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... Send *sk paige a private message | | | *sk paige's profile:hiya im paige carpenter and ive always tried to help my mates when they are down or have a problem so im gonna try and help people out there too lol! i dont really get love and i think everybody has a different view of it and sometimes for some people it works out for them and some it dosnt but hey that life! i love everyone of ma friends they are the ones that keep me goin and i would do anything for them!
family and friends are so important to me and after 3 years of compleate heartbreak over boys ive finnaly come to realise that boys just arnt worth it! enjoy life while you can i say
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He's in a relationship but wants to have sex with me!
Q. hey everyone. One of my friends is really attracted to me. Im attracted to him too and we like to talk to each other. We have been talking for a long time and sometimes we talk about sex and turn each other on. Well as time went on, he got a ...
A. 18 August 2008: look it seems like this guy has cheated on his girlfriend more then once and is using you as a booty call, but dont fall for it dont YOU become the other woman trust me you dont want that on your concious even if you dont know his girl you wont be ... (read in full...)
How can I help him get over it?
Q. My fiance is having trouble getting over the fact that 3 years ago when we broke up i had a one night stand, how can i help him get over it?...
A. 18 August 2008: well i think to a lot of people cheating is the worst possible thing that can happen in a good relationship and some people no matter how many times you apologize, he may never be able to "get over" your betrayle, and see you being with someone else ... (read in full...)
Am I going to be just a booty call if I keep hanging out with him?
Q. i have been hanging out with this guy almost everyday for a month now and we get along great we hang out in crowds so we are alwys around our friends, he holds my hand and kisses me hi and bye and even infront on everyonee, we have fooled around a ...
A. 18 August 2008: hey hun im sorry to tell you but i think so, i mean for one thing 99% of men at that age arent looking for anything else but a bit of arse, and going into a commited relationship really isnt going to be the first thing on his mind. if i was you id ... (read in full...)
Am I in love with him?
Q. i think about him all the time. after we talk on the phone im happy. i feel comfortable with him and can be myself. i dont get butterflies or feel nervous when i see him or are with him. how can i know if i love him?...
A. 18 March 2008: like lj001 said you will deffinatly know when you love someone, my first love all i felt was butterflys and i loved him to pieces just remember never change over a guy if you do fall head over heels! lots of love paige xx... (read in full...)
Keep the baby for me or abortion to make him happy?
Q. I'm a 23 year old female and I am pregnant. Doesn't seem like a big deal but the guy that I'm pregnant by doesn't want me to have to baby because he says we should wait and because he's not ready. He has tried EVERYTHING to make me have a abortion: ...
A. 18 March 2008: hi
first of all i just want to remind you that this is a baby we are talking about not a dog that barks to much in the night that you want o get rid of, this is a baby! second of all you are the person that is keeping this baby alive feeding it n... (read in full...)
Is it wrong for a 19 year old boy to like a 15 year old girl?
Q. hey am a 19 year old boy and a really like a 15 year old girl, but me friends and stuff say its wrong. what should I do?...
A. 18 March 2008: hey there
sorry to say yes i think it is a bit wrong my friend abbie who is 14 went out with a 18 year old and it just turned into a compleate mess he just compleatly used her and im not saying thats what you neccesarily would do but stillyou dont... (read in full...)
Would it be wrong to have a f*** buddy while my girlfriend is out of state?
Q. Is casual sex OK when you love someone else who is not around? My girlfriend took a job that forces her to travel out of state for weeks at a time 90 percent of the time. I love her but dont want to sleep alone. Is it wrong to find a casual sexual ...
A. 3 August 2007: ABSOLUTLY IS IT WRONG! if you say you love your girlfriend when she goes out of the state it dosnt mean u sleep with the first girl you see and so what if shes not around if you dont like that either brake up with her and tell her thats the reason ... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant with another man's baby; should I confess?
Q. ive told my ex the baby i am carring is his,but its not.its from a one night stand,now im scared in case he finds out,im due to have my 10 week scan,next week.but i split with him 12 weeks ago,i know he does not believe me deep down,and he has ...
A. 22 July 2007: ok theres only one thing i can say to that you REALLY need to be honest about this! i mean at the end of the day we are talking abut a child here, yes it may still be a foetus but in a few months you are going to have a child and another man who is ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend kicked me out, what do I do now?
Q. me and my bfriend living together for a year, yesterday he kicked me out. normally i always run to him but this time i dont know what to do please help...
A. 22 July 2007: i totally agree with "ask eve" here i mean it sounds like this has happened before and if your relationship is only based on you too breaking up all the time it dosnt seem worth it! try and talk to him sort it out if you can and if you and him ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend no longer seems interested in me; I now have the chance to make a go of it with a new girl. Should I take it?
