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| | *EEN THERE DONE IT's profile:Hi,
I am a married lady with two daughters 20 and 21 years old, I have no qualifications but have a good listening ear, I try to understand how people feel and put myself in their shoes, I live in London United Kingdom, I married young and had kids at a young age, my parents seperated as well as loads of other highs and lows in my life. I always have people come to me for advise, I do try to be sensitive to everyone and honest...hope I can give you some meaning and hope...
Best of luck Donna
Ps my daughter named me been there and done it, i wanted something more sensitive but its done now xx |
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My ex is the dance instructor I met through school. Can she get in trouble? How can I win her back? If I can't, then how do I move on?
Q. i was in a production of oklahoma at my 6th form school. Anyway at the after show party the dance insturctor who had been teaching was the moves came to the party and after a few drinks we got talking and one thing led to another and we ended up ...
A. 29 September 2007: Yes darling she can get into trouble,
She was the older woman and should have known better, I know she says she has to deal with her emotions and I would suggest hun that you leave it at that, go out with your friends and find some time for your... (read in full...)
23 years age gap. I don't care about me, but of my boyfriend's reputation. Please advise.
Q. I'm having a relationship with an older man, there is a 23 year age gap but we are both very comfortable with each other and we're very happy together. My problem is that im worried that people may think bad of us, not many people know of our rela...
A. 29 September 2007: Hi babes,
If you love one another then stop worrying what other people think, who cares what anyone thinks!!!!!!
True friends and family will see your both very much in love with one another and will be happy for you, okay they will probably... (read in full...)
I don't have any friends to go out with or to take my mind off my Internet lover, after the break up, so what do I do?
Q. i just broke up with my boyfriend who i met online but never actually met in person. we were together for one year and he ended it saying its not going anywhere and im wasting his time. he is completely ignoring me now. i love him. believe me ...
A. 29 September 2007: Hi babes,
Have you got anyone at work you can talk too and go ouy with, if not hun join a club eg keep fit classes or water arobics somewhere where there are women whom you can beriend and go out with.....
Find a obby something you are interest... (read in full...)
Is he just scared of getting hurt again?
Q. i have been talking to a guy for two years now and we got on from the start,i really like him and have done since i first started talking to him.he says we have a special friendship as we have been intimate over the phone and i have told him i ...
A. 29 September 2007: Hi there darling,
Sorry move on if he is not ready for a relationship and you are stop wasting your time on him find someone who will love you darling your worth that to yourself babes xxx... (read in full...)
Daughters away for the weekend, can you give me some advice on a fun time for me and my wife please.
Q. Hi me and my wife have been married nearly 8 years and have a good relationship. Our daughter is going on a trip with college tonight and won't be back until tuesday night, so we have the house all to ourself and tomorrow, perfect time for lots of ...
A. 29 September 2007: Hi there
What a lucky lady,
First nice music always sets the mood so sort that out first............
Run her a loely hot bubbly bath she will love it pour her a glass of wine to drink in the bath offer to wash her back slowly start massaging he... (read in full...)
I keep straying to other men.
Q. i am married for the second time and have four children i love my husband he is 1 in a million, but i cant stop straying to different men, i dont no what to do i think about it all the time, what can i do?...
A. 29 September 2007: If your unhappy in a relationship then get out as its not fair on your partner, if you do love him then you have to realise what you could loose and is it really worth it hun... (read in full...)
Will she ever leave her husband for me?
Q. I met a beautiful married woman 5 years ago in a restaurant on a Saturday. She was from a neighboring state. We talked and clicked. She was perfect - we fell in love. She has an a**hole for a husband. We stayed in touch and she visits when she...
A. 29 September 2007: Hi there hun,
This married woman you talk about will leave her husband for herself not for any man trust me on that one, maybe she is waiting for her boys to get older as she wants them to be in a secure family unit.......
I would not leave my... (read in full...)
I think he is falling out of love with me.
Q. i have been with my boyfriend for a year now and we do love eachother but i think he is starting to fall out of love with me how can i get things back to normal?...
