Son's girlfriend cheated, now his whole outlook on life has changed.
Q. I need help really badly. My son he has been down for the last year or so. He had a girlfriend who he loved a lot. He did things for this for this girl that were super romantic and she reciprocated. I liked her. 5 years later,, and I repeat my son ...
A. 28 December 2010: i think what everyone is forgetting is they were together for five years that is a really really long time and clearly he didnt sto loving her in all that time. the love has now just converted to hate and he needs time to come to terms with whats ... (read in full...)
She's amazing, why is she with me?
Q. I'm in a long distance relationship with a girl, she lives about 2 states over, and we've been together for about two months now. We're both still in high school school, and both have social lives (Or at least she does), which brings me to my ...
A. 27 December 2010: i agree with dirtball you shouldn't think so little of yourself im sure you have much to offer you just don't see it and anyway beauty is in the eye of the beholder and not the steryotype and you can only look at something so many times before you ... (read in full...)
Her parents will disown her if she continues to date me!
Q. I'm 27 years old and my gf is 27 to. The problem is that her parents hate me because I got an owi. Now that she is with her parents treat her like shit. They Said as long as she is with me they don't want no part of her life. Her parent are judging ...
A. 26 December 2010: maybe you should find out why her parents don't want you to be with her than resolve the problem... (read in full...)
Boyfriend saved my life and is now handicapped. Should I stay with him?
Q. I'm 20 and my boyfriend is 24. He is the best thing that's ever happened to me. It almost sounds unreal, but he saved my life about one month ago. He pushed me out of the way from getting hit by an oncoming car, but he was badly injured. Right now, ...
A. 26 December 2010: if he truly is your world than you will stay with him they dont say for better or for worse for no reason working through this hard time will make your relationship stronger.
if your so worried about being young and missing out on things then you ... (read in full...)
Anger in front of feelins so I can get over someone?
Q. I'll make it quick and short. Okay, its not good to put your anger in front of your feelins for someone as to get over them is it? Well, thats what I did, and am still, sort of, doing. But now I think I made the person I like hate me and I didn't w...
A. 26 December 2010: the saying there is a fine line between hate and love really applies here
the fact that you feel a strong emotion towards this person shows that you still like them, but theres nothing you can really do to stop yourself liking someone you just have... (read in full...)
Anger in front of feelins so I can get over someone?
Q. I'll make it quick and short. Okay, its not good to put your anger in front of your feelins for someone as to get over them is it? Well, thats what I did, and am still, sort of, doing. But now I think I made the person I like hate me and I didn't w...
A. 26 December 2010: the saying, ''there is a fine line between hate and love,'' really applies here the fact that you feel a strong emotion towards this person shows that you still like them, but there's nothing you can really do to stop yourself liking someone.... (read in full...)
He's 16 and emo, I'm 14 and normal!
Q. Okay, so there's this boy, he's not in my school or year, he's 16 and I am only 14. And he's kinda emo, I've been on holiday with him. And he's one of the best lads that I know. I allways talk about him to friends. But I don't know whether I should ...
A. 7 October 2010: if he laughs in your face then he clearly isnt who you thought he was and you should get over him.
but if he doesnt and your worried other people will mock you forget about them, there will always be sad people in life trying to put you down and ... (read in full...)
What does she mean when she says "love ya"
Q. I am in love with my best friend, she is amazing and I would die without her. When were texting and stuff she always says "love ya" when she leaves. Is this the same as "love you" or is she meaning something different....
A. 29 May 2010: i think its just casually saying bye like how you would say tc and xx but it doesn't necessarily mean you want to kiss the person.... (read in full...)
Am I just paranoid? Or is he blowing me off?
Q. I met this guy a week ago and we totally hit it off via texts after we initially met. We clicked really well and he seemed to really like me so we planned a first official date, dinner and a movie. The date went well, I think, we had great ...
A. 29 May 2010: i think you are being paranoid because you hit it off soo well with this guy, i also agree with your friends wait and see, if he calls you back great, if not maybe hes not all that hes cracked up to be. and if your so curious why dont you just ... (read in full...)
I want to be cool and trust him but I don't
Q. Okay so I've been dating this guy for about 4 months now, and him and I started off as bestfriends before. When we were friends right before we dated we had sex. Then awhile later we dated and we have sooo many feelings for eachother and I am crazy ...
A. 29 May 2010: i think its because you've never felt this way before your being so clingy but you need to ask yourself can you really trust him and if hes ever given you a reason not to. of course you could just tell him how you feel, not in an accusatory tone and ... (read in full...)
