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He seems so unenthusiastic...should I meet him again or not?
Q. So i went out on one date with Mr A. It was pretty nice...:) Actually he and i go a long way back; we were in the same school back when we were kids and now we are both working in the same city. The date was nice...but there was no spar...
A. 16 March 2011: Well if he's not answering your text messages or answering your phone calls, how can you help it if you don't get the chance to say goodbye to him? I wouldn't stress too much about it. I mean, if you were to get in touch with him to say goodb... (read in full...)
Was I out of line in saying I was too good for him?
Q. I have been dating this guy for about 4 months. I fell in love the first night, based on his personality, how he presented himself, how he made himself be. He was someone I had always wanted, I loved who he was. At the begining he tried to make time ...
A. 3 October 2010: I think whether you were mean in saying you were too good for him is the least of your worries honey.
He hasn't responded to your last "official" text because he probably thinks you're bonkers and has run away quick fast. You took whatever... (read in full...)
He found out I lied and now he won't respond
Q. I recently met this guy through mutual friends during a dinner. That same night he invited my friends and me to a party..that we decided to attend. Both me and this guy hit it off..we danced the night away, talking, getting to know each other, etc. ...
A. 9 September 2010: I don't think there's any more you can do right now but wait to see if he'll respond. It's unfortunate you felt you had to lie about something so trivial. You could have just told him point blank you already had plans. Nothing else was his business. ... (read in full...)
End it... or keep it going?
Q. I am 18 and Me and my boyfriend have been dating for two years in that time we broke up for about six months but we still talked the whole time so it was like we were still together now we have been together for maybe a couple months now we won ...
A. 9 September 2010: Honey, becoming so dependent on a man to the point you feel you need to be in a relationship to not feel alone is not good, especially at such a young age. And someone you've spent two years of your life with not caring enough to check on you when ... (read in full...)
How do I get over someone I thought I would spend the rest of my life with?
Q. I was dating a guy for 2 years and during that time I was dealing with some drama from an ex of 6 years. My boyfriend was patient and stayed with me while working these issues out. We broke up during the summer time and I really love him. The break ...
A. 9 September 2010: I'm sure he loved you as much as you love him at some point. Yet because he doesn't want to be with you anymore, you have to accept that and just move on with your life. I actually think you dodged a bullet because he had no business "disapproving" ... (read in full...)
I don't want to start mothering him
Q. What should I do with an absent minded boyfriend? He's never forgetful about anything important or anything to do with our relationship, it's just little things - like this morning we made sandwiches to take to work because we're both really low on ...
A. 9 September 2010: How often have you done this already? If this is an everyday ritual and you find yourself doing other things like picking up after him because he "forgot" then yes, you are spoiling him. But if it's just out of convenience that you make his sandwich ... (read in full...)
She thinks I 'look' at other girls but I don't! What should I do?
Q. hello, my girlfriend thinks that I look at other girls, but i dont either that or im not aware of it, but it puts a real strain on our relationship, what should i say to her and what should i do?...
A. 8 September 2010: I'll never understand how women think they can control what their SO (boyfriend, husband, or whomever) "looks" at. We all have eyes, which are usually drawn to moving objects. Sometimes it is worry over nothing, but when there is reason to worry, ... (read in full...)
Why does he not want to be my friend???
Q. A guy and I expressed an attraction for one another. We flirted a lot and both felt like there was this "something" about the other that drew us to each other but we never actually dated. He ultimately felt like we couldn't do this and I was ...
A. 8 September 2010: I'm a little unclear on what you said when you claim he doesn't feel that you two can date. If he's not interested in dating and he's not interested in friendship then he's probably just looking for something physical. And if you won't give him ... (read in full...)
Wife on dating website
Q. I just found out that my wife was on a dating website for like 10 mins. should i be concerned? we're going through some problems right now, but are still working it through. was she just seeing what is out there? we have two youngs kids. the ...
A. 7 September 2010: The important thing is, you're seeking help now. You have to stay strong and fight to the finish because you have children to think about.
How about you bring it up during counseling? It might put your mind at ease to know that you'll have a m... (read in full...)
Wife on dating website
Q. I just found out that my wife was on a dating website for like 10 mins. should i be concerned? we're going through some problems right now, but are still working it through. was she just seeing what is out there? we have two youngs kids. the ...