A. 29 September 2007: Hi there babes,
Why do you think he is falling out of love with you????
Is it because he doesn't do things like her used to????
Well if it is its normal you just need to spice things up a little men become comfortable with a woman and although the... (read in full...)
It was a week after her period, could she still get pregnant?
Q. My girlfriend and I had unprotected sex last night. Is it possible that she could get pregnant even though it was almost a week after her period?...
A. 29 September 2007: Yes it is hun,
Don't know how you would feel about this but you should always protect yourself to save things like this, good luck babe hope all is okay
Donna x... (read in full...)
My husband got intimate with a large lady who he said was intimidated by...
Q. My husband was masturbated by a very large lady he felt very intimidated by her and said it was totally against his will but could not tell her to go away. he had had a few pints and was quite drunk he has never done anything like this before he ...
A. 13 September 2007: Hi hun, This must be really hurting you inside but I have to be honest here all he had to do was say, " NO " having a few pints babes is really no excuse....by telling you has this made him feel better???? It is up to you now as to whether you can ... (read in full...)
How do i ask this guy where we are going? I dont want to come across as too heavy and scare him away!
Q. Ive been seeing this guy for a couple of weeks but i want to have that dreaded converstation of "where do we stand" type thing because i want to know whether we are together offically as a couple or whether its casual. how can i bring it up and what ...
A. 27 August 2007: Hi hun
You have only been seeing him for a couple of weeks give it more time us girlies get emotional well too fast don't we? but guys do take a little longer I'm afraid, don't scare him off have fun, be happy show him your content with your... (read in full...)
I love sex with my guy but i dont think i have ever had an orgasm???
Q. Hi This may seem strange but I am 23, I have a very loving boyfriend and he is really good sexually and will work for hours to ensure I get the pleasure i want even after he has cum. Thing is I really love it and I am always wanting sex and fore...
A. 27 August 2007: Hi hun,
Your not alone honestly your not, most women are satisfied by cliterol stimulation while other who are lucky enough to have found the G-spot have both......
Look onto ASKMEN.COM when the page comes up click into the black box on the left... (read in full...)
How do I stop my ex from harassing me?
Q. My partner of 8 years whom I have 2 children with left me 2 and a half years ago for my friend. The problem is he keeps pestering me for sex and every time he sees me he touches me and I have even told his girlfriend but she did not believe me. What...
A. 27 August 2007: Hi hun,
Basically tell him that you do not apprciate him touching nor pestering you for sex your relationship is over ....remember he choose to leave you for someone else now he can't have his cake and eat it.....
If he continues tell him you will... (read in full...)
My partner of five years has just discovered that he has an 18 year old daughter from a one night stand!
Q. Hi, Please help me if you can, my partner of five years has just discovered that he has an 18 year old daughter from a one night stand! He did go out with the woman for three years at school previous to him marrying another woman who obviously he ...
A. 5 August 2007: Hi there babes,
I understand your pain but if he needs his space then give it to him if he decides to go back to his ex then let him there is nothing you can do is there babes????
He would be a fool to think it would work again this is his past and... (read in full...)
Upset over my brother's lack of loyalty! Any advice?
Q. Family help needed pls! My ex and i split a month ago today. Never trusted him, so didnt fall for him, was with him nearly a yr. Admittedly stayed with him towards the end because my daughter adored his daughter, same age, 10. Anyway after i...
A. 5 August 2007: Hi there babes,
Your not being unreasonable at all but I really don't think your brother knows what he is doing to you hun, he was on drugs had a bad circle of friends you were always there for him, now he has found someone who has put trust in him ... (read in full...)
Whenever I initiate sex he shies away. It frustrates me and I don't know what to do.
Q. I have been seeing a guy for close to two months. Lovely guy, know he likes me a lot, I like him a lot, issue is about sex. We have gone to do it a few times and each time it has not happened. First time he was uncomfortable because I am quite ...
A. 5 August 2007: Hi there babes,
He may be a virgin and this could be worrying him so much he knows you have been sexually active and may be scared as you are obviously more experienced...
