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Can wife's medication cause her sex drive to increase?
Q. hi my wife has been on anti depresent medication since christmas. they have made here feel good however during the time she was on them her sexual behavour changed and she just loved it. not that i an complaining as it was me who cuased her to be...
A. 20 June 2011: Well, as a person who recently was prescribed Prozac, again, after a period of time, and who just had some really mind blowing sex over this past weekend, I would say that yes, it is possible. Some antidepressants reportedly decrease sex drive. ... (read in full...)
Should I get married?
Q. This is going to sound ridiculous, some of you will probably ask why I am even thinking about doing it if I have doubts. I used to think exactly the same. The thing is, I feel like I have so much to loose if I don't; I get on great with his fami...
A. 14 June 2011: Hi! I just went through a similar situation, except I wasn't getting married to the guy. He was a man I had been romantically involved with for three years, and then then the "romantic" part just sort of fizzled over time, to the point where I just ... (read in full...)
Online he says he loves me but he won't meet me
Q. i meet a 26 year old guy on a dating site and we started talking on the phone alot his was perfect he made me feel so special..he is the first men in my life that made me feel good about myself.He would tell me me that he likes me and that he was ...
A. 31 May 2011: Hi! I would have to agree with Eyes Wide Open on this one. As someone who just started online dating pretty recently, please beware of online scammers, as there are many out there. I came really close do getting sucked up into a scam, but broke ... (read in full...)
What advice would you give to a 25 year old about love and relationships?
Q. If you could tell the 25 year old version you some good tips about love and dating- what would you tell her? I am a 25 year old female and have been in a long term relationship for 4 years, however, as great as it is, I am always wondering if I a...
A. 27 May 2011: Oooh! I LOVE this question! :) And, as I will be turning 46 next month, I think I am "mature" enough to answer! I would advise any young lady in their 20's to enjoy their youth, have fun, meet people, develop good friendships with both men and ... (read in full...)
Do you think it would be ok for me to meet up with him, even though I don't know what is happening with the other guy yet?
Q. I'm not sure what to do. I was seeing a guy recently, but i'm not sure what is going on with us at the moment. We have only been on a few dates, so i'm not sure that you could say that we are in a relationship yet, but neither of us has said that we ...
A. 26 May 2011: Hi! Well, if you've only been on a few dates and nothing has actually been established between the two of you in terms of whether your relationship is exclusive, you have every right to date the other dude if you want. If you feel like you're being ... (read in full...)
Should I leave her? Ten years, I have done all I can to appease her. Sex is rare. Is this fixable?
Q. Hi everyone! Sorry for this long text, but I want you to understand my situation better, so I can get a better advice, I need it! I have been having this problem for a while now and desperately need advice. I am a 27 yr old guy and my gf is...
A. 8 April 2011: Hi there! First of all, I've gotta say that you sound like an amazing boyfriend! And your actions show that you really love this girl! Unfortunately, it doesn't seem as though your girlfriend reciprocates those feelings, based on her actions. ... (read in full...)
Are there second chances at love?
Q. First off, I want to apologize for the length of this question. I was in a 2 year relationship that ended in December because he decided he wanted to be with someone else. I was in a depression for close to 2 months and anytime I tried moving on,...
A. 23 March 2011: Hi! Well, in reply to your question, yes, I do believe there are second chances at love. But, my concern for both of you is that you both very well may be in rebound mode, as you have both recently ended long-term relationships. I would advise you ... (read in full...)
How long should I wait before I am sure that I have made the right decision to finally divorce my husband?
Q. I have asked my husband for a separation due to the fact that I was hurting so much as a result of his words and actions. We have been married for 13 years. He had 2 emotional affairs; 3 years into our marriage and another one 6 years thereafter. I ...
A. 16 March 2011: First of all, I want to tell you that I really feel for you in this situation, and I don't know how you could put up with this behavior for as long as you did. It sounds like your husband has some pretty significant issues and it may well be too ... (read in full...)
How do I convince my girlfriend she needs to go to the doctors?
Q. Dear Cupid My girlfriend had a dodgy discharge recently and we know its a vaginal infection. She knows it needs to be treated but she keeps pushing the topic aside or agreeing but not doing anything. I know she's doesn't like going to the doctors,...
A. 14 March 2011: Well, although I can understand your concern, she is an adult and has the right to choose whether or not she wants to go. You cannot make her go against her will. It sounds as though you have thorougly expressed your concerns to her. That is about ... (read in full...)
After 2.5 years boyfriend dumps me by text!
