Is it normal to be attracted to older men?
Q. I'm 18, and for as early as I could remember I've been attracted to older men (40-50). Maybe because of their masculinity and overall maturity. My dad recently told me if he found out I was seeing a man in that age group, he wouldn't approve of it. ...
A. 24 September 2010: There's nothing wrong with being attracted to older men. I find my self attracted to older men as well. In fact my bf is 8 years older than me. But yes I have been attracted to men in their 40s and 50s. Anyways age is jus a number isn't it? Its all ... (read in full...)
I keep having dreams about my ex and I don't want to!
Q. Hi I need help or advice. I been broken up with my babys dad for about 2 years. He has a new family now n I have a boyfriend sumwhat u can say.anyway I knew it would take time to forget my ex not completely cuz that's inpossible but at least my love ...
A. 11 September 2010: Thank you so much for your advice. The saying is time heals all wounds but time takes for ever. Have no other choice but to keep waiting. Thank you for ur help ... (read in full...)
If my boyfriend likes anal does this mean he might be gay?
Q. I have been dating my bf for about 8 months and he is super sweet. A few nights ago while we were just cuddling watching a movie out of new where he ask me if I would try anal sex , he has done it before with his ex gf and said he really liked it. I ...
A. 20 May 2010: if you dont feel comfortable with it then dont do it even tho its wat he wants and you want to make him happy but you dont have to do it. now about your questions i have no experience what so ever with that but my baby's dad did almost accidently ... (read in full...)
Do you think she is testing me to see how far will I go to get her back?
Q. Question of the day !!! Ok my ex girlfriend and i were together for 5 years and we broke up 6 months back. WE have a 1 years old son together. I want to make things work and get her back. I have cheated on her before because of my own insecurities ...
A. 20 May 2010: it sounds to me like shes being honest but you never know unless u really sit down and have a serious talk with her. tell her how you feel and what changes you have made for your relationship. after you talk to her if you see that she wont change ... (read in full...)
Always fighting, how can I trust him?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4yrs we have 2 kids r relationship started badly we've always fighted hes constantly lying to me or he'll get mad and leave n I wont know where hes at n he usually comes home drunk.n than about 2 weeks ...
A. 20 May 2010: honestly i will tell you from experience that if he said he would change and he did but went back to his old self then i dont think there is hope for him. most men always go back to how they were. im not saying all men because some do change but ... (read in full...)
Late period, but negative pregnancy tests.
Q. i am about 2 weeks late on my period and have no pregnancy symptoms and 3 negative test. i took another test yesterday morning and it was negative. i do get a little nausea and dizziness but it could just be in my head. i also feel pressure on my ...
A. 19 May 2010: thank you both for your help... i have made an appointment with my doctor for june 1st. thats the earliest they have. i really appreciate your response. it is really frusterating to not know wats going on with your own body... (read in full...)
Does he really want to be friends or is he playing games?
Q. I am a 42 yr old woman going through a divorce after 25 yrs of marriage almost 26 at first I was having a hard time with it ..He has moved on and now has a girlfriend who is very nice she is 6 yrs older then me and 3 yrs older then him .I am not ...
A. 18 December 2008: well i think he jus doesnt want his girlfriend to think that you guy are doing something. he loves you too but he dont know how to act. talk to him and tell him that isnt rite how he tries to treat you and remind him that you two are no longer ... (read in full...)
He loves to look at me when we have sex, how can I stop being so self conscious?
Q. Quick question - my boyfriend loves looking at my facial expressions while we're having sex (thus favours me on top, sitting up). However, I feel kind of self-conscious to have him see what I'm doing and then become very aware of how I look! D...
A. 18 December 2008: there is nothing to worry bout... if he likes to look at you while your having sexual intercourse then its for a reason. he loves looking at you and it may turn him on more. my baby's dad used to do that to me and i too got shy but i got used it ... (read in full...)
I like him and I don't think he likes me... please help!
Q. Hey peoplee :) Wht is is i really like this boy and he knows i like him but i feel he doesnt like me he says he does but i dont know to belive him or not!. i feel like im really pushing him into liking me coz i always comment on how hes looking ...
A. 18 December 2008: well first of all you cant push a boy to like you so you telling him how good he looks is jus commenting him. if he says he likes u then maybe he does but the only way to really find out is to sit down and talk to him about it. he will tell you the ... (read in full...)
