair to his girlfriend. That is the main point that I was putting across.
To 'Yos' I am not giving abuse but merely my opinion. Sometimes people call me conf... (read in full...)
What should I do? I think the KABIT is up to something.
Q. I have this stupid problem. About year 2004 my boyfriend had a "third party", Kabit is the word here in Philippines. They broke up when I made my boyfriend decide who he really likes, and he chose me because he loves me and can't live without me. ...
A. 11 July 2007: Have it out with "KABIT". Confront her and say that. "My boyfriend choose me, now deal with it. And stop contacting his family." You are right to think that Kabit is up to something because she is. Make sure you inform your boyfriend about her ... (read in full...)
She is after my guy!
Q. i've been with my boyfriend for 3 years - normal, happy with ups and downs. we're working things out, we're very in love with each other. recently, he met this girl (a family friend) from a family bbq (that i couldnt go to). his family jokingly/...
A. 11 July 2007: Right first things first. Shes a bitch. I'm in exactly the same situation as you. With me though its more serious. I've just got back from a night out. And I've just had a fight with the girl that split me and my boyfriend up.
Whatever you do nip ... (read in full...)
I cannot get my girlfriends number of sex partners out of my mind
Q. Well, firstly this is a great forum. Hi, My problem is that I cannot get my girlfriends number of sex partners out of my mind..:( I Try though.. I would appreciate very much answers from women and don't be ruff on me. I know I shouldn't care,...
A. 9 July 2007: Happy to chat. I was suprised when i read that you were a girl. Obviously you yourself havent been called a "slut". Obviously you agree that men have the right to slate women with a past sex life. And demean them by calling them a slut.
You said... (read in full...)
How to get her to find me sexy again and stop thinking of me as just a friend?
Q. I've been seeing a girl for just over two months. she's looking for the same in a relationship as I am and, while we get on wonderfully, she has decided to end it. What I'm finding difficult to figure out is that she says she's not sure that she ...
A. 8 July 2007: To be honset theres not much you can do. But i could give you a few tips. Everyone wants what they can't have. So be mates with her. Be very close mates. Act like your not interested in her that way any more. (without making it obvious) Flirt with ... (read in full...)
I cannot get my girlfriends number of sex partners out of my mind
Q. Well, firstly this is a great forum. Hi, My problem is that I cannot get my girlfriends number of sex partners out of my mind..:( I Try though.. I would appreciate very much answers from women and don't be ruff on me. I know I shouldn't care,...
A. 6 July 2007: You'll only get better at what by the way? ... (read in full...)
I cannot get my girlfriends number of sex partners out of my mind
Q. Well, firstly this is a great forum. Hi, My problem is that I cannot get my girlfriends number of sex partners out of my mind..:( I Try though.. I would appreciate very much answers from women and don't be ruff on me. I know I shouldn't care,...
A. 29 June 2007: I don't even think you deserve an anwser to be honest. But anyway heres mine.
I think that you should get off your high horse and welcome to the real world.
Your not in love.
You don't know what love is.
And i hope your not carrying on this... (read in full...)
I love him but he treated me harshly. Now he wants me back! What should I do?
Q. I was going out with someone for 8 months and in the this time i found videos of him having sex with the mother of his son, he treat me like i meant nothing but then would tell me he loves me. He would get txt messages off other women who i thou...
A. 29 June 2007: And you can't move on can you? Because all you can think about is him. And if you don't except his proposal you will loose him forever.
I feel the sort of similar right now. But is he worth all the hassle?
My nan always said, "Men aren't worth al... (read in full...)
YOU CAN HELP: Spread the word about DearCupid!
Q. Hi, I want to ask a really big favour of everyone who uses, likes and has been helped by DearCupid. Help spread the word this weekend, by doing some of these suggestions: * Tell your friends and family about DearCupid * Talk about and ...
A. 29 June 2007: I think this webites great and don't all my friends know ;-) x... (read in full...)
I don't want to push her, but I'm tired of playing the cat and mouse game. I need to find a way to see if she comes to me. HELP!
Q. I'm a 46 year old female in love with another female. I am convinced she loves me as well. I told her how I felt about her and she did deny she felt the same way. I am sure that is because she has been married and is confused by her feelings. She ...
A. 29 June 2007: I'm here to remind you of what you will have been told whilst growing up - treat 'em mean, keep 'em keen. And if she was straight then obviously shes going to be very confused right now. Try ignoring her for a week and if she's anything like you say ... (read in full...)
I'm losing touch with my friends and I feel really lonely.