Q. I feel so angry with my ex boyfriend. We were together for 2 1/2 years and he dumped me by text. I never imagined for a minute he would do something so horrible, as it seemed out of character for him. In fact, at the time I didn't realise I was ...
A. 13 March 2011: well, first of all, my heart goes out to you, my dear. Your boyfriend robbed you of something we all usually need when relationships end: closure. By ending the relationship with a text, you are left with all those questions that deserve an answer, ... (read in full...)
I want to propose to her, but I don't know how or when?
Q. i love a 16 yr. Old girl , puja very much..Sitting next to me in the 10th boards, i m 16 too, how would i propose her, i' ve thought to propose her on 18th march 2011, the 2nd last xam, and wait for rply till 23rd, the last day of xam.. Plz help me, ...
A. 11 March 2011: Honey, first of all, you are not even adults yet, so getting married is just not realistic. I know that your first love can be really intense, but hold off on the proposal until you are at least old enough to get married. In my opinion, you should ... (read in full...)
Been told I have spine abifida, my life's over and I'm only 15!
Q. Please someone help:'( i feel as though my lifes over, i cant stop crying, i went to the doctors and have got told i have spine abifida, its in the lower part of my bck so it ok, but i also have a twisted spine, im an average bubbly teenage 1...
A. 11 March 2011: Hi Honey! Spina Bifida is a congenital condition that is usually diagnosed at birth. It does seem strange that you just got the diagnosis now. I actually work for an agency in the US that works with kids who have your condition and I can tell you ... (read in full...)
Obsessing over boyfriend who does not always text back!
Q. Hello! My question I would like to be answered by both men and women but I would like to know a bit more what the men think as I cannot understand why my boyfriend behaves like this and would like some insight. I text my bf quite a lot, and some...
A. 11 March 2011: Hi! I was recently involved with a similar fella and his lack of response hurt my feelings too. However, some guys really just don't like to text, especially to say something as intimate as "I love you." Perhaps he would rather tell you in person. ... (read in full...)
What's this with me and my male friend? Views on our relationship please!
Q. I know I love him even when I am married to a very nice guy. But no alarms here. I don't try to get him to wreck lives. But I need all your views on our relationship. I know this guy for a few years now. He is a junior advocate and I am a clien...
A. 10 March 2011: Well,from I gather from your post, you may be playing with fire, sweetie. From what I understand from alot of the male "agony aunts" on here, most guys who try to communicate with women outside of a professional setting are trying to see if they can ... (read in full...)
Cheating lying boyfriend..how to handle this planned trip?
Q. So, I found out my boyfriend of 6yrs who has cheated before had cheated with a girl over a year ago tells me that it happened a while ago and it was during the time we were having problems..and that he is so sorry! I have finally come to my senses ...
A. 9 March 2011: My experience has been that guys who cheat are always sorry....that THEY GOT CAUGHT! These "lyin' and cheatin'" types are usually masters at manipulation and lies. And they usually don't change. Even if (and that's a good question to ask here) they ... (read in full...)
My ex is making sexual comments against me
Q. Hello, i hope you can help. two years ago i started dating this boy who kept nagging me (i didnt like him and he was annoying at first) after a while i gave in and gave him a chance as a reslut of this i dumbly fell for him. it was a long year rel...
A. 9 March 2011: Oh honey, this boy is not worth your time. I have found that if I follow my gut instinct about someone, most of the time I am right. You should have followed that little voice in your head that said, "I don't like this dude" right from the ... (read in full...)
I'm in a mess and I've literally invited all the trouble!!
Q. So, basically I'm a mess. I've been a bit of a screw up at uni and made some bad decisions for various reasons that I wont go into as we dont have hours! but basically I've got a horrible habit of doing things cos I can, Cos I feel bad if I dont and ...
A. 7 March 2011: Oh my! You are taking me WAY BACK to when I was a wild n crazy (and often very foolish) college student! First of all, "sleeping with someone when you're down" may temporarily numb your feelings, but, if you are like me, you end up feeling nothing ... (read in full...)
Does this mean he's breaking up with me?
Q. Hi Me and my bf are together for the past 2 years. For past few months our communication has become very sparse, if i don't initiate the conversation, we don't communicate for days. 2 days back he called me and he was upset over something and ...
A. 6 March 2011: Wow! I know just how you feel and it really blows. If he won't communicate his feelings now, and it sounds like this isn't the first time this has happened, then its very unlikely this will change! And to not even know why he's upset just makes it ... (read in full...)
Met the right guy at the wrong time!
