He just turned off his feelings
Q. My boyfriend just recently broke up with me. He essentially turned his feelings off like a light switch. His father is an alcoholic, so he has learned to become very disassociated from situations that would normally be hurtful. He started letting go ...
A. 22 September 2011: i am sorry for your pain but he is selfish you dont need someone like this in your life and is best if you dont become friends with him it will end up complicating things,i know it hurts but u need to let go of him give yoself time and u will get ... (read in full...)
Someone teach my boyfriend how to kiss!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months and I am his first girlfriend even though he is 19. My big problem is he is a terrible kisser and I just can't get past it. Help?...
A. 3 September 2011: lead the way,teach him and he will be proud of you.... (read in full...)
My 'friend' used me, what do I do about it?
Q. ok guys this is long but any opinions would be gratefully recieved. ive known a guy 3 years and ive always had strong feelings for him but we've always stayed friends-he always come up with some reason like he thinks of me like a sister or somethin...
A. 3 September 2011: you just need to distance yourself from this person,he is s liar and what else,you wouldnt want to spend your life with him... (read in full...)
Tricked by a man - again!
Q. What is going on with me ? I have just been totally tricked yet again.I have had my fair share of life lessons regarding relationships but seem more naive than I have ever been. I met a guy who I thought really liked me .he seemed so genuine and we ...
A. 23 August 2011: we need details to help you.... (read in full...)
My husband is attracted to his brother's wife
Q. my husband is attracted to his brothers wife.he stayed 1 year in their house before our marriage.she is trying to trap him since she has some crush over him.but for sure till now they dont have any sex.but he is making calls to her and she too.when ...
A. 23 August 2011: tell him how you feel and as for the sister in law tell her if she doesnt stop you will have to tell her husband... (read in full...)
I can't believe I kissed my best friend like that!
Q. Hi my name is Holly J.I'm 15 years old.I go to an all girl School.My story happened 1 year ago.I always hang out by myself.it's really hard for me to make friends.I'm a extremely shy person it took me forever just to talk to the person who sit next ...
A. 23 August 2011: i think you should face her running away wont help you,maybe she likes you,you need to sit down and talk about what happened once and for all coz this is going to affect your studies.face her and talk about it.... (read in full...)
We were having a great time till I pulled out a condom!
Q. I drove 6 hours one way this weekend to meet up with this girl I met the other week we hit it off pretty good but she wouldn't let me put it in. We were both messing around alot but still did not go all the way. We showered together and slept naked ...
A. 15 August 2011: it might be too early for her to start having sex with you,all you have to do is ask her then shell tell you her reason.take things slow some girls dont like to rush for sex until their are sure they can trust you.... (read in full...)
I'd really like him to try oral
Q. I don't know if I am wrong to ask this but I am dieing to have my boyfriend eat me out but he is not to sure about doing it but I really want him to try it. I want him to be comfortable and just try a new thing with me how can I help ease him into ...
A. 13 August 2011: i agree with sammy ,tell him to try for you only once and then if he doesnt like he doesnt have to do it again.... (read in full...)
Do guys mean it if they say they love you back?
Q. If you tell a guy you love him amd he says back' I love you too' does he mean it? or do some guys just say it for the sake of it? I told my BF this, and he said he loves me to, but I;m not sure how to take it. Do I take it he means it? or else he ...
A. 12 August 2011: some guys actually mean it,u must see his behiviour how he treats you,i am sure you can tell if his for real or not.... (read in full...)
We cant go anywhere because he used to go to these places with his ex!
Q. My bf and I live in a small town, so there is only one cinema, one shopping cnetre etc. Now his ex also lives in the same small town (whereas I am from another city). Because him and his ex used to go to the cinema, shopping centre, coffee s...
A. 12 August 2011: he is so selfish how can he do that,he used to have sex with his ex so why not tell him to stop having it with you.you cant put your life on hold for him tel himm how does this make you feel you cant really live like this,he must also consider your ... (read in full...)
Every time I have sex with my new boyfriend, I can't help but cry because I still think of my ex...
Q. I've been going out with a classmate of mine for about 2 months now, and we've been sexually active lately. Now, a couple months ago I had a terrible breakup with my ex for 2 years. I've known my ex longer than that because we were originally best ...
A. 11 August 2011: you need to stop what you are doing,you are not in a space of having sex,you are still not over your ex and while you cry this guy maybe wondering what is it,is it him or what?stop sleeping with him or you will also hurt him.... (read in full...)
Girlfriend is not giving me straight answers about how many guys she's slept with or cheated on
Q. My girlfriend and i have only been offiecially together for two months but had a thing for about 4 - 5 months now. she asked me how many people i'd slept with, i told her honestly then asked her the same question, the first answer i got back was ...