Q. I feel lonely. Apparantly I am on the verge of losing touch with my friends. I belong(ed) to a fairly large group of friends, but lately I've noticed that they rarely contact me. It's always me who calls/emails and suggests meeting up. At first I ...
A. 29 June 2007: I would talk to your friends about it, because thats what they should be - friends.
Sometimes I feel the same way, but i suppose that on occasions I've give my love life lots of attention and then neglected my friends.
Everyone needs to find a b... (read in full...)
I want to meet my Irish boy without my parents knowing. What can I do?
Q. I met this boy, on Habbo Hotel a popular chatroom for teenagers, i am 12 years old and he is 13 he lives in Ireland and we got on really well, we started going out a while ago its a hard relationship because, i am from england and he is from Ireland ...
A. 29 June 2007: There are going to be many boys in your life that you will be close with. I know that now your deperate to meet this boy from ireland but even if you did and started seeing each other, long distance relationships don't usually work out.
Theres lots... (read in full...)
I like a new lad... but still have feelings for my ex?
Q. I havn't been going out with my ex now for three months, a girl split us up becaus my ex still had feelings for her whilst we were going out but insisted they were just mates. I knew about this so I was paranoid and jelous and we argued a lot. W...
A. 29 June 2007: Thanks a lot for your advice. I did go on a date with the lad from college and hes perfect. I suppose you should say I'm stupid and just out to get myself but im at my exs now on his computer and hes downstairs.
Should I tell him I went on that... (read in full...)
My boyfriend said 'I love you' to another girl but I still want to be with him
Q. My boyfriend recently admitted to me that he kissed another girl and told her that he loves her. I feel like I can't trust him anymore. I still love him, but its the fact that he's done this to me. I don't know what to do. I feel hurt and upset, but ...
A. 27 June 2007: Does he still want to be with you? Who is this girl? I think the main question in your head is -why did he do it. And i'm going to tell you why now. Because no lad wants to settle down. At the end of the day they are lads- boys. They compare girls ... (read in full...)
I'm continually nasty to her but I want to try our relationship again
Q. My girlfriend and I broke up 3 months ago. After an initial period of no contact we started to meet up on occassion and had a friends with benefits relationship. We discussed our relationship and why it failed and if we could rekindle it. After a ...
A. 27 June 2007: Men are naturally more agressive than women -not in all cases but most. This doesnt have to be physical like your case it could be verbal. I think the reason that you are constantly arguing is because you can't deal with your emotions the way she ... (read in full...)
Will a cheater ever change?
Q. Hi my name is Alicia and i startin goin out with this guy (Trevin)last year in may.We went out for a while but things started to change after the third month. we went out on and off for 7 months.we had lotsof break ups but always got back ...
A. 19 June 2007: Your right to not answer the phone. ignore him hes a idiot. he doesn't want a girlfriend because he doesnt know what he wants. so how will he know what you want? Lads up to the age of 25 just want to go out and have a laugh with their mates. you'll ... (read in full...)
He lied and deceived and played with both our hearts
Q. OK, sorry but this is a long one. My ex and I were together for 7 years. During that time we had 3 children from previous relationships between us and then in 2004 we had a child of our own. My ex effectively abandoned me and was not there wh...
A. 19 June 2007: I don't think that you should tell his ex girlfriend what has been going on unless he is still seeing her. You're right you shouldnt be made out to be the bad person in all of this. He's the one that has hurt everyone. He says that he loves you but ... (read in full...)
She wants to rebrand us as friends... will our 2 month travelling over summer be able to fix this?
Q. I had been going out with my girlfriend for 10 months. I am 26 and she has just turned 22. She had been on a university placement in a nearby country for most of this time and we made a point of seeing each other every 2-3 weeks. In addition, we ...
A. 13 June 2007: I think that yo are answering your own questions here. You've made the right move by asking her whether she's met somebody else because that was the first thing that sprung to my mind. When you're away with her ask her what she meant when she said ... (read in full...)
What should I do? I've been shying away from telling her some of the "baggage" that I have, knowing this will cause a lot of tension in the relationship
Q. Hi, I've been in a relationship for 4 months. We were never friends before we started dating, and became physical quickly. 3 weeks ago I broke it off because I didn't feel we were connecting on an emotional level (that's what i told her... I was ...
A. 13 June 2007: Four months isn't really enough time to get to know someone, its hard not knowing somebodys past. It seems that nobody knows what baggage is, maybe another love or maybe something you have and can't get rid of. I was seeing someone for four months ... (read in full...)
I'm fine with her socialising but I get so jealous when she talks to this one guy.