My jailbird ex just got out and now I want him back
Q. okay so... this is kinda long. im going to start since my son was born. 2 weeks after my son was born his dad gets locked up for 1 year and 4 months. when he finally got out he was staying with me but things changed as in his attitude and mine. what ...
A. 18 December 2008: before he was in there for assault and the last time he was in there was for violation of parole. thank you both for your answers. i think i will jus leave it as much as it hurts. if i didnt mind taking care of him then i would be with him but that ... (read in full...)
I recently found out that he gave me an STD !
Q. ok so many of you might remember my situation from like a month ago. my ex is my baby's dad. i just recently found out that he did cheat on me when i was pregnant and before. i feel like i love him and i hate him. i dont want to get back with him ...
A. 28 May 2008: thank you so much for you answer and good thing you left that jerk. ... (read in full...)
I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years and he's been abusive for 2 years.
Q. We started off happy, but then he became homeless so I was there for him, I slept outside with him some nights even in his car. I didn't want to leave him alone, we stayed at my parents a lot which is when they started disliking him. For 2 years ...
A. 8 April 2008: Leave him. for real. your young and he's already old enough to drink so he's old enough to work and take care of his dam self. Don't get back with him when you do leave him. men like this make me mad. your only 17 you should be in school not ... (read in full...)
Do I just want someone who is going to pay for me when we go out? What's getting into me?
Q. I need help. My situation is difficult for me. I have a boyfriend whom i've been with for 4 years and we have a son. 1 year out of those 4 years he was locked up. when he got out i didnt care for him. i really dont know accually because when i know ...
A. 8 April 2008: Thank you so much. i really hope i get through this too. your answer was so helpful. i also forgot to mention that he got locked up 2 week after our son was born and that upseted me. He was there for exactly 1 year and 4 months so he missed his ... (read in full...)
I don't want to lose the best thing that has happened to me in a long time.
Q. I'm 24 years old and I've been with my boyfriend for only a few months but we've known each other for 9 years. I love him so much and he knows this and he says he loves me to but I just can't help think something is going to happen to mess it all u...
A. 3 April 2008: Think to yourself, is anything wrong going on or have you found out something wrong with him? have you done something wrong? if not then theres nothing to worry about. Dont just start assuming things. your mind plays with you. that how i was with my ... (read in full...)
Married and confused...
Q. I am a married women of 10 years and never found my self interested in another man. I have now started to see one of my best friends that is no longer with his wife which is also my best friend I know this is wrong that I am seeing him but I love ...
A. 3 April 2008: Well first of all i think that you should make sure he feels the same way before you leave. talk to him. tell him how you feel. thats wat i would do ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my boyfriend his ex cheated?
Q. I recently got back with my boyfriend and we are madly in love, but we do have problems dealing with the past, We split for two years and in that time he went with someone else and i got together with a friend of his. I sort of still have feeli...
A. 5 March 2008: i really dont think you should tell him because if you're trying to get over the past then don't bring it up. his ex is no one now. Does he still have feeling for her? ... (read in full...)
Why does he hide things from me?
Q. Hi my problem is my husband. He views porn sometimes (behind my back) i find out, usually by hotel receipts etc. I have said to him that i'm not bothered about him viewing porn (i would rather he was in a hotel room doing that, than out doing ...
A. 13 February 2008: well i think that he is being sneaky because even though he knows you know, he dont want to be showing you or talking about it. my mom knows i do somthing that i cant say but she dont say anything because we both rather keep it to our selves and i ... (read in full...)
How do I leave?
Q. HI!! How do you end a marriage that never should have happened in the first place? Thats the problem that I have. When I first met him, we were just getting out of relationships. He always talked about what "J" did to him, and at the same time, told ...
A. 13 February 2008: oh i have the same problem. except he shows me that he wants me when i kick him out. i also want to run as fast as i can. i also want to get away and leave him but when it comes to him asking me to stay i get weak. we shouldnt be like that. if we ... (read in full...)
She swears undying love for me but I have seen her have cybersex. Am I being unreasonable??
Q. Can anyone tell me why people go to dating sites as single if they don't want to meet anyone? Over almost 2 years me and my partner have had several upsets due to her going on date and flirt sites. No matter what is said the truth is i am always c...
A. 24 January 2008: you know one of your comments helped me. its telling you to ask yourself "are you better off without her." truth is i think i'm better off without my baby's dad. i think that if she's doing all of this is because she wants to try different things... (read in full...)
Why the sudden invite?