A. 11 August 2011: give her a chance every has their past it shouldnt bother you this much i guess it doesnt really matter how many guys she slept with coz she is with you now but is it bothers you this much i guess you have to talk to her and tell her how you really ... (read in full...)
Why doesn't my older boyfriend help with the bills?
Q. I am 26, and am/was dating a 43 year old. I normally tend to date guys younger than me or my same age, but figured I'd try something different this time. Anyways, he has basically been living with me the past 2 months and has never offered anything ...
A. 8 August 2011: taking the keys back its a good idea,his using you just tel him to move out no discission,if you allow him to talk his going to convince you dont allow him... (read in full...)
Head over heels in love with married man and I know he won't leave his wife for me!
Q. Okay, I'm writing this because I'm miserable and at my whit's end of things. You've may have heard this a thousands times before, but Im simply head over heels in love with a married man and I have being for the passed year. And the worrying thing ...
A. 8 August 2011: you need to move on find your own man as you said he wont live his wife for you,have you ever thought that he loves his wife more than you?do you always want to be the second best,i know it hurts but his not yours.... (read in full...)
I'm dating a guy who says he doesn't think he'll ever get over his ex
Q. im 17, ive been dating this guy for almost 2 months. ive liked him for 3 years before he finally asked me out. things are going good and all. but theres a bit of a problem. in our freshmen year of high school he dated a girl for 3 months. he was ...
A. 8 August 2011: please dont waste your time with him or you will always feel like you are competing with the other woman tell him to go back to her and live you alone you deserve better than what his giving you.... (read in full...)
When a guy says a girl is "cool," what does he mean?
Q. Hey, Two questions, what do men mean when they use the term "cool girl?" I recently told a guy I have been seeing that I like him, his response was " I like you too, and you are a cool chick", do I take that as he likes me as a friend, or he is...
A. 15 March 2011: it means he likes you... (read in full...)
My family life is beyond miserable!
Q. Hi, so im 20 years old, and my family life is beyond miserable. at age 13 i learned my mom was cheating on my dad, so i told him thinking it was the best idea. It wasn't, instead he started to rape me and use me sexually as a way to get back at ...
A. 15 March 2011: Get out of that house,money is not everything live your parents with it,remove your name from the account change address and phone number and most of all get councelling u deserve better and i am sorry to day this but your parents are evil as for ... (read in full...)
Should I be worried about her sharing herself with other guys or wanting too try?
Q. my gf watches kinky porn, pretend rape, and a couple guys on one girl. what could this say about our relationship or the type of person she is? We have amazing sex and are physically attracted to each other and intimate at the same time. ladies, ...
A. 15 March 2011: i dont think its a problem she is just enjoing porn and shes watching with you thats makes it better,maybe is she was hiding ti from you it could be a problem.... (read in full...)
I'm worried about the age gap with a married man
Q. I am a 23 year old girl on the verge of commencing marital relationship with a 32 year old man. I have known him for around a year but I love him a lot. He has great family values and I love that about him. Nevertheless I am worried about the age ...
A. 15 March 2011: theres nothing wrong with the age difference as long as you love each other and you are happy.... (read in full...)
Is it me that makes my man hit me???? Please help!
Q. I don't no what 2 do, my man think's all I'm good for is clean cook and if he not like what I say 2 him I get hit. But he blames me and said if I do what I am told he will not get cross with me and he will not do it 2 me. So is it me that makes him ...
A. 15 March 2011: no its not your fault this man is abusive,you need to ask yourself that is this the way you want to live the rest of your life.Put a stop to it itherwise it will get worse.... (read in full...)
I feel like my infertility is hindering his happiness....
Q. I am aged 31 and have been married for 3 years. I have had an admired relationship with a faithful husband who has always been on my side and supported me. By the time of our marriage, my husband had a 4 year old son who we have happily lived with ...
A. 5 January 2011: im in the similar situation the only difference is that i have a child not him.when we got married my daughter was 4 and now she is 11.he is a great father to her but i alaways wanted to give him a child.last month we had a fertility treatment but ... (read in full...)
B/f has told me he'd kill my family if I left him
Q. I found out i was pregnant a few weeks ago. Its not the best news but im learing to deal with it. Im only 21 and recently moved to sweden to be with my boyfriend. Before i found out i was pregnant i wanted to leave him and go home. I have nothen ...
A. 2 December 2010: please you have to go to the police,let your family and friends know about his intensions.otherwise he will just kill you even if you are not going home.he is an abusive bustered he doesnt need a reason to hurt you just report him and get out of ... (read in full...)
