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Having sex and not losing virginity?

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Question - (24 September 2007) 6 Answers - (Newest, 25 September 2007)
A female Lebanon age 36-40, *hikolata writes:

is there a way to have sex and not losing virginity? What does sex from the back means? is oral sex dangerous?

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A female reader, Emmajane United Kingdom +, writes (25 September 2007):

Emmajane agony auntI also wonder if you are really this old. You lose your virginity physically, by penetration of the vagina. Oral sex is safer than penetrative sex and it can be just as much fun, especially for the girl if the guy is good at it.

Sex from the back? It could mean anything. Penetrative vaginal sex from behind is just as much sex as it bis from the front. Anal sex you should be very careful of. Anal and vaginal sex should never be done without a condom. Oral sex without a condom is amazing for your man, however you need to be prepared for him to climax in your mouth. I adore this, but not all girls like it at first as you have to get used to it. If you want some tips on how to do this you can email me.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (25 September 2007):

eyeswideopen agony auntPlease tell me that at the ripe old age of 22-25 yrs. you aren't asking this question. You clicked the age bracket incorrectly, right? sigh...

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A female reader, mum2be United Kingdom +, writes (25 September 2007):

oral is fun, but you need good technique. Doggy is fab 4 da man, and not so great 4 da gal (in my opinion, some girls love it).

You are no longer a virgin when a guys penis enters your vagina. I have to disagree with what baby duck said because the fact that you are mature enough to ask these questions shows me you are ready for sex.

Whatever you do, make sure you are comfortable with it, and have fun.

just be prepared for the fact that loosing your virginity hurts for most women and often involves a little blood loss.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2007):

If a penis goes in the vagina, you are no longer a virgin.

I remember what you mean "Sex from the back" because when I was a teen one of my friends thought that it meant anal sex, a penis in the butt! But in reality it is a normal sex position that is also known as doggystyle.

So Im not sure.. If woman receives anal sex.. she might be able to say she is still a virgin. That might be a loophole.

Anyway, We also had argued about whether a blowjob was blowing or not, and for those reading. it is misnamed, there is no blowing. only sucking.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2007):

you need to be with a partner for a long time before you can give him blojobs you dont know what he might have. oral sex can be great my girl goes down on me all the time, infact she even swallows but she knows shes safe cause we dont have anything.

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A male reader, rcn United States +, writes (25 September 2007):

rcn agony auntpenetration = good bye virginity. I guess dreaming about it may be safe, but once a guy penetrates, no more virgin.

oral sex can be dangerous, depends, you have a cut in your mouth, your partner has a std, i guess there's a possibility of exchanging the virus.

Sex from the back, just a different position, doesn't mean anything too different.

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