Please reply here if you're on MySpace!
Q. Hi everyone Andrew, site guy here. If you have a MySpace account post a "yes" and let me know your profile name, either reply to this post or do send me a private mail (click my username, then send private mail from there). I'm doing a surv...
A. 8 May 2006: yes i do but i didnt make a url yet so search for GetaLifeOrDieTrying nd if that doesnt work type in my name bridget ellis nd add me to your friends list!... (read in full...)
Could my boyfriend's friend be the one for me?
Q. Hey how are you guys doing?Havent posted on here for a while.... Well here comes the problem... I have this really great guy friend{we'll call him bob}.And everyone thinks that me and him look like a great couple they even say we act as i...
A. 25 April 2006: Hey guys like to give you an update on the situation...
Bob and i talked today as usual but a little weird now since i found out i like him.Well during lunch me and my friends sit at this table and bob just sits at the table without a word.I a... (read in full...)
I found out my daughter has been having sex since she was 11 !
Q. Iam worried about my 14 year old daughter Iam starting to think she maybe a nymphomaniac. I didnt know until recently that she was no longer virgin well after talking with her I now know that she is having sex everyday with her 18 year old boyfrien...
A. 24 April 2006: OMG!I am so very scared for your daughter!She has been having sex since she was 11! Well you should definetley get her tested and help her with her with her grades BUT dont get pushy you might make her run away and god knows what she will do then... (read in full...)
He's worried that he's never dated a girl. Any advice I can give my buddy?
Q. Hi, I'm 16 year old male, I would class myself as very forward when it comes to relationships, although they never last, I'm pretty happy most of the time, however I'm worried this maybe influencing what I need help with. I have a friend whom I'...
A. 18 April 2006: Hello there...
If your friend is so worried that he has never had a gf then why doesnt he get one?I know it seems hard but its really easy.
Even though i'm only 12 there is a lot of guys who have never even been friends with a girl!In fact a c... (read in full...)
Too many terrible losses in my life, and I'm only 13! I'm so depressed...
Q. I am 13, 14 in May, and I am so depressed. My biological dad, that I never got to know but wanted to, hung himself 3 years ago and now my mum and dad I now have are splitting up. And my nana and grandad died in a fire a few weeks ago and I am an ...
A. 9 April 2006: I feel so bad for you hun...
Dont think you dont have no one to talk to cause all these agony aunts here are here for you and me.You'll be suprised at how well they cheer you up.Also dont think about the negatives in life all the time cause be... (read in full...)
I slept all day, so what?
Q. my boyfriend is pissed off that on my day off i slept all day i dont see anything wrong, is there?...
A. 8 April 2006: Your boyfriend might of thought that if it was your day off you guys could of spent some time wit each other ,but instead you decided to sleep.So i could understand why he is mad at you.So on your next day off ask him if he wants to hang out or ... (read in full...)
I flirt with everyone, but one guy I really like and I would like him to know....
Q. hi i have a problem. there is a guy and i really like him. i want him to know but not tell him but he isnt very good at taking hints. i flirt with alot of boys, and when i flirt with him he proberly just thinks nothing of it. also he has a gf so ...
A. 8 April 2006: First off do not go ANYWHERE near someone elses boyfriend!Cause that will start A LOT of trouble.And the guy you like might not be to found of you cause you flirt with a lot of guys!This situation is way to mess up for even me to handle.Just leave ... (read in full...)
He's just a friend but I want to ask him out. How do I know if he likes me? What should I do?
Q. I fancy this lad, he's a few years older than me and i have been really really good friends with him for a bit. I dont know whether to leave it as just friends or ask him out??!!To make it even worse my best mate used to fancy him!! I dont know if ...
A. 7 April 2006: i was once in this same situation... What you do is not just be all opened about you liking him.Drop hints that you would like to get to know him better.You could ask him on a date or just talk to him about relationships.But just remember your fr... (read in full...)
I would love to be with her, what should I do?
Q. please people, i could use your advice. i hav become close friends with a girl i am really starting to feel more for her, we almost went out a while ago but i didn't feel like it would work out. now i'm the one who just feels that we would be good ...
A. 5 April 2006: Sorry bout ur prob britrock121.It sounds like u really messed up wit a girl ur falling for now.Since u say she was in a relationship but now her bf dumped her she could be only playing wit u cause maybe she nos u like her so she thinks she can fall ... (read in full...)
Snogging...how do you do that? Advice needed.
Q. please help i dont know how to snog someone and i have never done it before but i really want to can u help me ?...
A. 28 March 2006: Its something you don't plan and if you do plan it usually doesn't work out the way you want it to.You also don't want to rush into your first kiss because you may be upset with the results.Also how you kiss someone is all up to you...... (read in full...)
I want to kiss him again, but we also need to study, what should I do?
Q. This is similar to my last question,but i still need some advice... Like i said last time, my boyfriend has been grounded because hes failing 3 classes and we had our first kiss a couple of days ago.And last time my problem ...