My sister wants us to have group sex
Q. Has anyone had sex in the same room as another couple, and if so why? My sister wants me to do this in her room while she makes love to her boyfriend on a separate bed. She won't say why she wants it like that....
A. 20 November 2010: i dont think you should do that.she must find somebody else to fulfil her fantacies not you.the next thing shell be telling you to swap partners... (read in full...)
My ex wants nothing to do with our baby and I
Q. Hey everybody! I really hope you can help me. I'm 9 months pregnant for my x boyfriend of 12 years who left me as soon as he found out I was pregnant. At 6 months pregnant I went to see him and we ended up sleeping together, after that he stopped ...
A. 16 September 2010: i am sorry 2 hear what u r going through but to b honest u deserve better,i know it hurts especially when u r pregnant but u have to be strong for the baby.love your prescious baby despite what yo x is doing 2 u.... (read in full...)
My boyfriends looking at other guys!
Q. Hi, My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 months and we have a pretty good relationship and I love him very much. He does a lot of nice things for me and with me and I do the same for him too. We are in a same sex relationship. ...
A. 16 September 2010: looking is natural just trust him and enjoy yoself,stop worrying about it.... (read in full...)
How do I prepare for my first period?
Q. Hi I know I ask a lot of questions but hear me out. I haven't had a period ever. I am 13 and at a bigger than average weight. Lots of girls at my school have started theirs. Even some of the ones younger than me. I started having frequent stomach ...
A. 16 September 2010: always keep few pads with you,u will never know when will it start.i had mine when i was 16 so theres nothing wrong with you.... (read in full...)
Embarrassing! mom gives me a curfew!
Q. Wow this is embarrassing but my mom gives me a bedtime on weekdays. Its really early and I don't get to hang out with my friends. I want to tell her about it but I'm scared to. She never let's me do a lot of things. Please tell me what to do! Please ...
A. 15 September 2010: tell your mom how you feel,maybe she is trying to protect her.dont push her too hard,wait for her when shes happy then tell her if she doesnt allow her respect her decision.good luck... (read in full...)
Husband says I must accept that he has a small penis but I never have an orgasm during sex!
Q. hi every1.i have a problem with my husband when we make love he doesnt want to do foreplay unless i complain and if i do so he says i complain too much.for the past seven years of my marriage never had an orgasm the last time i had it it was with ...
A. 9 September 2010: THANKS ,i tried that and i was cought musterbating 4 yrs ago and cant forgive me for it he always brings it up,he threw my v and said its a sin aginst god and its the same as cheating.... (read in full...)
How to fall in love with my husband again?
Q. How to fall in love with my husband again? We've been married for 5 years, and we have 3.5 y.o. daughter. About 2 years ago, I've met a guy on my friend's b-day party. All sudden I started to have feeling for him, so did he. We would chat online a...
A. 13 August 2010: yo situation is sad but its good that you want to work on yo marriege,firstly try to look back and remember why u fell inluv with him then try some romantic get away dont think of anything else but u and him.dont talk about yo problems but just ... (read in full...)
I sometimes think divorce is the best way to deal with my husband's family's spite and rejection..
Q. i want my husbands family to accept me but it feels like it will never happen.we are from two different countrys and his family dont like me,his grandfather always tells him to get another wife bcoz he thinks its my fault we dont have a child.i have ...
A. 13 August 2010: thanks i will do that it sounds good now i feel more relaxed coz i spoke about it.... (read in full...)
Every time he has sex it causes him pain
Q. i have been married for 7 years and i have a big problem,for the past 3 years my husband has erection problems and feel pains in his testicle and we have been trying to get pregnant for 7 years but no luck,is it bcoz he has one testicle?everytime we ...
A. 12 August 2010: thanks for the advise i will tell him to see a doctor,he hates going to the doctors.... (read in full...)
How can I increase her sex drive?
Q. Hi,i'm sad and need your help.My GF is a guru whan it comes to blow jobs.Due to the sexual healing i receive from her,i named her my sex machine. she knows lot of sexy things to do and does them at the right time.She knows were to touch, whan to ...
A. 11 August 2010: you can try asking her what she likes,and what is it that turns her on then you will be set for life.... (read in full...)
No intercourse, regular period, but could I be pregnant
Q. Nearly two months ago, me and this guy were fooling around...he fingered me and there was a chance he could have had sperm on his hand. So, I went to get the morning after pill within 24 hours, no problems. My period came a few days early due to it ...
A. 11 August 2010: you cant be pregnant coz you took a morning after pill,u r safe... (read in full...)
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