Q. I'm just wondering if this girl likes me or not, I'm pretty confused about it. We hooked up a couple months ago, and kept in contact since, and a couple weeks ago we went out, and the night ended up going not so well, we ended up having to goto a...
A. 24 January 2008: then you know what if she wants to bring a friend with her to your dates then she's shy or something because that i was when i was your age.... (read in full...)
Is a 'no sex' relationship ok?
Q. hi me an my boyfriend have been together for about a year and a half now. we are happy together but not inlove yet! is that strange? i care about him so much though and i know he would never take advantage of me and he respects me so much! ...
A. 23 January 2008: of course its ok. if he really loves you and cares for you then he'll respect the fact that you want to wait. ... (read in full...)
Why the sudden invite?
Q. I'm just wondering if this girl likes me or not, I'm pretty confused about it. We hooked up a couple months ago, and kept in contact since, and a couple weeks ago we went out, and the night ended up going not so well, we ended up having to goto a...
A. 23 January 2008: well i'm thinking that something was bothering her that night. she probably does like you but maybe she wanted it to be a date. youk now? just you and her....... (read in full...)
Can Exes really be 'Just Friends'?
Q. Can Women and Men really be just friends if they are exs? My boyfriend still talks to his ex. He was talking to her before he and I met, but she lives all the way in Japan! They send emails back and forth and it kind of bothers me. He says its ...
A. 23 January 2008: well i think that exes could be friend if their break up was cool. if he's here with you and he tell you that your the one for him and he loves you then y worry? do you believe him when he tell you that because if you dont then that when i would ... (read in full...)
Could I be in love?
Q. I used to go out with a boy i liked, recently i've stated to have feelings for him again, he did fancy me back before at christmas but a different girl asked him out and therefore i didn't fancy him anymore. I Fancy him again. He Knows This But L...
A. 23 January 2008: well if you dont ask him then you'll never find out. i would ask him in your situation. i don't think your in love until you know what love really is.... (read in full...)
He's got a low sperm count and I'm finding it difficult to concieve. Is there no easy way out?
Q. Hello i was wondering if anyone could give me any advice on my situation. Well i will try to keep it short. I have been with my partner for 6 years and married 2. I have a 5 year old daughter from previous relationship and we are currently trying ...
A. 23 January 2008: what is IVF? wat does it do? i think there is other options like adoption, there is plenty of babies without parents or theres girls who dont want their babies and you can be there through out the pregnancy ,or you can go to a doctor to get ... (read in full...)
He keeps touching me inappropriately. What should I do?
Q. I am 13 year old girl. This boy in my class has been flirting with me ever since school has started. The thing is, he is confusing because he's flirty and then he gets gross with me. I told my mom and the princible at my school what he has done to ...
A. 23 January 2008: thats sexual herassment. you could report him for that because that is not right. keep telling your mom and the priciple this guy need to learn his lesson. REALLY!!!!... (read in full...)
Is it my place to spill the beans?
Q. I dated a girl for my entire senior year in high school, and we broke up when I went away to college. She cheated on me twice during the relationship, and even though I knew that we remained friends after the breakup, and occasionally hooked up. ...
A. 23 January 2008: i really dont think thats your place to say anything but i also think that she dont deserve that. you should tell her. ... (read in full...)
We're just friends, but how do I get him to be more?
Q. Ok, so there is this guy at my school and he is beautiful and basically the definition of perfect. How do I get him to like me, I mean I know thats impossible but should I flirt(if so how?) Were just friends, how can we be more??...
A. 23 January 2008: you can be more only if you both want it. you should talk to him. tell him how you feel and tell him that you were wondering if he might of felt the same way.... (read in full...)
What can I say to her in terms she'll understand?
Q. My girlfriend is best friends with a guy who is bi and he is always over at her house hanging out with her and her parents watching movies, having dinner, and other stuff. I have never been to her house and only talked to her father on a few ...
A. 23 January 2008: just tell her that you want to spend more time with her because you feel like your relationship is falling apart. sit down and talk to her dont just mention it to her sometimes. really talk to her. there has to be communication in a relationship.... (read in full...)
If he really loved me, wouldn't he break it off with her?
Q. OK... So, I'm a teenager, I won't specify my exact age [very private over the interweb], and one of my best friends and I have been sneaking around together. Let's call him Tom. Well, Tom and I found that our sexual connection is strong, and it's ...
A. 23 January 2008: well from what you told us i'm thinking that he is using you. he probably likes adventure and sees it as an adventure that his girlfriend will never find out. if he loved you like he said then he would of broke it off with her from the beggining. ... (read in full...)