Is my teacher seducing me???
Q. Okay well this is really stupid because I think this teacher has never taught me and I've never had him before. But every student knows him as he is the pastoral manager in our school (who sorts out the unruly/behavior problems in school) Students ...
A. 29 May 2010: i think its more your looking at him. if you sit near the door hes probably looking through it so you think hes looking at you. and him wearing a suit that makes you think hes fit isn't him seducing you, you just have a crush thats all... (read in full...)
Split up over him talking to another girl and lying about it, I am so hurt!
Q. So my boyfriend and i went to dinner yesterday, we had a good time and talked and stuff(we recently got back together). while we were separated he started talking to this girl, which i had no problem with because we were not together, when he came ...
A. 29 May 2010: if you are looking for an opinion, i think you were right to break up with him because it seems unclear what he wanted with the girl. but i dont think you should have broken up with him over voicemail, its a bit cold but he probably deserves it i ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend is very secretive about things!
Q. Hi guys. I have been seeing my girlfriend for over 1 1/2 years, we get on OK but she is very secretive about things. Firstly she keeps her phone on silent whenever she is at home (she says she just forgets after keeping it on silent from work), she ...
A. 29 May 2010: there may be a chance she is hiding something, but she could just be a private person. is this usual behaviour for her?? But surely you've been dating long enough to be able to just ask her about it?... (read in full...)
Ready to lose virginity at 13, everyone else has!
Q. MOD NOTE: Age posted is not right, poster says they are 13, NOT 19) hi. im greenpink, im 13 years old (i'll be 14 in may) and i think that i am ready to loose my virginty. we just offically met a few days ago (through mutual friends) but i have bee...
A. 7 April 2010: Yes you will regret it, no1 im guessing its illegal no2 this really isn't the type of thing you do, because your friends have done it to, no3) call me old fashioned but isn't your 1st time meant to be really special with someone you lovn and not ... (read in full...)
Do I have the right to hate my brother even though I don't remember what he did to me?
Q. Hey well im 15. But when i was 2 from 3 years old my older half brother molested me he was 12 threw 13 at the time i think. I dont remaber it at all. I only know what my mom said. He thought they were next door but my mom wasnt an she cought him in ...
A. 7 April 2010: Yes your his little sister, he should protect you not take advantage, but is there any point to this hate? You have to put the experience behind you and move on. Just be wary of him, but what will you get from harbouring resentment?... (read in full...)
Should I follow my heart or listen to my head?
Q. My boyrfriend and i have been off and on for the last year, we have had about 3 break ups. 4 months after we first got together he hit me at school and left a bruise on my face. my parents decided that i had to break up with him. so i did as my ...
A. 7 April 2010: Sometimes, its better to follow your head, instead of your heart. Especially if your in danger. Get out, this relationship is no good, you get physically hurt and mentally why prolong the pain?? You could do soo much better... (read in full...)
I'm 14, he's 15, LDR and he proposed to me but I know my parents won't like it!
Q. Well ummm, my internet boyfriend and me have been going out for two years now, we met on imvu, he lives in south grafton, nsw, and i live in adelaide, sa. While we were on facebook one day, he proposed to me (he's 15 turning 16 and i'm 14 by the w...
A. 6 April 2010: Just because he sent you pictures does not mean hes 15, he could be a lot older and dangerous. Thats probably why your mum has reservations. If you really want to meet him, i think you should do so, with your dad in a public place, that way your ... (read in full...)
Should I go with my best friend to the prom since his girlfriend can't go?
Q. My 2 bestfriends are dating each, one is a senior and the other is a freshman, prom is comming up and she can't go with him because her mom won't allow it. So he's been getting upset since he couldn't find someone to take to prom, so I mentioned to ...
A. 6 April 2010: Why not just bring it up, its friends all the way, and he wants to go with you, so its not like he'd reject you... (read in full...)
Should I keep going back to him or end it for good?
Q. my boyfriend keeps getting jealous over two of my ex's. he feels they are better than him in very way, and no matter how many times i tell him i love him he always treats me bad, calling me a slag and saying he regrets being with me, but then he ...
A. 6 April 2010: It depends, do you really want a relationship with this guy, if hes always treats you bad, why would you love him? I think you need to ask yourself that and if the answer is he has a wonderful personality or something, than keep at it. But if not, ... (read in full...)
How do we get to know each other better?
Q. I have a crush on a new guy at my school I have talked to him a few times to get to know him but he is kinda quiet so he doesn't really make conversation my friends told me to ask him out but i don't want to because I'm afraid he will say no because ...