Q. I have a real issue. My girlfriend and I have been going out for 4 months now. I'm fine with her socializing with everyone else except for this 1 kid. He's 1 of my mates from school, and for some reason, whenever they're together, I just get so so ...
A. 13 June 2007: I think that you do have a jelousy issue not with your girlfriend and this guy. but just with him. He's got something that you havent and this makes you feel insecure. It may be that he is funnier or better looking than you, or people just like him ... (read in full...)
I met this girl about 4 months ago and got to know her really well, and decided to ask her out. Unfortunately for me, I didn't know somebody else did, too.
Q. I met this girl about 4 months ago and got to know her really well, and decided to ask her out. Unfortunately for me, I didn't know somebody else did, too. She came clean with me though, and told me how she really didn't like this other guy, but ...
A. 12 June 2007: First of all she needs some help, but that doesnt mean you should be all over her and at the click of her fingers. girls like it when a lad plays hard to get because it makes them think about you more. we always want something that we can't have so ... (read in full...)
My family does not like my boyfriend. Could it be that I'm blinded by love and they are right?
Q. So I've been dating this guy for 8 months. He's wonderful, and treats me like a queen. Problem is, when I introduced him to my family, my sister did not like him. That, in turn caused a couple of my other family members and friends to question his ...
A. 12 June 2007: The only thing you can do is ask them why they think hes not right for you. Family and friends care but sometimes they can be overprotective and from past experiences ruin relationships. If they come up with a valid answer then question your ... (read in full...)
Why is my ex suddenly contacting me?
Q. So, now my ex and I are at a point where I've tried getting over her and i was slightly successful (very recent breakup). But out of no where she begins to contact me once or twice a day for about 6 days straight. I'm here thinking, oh my god, maybe ...
A. 12 June 2007: I think that your ex doesnt know what she wants. Therefore is messing with your head. i dont know the reason why you broke up so i cant give my opinion on why shes acting like she is but shes obviously putting on a front to her mates. if she was ... (read in full...)
Are tattoos a turn-on or a turn-off for women?
Q. are tattoos a turnoff for most women? i have one tattoo at the moment, girls don't seem to mind that, but im looking at getting another one on my back, legs and my forearm.... do you think this would be enough to make some girls lose interest...
A. 6 June 2007: hi, it depends what tattoo you get. some look cheap and tacky. most look nice on muscles. i think that men with tattoos can take pain so im attracted to them because im an idiot and fall for the bad guys. if you get one and want to pull just make a ... (read in full...)
How do I know if hes not interested in me, anymore? Any advice?
Q. i need help! how do u know if a guys interested? in the beginning he liked me a lot! and i didnt really like him as much probably because i was keeping my feelings behind a bit because of previous bad experiences where my emotions go to far! and i ...
A. 6 June 2007: i had to check your age because this seems like a playground relationship. i think that your scared of getting to close again and by doing this giving him mixed signals but he seems to be doing the same. if i were you i would go out with him and ... (read in full...)
We got in an argument, so he slept over his ex's house! He says nothing happened, but I don't kow what to believe!
Q. hi all, question to all males out ter. can u please help me !!! why would my bf of 3yrs tell me he went out for dinner with an ex of his from years back, then went back to her place for more drinks but slept on sofa while she slept in her bed. Sin...
A. 6 June 2007: i think you both should sit down and be honest with each other. sorry but the pair of you are being childish by making each other jelous. i think it is bang out of order that he stayed at her house, because if you did it then how mad would he be? ... (read in full...)
I like him and he likes me, but he's in a relationship! Is it wrong to still flirt with each other?
Q. Hiya, I've fallen for a close mate of mine, but the problem is he has a girlfirend who he's been with for two years! He's told me that he's fallen for me too. But the thing is I dont think he will end it with his girlfriend for me. Is it wro...
A. 5 June 2007: i'm in a situation like yours but im the girlfriend whos getting hurt. do you realise how much pain you are causing? if she ever finds out she will be as miserable and as mortified as i am. and her boyfriend is just as bad. has it ever occured to ... (read in full...)
I don't want him to just "use me" as he has done this before in past relationships.
Q. I really like this guy, i used 2 go out with him but we broke up because he didnt treat me very well, and if i go out with him my friends will go against me because they all hate him and think i do as well. i think he likes me a little bit more than ...
A. 16 May 2007: i know its hard and im going through it now but take a look deep down in your heart and ask yourself- does he really deserve me? and if the answer is no then get shot because there is someone out there a lot better for you.... (read in full...)
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