Would I be being a bad friend if I dated this guy?
Q. Ok, so I really wanna start dating this guy who I really like and he really seems to like me. The only problem is that he dated my best friend for a long time, even though it was a year ago. But she broke up with him. I have asked for her appr...
A. 23 January 2008: if your friend said that she dont care then see as she dont care and leave it that way. as long as you asked her for approval then i think its ok for you to be with that guy. do you trust him and your friend?... (read in full...)
Is it healthy to date two similar men at the same time?
Q. Do you think my relationship is healthy? Im in love with 2 men and they both know. I fist fell in love with (will call him Guy) Guy is 10 years older then me, I honestly dont care about that, the issue is he does humantarian work in Africa and we...
A. 23 January 2008: well to me if you want that then you go for it. they are ok with it then good but what are you going to do if Guy comes back? are you still going to be with both?... (read in full...)
I want more than just a kiss now and then. How do I initiate it?
Q. Hi everyone! I have been with a guy for 2 years. It is my first bf. It started as a long distance relationship, but now I stay with him. I am his first gf too! He is a very shy guy. The problem is physically. We kiss each other goodbye every...
A. 23 January 2008: i really think you should talk to him. you shouldnt cry just talk to him. let him know what you feel. and what your thinking. tell him you want more now that your living together... (read in full...)
How do I get him to appreciate me?
Q. Okay i have this boyfrend and i love him oo i love him so much hes the one i've been looking for but idk it seems that he dosen't care about ALL my feelings just the ones he wants i want to stay with him but i dont wanna fight about something so ...
A. 23 January 2008: there will have to be a break up because he wont realize what he had until he looses it. he wont appreciate you until he thinks that he lost you. think about it. either way you dont need that. you should be treated better and with respect. it doesnt ... (read in full...)
How can I get over him?
Q. I was "with" a guy but not actually dating him for almost 3 months while he got over his ex of 3 years. He was in love with her and I came to accept that he was going to need time to get over her. I didn't really realise it at the time since he was ...
A. 23 January 2008: go out, have fun, meet new people, date, keep yourself busy. that always seems to work for me. ... (read in full...)
I've matured since last summer. Any tips on getting back with him?
Q. im 16 and im having real problems with my ex no were not fighting it just lately i be missing him and i believe he feels the same way about me he even told my cousin he was thinking about getting back with me but he has a girlfriend and my friend's ...
A. 23 January 2008: if you really like him then you go for it. you should first talk to him about it. if he does like you as much as you like him then he will leave his girl for you. do not make a mistake by jus kissing him to see what he will do. your friend just ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my cousin. What should we do?
Q. Dear Cupid I am so confuse I think.... NO I know I am starting to fall in love with my cousin who is just 2 years older then me. All I want to know is that knowing that this is wrong I still want to have a serious relationship with her. I...
A. 23 January 2008: ok i dont know what i would do in your situation but you should think about what everyone is going to make you two go threw. especially cuz you two are related. they are not going to like that. do what your heart tells you to do. have you known your ... (read in full...)
Should I do it for him or stick to my principles?
Q. I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost a year now and suddenly he wants a threesome. Its been talked about before but never this seriously. Ive been involved in one (MMF) in my single days and he says that it bothers him that ive ...
A. 23 January 2008: here's my advice to you. if you dont want to do it then dont. who cares if you tried it and he hasnt. thats not your fault. i wouldnt do it. ... (read in full...)
I want him to take my virginity but I'm scared because he's a big boy. Any tips?
Q. im 16 but about to be 17 in about 3 months and im still in love with my ex but thats not the half of it i want to lose my virginity to him but he had a girlfriend and i dont know if he still goes with her or not i want to give myself to him because ...
A. 23 January 2008: yes i could help you. first of all why would you want to loose your virginity to someone your not even with and he has a girlfriend. it doesnt matter if you were with him. you should save it for someone your going to be with and he's going to be ... (read in full...)
I've asked a girl out but I don't know what to do with her. Any ideas?
Q. hey I just asked a girl out she's 15 I'm 17 and I have no clue how to act around her in school.......like when do I hold her hand. kiss her.....and what other thing do u do? and when do you do them?...
A. 23 January 2008: ok well first if you want to take her out then take her to the usual, a movie and dinner. thats wonderful. you kiss her and hold her when you feel that your ready. if you dont feel confortable then you wait. also you can ask her if you can kiss her. ... (read in full...)
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