You need to let him know that there are so many things you would love to ... (read in full...)
My ex and I were good friends but now he's being distant all of a sudden. Why?
Q. Im upset because a boy who ive been out with 2 years ago. we broke up and then acted like a couple on and off still doing the things you would do when together we have so many memories together. Doing sexual things and now its all different he said ...
A. 5 August 2007: Hi there babes,
Its awful when a guy acts like this I do understand it hurts so deep, but hey play him at his own game hun, he expects you to be upset and start asking why etc.....
Do the total ooposite laugh around him act like your happy and cont... (read in full...)
I go driving, she is in the passenger seat, I go to bed, she is next to me... how do I get my ex out of my head?!
Q. How do I get my Ex out of my head? Hello everyone. It has been a year and a half since my ex and I broke up and I can not get her out of my head. I go driving, she is in the passenger seat, I go to bed, she is next to me. We were together fo...
A. 5 August 2007: Hi there babes,
You were together for a long time so it will take time to get this girl out of your head....
The best advise I can give you is to keep busy very busy, go out with mates, have loads of dates and start enjoying life again...... (read in full...)
He thinks I'm 35... I'm actually 52 and insecure about my age, scared to burst his bubble!
Q. I am feeling very insecure about my age. I am seeing a wonderful, fun, intelligent, caring guy who thinks I'm 35 becaue I look 35 and I haven't really tried to burst his bubble.(He's 52 and I'm 47). His last girlfriend was 23 so it's hard to follow ...
A. 5 August 2007: Hi there babes,
You really do have to be honest with him, tell him you felt it was hard to follow in the footsteps of his last girlfriend as she was only 23 be honest darling, if he loves you it wont matter what age you are will it.....
And g... (read in full...)
Should I keep my private habits... private?
Q. I routinely look at porn and masturbate to it. I have a craving to share this with my girlfriend, but I'm embarassed to. I'm tired of this "secret life". Ladies, do you think I should share this private info?...
A. 5 August 2007: Hi there babes,
It would not bother me if my husband looked at porn and he wanted to share it with me, but there are a lot of women who would find this a threat and would not be happy, I don't know your partner so if you really want to tell her then... (read in full...)
Something inside me keeps pushing me to pursue other women, especially when I'm drunk.... why can't I be content?
Q. Hi, I have been with many women this year and can't seem to settle with any one of them. Have recently started dating this girl and I'm trying really hard to be faithful. But something inside me keeps pushing me to pursue other women especially ...
A. 5 August 2007: Hi there babes,
You obviously have not found the right woman for you yet thats all babes.....Be careful though as when your drunk it clouds your judgement and to be honest here if you attracting women when your drunk are you attracting the righ... (read in full...)
He proposed, I said yes... but worried it's too soon to get this serious!
Q. I need a little advice here, me and my boyfriend ( who are both 17) have been together 2 and a half months and a week or so ago he proposed to me and i said yes, but im not sure if its too soon to get this serious. im not having doubts and i love ...
A. 5 August 2007: Hi there babes,
Its great you love your boyfriend but you have only been together 2 and a half months so no wonder your feeling the way you do.....
Why don't you tell him you would love to marry him one day but seeing as you both have only known ea... (read in full...)
He joined a dogging website and uploaded a photo of his erect "thing"... all while I'm having chemo
Q. My partner of 9 months regularly looks at porn on the internet. I have accepted this. I have just discovered that last week he joined a 'dogging' website and even uploaded a photo of his erect penis! I am currently receiving treatment for breast ...
A. 5 August 2007: Hi there babes,
Your going through a very stressful time in your life I understand that, but if you have spoken to your partner and he has told you he has been faithful then if you truely love him then you have to believe him babes....
He did beg ... (read in full...)
Be honest... do men like larger women?
Q. please help! do men honestly like larger women? im confused, im a bigger girl myself and seem to have no problem in finding guys who just want to be friends but nothing more? ...