A. 5 April 2010: Invite him somewhere, other people are going so its not just the two of you and you can talk and get to know each other.... (read in full...)
My best friend is a male, and lately his attitude has changed
Q. I've been best friends with this hispanic guy (I'm hispanic as well. We'll call him Ruben) for a little over 2 years now. What people thought was odd was that he and I didn't enjoy thothers's company back then when I started marching band (I was a ...
A. 5 April 2010: If he has 2 jobs and college you should understand hes under a lot of pressure, maybe the way to still be in touch with him, is to be there for him, like all those times he was there for you. He must be under a lot of pressure, and that could be a ... (read in full...)
I don't understand what he wants!
Q. Hi there everyone... I would really appreciate your advice as am feeling rather confused. About 5 months ago i met a guy *Dan a week after spliting up with my boyfriend *Ryan. We both fell pretty strong i think, it was quite an intense connecti...
A. 5 April 2010: He probably was just upset with the fact you dumped him and got back with your ex so he did the same. His ex told u not to see her as a threat, i think deep down she knows its a rebound thing and is just clutching at straws. The truth comes out when ... (read in full...)
Married at 16, now regretting it!
Q. Hi I'm 22 years old and I'm desperate I meet my wife when I was 15 she was 19 years old she got pregnan when I just turn 16yrs old so we got married she was 20yrs.. after 3yrs of of been togheter she stop using birth control and got pregnan again ...
A. 5 April 2010: Maybe you should just leave, theres no love left in this relationship and it can't be good for your children, growing up and seeing this, it won't stop you from being a good father... (read in full...)
Is he playing hard to get or just not interested?
Q. I need help with working out whether this man is playing hard to get - or just not interested. I work with this man and he is quite a lot older than me. We really clicked and we had a laugh togther, as well as more emotional discussions. He ...
A. 5 April 2010: I think hes just using you as an escape from an unhappy relationship and when he feels hes going to far is cold to stop himself. But that doesn't mean he doesn't actually like you, maybe he just doesn't want to leave his current relationship... (read in full...)
Is it silly to leave someone because they won't help around the house?
Q. Hi everyone, I have a serious dilemma! I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years but I am seriously thinking of leaving him. We moved in together weeks after meeting and have been together ever since, I was 16 when the relationship started. Lately ...
A. 5 April 2010: I think your getting a taste of married life, but aren't ready for it. You've been with him for 6 years, but is he who you want to settle down with??... (read in full...)
I've been in love with the same guy all my teen years. Help
Q. hey guys. so I'm 18 and have liked the same guy since I was 13 lets call him Tim. when I was 15 I moved to a new town and since then we have mainly talked by text messages and msn but have grown closer non the less. I have tried to have other re...
A. 5 April 2010: I think you should tell him straight but this time make it clear your 100% serious and you want it to go somewhere, until you do those, you'll still be in limbo ... (read in full...)
My best friend is a male, and lately his attitude has changed
Q. I've been best friends with this hispanic guy (I'm hispanic as well. We'll call him Ruben) for a little over 2 years now. What people thought was odd was that he and I didn't enjoy thothers's company back then when I started marching band (I was a ...
A. 5 April 2010: I think that hes feeling rejected and doesn't neccesarily know how to act around you anymore. You can't make yourself like him thats silly, maybe the fact that you don't miss him as much as you thought shows you don't depend on him. College is a ... (read in full...)
Does true love exist?
Q. how do you know when true love is true love? or does it even exist? please comment...
A. 4 April 2010: True love is an emotion where you would go through the realms of hell and back for that one special person that means everything and is worth giving everything up because the return is 100x more valuble, a lot of people go in search of it, but its a ... (read in full...)
He treats me nicely, but when he's around his friends he ignores me. What should I think?
Q. hi okay so this guy is rly confusing me hes one of the most popular guys in school and im not im not like a nerd but just like in between okay well he flirts with me all the time (my whole math class notices) and he's my "therapist" he sorta like ...
A. 4 April 2010: Im guessing because of the whole american school system, in front of important people, the ones that count (i.e his friends) he'll ignore you and act like you don't exist because his peers won't agree with his choice in friends or perhaps more, so ... (read in full...)
Mixed messages from my ex-girlfriend
Q. Me and my girlfriend broke up about a week ago. Things were going great for a while but later she wanted to spend less and less time with me. She asked me if we were going to be bus buddies and I said yeah if you want to be and she said well "duh, ...
