How do I get my man to last longer than FIVE seconds?
Q. I don't entirely know how to ask this, or if it is at all possible. But is there any way i can make my man last longer in bed. Last night he lasted all of 5 seconds, i love him to death but i was wondering if there is anything that i can do to ...
A. 9 August 2006: Is foreplay involved in this 5 seconds?? If the problem is that he comes after 5 seconds I recommend two ways around it 1- If you able to talk to him about, it you could suggest that he chokes the chicken maybe 5 minutes before yee start, this ... (read in full...)
Why are women such idiots!
Q. Last Wednesday I had a teeney tiny argument with my girlfriend, I later on apologised (even though it wasn't my fault). On Friday I asked her did she want to do something or go somewhere and got no reply.....fine. On Sunday still no word so I rang ...
A. 8 August 2006: Yes my apologies it was a harsh generalisation which I put on all women. At the time of writing I was fairly angry to the whole opposite sex so no blame on Dr.Pete's tabloid ways that was the title I was going for. In between the whole "its men that ... (read in full...)
We talk and chat alot, but she didnt text, not sure if this a big deal or not ?
Q. I met this girl at the gym who I liked the look of. She was on her own and I went over to her, havign seen her there a few times before. We got talking and seemed to get on really well, and considering it was the first time I'd spoken to her, we ...
A. 31 July 2006: Just ask her out man I bet she says yes. The whole thing with texting could be a load of things, she might not feel ready to give you her number, she may of forgot, as you said maybe too shy and maybe she doesn't even have a freaking phone. So the ... (read in full...)
Is he just my friend or does he want to hook up???
Q. I've recently fallen in love with this boy who has been my friend for about a year and i think he fancies me too. He was really depressed a few days ago becuse he asked someone out and they said no and i spent along time comforting him via txt. I ...
A. 31 July 2006: Firstly don't read too much into the "xxx" they are far too overused. Why don't you drop him a text something safe and simple like "still haven't got her to go out with you?? sure what the hell I'll go out with you if your that badly stuck ;)" from ... (read in full...)
Oral: To spit or swallow... and what about kissing afterwards?
Q. This is an embarassing question. But do guys prefer women to spit or swallow after oral sex? Also should you kiss on the mouth after giving or recieving?...
A. 26 July 2006: To spit or swallow?? Thats up there with the meaning of life and why's the sky blue. Ok personally I wayyy prefer the girl to swallow and kissing afterwards is AOK. I find it a little insulting if the girl spits, well thats because usually Ive been ... (read in full...)
I want to more then just put my arm around her while at the cinema. What can i do?
Q. i am going to a movie this weekend with a girl. what can i do to make the most of this. i have gone on dates with this girl before, just this time i want to see if it is something i want to continue. all i have really done is put my arm around her ...
A. 25 July 2006: Well firstly I wouldn't advise a full make out section inside the cinema far too ametuerish!! Inside the movie put your arm around and stroke her arm and play with her hair but being subtle at the same time. Then every so often come in close to her ... (read in full...)
He doesn't know I'm gay, but he flirts with me!
Q. Hey...I'm a 17 year old high school student. I'm gay and have fallen in love with a close friend. I had feelings for him even before we became friends. He does not know I am gay. He flirts with me non-stop and I am almost positive he has feelings ...
A. 24 July 2006: It all depends whether he has no clue or a little about your sexuality. If he might know then there are possibilties of attraction but if he has no clue he might still have feelings but more than likey he is just being playfull, slap on the leg, ... (read in full...)
Are we just friends??
Q. Hey! Well theres this guy, lets call him Andy, and he moved into my class half way through the school year. at first he was really annoying and stupid but got to be friends with him. I ended up getting a crush on him, but theres this other girl that...
A. 21 July 2006: Looks like your locked in the friend zone to me. After he said no to you he probably felt really guilty and then wanted to cheer you up later on, or else which is probably more likely he was forced to make up with you by this other girl. You sound ... (read in full...)
What are my chances of getting her back ?
Q. i really messed up with this girl i fell in love with i was going out with her for five months we have been seperated for 1 week what happend was one saturday i got really drunk went to bed on the night and fell asleep when i fell asleep i was sick...
A. 21 July 2006: Well the fact that she had two weeks to think about the situation and miss you and came back with the answer of just being friends makes it clear thats all it will be now. She might of being thinking of breaking up with you for a while but didn't ... (read in full...)
I'm being told i'm pretty but unable to get a date. Help!!
Q. People think I'm good looking but won't ask me If I'd like to go out with them. What should i do?...
A. 21 July 2006: Firstly that title doesn't help your cause your words or not its sending out a bad vibe already. Ok your good looking check.......thtas it?? Being "good looking" doesn't mean that girls are automatically going to approach you it just means you get a ... (read in full...)
Im becoming over suspicious of my boyfriend what do I do ?
Q. I am a suspicious type of person. My boyfriend has his own apartment but usually stays at his mother's house--just wanted to give u that info. Last week--i look at the condom drawer and we havent used any in a while--we have two sets..there were...
A. 21 July 2006: I think your slowly going mad :) just slowly though, you could of miscounted them on either occassion, and I think you wrote in before did you? about him deciding one night to stay at his apartment because his car would be blocked at his mothers and ... (read in full...)
His parents go out of their way to make me feel uncomfortable, what should I do ?
Q. I've been married for 5monthss now and my husbands parents dont respect me or my feelings. or my children. they keep photos of my husband and his x gf from over 5 years ago around there house, they show my children who are very young pictures of ...
A. 21 July 2006: They are well out of line, its bad enough mentioning ex's in the first few months of courting but 5 months married is ridiculous!! You say to your husband exactly how you feel and say to him that his parents won't see their grandkids until they cop ... (read in full...)
