Loving a married man with children... please Help!!
Q. I'm in love with a married man. I'm in an 8 year relationship with the father of my 2 kids. We get along okay but I just don't have that passion for him any more. My son is 5 and any time me and his dad argue, my son says stop yelling, I thought we ...
A. 10 November 2008: Wow I understand what you are going through. I have been involved with a man sexually for 2 years and while we are not thinking of leaving our spouses having this affair is wrong and I know it. I am in the process of ending this now. It hurts ... (read in full...)
Is the sex always great when you're having an affair?
Q. Hello. Has anyone out there had an affair only to find that actually the sex they had was pretty poor and in fact they were better off having never strayed in the first place? Just curious! Everyone on this web-site who has been practising ...
A. 9 November 2008: Yeah the sex I have had with my lover is awesome. But its an affair and its so wrong I wish I had never started this.... (read in full...)
He says he cares, but am I just more into him than he is me?
Q. I've been seeing a guy for 6 months, it's long distance, as we live about 90 miles from each other, or a 2 hour drive away. We see each other near enough every weekend now, and he admitted to me at the end of September that he likes me loads m...
A. 4 November 2008: Hey I read you're post. I think that because this is a long distance relationship you are insecure. I beleive he cares for you why else would he come 90 miles just for sex. Not likely especially if he has female friends already. I do think you ... (read in full...)
I don't feel anything when my boyfriend kisses me
Q. so my boyfriend (arron) and i have been getting closer and closer lately and i thaught everything was great till last night when i relized that when we kiss i dont feel anything and that its really hard for him to turn me on. we have gone as far a...
A. 4 November 2008: Some men are not good kisser's he just may be one of them. I am married for 14 years and my husband... i love him he is a great lover but does not kiss well. I would just tell him that kissing and licking you're neck feels so much better than making ... (read in full...)
Since his wife found out about us, she made him promise he will not contact me again, I'm heartbroken!
Q. first of all im married for 26 yrs with 2 children my marrage is good my husband loves me and i love him about 2 and a half years ago i met someone on line he to is married and has 4 children. we started emailing it didnt take long befor we began ...
A. 4 November 2008: I can understand that this is a hard thing and confusing. I myself am in your shoes and feel that pain of caring for someone outside of you're marriage and cant see them or be with them. I had an affair that lasted 2 years. I completely ended it ... (read in full...)
He has completely withdrawn and I feel terrible about all of this. Please help.
Q. Please help me sort things out. I'm so confused I don't know what to do! I found out 4 days ago that my husband has been having an emotional affair with a woman in the building where he works. He told me that he was in love with her, she was in ...
A. 4 November 2008: I just want to start by saying I am so sorry for what you are going through. It is a very complicated situation to say the least. I know you are living together which makes it hard but just give him his space. I would not talk about this or bring it ... (read in full...)
I am so frazzled with my family how do I relax?
Q. Hello- All I have a question or rather looking for suggestions from Moms and famalies. I have 4 kids and husband and work full time. Lately, I have been so frazzled I cant seem to get it together as far as my house my kids school clothes the morn...
A. 3 November 2008: Wow thanks so much everyone. I am new to this site and I have to tell you im addicted. I want to come on here with all my issues:-). There are so many people that have so much encouragement and help it's amazing. Its like free therapy. I am home ... (read in full...)
Anyone have any blow job tips? I want to do it for my boyfriend.
Q. Hi... Recently I gave my boyfriend a blowjob. This was the first time I ever gave a blowjob to anyone, but I did it because I love him. When I was doing it he took a while to cum and my jaw became so sore, my nose even started running, and my ...
A. 3 November 2008: I love giving blow jobs to my husband also. I agree get him arroused first before going straight for it. I would use the tip of my tongue on lick the head of his penis its less hard on your jaws and it feels really good for him use you're hand to ... (read in full...)
My husbad had sex with a prostitue, can I forgive him? Is he infected?
Q. Hi We have been happily married for last 6 years...have a 1 year old baby boy now, it was a love marriage..but I don't know what happened all of a sudden...my husband confessed to me 2 days back that he had sex with a prostitute during an offici...
A. 3 November 2008: I just want to say that I am so sorry that you are going through this. It is hard and you have a small daughter which I am sure makes this so much harder. I have to be honest and tell you though that he DID TELL YOU. He did not have to he could have ... (read in full...)
My bf went back to his ex wife without saying a word to me! What should I do?
Q. My boyfriend of 8 months, has in the last month has gone back to his ex wife without even telling me,i dont know what to do or think, we did not live together but i thought that he could have wrote a letter or something to tell me but i have not ...
A. 3 November 2008: I so agree with the other Post. It is so messed up what he did. I however think that you need closer to this. It hurts and you need to end it. Let him know that you realize he has made a choice to move on and you dont want him to contact you or ... (read in full...)
I have a family and BORED why??
Q. Hello all Iposted before and received so much great information. I have something I would like everyone's thoughts on. I ended an affair of 2 years this weekend and I'm feeling upset about it I almost feel depressed. I'm married for 14 years an...
A. 2 November 2008: Thanks so much. Yeah I just think that after 14 years I'm comfortable we have our kids and a life. When I was having this affair we would sneak around have wild sex in the staircase at work it was fun and its so addictive. I'm afraid though that I'm ... (read in full...)