A. 5 August 2007: Hi there babes,
Size is not an issue at all, a guy will love you for all you are darling, when we all meet guys a friendship builds well before love so give it time honey...
If the guys you have met so far want to be friends then look at it as an... (read in full...)
We argue over silly things. How can we stop?
Q. me and my girlfriend argue alot of the smallest things. we really want to make our relationship work and my girlfriend told me if we don't stop arguing then she will leave me. what can i do? thank you...
A. 4 August 2007: Well babes,
Its the silly little arguements that drive us mad, but if you truely love one another then you will have to find ways of stopping yourself and of course her too.... try counting to ten take ten big deep breaths before you start a sill... (read in full...)
How do I get over my anger and how can I talk to him more and how can I get his family out of our business and life?
Q. I have a problem. I have anger and I just have problems. The guy I am with we plan on getting married in december of 2007 and his family is so much in our bussiness it is messing our relationship up. Every little thing his family does p*****g me off ...
A. 4 August 2007: Ah babes you poor thing,
I think your getting frustrated because he will not admitt to his family interfering with your lives, you will be marrying him soon my sweet so you really really need to able to sit down and sort this out before its too late... (read in full...)
Four weeks before wedding he called it off,,he met someone else!
Q. Had been in a relationship for 5 years and was due to get married this year. 4 weeks before wedding he called it off. It's been 2 1/2 months since it happened and he announced last week someone asked him out. He is going out with her today. We still ...
A. 4 August 2007: Hi there babes,
What a lucky escape you had, doesn't feel like it right now though babes, does it????
In time you will realise he did the best thing for the both of you it would have been much worse to have gone through the marriage had kids etc... (read in full...)
I'm so upset about his ex gf! What should I do?
Q. Me and my boyfriend met a year ago in the disco and we made out. Then he accidentally met some people I knew and he tried to reach me, added me on msn but I hardly talked to him. We only crossed each other a couple of times but it was very brief ...
A. 4 August 2007: Hi there babes,
If this is how you really feel about all of this then you have to make it perfectly clear to your partner, he has told you she is a bitch, but why is she?????
Your partner was happy to sleep with her babes, it does take two doesn't ... (read in full...)
How can I help repair the relationship my b/f has with his son?
Q. How can I help repair the relationship my b/f has with his son? His son is 19 and in college and he just seems really disrespectful towards his dad, whom I love dearly. The kid is great otherwise but I think he has some anger issues stemming from ...
A. 4 August 2007: Hi there babes,
You sound like a loving caring person, how lucky are these two guys to have you in their lives!!!!!!
I know its delicate for you but I think you really need to sit down and talk to your partner about this tell him you have noticed ... (read in full...)
Why am I thinking that my bf is cheating on me, when I know he hasn't?!
Q. I have been thinking a lot lately about my boyfriend cheating on me, although he hasn't. I don't know why, if it's from reading the ?'s on this site all the time, and I just found out that my friend's boyfriend cheated on her with her best friend ...
A. 4 August 2007: Hi there babes,
I know exactly how you feel, I felt like this many years agon when my girls were young, I was at home too....
I heard of so many men cheating on their partners that I began to think what makes my man so special not to do this to ... (read in full...)
My ex bullied me, cheated on me so bad and has now, convinced me, I am in the wrong! How do I get this out of my head?
Q. this may sound a stupid question but - my ex partner had bullied and harrassed me to leave our joint home and now he has recently bought me out of the property. He has been married twice before and cheated on each of them, and he has done the sam...
A. 4 August 2007: Hi babes,
Firstly WELL DONE YOU!!!!!!
Getting away from this BULLY, you ,nor does any other woman for that fact need a man ,(opps sorry wrong word) PIG like this in their lives.....
He has two failed marriages, cheated on you with two women you ac... (read in full...)
I moved away from my boyfriend and he wants me to see someone else as well as him
Q. HELP!! I have a boyfriend but I moved about 3 hours away.He says that I should anoher boyfriend to be there for me when he's not.He still wants me to go outwith him and I know that one of my friends like me here but I don't know if I should.S...
