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writes: what do think the chances are of a female family member on the wife's side having sex with the husband if she moves in with the husband and wife. especially if she is alone with him alot while is wife is at work.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2007): It has happened a lot in families that I personally know. It usually is unforseen & not planned. I wouldn't let this situation even exist if you are thinking about this. Noone is worth risking your marriage for.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (14 September 2007):
If you are asking this question then I wouldn't allow the female family member to move in with the couple. There must be a reason for asking.
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reader, Frank B Kermit +, writes (14 September 2007):
Well, not everyone is going to cheat just because they have the chance to do it...however, unless you can help it, it is my opinion that it is best not to tempt fate. Most people in this situation do not plan for an affair, but it can and does happen, and if you have ANY reservations about it, then do not chance it.
-Frank B Kermit
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reader, somewhat_anonymous +, writes (14 September 2007):
There is no one size fits all answer. It depends on both of those people. Do you have a reason to distrust either of them?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2007): Well some people can be trusted no matter the circumstances. But even the strogest fall.
Wisdom says-even if it's to stop the gossip mills, reputations can be tarnished by a loose tongue- to avoid such unnecessary situations and never be alone with someone of the opposite sex unless it is a trusted family member.
I'd say trust your gut on this matter.
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reader, eddie +, writes (14 September 2007):
Well...another question that is hard to figure out. If the woman is a tramp and enjoys sex with anybody AND the man is equally without integrity......who knows? Anything is possible. Why do you ask? You didn't give much information.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2007): Um well I guess if this is a very disfunctional family like the one's on Maury or Jerry Springer then I would say your chances are 1000% definite that this will happen. No question.
But if on the other hand, you come from a family with really good values and good morals then you should not worry that something so bizzarre would happen in your home. Bizzarre behavior only comes from bizzarre people.
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