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Vanessa.

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How can I stop my boyfriend taking things too far?

Q.   I am 13 and have a boy friend who is 15 ..... we have been together for 5 months and i really trust him .. a couple of nights ago we were kissing on the sofa and then he put his hands down the front of my pants ... i said not yet and he stopped ... ...

A.   21 July 2009: hi there.. tell him you're not ready & that he should respect your choices. its your body! & if he doesn't stop, you shouldn't be with him for any longer. it might hurt to do that but it will be for the best. good luck honey! message me if u wou... (read in full...)

Does it hurt to get fingered?

Q.   my boyfriend wants so finger me but im still a virgin and ive never used a tampon, so im affraid its goin to hurt, can anyone help me please?...

A.   21 July 2009: hi there.. well i think it depends. when i first got fingered by my boyfriend, it didn't hurt at all! actually it feels great! & i'm still a virgin too. allow him to touch you around first & then insert his finger. make him start slowly & let him ... (read in full...)

Is she too young for me?

Q.   i am 15 and i have recently become good friends with a girl whos 13. i think she wants to be more than just friends and i would too but everyone deems it wrong to go out with someone that much youger. is it right to go out with a girl a couple years ...

A.   23 July 2007: Hey dude yeah it is okay to go out with a girl some years younger than you. In fact i'm 13 years old and my boyfriend is 15 years old. It is okay as long as you guys don't have sex. Becuase then that would be illegal. I hope i helped. Message me if ... (read in full...)

I need to know if the relationship will be inappropriate due to the age difference.

Q.   Well I'm a 14 year old freshman and I really like this girl who's two years younger than me. She's in seventh grade, which is the same grade as my brother. I need to know if the relationship will be inappropriate due to the age difference, or I ...

A.   13 July 2007: Hey dude calm down. No it's not inappropriate as long as you don't have sex. I hope i helped.Good luck with you and her. Message me if you want to talk. -Vanessa(Vane)... (read in full...)

I want my girlfriend to suck me off but she won't.

Q.   I want my girlfriend to suck me off but she won't. How can I persuade her otherwise? I go down on her but she won't repay the offer....

A.   13 July 2007: Hey dude don't pressure her into doing something she doesn't want to do. My boyfriend has the same problem because i won't give him a blow job either. But he doesn't force me into doing anything. And she shouldn't have to repay you for anything. If ... (read in full...)

He had a spot that is black and a little red.

Q.   Hey there i need help. Well yesterday i spent some time with my boyfriend and we had a really good time. And when he went home he took a shower. And we agreed that he wouldn't call me anymore until today. But it was different, he did call me and ...

A.   13 July 2007: Hey thanks to everyone that answered my question. But he didn't go to the doctor because it went away. He only had it for like 4 days. But we still don't know what it was and hopefully it won't come out again. Thanks again. ... (read in full...)

How can we make things more interesting in the bedroom without having sex?

Q.   Me and my boyfriend dont have sex but do pretty much everything else. Is there anything that we could do to give the bedroom more flavour without actually having sexual intercourse. we have already had anal and fingering and oral and all that is ...

A.   9 July 2007: Well i don't think so if you don't want to have sex. I myself do everything that you do except the anal sex and i haven't done oral on my guy and i'm also the same age. And i also don't want ot have sex. And i guess we are too young to be doing any ... (read in full...)

How will oral sex feel?

Q.   My friend and I are thinking about oral sex. This is my first time. I was wondering when he goes down on me, how does it feel?...

A.   4 July 2007: Well my boyfriend has gone down on me many times. And it feels really good. Especially when he hits your sweet spot. And if i'm not wrong he will enjoy it too. At first you will feel akward but then you LOVE IT AND WILL WANT TO DO IT ALL THE TIME. ... (read in full...)

Will it hurt me if he puts his fingers inside me?

Q.   I am 14 and have a 14 year old boyfriend. Alot of my friends have finger banged or gave hand jobs. My boyfriend has finger banged before, but i havent done either. I want to do both with him and i feel ready and i know he is too. We talk about it ...

A.   30 June 2007: no it won't hurt. the only time it will hurt is when he uses too many fingers or he scratches you be mistake. so enjoy.... (read in full...)

He dumped me and I am lost!

Q.   Hey! erm my boyfriend of 16 months broke up with me last tuesday by text...and it wasn't asif i was expecting it he had been fine with me. He text me saying he doesn't want anything to do with me and that has really f**ked me up because he wasn't ...

A.   28 June 2007: Okay Loulie calm down. If you found out you're pregnant PLEASE STOP DOING DRUGS AND DRINKING FOR THE SAKE OF THE BABY EVEN THOUGH YOU ARE HAVING AN ABORTION. And if he broke up with you without telling you why then forget him. Because that happened ... (read in full...)

I feel left out because all my mates have boyfriends.

Q.   Well... i dont really have a problem but i really want a bf! i no its daft but all my mates have one and i am startin to feel left out! i dont want one but i think i need one to fit in! i feel stupid writin this but hey thats what your here for!...

A.   28 June 2007: Well if you don't want a boyfriend then don't get one. If you feel left out talk to your friends about it and if they are really your friends they will listen and tell you something that won't make you feel left out. But remember don't get in peer ... (read in full...)

I'm a virgin and my period has stopped. What should I do?

Q.   I have never had sex so why havent i had my periods for nearly 3 months now why?...

A.   28 June 2007: Well you're a teenager like me and sometimes your period just doesn't come for a while but it's perfectly normal. If you want to be more sure go to a doctor and asks them what's going on and don't be shy. And most likely they will give you birth ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is all over me in public, but not at home--what is up?

Q.   My boyfriend is all over me in public and never touches me at home! Why?...

A.   28 June 2007: Well i guess he just wants to show people that you are his and only his. And if you are uncomfortable with him doing this well then try talking to him about this subject. ... (read in full...)

Does he like me more than he likes his girlfriend?

Q.   My crush gave me a hickey but he has a gf does this mean he likes me because he was saying stuff like My life is unfair and My feelings are all over the place we were real friendly and all cuddly and close to kissing so does he like me?...

A.   28 June 2007: Hey don't get too excited about this. He might just be leading you on. And if he leaves his girl for you then he obviously likes you. But some guys are just players and just want to mess with your feelings. And if he is giving you hickies that's ... (read in full...)

I'm only 16 years old and my boyfriend is 19 is this relationship illegal?

Q.   I'm in a realtionship, I'm only 16 years old and my boyfriend is 19 is this relationship illegal?...

A.   28 June 2007: No girl it's not!!!! Stop worrying. AND HAVE FUN WITH YOUR GUY!!!! P.S.Message me if you want to talk. -Vanessa(Vane)... (read in full...)

Help!!!! Is it possible I could be pregnant?

Q.   The other day for the first time ever I let my boyfriend put his penis in me, he only did it once but he had no protection on, but he hadn't came any time before. We both panicked a bit after so I quickly took my pill just in case it would help in ...

A.   28 June 2007: Well you have a really big problem. If you decided to have sex well than you must be ready to have a baby in case you get pregnant. And if you are pregnant umm maybe YOU SHOULDN'T BE SMOKING. Cuz you are just hurting yourself and the baby. Also if ... (read in full...)

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