I can't deal with his past. Pleas help!!
Q. I am thinking of splitting up with my boyfriend of a year because I can't get over the fact that he's slept with so many people before me, and one while we were seeing each other (but before we were an item). However, I really can't bring myself to ...
A. 20 July 2006: Well everyone does have a past so you can't judge him off that, but I feel that there are larger issues than just his past here. It could be good for you to start out fresh and find your own two feet again, I suggest that you go on a "break" from ... (read in full...)
Do I chase her or move on?
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for 12 months. Previous to that we had been good frinds for years and new we would be together at some point. I also have a daughter from a previous relationship. My girlfriend cant excpept my daughter in my life and ...
A. 20 July 2006: At this momemt I would give her some space, give her time to miss you!! If you haven't heard anything in a month or so send her a hello. It could be good for yee let her get everything straight in her head and for now you can spend your extra free ... (read in full...)
He says hes too tired for sex, but is he!?
Q. ever since my boyfriend got this 3rd shift job, he says he's to tired for sex and he's never to tired for sex. what is going on with him?...
A. 20 July 2006: I have an experince of shift work and it can be extremely tiring, afterwards sex was far from my mind I wanted to eat, cuddle/chat and then go to sleep. Don't take offence to this once he gets used to this job he'll soon gain some energy or yee ... (read in full...)
After months of texting he wants to meet me, but I am wary
Q. I have been texting a guy for months now (he got my number from a mutual friend) and he is witty, charming, flirts with me and it is great! The trouble is I had a casual relationship going with one of his friends a few months ago and he brought ...
A. 20 July 2006: Since he got your number from a mutual friend you can 99% assume that this kid aint a physco of some sort so thats a plus. With him saying 'why would you go with this guy, you have so much going for you' this is code for 'Im better than that guy be ... (read in full...)
Is she avoiding me?
Q. The other day I was with my girlfriend of two months and we were at her friends bday in a caravan down by the coast. All night her friends were saying how cute we were, when are we getting married, what are we going to call the children etc. this ...
A. 19 July 2006: In reply to previous responce. Actully I brought a friend with me to it and he felt they were pushy too, we both left the same time. Well there was some tension beforehand as I didn't reaaly want to go to it but she played the card of how we don't ... (read in full...)
He's nice and I'm smitten, but what if I say something and he rejects me?
Q. I am 21 years old. I have been single for 2 years and 9 months. I recently meet this wonderful guy who I seem to be smitten with. I like everything about this guy but I'm afraid if I tell him he will reject me. He acts pretty friendly towards ...
A. 19 July 2006: I would think him asking you out is just around the corner so keep it cool for now and show subtle interest in him (touching, eye-contact, teasing etc.) If he still hasn't asked you out bite the bullet and ask him come on whats the worst that could ... (read in full...)
Why is it me that always texts first ? How can I get him to ?
Q. Hey Guys you may remember that i wanted to get back with my ex well i'm pleased to say that i've met someone else! The thing is as i was with my ex for 5 years i haven't been on the dating scene since and i'm a bit nervous, we've been texting ...
A. 18 July 2006: Yep can relate to that, I'm always first intiating texts and when I confronted my girl about it she replied "I no its so cute I'll never ever ever text you first" which I found fairly ridiculous, could be along the same lines but also some people ... (read in full...)
I really like a lad who's 15, but I'm 17 and worried what people will say!
Q. Well, last weekend I was out with my friend when we met some really cute lads. Me and my friend are both 17. Turns out the boys are only 15. Thing is, I got chatting to one of them and we have been txting and talking on msn and meeting up. I am sta...
A. 18 July 2006: 2 years is nothing go4it, and remember the golden rule -half your age and add 7. Thats the limit people... (read in full...)
How do I choose between these two guys?
Q. I am torn between two guys...!!! I met two guys over the last month. One I work with and the other i met on a nite out but i am very good mates wiv that guys mate. This mate has offered to set me up with this guy. My first question is wou...
A. 18 July 2006: OK so you don't fancy the old date two of them and drop the lame one gig, cool. I would recommend that you meet the guy your been set up with first and see how that goes, because you work with the other guy you can see his reaction to this and ... (read in full...)
I'm confused because I think my girlfriend is lying about where she's going!
Q. Me and my gf have been together for 8 months now. We connected and have the potential to have a brilliant and fun future. A month ago she lied to me. She met a guy and was planning to go to a barbeque with him. She told me she was at a girlie f...
A. 18 July 2006: The more you dwell on this man the worse it will get, "after obviously forbidding her contact with this guy" get with the times men and women can be friends and as for the "drunken" kisses there is no excuse, are you really ready for a big ... (read in full...)
The lack of sex in my 3 month relationship is making me so frustrated!
Q. I am seeing a very nice kind guy, its been about 3 mths now.Our problem is this: i am extremely frustrated by the lack of satisfaction is the sex part of the relationship. ' He is kind to me when we see each other (once a week at weekends, he lives...
A. 17 July 2006: Hmmm tricky one, he seems fairly stubborn and set in his ways. But before throwing in the towel altogethern why don't you try and spice things up you could bring various toys into the spectrum or if thats not for you just catch him unaware and have ... (read in full...)
Lads: what attracts you?
Q. A question for lads...what makes you fancy a girl. I want alot of different responses so get typing please x x x...
A. 17 July 2006: Ok goona break it down for you, there are 5 catorgies of attraction for women on just first appearences HOT - Explains itself CUTE - This is just a cute girl could be a bit shy but very friendly and approachable QUIRKY - This is... (read in full...)
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