A. 22 March 2006: You are too good at this stuff bridget!If i only thought like you did...... (read in full...)
I'm too young for sex. What other options do I have?
Q. Dear Agony Aunt, I'm 12 and i really want to have sex but I'm too young. Is it okay to masturbate or is there any other options?...
A. 22 March 2006: Hi there Bryony!Me and you have the same exact problem...Except now i totally understand it would be foolish to have sex at such a young age.I know you probably think about it all the time and you don't understand why it wouldn't be bad ... (read in full...)
Not allowed to kiss my boyfriend because he's grounded...
Q. I'm 12 and in the sixth grade and have what you might call a problem... You see my boyfriend and I had our first kiss a couple of days ago. It was nothing really; in fact how we kissed was how you might kiss your grandma!!! Anyhow I really want us...
A. 21 March 2006: Thank you so much!!!That it SUCH an awseome idea ,bridget.I'll definetly help him study...
Sweetie Pie... (read in full...)
I'm 12 and just had my first kiss. Are things moving too quick between us?
Q. Hey guys, as you all know I'm 12 and in the sixth grade and I just wanted your opinions on something... You see my boyfriend and I broke up about 2 or 3 weeks ago and got back together last week. When I was texting him a couple of days ago and ask...
A. 20 March 2006: Also can you guys tell me different ways me and my boyfriend should kiss?Because right now the way we kiss sorta sucks...
SWEETIE PIE... (read in full...)
Wanted: Your views on DearCupid.org
Q. Hi everyone Thought I would introduce myself. My name is Andrew and I'm the guy who runs this site... Yes, it is just a one-man-band! I'm looking for ideas on what new features to add to the site and want YOUR input. I am thinking of the ...
A. 8 March 2006: Hi Andrew.I just wanted to tell you YOUR SITE IS FREAKIN AWSEOME!!!!I love you so so so much for making this site!!!It has helped me out so much.And for the idea thing i think #3 is great you should definetley do that idea.And i have a ... (read in full...)
How do I ask her out without being the laughing stock!?
Q. Hi. Im 12 and this girl i like is 13 (She is only a few months older.) well anyway, she is really really pretty, and i want to ask her out. The only trouble being that i am scared she will reject me, and will tell her mates and i will be a laughin ...
A. 7 March 2006: Hey sorry about your prob,but to tell you the truth every one gets rejected.Its part of life.Its either bad news or good news.And it sounds like you really like this girl and she'll probably regret not going out with you sooner or ... (read in full...)
I enjoyed our first meeting, but she's so busy that I can't seem to plan a second!
Q. I meet this wonderful girl and things are good, but she is very busy with her work and her daughter. I find it hard to get time to talk with her or set up another meeting (only met once). I'm afraid of pushing her away. Any advise? Thanks!...
A. 24 February 2006: First of all do u even know if this woman loves u? And if u she does she should set aside sometime for u. Try telling her how u feel about her not having a lot of time to spend with u.U also say she has to work and take care of her ... (read in full...)
We're in love and so far apart!
Q. What do you do if you fall in love with someone from another country? I met him last year on vacation and we've been in touch since then. I'm absolutely in love with him, but we live in two different countries. What can I do? I feel so lost....
A. 24 February 2006: I feel so bad for u.The guy u love lives in a different country! Well if i was in ur shoes i'd feel lost as well,but do u know if he loves u as well? Because u might be wasting ur time falling in love with a guy that ... (read in full...)
I'm worried about when I start my period...
Q. My mum is really great and has told me all about sex and periods and everything, but I still cringe when she talks about it to me. I'm worried that when I start my period, I will be too shy to tell my mum about it, and what if I start at school? I...
A. 24 February 2006: Hey.I know how worried u r!I had my first period about 3 months ago.It happened during school and i was wearing white pants!I didn't even know i had my period until i came home and went to the bathroom!I remember seeing the blood and screaming!!! A... (read in full...)
He gets too nervous to talk to me and I don't kow if I should just end it!
Q. I have been going out with this guy for about 7 months, I really like him. I think he is my first love. The only thing is we never talk in person; he gets too nervous. We hang around with the same friends but we never talk. I can talk to him by ...
A. 23 February 2006: Don't feel bad i am in a relashonship when at first we didn't talk or anything at all! So i can see how u feel... First of all u shouldn't dump him just because he doesn't talk to u.Thats just stupid!If u really like this guy ta... (read in full...)
I fancy him and he asked me out. Then at school he denied it. What's going on?
Q. Here's the problem: Last night I told the guy I fancy I liked him over Yahoo and he finally asked me to go out with him :D Then today in school he totally dissed me, and my mate said to him "I heard you were going out with Manda. I think that's g...
A. 22 February 2006: Well,if i was in ur shoes i would probably start dissing him right back!But that would be immature as well.Try talking to him and if he ignores u ask one of his friends whats up and why hes acting this way.If u tried ur best and he is still treating ... (read in full...)
