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I have been married for 5 and a half years now and have a beautiful daughter and another baby. I am a calm, honest and open person and would advise anyone better than I can advise myself. 89% of the time I'm right and not sure what happens the rest of the time. I have had a lot of good and bad experiences in life and believe that sharing experiences if it helps someone else is beneficial.
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Why do married men look at other women?
Q. why do married men look at other women? I have a husband who does this and I'm so upset about it. I don't look at other men because I'm happily married with the man I'm with. He tells me I'm beautiful, sexy, bodacious, the whole nine yards, but ...
A. 15 October 2012: I have experienced this a lot and everytime i confronted him he would always say that i'm paranoid or insecure. To this I say i'm neither I just don't want you to embarass me or the children and neither do I want other females to think your a ... (read in full...)
Stay at home mom depressed, no motivation! What to do?
Q. Please help! Im stuck in a rut and dont no wot to do. Im an at home mum of a 9 month old. I feel really depressed, one min im happy, nxt im down and i get really snappy at my boyfriend. I love him and my daughter very much, and hate takin it out on ...
A. 1 April 2009: Hi, I have a 9 month old girl and it's understandable that one minute your happy and the next your not. I felt like that when I was nearer to my due date, my family was far and my husband was out most of the time, I felt the same as you and then ... (read in full...)
Mother in law always shouting at me
Q. i got married 8 yrs back and have got 1 kid, my problem is in the beginning of my married life my mother in law shouted at me for even small things now too but she keeps on telling my mistakes even now from the beginning. after my marriage she ...
A. 1 April 2009: Sometimes understanding family is the hardest thing you can do. Your brother is important, I know my brother is and I love him to bits because he's always there for me.
Even if you mother in law is horrible towards you, be the bigger person and be n... (read in full...)
Husband flirting with all other women
Q. recently went to a party with my husband he spent the whole night ignoring me and flirting obviously with another married woman there.The minute she left he came straight back to me(after aprox 3 hours)and couldn't understand why I was mad.Was I ...
A. 1 April 2009: Oh trust me you weren't being unreasonable. He should know better and he should have sent the time with you and mingling with others at the same time. He shouldn't be flirting with other ladies thats not respecting you and did the other married ... (read in full...)
He left me and I'm heartbroken
Q. He left me, and I'm heartbroken. Here's the deal, sometimes we'd had our arguments, sometimes we've broken up before, but we obviously got back together. Well now,yesterday I found out about his ogling habit with his friends at uni. I guess it's ok ...
A. 31 March 2009: Hi,
Don't feel bad or upset, guys can be like that but females are more complicated, guys can't understand us how we want them to.
If a guy can't make you feel precious, than is he really worth it! Why not wait and see what happens, best th... (read in full...)
My husband;s family is always at our place and we need our quality time!
Q. I have been married for two years now and for those two years I can't remember spending quality time with my husband. We see each other and we actually don't speak to each other as much, when ever we can cuddle up, his family are always there and ...
A. 30 March 2009: Hi,
Thank you all for your advise, I guess it helps to listen to others. I'm just digging a big hole for myself, first it's his family, then it's his friend.
I need a break so I will go to my parents for some quite private time something I ... (read in full...)
My husband;s family is always at our place and we need our quality time!
Q. I have been married for two years now and for those two years I can't remember spending quality time with my husband. We see each other and we actually don't speak to each other as much, when ever we can cuddle up, his family are always there and ...
A. 28 March 2009: I spoke to him and he said to be patient, I feel like i'm getting old and his family would not understand, they a family orientated and believe everyone should stick together!!
We have argued so much and I feel I have drifted away from him beca... (read in full...)
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