Q. I met the right guy at the wrong time :(. Last year I found the most amazing guy, of whom I could of quite easily stayed with my whole life, but I lost him cause I had baggage, and by baggage I mean my mind and body loves someone else, I couldnt ...
A. 6 March 2011: Hello there. I really do believe the saying that "timing is everything." This can be especially true when it comes to relationships. And, unfortunately, bad timing can lead to feelings of regret about what "could have been," but the truth is that ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend is abusive to me. So why do I put up with it?
Q. I know the answer to this so I think I am just writing it to get it out into the world. My boyfriend moved in with me about a year ago. Before he moved in we would sometimes verbally fight but I was always able to leave and go back to my own house. ...
A. 5 March 2011: I would recommend that you end the relationship immediately. This guy is violent and dangerous and you are putting yourself at risk. Contact a women's shelter to find out how to file an order of protection. Contact the police if he threatens you. ... (read in full...)
I have somewhat of an existential crisis. Please help
Q. I have absolutely no idea where to go from here. I recently broke up with my boyfriend for probably the sixth time after finding him have cyber sex with random girls. I want to stay broken up for good, I really do, but it is almost impossible for me ...
A. 5 March 2011: Hi there sweetie. First of all, break ups always suck, and it can be really tough to be alone, especially if you have the "fear of abandonment" issues you describe. However, sometimes being alone is a good thing when it forces you to reflect, ... (read in full...)
No orgasm from oral sex. Am I weird?
Q. I can't orgasm from oral sex! Only from masturbating can i do it. When my boyfriend uses his hands down there it feels good, I just think I haven't had an orgasm from that because I'm too nervous (performance anxiety) about NOT having an orgasm. So ...
A. 4 March 2011: No, you are not weird. Remember, the most important sexual organ is the BRAIN and if you are nervous, worried, self-conscious or just unable to relax, it will not feel as good!I remember the first time someone did that with me I could not stop ... (read in full...)
The most wanted pennis size
Q. female input needed for the best result. What is the pennis preference size irrespective of knowing how to use it or not. I mean the ultimate size you'll wish if your man had....thank u...
A. 4 March 2011: OK, if I HAVE to choose, I would definitely say bigger is better for me. But not TOO big. 9 inch max.... (read in full...)
Is he just taking things slowly or I'm just a "casual gf" to him?
Q. Ive being in a relationship for the past 4 months. We are still at casual dating stage. We only see each other a couple of nights a week and I dont get to see him much on weekends and we never go anywhere through the day time. He says I should go ...
A. 4 March 2011: Oh Lord! Welcome to my world, honey. I have a similar situation and I guess at some point you just have to decide if he's worth it or not. Or better yet, are YOU worth more than to be treated like that. In my situation, I really fell for the dude, ... (read in full...)
The most wanted pennis size
Q. female input needed for the best result. What is the pennis preference size irrespective of knowing how to use it or not. I mean the ultimate size you'll wish if your man had....thank u...
A. 4 March 2011: Well, I've had GREAT sex with partners who have average to large penis size. But, besides that, great sex has to do with great foreplay and great kissing and overall sensuality. It's not the "tool" itself as much the expertise in using it that ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend doesn't respect my hobby and career decisions...
Q. I feel my boyfriend doesn't take my passion for art or the career path I want to follow seriously. I've explained to him is part of who I am, drawing means everything to me as it's not just a hobby, it's something I hope to be into within my career ...
A. 4 March 2011: Ooh, honey, as a woman who is an actress and singer, whenever I have the opportunity, my advice would be to never let anyone interfere with something that brings you that much joy, especially if you are considering a career in the arts. Many men ... (read in full...)
How do I start loving myself and feel worthy? my self esteem is at rock bottom
Q. Will I ever feel good enough is the question. I am nearly 36 and to cut a long story short, I feel pretty worthless and not good enough and not accepted and worry about being judged and people realising this about me. I am fairly sure it stems from ...
A. 2 March 2011: Aw, honey, my heart aches for you. Perhaps you just didn't find the "right" therapist. I have been in and out of therapy for most of my adult life, and sometimes you find a therapist who isn't the right fit for you. I have suffered from depression ... (read in full...)
I am so beautiful. Are my friends all just jealous of me?
Q. I am so beautiful. I have a really nice body and i have double D's. Flirting comes naturally to me. I can honestly say that a lot of people like me and just want to be me. I'm really popular and i have a lot of experience. All my close friends are ...
A. 28 February 2011: True beauty emanates from the inside out. Most decent people are really only interested in what's on the inside for the long-term. Outer beauty fades, but it's what's inside that really counts, not the size of your boobs. And I'm a triple D. :P... (read in full...)
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