I'm miserable and in love with someone else.
Q. Hi everyone, ok I have a sitution thats a little different then a lot I've read so far. I am a female and I'm with a female, I've been with her off and on for 3 years and she is a wonderful person but she doesn't trust me and she has some serious ...
A. 2 November 2008: Wow I can understand You're stress, remember something you are entitled to be happy really HAPPY. You're partner is resppnsible for herself it sounds like she may have mental issues and a drinking problem. I suggest you break up with her but push ... (read in full...)
My ex says he doesn't want me back, but acts as if he owns me! What do you guys think of this?
Q. Last nite i went somewhere with my ex, and his sister a local place, but for someone who said he didnt want to get back with me was very strange, he wispered something in mt ear as in cheak to cheak like he was going to give me a kiss, then he ...
A. 2 November 2008: I agree with one of other post he wants SEX that's it. He does not want to deal with the relationship side of things. Make no mistake we are all week at times sexually it happens but if u continue to sleep with him u are giving him the benefit of ... (read in full...)
I suspect he might be cheating, what do you say about the "evidence" I found?
Q. Is my husband, or has my husband cheated on me? We're a young married couple, and he travels a lot for work. He's also not from the US, and so our marriage legalizes him here. I wonder if he's cheating. I've brought up the subject before to him, ...
A. 2 November 2008: I also agree with everyone else. You cant say that he is cheating. He is from a different country and the fact that this woman is from the same place may just make him comfortable. I would keep and eye on it. If you want to and are really into ... (read in full...)
I am married and interested in someone else?
Q. I've been married for only 1 year and have been in this relationship for almost 7 years. Several months ago i met this guy for several minutes. I found him on myspace through my friends page. Started chatting and now find myself very interested in ...
A. 2 November 2008: Wow I can give you some serious Advice on this one. I have been married for 14 years and I started and affair it has been going on for 2 years. I am trying to get out of it. I realize that my husband is my life and my kids we have 4 of them. If they ... (read in full...)
I want to end this two year affair... NOW!
Q. Hi- I am looking for Advice on a situation that I have been in for 2 years. I have been married for 14 years and only started cheating 2 years ago. I have had many lovers in those 2 years (I know that it's wrong) I have ended all of the cheating and ...
A. 2 November 2008: I just want to thank everyone on this site for their comments. Buthaving said that I feel so rejected I feel like a fool this man and I are both married and he has always said he cares about me and loves being with me I guess I am mad that I let ... (read in full...)
Ladies, what does my ex gf mean in all, she says to me?
Q. Firstly i know this is rather long but i would very much apperciate it if you took 2 mins to read it! thanks in advance! me and my ex broke up about 5 months ago, we didnt speak for about 2 months then she got back in touch with me. We met up a ...
A. 1 November 2008: I have read you're post and I have to tell you. I think its so hard to keep a relationship when you are young. It can workout but more often than not it doesnt. I think she is confused and at this time does not want to work things out. I know that ... (read in full...)
Suddenly she wants to use condoms... is she cheating?
Q. i think my girlfriend is cheating on me. we have been going out for just over 3 months and because she is on the pill, we dont use condoms. however, over the last couple of weeks, she has insisted that we use condoms. we are at different univer...
A. 30 October 2008: I have to be honest and tell you yes that may be a sign if she is on the pill and you have been doing this with her without a condom then that is a signal. I would come right out and ask her about this. I was having an affair and would always use ... (read in full...)
I want to end this two year affair... NOW!
Q. Hi- I am looking for Advice on a situation that I have been in for 2 years. I have been married for 14 years and only started cheating 2 years ago. I have had many lovers in those 2 years (I know that it's wrong) I have ended all of the cheating and ...
A. 30 October 2008: This is to A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2008)....the hard thing has been is that it as added some excitement and great wild sex in my life. Its wrong though and while the wild side that does not want to think of consequences or ... (read in full...)
I want to end this two year affair... NOW!
Q. Hi- I am looking for Advice on a situation that I have been in for 2 years. I have been married for 14 years and only started cheating 2 years ago. I have had many lovers in those 2 years (I know that it's wrong) I have ended all of the cheating and ...
A. 30 October 2008: Thanks so much icelordess for you're email and response. This is really hard for me today. I actually ended this morning and I KNOW THIS SOUNDS BAD. I miss him already. He is funny and we just have such a good time together. I know that this is for ... (read in full...)
Is he just with her to make me jealous???
Q. I think he wants me back but playing mind games! I split with ex of 2 an half year 3 month ago because he drank to the extent he became a horrible person, I asked him to quit and he said he couldn't. Since then he got a new lass who he's been with ...
A. 30 October 2008: I think he is still interested in you i.e what you are up to and who you are seeing and i think you should take that with a grain of salt. It's flattering and all but you are better off without an alcholic in you're life. As for the lady he is with ... (read in full...)
I want to end this two year affair... NOW!
Q. Hi- I am looking for Advice on a situation that I have been in for 2 years. I have been married for 14 years and only started cheating 2 years ago. I have had many lovers in those 2 years (I know that it's wrong) I have ended all of the cheating and ...
A. 30 October 2008: You know I re-read what I wrote and I did not specify any of that. I do love him very much and I have no explanation for my actions other than to say he was my first everything i lost my virginity to him and i was never with ANYONE else until 2 ... (read in full...)
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