I really like my BF but i like the other guy, too.What should I do about this situation
Q. hey guys.As u all know i am 12 and in the sixth grade and i thought u guys could help me out with this problem i have. u see before me and my boyfriend hooked up a few months ago their was this boy in my homeroom that ...
A. 31 January 2006: i get what your saying mommyofthree,but i just can't pick between the two.i know i'm at a young age and everything,but i know u have better advice than that!... (read in full...)
Don't want to break things up, but my boyfriend and I are drifting apart!
Q. I really love my boyfriend but since starting university we seem to be drifting apart, i have sort of put this down to me maturing quicker than he his but it is starting to aggravate me as he is sometimes very narrow minded and no longer very ...
A. 30 January 2006: hey,sorry to hear about ur problem. u should sit ur boyfriend down and tell him how u feel and how u want things to happen.If things don't change i'm sure u can find someone else.... (read in full...)
Got my period and suddenly I am craving sex! How do I stop this?
Q. Hey guys this is Sweetie Pie here wondering if you could help me with this situation I have. You see me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 months now. Everything was going great until BOOM I get my peri...
A. 26 January 2006:
Thanks for ur help dude,but i found out that my boyfriend wants to have sex and i really want to have sex with him what should i do?... (read in full...)
Got my period and suddenly I am craving sex! How do I stop this?
Q. Hey guys this is Sweetie Pie here wondering if you could help me with this situation I have. You see me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 months now. Everything was going great until BOOM I get my peri...
A. 25 January 2006: THANK U FOR FINALLY TAKING ME SERIOUSLY! SWEETIE PIE :-... (read in full...)
Got my period and suddenly I am craving sex! How do I stop this?
Q. Hey guys this is Sweetie Pie here wondering if you could help me with this situation I have. You see me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 months now. Everything was going great until BOOM I get my peri...
A. 25 January 2006:
Yes i am really twelve is that so hard to believe?Why do you older folks think your always better than us?and by the way i'm serious about the question i asked. ineed some"real"advice other than your comments!
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Afraid my friend may ask me out and ruin our friendship... What should I do?
Q. I have just found out recently a guy friend of mine bubba likes me more than a friend. We always flirt in between classes but it is harmless. I like him to, its kind of been a secret. but right now isnt really a good time for me to have another ...
A. 16 January 2006: Hi,Sweetie Pie here!Sorry to hear about your prob;I'll try to help u out the best i can!
Anyhow,u should just tell your friend"bubba"that u really do like him but your really not ready to be in a relashon... (read in full...)
Something seems to be missing from my life! I just don't know what it is...
Q. I need some advice, I'm unhappy but I don't know why!! I have a loving family, great friends, fantastic boyfriend, lovely car and house, I'm studying the subject I love (law) at university and I like my job. I've always had a very high standard of...
A. 10 January 2006:
It seems to me that your life is so perfect that you have become bored with your life.Why don't you have a girls night out and have a wild and exciting time instead of being a perfect angel all the time.
Hope i helped bye!... (read in full...)
What should I get my boyfriend for valentines day? Headache pills? ;-)
Q. i now its a little early to be thinking about this but what should i get my boyfriend for Valentines Day? what are you guys getting and hoping to get from your boyfriends this Valentines? i was thinking ab...
A. 6 January 2006:
THANKS FOR HELPING I KNOW EXACTLY WHAT TO GET HIM NOW!... (read in full...)
What should I get my boyfriend for valentines day? Headache pills? ;-)
Q. i now its a little early to be thinking about this but what should i get my boyfriend for Valentines Day? what are you guys getting and hoping to get from your boyfriends this Valentines? i was thinking ab...
A. 5 January 2006:
The only thing i have a problem with though,is i really don't know what my boyfriend likes and dislikes.We've been going out for almost three months now and we don't talk to each other at all{we talk on the phone though}. ... (read in full...)
How do I approach this girl I like? Should I do it now or wait until my acne and greasy hair and eye infections have gone? Please..advice needed.
Q. Hi, I'm 14 years old and I really have a crush on this girl at school, I can't stop thinking about her, she's really cute and pretty, and she has a great personality, she's kind, sweet, funny and intelligent. I try to be kind, friendly and funny to...
A. 5 January 2006:
hey.iv'e been in your situation before.What i tried to do was become friends with the person first and after i really got to know the person i sorta hinted that i wanted to go out with him.it may take long but its wort... (read in full...)
My bf admits he put his hand up her skirt..how do I handle this situation?
Q. hi i just wanted some advice, my boyfriend admitted to putting his hand up another girls skirt a couple of months ago. i was shocked of course but don't really know how to handle the situation. we have been engaged for a year and currently live ...
A. 1 January 2006:
hi.You should tell your boyfriend how you feel and you should also thank him for being so honest with you.i know a lot of guys that would keep that and other secerets away from thier girlfriend.... (read in full...)
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