A. 6 September 2010: She can't be mad about you finding out her browsing history any more than you for what she's guilty of if you really think about it. If she created a username and profile then that's different. She playing with fire even if it is just out of ... (read in full...)
Does he just have problems showing that he loves me?
Q. i recently started having sex with my boyfriend at first it felt good but since that i have been very emotional and confused i really love him but it feels like he doesnt feel the same because he doesnt say he loves me and when we go out with mates ...
A. 6 September 2010: I don't think you should be giving him any more of yourself in that way until you figure that out hun. If it doesn't seem like he's interested in you the same way emotionally as he is physically, then he could very well just be in it for the sex.
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Wife on dating website
Q. I just found out that my wife was on a dating website for like 10 mins. should i be concerned? we're going through some problems right now, but are still working it through. was she just seeing what is out there? we have two youngs kids. the ...
A. 6 September 2010: You may have nothing to worry about and there could be a logical explanation for that. Maybe it was a pop up that she got redirected to or she was checking out a friend's profile. But if you guys were already having problems, I can see why you're ... (read in full...)
How do I learn not to be distracted by boyfriends annoying habits?
Q. My question is how to to stop getting annoyed at the quirky habits people have? I can admit that I am probably an easily annoyed person, so I will assume that my boyfriends habits are totally normal, and that instead of trying to make him stop I ...
A. 4 September 2010: I'm not an expert or anything but I think you're right. It does sound like a tick related to OCD.
If I were you, I'd research on it further or get a professional opinion because it's not just a matter of you getting over being distracted by it bu... (read in full...)
Bored with our online conversations sometimes..
Q. I've been talking to this guy since December by sending each other messages on this website.Our conversations were 99% of the times interesting,and my attraction for him kept growing.So My profile there got deleted,and I e-mailed him to ask him if ...
A. 3 September 2010: After months of speaking by messages and then Facebook IM, it shouldn't be a problem asking whether he has Skype or not. Just asking whether he has it first will lead him to believe that you want to take this communication thing a little further. I ... (read in full...)
My ex and his girlfriend are making things so hard for me. I just want to move on. Help
Q. So Im a junior in high school now. Last year was horrible because my boyfriend of 2 years cheatd on me 8 times and left me for another girl. Him and that girl harassed me all year long. This year I was hoping for a fresh start but she still glares ...
A. 2 September 2010: Lol, YouWish said it...you can definitely find someone better and let her have that cheating dog. Eight times? Wow. And all the encouragement you need is to know that what goes around, comes around. She think she's hurting you with her dirty looks. ... (read in full...)
How can I help her make friends?
Q. I know this isn't a love or relationship question but I love my 5 year old sister more than anything and I'm worried! She's sweet, funny, intelligent and has the kindest heart. She started kindergarden last week and all seemed fine, she loves school ...
A. 1 September 2010: Thoughtful big sister, she'll be fine. She's not too young to make friends but she's probably too young to notice that they are or they will be. There's most likely someone she sits next to in school, shares her glue and crayons with. Next thing you ... (read in full...)
What to do to get the relationship back on track?
Q. Lately a great girl that a really like has become somewhat distant and extremely stressed out from her huge workload at school. She is taking advanced courses which are completely new for her. Before classes started we had a really fun relaxed ...
A. 1 September 2010: Don't take it personal hun, she must be really stressed out. Give her time. Don't hover or make it obvious that you're waiting for her.
Be there for support. Ask if there's anything you can do. Are you in any of her classes? If so, help her stud... (read in full...)
I need his financial help but we just broke up!
Q. My boyfriend just broke up with me. Before this, he promised to help me with part of my rent while i add the rest because of situation. Now we are broken up, I don't know if it's wise to still collect part of the money from him or don't. Would that ...
A. 1 September 2010: Well is he still offering? If he is and you're too "proud" to take it, then know that your pride could risk you getting put out of your home. Unless there's someone else besides him that you could ask, I'd accept it and offer to pay him back granted ... (read in full...)
He wants me to be a housewife without marrying me!
Q. My bf and I have been dating for 5 years. I moved about a year ago to where he lives to be with him. We've been living together for a year now. However, we are fighting a lot. We seem to disagree on a lot of things. He gets mad at me for not ...
A. 30 August 2010: Strontiumdog raised a great question: Why do you want to marry this guy again?
Your whole question listed a bunch of reasons why you shouldn't, especially the fact that he won't compromise or be willing to meet you half way on certain things. ... (read in full...)