Q. Hey there, ive been with my girlfriend for over 2 years now. Our relationship has been good up until a few months ago where it has seemed she has lost a lot of interest, she saids she still loves me but her actions sometimes show otherwise. She ...
A. 22 July 2007: i think that if you did go to this womans house it would make things a lot worse then they already are i mean technically you wold be cheating even if as you say your relationship is not as good as it was before. but if you are intrested in this ... (read in full...)
I am sooo scared I'm going to lose my boyfriend.
Q. I'm in a bit of a pickle. I am sooo scared I'm going to lose my boyfriend. I stayed at his last night, and we were in bed and he said he loves me more than anything and that he has been in love before but not like this... I'm just so sca...
A. 22 July 2007: i understand what your feeling right now. as you have said your scared you or him or something might screw this fantastic relationship you have going on right now, but to be honest i think that if you love him and he loves you right now you have... (read in full...)
Is there something wrong about being a virgin at 17 ? How can I reduce the tension ?
Q. Dear cupid... im a 16 ( almost 17 ) year old female and i was wondering if there is something wrong with me.. ive been with my boyfriend who is 20 for almost a month and we've started talking about sex witch doesnt bother me except that im ...
A. 6 April 2007: hey there first of all I have to say there is absolutley nothing wrong with you being a virgin at your age believe me when you're 20 years older you will be thankful you wern't stupid and lost your virginity at 13 or 14 and ended up pregnant! and ... (read in full...)
How can I make sure this guy does love me ?
Q. I wanna make sure a guy I know is in love with me (they told me he was). and also, he seems very outgoing with other people but me, so what is going on , does he like me or not? how can i make sure without asking him out? how can i make him to open ...
A. 6 April 2007: hey chick i have to say i have to say this situation you are in is pretty much exactly the same thing i went through except thisguy was outgoing with me and the same way he was with his mates and then in the end i ended up heartbroken so how people ... (read in full...)
We love each other but we argue alot and I don't know what to do!
Q. hey!! im really stuck and could do with some advice. i love my boyfriend (of a year), but recently we've been arguing alot. i havent seen him or about two weeks (cos im at uni) and when i said to him the other day that i had too much work to de and ...
A. 18 March 2007: well i think that as you said long distance relationships are hard and especially if u dont see them as much as you used to without a doubt it will be harder becuase he will miss you so i think you should sit down and talk to him tell him what you ... (read in full...)
My 19-year-old son is dating a 38-year-old woman; I'm worried the age gap is way too large
Q. Hi there I've got a problem which I've never dealt with before in our family: age gap relationships. My 19-year-old son is dating a 38-year-old woman; I'm worried the age gap is way too large. My husband is the same age as me, so I've n...
A. 4 October 2006: well i think that you should deffinatly talk to him i mean u r his mom at the end of the day and if u dont say anything now it might be to late to say anything and u may ruin ure relationship with your son although it is his life and he should make ... (read in full...)
My MSN girl is starting to ignore me, please help
Q. hi there is a girl that i like in school shes in year 11 and im in year 9 she hasnt met me yet but i got her msn address i talk to her but she is starting to ignore me, please help...
A. 4 October 2006: i dont think she ignoring you i mean i go on msn all the time and some friends can be different on msn and they are different then i reawl life mabey shes got a lot going on i suggest you talk to her at skool get to no her a bit find out where she ... (read in full...)
My 16 year old gay sone likes to look at little boys...
Q. my 16 year old gay son likes to look at little boys, he has never had a sexual encounter with a boy or man, however as his parent I am concerned about this and don't know what to do? ...
A. 12 September 2006: well i think at the end of the day if he has decided what sex he is atrracted to there really isnt anything u could do about it but as his mother i think you should be able to talk to him and be able to say what you truley feel about the situation ... (read in full...)
I cheated a while ago, now she has cheated, but shes always flirtng online, is this doomed ?
Q. PLIZ HELP...I've known my girlfriend for 3 years, we once broke up coz I was seeing another girl. But we got back together 1 1/2 years ago coz we still luved each other so much. but it has been a distance relationship. I vowed I would make it up to ...
A. 12 September 2006: darlin
i feel really sorry to say but i really think that u should move on i mean i believe that she does love u but sometimes in relationships u may seem to get a bit bored of seeing and being with the same person all the time so if your only dati... (read in full...)
I don't want to have these crazy feelings for another man! How to get rid of them?
Q. I'm very confused and need help. I am married to a very nice man. In fact, he is just about perfect. There is nothing wrong with him at all. However, we don't have very much in common and over the years I have become less and less attracted to ...