A. 4 April 2010: I don't think you have a chance, shes already moved on and why would you want her back shes always sending mixed messages and is she worth the drama?? Your better off without.... (read in full...)
We both like the same guy!
Q. Well i've moved schools and and i've meet new friends. I sit beside this guy in chemistry clas and i think im falling for him, but i think he likes me too. I mean we flirt we've got so many things in common and we're beging to speak alot more aft...
A. 3 April 2010: Maybe you should wait for him to make a move, you don't want to jepordise your friendship and this way you can see where you stand with him. And if he chooses your friend its not the end of the world, you'll bounce back.... (read in full...)
I can't stop thinking about my teacher and what our lives would be like together!
Q. How Do I Tell My Teacher That I Love Him?,I've Liked him For About 3 Years and loved him for about a year.we get on soo well and he's realli cute although he is 10 years older he doesn't seem it infact he acts like a 16 year old boy. No matter what ...
A. 3 April 2010: Are you sure you want to do that you could get him into a lot of trouble, and the reason he acts like a 16 year old is probably because he wants to be one of those cool teachers, do you really think he got where he is acting like a kid? Hes probably ... (read in full...)
Does he really love me? What's going on?
Q. *OP's own title* So, I've been dating my best friend since the end of December. He's a very private person and doesn't like to talk about his feelings, even to those he's close to, except when he's tired. When he's exhausted, he has a tendency to b...
A. 3 April 2010: Maybe you should take what he says at face value, he loves you, if hes really private then it must have taken a lot for him to say it, stop brushing it away and just acknowledge it.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is the complete opposite of my "normal" type, will I regret dating him later on?
Q. This is something I've been thinking about and hopefullly some of you can give me opinions. I've always had a 'type' of guy I go for...light hair, boyish features, confident, athletic etc. I always find myself checking such guys out...I'm just d...
A. 2 April 2010: We always percieve we want a certain type, but when he comes knocking he isn't all that you expected and leaves you hurt. But we just need that awkward shy guy to give you that realisation what i have in reality is better than what i want in fantasy ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend is bothered by our gap in ages
Q. my boyfriend and i have been together for nearly 6 months, not long admittedly but its been a pretty intence 6 months. we met in uni halls so weve lived together longer than weve been in a relationship and we plan to move in together when we have ...
A. 2 April 2010: I think him turning 28 is making him realise hes not that young any more and should settle down (this is quite common near the 30 age for some people) and you being 18 are still young and have so much to experience and see. But if you truly love ... (read in full...)
I want to ask her out but I am a coward. How can I conquer my fear?
Q. So there's this girl i really like, she's really beautiful and funny and smart and i really want to go out with her. the problem is this: basically, i'm a coward. I'm usually an outgoing person, i have loads of friends and i'm great at making people ...
A. 1 April 2010: Just ask her straight face to face when your alone (she may feel embarrased in front of other people), but don't do it out of the blue, show signs of interest, a compliment, and if its recieved positively then just go for it.... (read in full...)
Am I blinded by love or just plain stupid?
Q. Ok... I am at a crossroads in my relationship. My girlfriend and I have been together for about 18 months. But we have known each other for over 2.5 years. When we met, we were both in relationships, and began as friends. We BOTH cheated on our ...
A. 1 April 2010: You are blinded by love, but is this the person you want to get serious with, she has no consideration of your feelings and lies to you. Why would she block her own bf from facebook, unless there was something to hide, maybe you should re-evaluate ... (read in full...)
Would you be offended if someone put you in a situation like this?
Q. Imagine this situation: you are walking down the street with a close friend, lets call her Jane, and the two of you run into an old friend of Jane's, whom you've never met before. The two of them start catching up and end up talking for half an ...
A. 1 April 2010: They probably just didn't realise how you felt, they just got caught up in the moment and forgot about you, don't take it to heart, im sure they didn't mean it.... (read in full...)
What are the main signs of spotting a "player"?
Q. How do you spot a player? What are the main signs ?...
A. 1 April 2010: There very charming and know how to keep you sweet, they don't keep there relationships long just get what they want and get out and do it again with a different girl.... (read in full...)
How can I hug him first without making it too obvious that I fancy him?
Q. Hey Guys! I want to hug my best guy friend, he always hugs me first, and because I am caught off guard it's kinda awkward like his arms are around me but I'm sideways or My arms are squished up in between us, and he smells my hair, and sometimes I ...
A. 1 April 2010: Just put you hands around his neck and make sure it doesn't last to long, a few seconds is enough, and make sure you have a smile at the end, you don't want to look dreamy, or he might get the wrong impression.... (read in full...)
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