Why would my girlfriend add my ex on Facebook?
Q. hi just a quick question, i have just accidently checked my GF's facebook (i thought i had left myself logged in then relised after that it wasnt mine) but she has added my ex who i have a child to and.. the other night she said that my ex had sent...
A. 23 August 2010: Yes, you should confront your current girlfriend. Calmly ask her why she would do something she said she wouldn't do, something she has no business doing, and then lie about who requested who? Unless she was genuinely trying to become friends with ... (read in full...)
Heart broken and need some serious advice
Q. Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for 11 years we are both 29. This is the first serious relationship for both and he is also my first. he just broke up with me for the second time for the same reason there is a feeling missing and he cant explain ...
A. 23 August 2010: I'm so sorry you had to go through this hun, as break ups are never easy, no matter how much we try to cushion the blow. I went through the same situation when I had to break it off with my now ex-boyfriend. He was where you are though and I'm going ... (read in full...)
Does this "it" that so many of these guys seem to be talking about really exist?
Q. I’m feeling ready to give up on on-line dating as I’m finding the whole experience an emotional rollercoaster. After I split from my ex-boyfriend just before Christmas, I decided to give on-line dating a go for the first time using the most p...
A. 25 July 2010: Awww honey :( believe me, it's definitely not you. I also told myself that I'd give the whole online dating thing a try so I understand what you're going through. It really isn't one of my favorite ways to meet people and no offense to anyone who ... (read in full...)
Can a player change? how do you know if he has?
Q. there is this guy that i really like that i would pretty much do anything for. he has been a player for along as i have known him and has always told me the truth. he says he has changed so i guess my question is how do you know when a player is not ...
A. 25 July 2010: You're really taking a chance with him. All that you have to go by is your gut because if you've known him for as long as he's been a player, how do you really know he's been telling YOU the truth? That's his game. Lying to women. You're a ... (read in full...)
Do I get to know him better or just think of what could have been?
Q. Hey everyone i'm in a bit of a problem and need help so all answers are appreciated I'm 18 and I've never had a boyfriend in my life and I always feel lonely. My mum keeps saying to me i'll find someone but I never do. about 3 weeks ago i met ...
A. 25 July 2010: Hmmm, you should ask your mom how he looks dangerous. If it's just from appearance, then you should at least give him a chance because you shouldn't judge a book by its cover. On the other hand, if she's seen him up on a "wanted" poster in the post ... (read in full...)
Do you think it's too late to tell people how much of a difference they've made?
Q. ...my whole life I have been pretty much on my own "emotionally" . I have always been the "go to" person ... The one who always finds a way to make it better for everyone. And, I can't tell you how many times I had to pick up the pieces and put ...
A. 16 July 2010: You sound like a very selfless and giving person :) The world needs more of you.
I think this kind of thing could be said. It's not like it is anything hurtful right? You're telling them that you notice that they've been there and that they're ... (read in full...)
How do I make the guy I like want me?
Q. Dear Cupid, So I guess I don’t just have a simple question. I actually have more than one. To make a (really) long story short I suppose the most important thing about my situation is that the guy I’m involved with is really wonderful, which is...
A. 16 July 2010: Well first, we need to know how he reacts to these other girls' advances. You say that you're involved with him but when I read on, it seems like you're just another girl in the sea of women trying to get his attention. He's either with you or he's ... (read in full...)
She stopped texting...
Q. i need help cause my head is bugging right now. to start off. i met this girl at my friends birthday. we knew each other at that moment. we connected a lot. after that event i got her number from my friend. we started texting the next day ( texting ...
A. 16 July 2010: It seems to me that she may be playing hard to get. You've become too available to her. And while all the sweet texts messages are cute, it takes away the natural thrill of the chase. Personally, I think all the games are pointless and I ... (read in full...)
Can this be real?
Q. I have been in contact with a friend from face book. We hadn't been in touch for nearly 20 years but I looked him up and we got chatting. It has been nearly 2 months since we've gotten in contact and we have moved onto text messages and phone calls ...
A. 15 July 2010: Awww, this sounds so sweet but I agree with everyone else. It's too soon to call it love. It may seem that way because it feels so right or too good to be true or you may be loving what he once was when you both were younger.
When he comes to... (read in full...)
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