A. 4 August 2007: Hi there babes,
Your only young but you should only have one boyfriend at a time hun, tell your boyfriend this is not right and see what he has to say.....
You both live about 3 hours away from one another now so you both need to decided if a lon... (read in full...)
I want a divorce but my husband scared me by telling me how angry God will be
Q. I asked my husband for a divorce and he started spewing out a bunch biblical stuff at me, telling me God was going to punish me and my whole life will be cursed after this. He really freaked me out. I don't want to anger God by filing for divorce ...
A. 4 August 2007: Hi there babes,
God forgives he doesn't punish the good........
If you are unhappy with your marriage babes then God himself would not like to see you in this pain would he????
If you have tried everything and nothing has worked then speak to... (read in full...)
Should I get my hair done the way I want or listen to my mum?
Q. hi there i am 14 years old and i really want to cut my hair short like how posh spice had it at the end of 2oo6 i asked my mom last night and she said it would not suite me but i think it will she also said that she doesnt trust the hairdresser and ...
A. 4 August 2007: Well babes,
Your mum sees you as her little girl and I can't say I blame her for that because kids grow up so fast now a days, why don't you sit down with your mum tell her you understand her fears incase it goes wrong but would love her to help... (read in full...)
She (13) thinks that he (23, Internet guy) is in love with her... how can I open her eyes!?
Q. One of my friends (13 y/o girl) is convinced that a 23 year old man she met over an online game is in love with her. I have done everything I can to try and convince her that this is not right. We live in different countries, and they live in ...
A. 4 August 2007: Hi there babes,
Your friend is young and very impressionable and as you are aware there are loads of dirty old men out there, so who is to say he is 23 years old, the internet is a big wide world for these preditors to prey on the young and have... (read in full...)
My long-distance girlfriend is ready for commitment and I'm not; how do I let her down gently?
Q. I am involved in a long distance relationship and im not sure if i should continue it...i feel like i want to be with other girls, and i know im not ready for a major commitment. The girl im with i see on the normal school vacations but i think she ...
A. 4 August 2007: Hi there babes,
Bless ya heart for not wanting to hurt her but you really need to talk to her, tell her your both still very young and although you have both been having this long distance relationship your just not ready to commit yourself yet you ... (read in full...)
I think he's going to break up with me; how do I let him know I still want to be friends if we do split?
Q. This guy I'm going out with right, he is still in love with his ex i know that, he told me "we need to talk" which usually means you're about to be dumped. He gets back Monday and knowing him he probably wont even speak to me whatsoever unless i ...
A. 4 August 2007: Hi there babes,
Its best you meet face to face if you can, ask him out right whats is wrong, if it is about splitting up then just tell him that its okay you understand and hope that you can both still be friends and wish him well with his new rela... (read in full...)
He chased me for 3 months, now he's backed off
Q. How to respond to a text saying I cant have a relationship I am damned by the devil. 3months and he chased me. I just want to know what happened...
A. 4 August 2007: Well hun, the best thing you can do is meet up with him and ask him what this is all about be honest up front, communication is the key to any relationship babes, so if he did chase you for three months then something was there you just need to know ... (read in full...)
I need recommendations for websites for bisexuals
Q. Hi im a girl and i was wondering if anyone knew any good bi web sites? It would be great if they were free! Thanks!...
A. 4 August 2007: Hi there hun, my friend belongs to a gay site but unfortunatley she is a Brighton Gay Pride this weekend I will however find out the site she uses so if you would like to mail me personnally I will let you know
All the best Donna xx... (read in full...)
Should I give my boyfriend a 3rd chance to salvage our relationship of 7 years?
Q. My question is really simple. Should I give my boyfriend a 3rd chance to salvage our relationship of 7 years? We've broken up 3 times in the last 9 months, with the final time coming back in June. After our last break up, I met a really great guy, ...
A. 3 August 2007: Hi there babes,
The big question here is do you still love him?????
If you do then before you give him another chance you really both need to sit down and discuss the things that were wrong in the relationship in the first place other wise the prob... (read in full...)
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