A. 6 August 2006: well in think that loads of women when they are in a long term relationship they can sopmetimes start to have feelings for other people but trust me if you love your jusband wich it sounds like you do then the other guy sounds like a simple crush ... (read in full...)
He isn't that interested anymore
Q. I have only been with my boyfriend a few weeks but really feel strongly for him however i think he's goin off me because he never chases me no more and dont randomly phone me or text like he used to, i think i have become too paranoid and i always ...
A. 6 August 2006: i think that at the start of a relationship it is all over each other and then it starts to die down a bit and that spark that u had seems to feel its not there anymore so i would try and get his attention back by not being to paranoid or mabey ... (read in full...)
Should I fight for him?
Q. dear cupid my boyfriend has just broken up with me and i am heart broken i dont no what to do. i loved him sooo much and i still do he said he didnt see me as a gf any more but im confussed just 15mins earlyier he said he loved me sooo much i dont ...
A. 6 August 2006: hiya i think that if u let him go that u have given in and that if u really love him and i know what u are goin through ive been through this more then once and u no what i did i fought for him and it payed off even though it took time if u really ... (read in full...)
Aged 14 and I don't know if I should have sex...
Q. I'm 14 and I have been going out with my boyfriend for months and he wants to have sex. I would but I don't know if I will ruin my 1st time. Also there all negative points and I don't know what to do. ...
A. 3 August 2006: hi well i think that at 14 years old your still growing and at the min i think you are perhaps a little to young to have sex also when you do plan to have sex you need to feel ready in yourself and acctually really fuly want to because at the end of ... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and obsessed with sex... How do I stop?
Q. I'm kind of obsessed with sex right now. I go on porn sites and watch live sex cams. What will i do. I really want to stop it. I'm only 14!!!...
A. 9 July 2006: well i think that at your age all your hormones really start to kick in a lot and you start looking at things differently such as i neva used to lthink about boys all the time i used to hate the idea of me being in a relationship but when i turned a ... (read in full...)
Why do I keep imagining my Dad being with another woman and making myself mad?!
Q. hi im 14 and my mum and dad are still happily married. the thing is i am just wondering why i cant stand imagining my dad having an affair wiv another women even though i dont think he would. on the other hand i dont think like that wiv my mum, if ...
A. 2 July 2006: it is very normal for someone of your age to be worrying about something like this because there is so much divorce and break ups theese days that u can never be to sure but as u say they are happily married so i dont think you have anything to ... (read in full...)
Should I leave her now or misery it out for another six months?
Q. Currently I am in a relationship that has been going on for four years. We live together with two of our friends in a small house. The problem is that I no longer have feelings for her other than as a friend and I have now started to become a...
A. 2 July 2006: i think that u should deffinatly tell her soon that you dont see her in that way anymore because if u carry on living with her and not telling her how u feel she will want the relationship to move more forward and before you know it u are engaged to ... (read in full...)
I'm in love, she's beautiful... and I have nothing to say to her!
Q. I am in love with a beauitful girl. I went on holiday this week and when I came back we had nothing to talk about, so we sat in silence for about an hour. What should I do to sort this problem out?...
A. 2 June 2006: well i would usually suggest telling her that you like her BUT id all you usually do is sitt in silence i would suggest you dont tell her before you kind off get her to like you more and gets to know you and im sure you have loads to talk about for ... (read in full...)
After our fight, I just don't feel the same strong attraction for him!
Q. Hi, I've been in a relationship for about 13 months and about a month ago we had a really big fight and weren't talking. Since then, we've worked everything out and it's ALL better. Since then I've found myself not really as intrested or in love wit...
A. 2 June 2006: hi well i think that obviously he realy likes you and you are not intrested in him anymore and some men like being very ok with holding hands and kissing in public and some are not that confident about doing that but before you get more in the ... (read in full...)
How do we get over our communication problems?
Q. I'm having some problems with my boyfriend. I get very angry with him because I feel that he doesn't listen to me or my needs so often and tends to not communicate very well, leaving us with issues I thought we'd solved and then find he's back at ...
A. 2 June 2006: well i think that all relationships have problems like theese you feel like when you are trying to talk to your partner an you know hes not listnin you feel like your talkin to a brick wall and then not talkin leads to the issues and the issues lead ... (read in full...)
Am I gay, straight, bi? I'm attracted to men, but this woman in the magazine...!
Q. Sexually related question. I'm majorly confused about my sexuality. I'm turned on by men when I see a hot guy, and it takes a very special kinda woman to catch my eye and when I see my kinda girl I get all excited. Recently I was paging ...
A. 2 June 2006: i think that being gay is mostly just liking men but at the same time if i think a girl is pretty i will say but i dosnt mean i think straight away im gay but i think if you have strong feelings for both sexes i think that mabey you are bisexual and ... (read in full...)
I want to see someone else, but how do I break up with my man of 4 years without breaking his heart!
Q. how do you break up with ur boyfriend of 4 yrs???? i like someone else, although i love him, i cant help feeling guilty over liking someone else. i dont want to break his heart he's like my soul mate and we all have the same group of friends. how do ...
A. 1 June 2006: well first of all u need 2 imagine your life without him.
everyone has crushes and has feelings for someone else but you need 2 think about who will be most loyal 2 you and who will make you most happy in the long run it's a hard thing love but ... (read in full...)
Lose weight or my boyfriend?
Q. I have a problem...I have been with my boyfriend for 6 and a half years we have a child together. We were young when we got together and my child came along quickly and unplanned. I have always loved him but the past year or so I have been havi...
A. 1 June 2006: i understand what you are saying BUT no woman shoukd beb treated like that any circumstances if he complains about your weight its up to you to loose it or not but if you are going to loose it losse it for yourself not anyone else as for spliiten ... (read in full...)
I got frisky with my friend, how do I get him to talk about it?
Q. I've been friends with a guy for about a year and 8 months now. We don't get to see each other too often anymore, what with university and everything. But 10 months ago, we were at picnic/party thing with some other friends we don't really see that...
A. 1 June 2006: well i think that he obviously likes you and he is putting off "the talk" and most guys dont like to express there feelings because its the same with men as it is with women because if you told him how you felt you mabey worried that he may run away ... (read in full...)
How can I stop being so paranoid, when my partner goes out without me ?
Q. Hello Everyone I am in a good relationship (gay) my partner gives me no reason not to trust him and its the same for him with me.However i do trust him but at the same time when he goes out without me for a night out i cant help but get paranoid...
A. 1 June 2006: well nearly all men and women think in some part of there relationship what are they acctually getting up 2 and its compleatly normal so i woud suggest you mabey go out with him more and then you will be able 2 see that he is just having a good time ... (read in full...)
Does this guy want a relationship? Or was it just a laugh!
Q. Hi, i have been having some work done on my home by my landlord, a few months ago his friend came with him, we chatted and got on well, then i didnt see him for a few months as he has children he sees regulary. last weekend he came with my landlord ...
A. 1 June 2006: well i think you need 2 follow your feelings because he obviously likes you and i think your landlords friend is in to you aswell so i have 2 say you have 2 go with the person you think you will be most happier with and that your childern will get ... (read in full...)
What's making these guys fall for their booty calls?
Q. It seems that more and more girls are controling bootycall situations.Girls are taking control of the bedroom with a new sexual independence. I have noticed a trend in the forum where the boys are falling in love with their bootycalls ,where as the ...
A. 31 May 2006: i think that because now more then ever more and more couples are breaking up so the women who dont want to be one of those couples are trying to please there partners so that they dont go and find someone else who mabey they get more pleasure on... (read in full...)
I want my own life, but I do want my baby to know it's father!
Q. Im having a baby very soon. The baby's dad left me as soon I fell pregnant and is now happily attached to a new woman. When he left he told me i should find someone new to bring up the baby and that he didnt want any contact with it. Now he has chan...
A. 31 May 2006: well to be honest i dont think your babys father is a very good one for starters he left you to be with another woman and left you pregnant and said he didnt want to see the baby and now he does this sounds very confusing for you but i think that ... (read in full...)
Its my birthday on Saturday and I want to kiss my new Boyfriend, what if he doesnt want to kiss me too ?
Q. i have this boyfriend and i really like him and i want to kiss him on my birth day on saturday this saturday and i dont no if he wants to kiss me too?? im really scared plus there will be other people at my party and my parents too so how and where ...
A. 31 May 2006: well i think that kissing for the first time is a big deal it might not seem ig but as you said it is i suggest that you wait to see if he kisses you if he really likes you then he will but if he doesnt it will probably is because he is thinkin the ... (read in full...)
I gave him an ultimatum: The dogs, or me. He chose the dogs...
Q. my husband has chose to keep his two dogs over our relationship did i do the right thing in making him choose as the dogs ruined my home and took over our bed or do you think i am unreasonable...
A. 31 May 2006: it is absoulutly reasonable obviously this person does not love you if they choose some dogs over there girlfriend and you did right to give him an ultimatum because at least you now no what hes like you can do better... (read in full...)
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