Do tampons pop your cherry?
Q. Hey I started my period when I was 11 years old and I am now 15 and I have also started wearing tampons. My friend told me that it pops your cherry becuase it hurts. It did hurt me when I first started wearing them but they dont anymore. Is this ...
A. 10 April 2009: No, def not
And even if it does, it doesn't count-you're still a virgin... (read in full...)
How do I deal with my daughter who is afraid of small spaces?
Q. My daughter (who's 4) is scared of small spaces. She wont even go in an elevator unless (we live in apartment) I hold her the whole time. My son (he's 8) thinks its funny to lock her the closet (you cant open from the inside). It takes like an hour ...
A. 27 December 2008: She sounds claustrophobic.
He sounds like he misses his father, so he takes his anger out on his sister or you.... (read in full...)
Swingin' bachelor dating a single Mom - I'm not a family man, can this work?
Q. So, I've found the almost perfect woman and we've been dating a year now. She's the best g/f I've ever had. I always had a rule against dating single moms, but when I met her, I chose to break that rule and now I'm in love w/ her, but I can not ...
A. 26 December 2008: She and her kids are a package deal. Having someone who ignores them, just like their father, isn't going to help. I' sorry to say, but if you really love her, you'll take on her kids.... (read in full...)
He called me by MY FRIEND'S name when we were having sex!
Q. My boyfriend was drunk and called me my friends name during sex. They have only met twice, and I know they are not seeing each other. How should I take this?...
A. 13 October 2008: He was drunk, drunks don't think straight. Maybe that was the name of his old lover, and it wasn't in any way related to your friend?... (read in full...)
He wants me to have his baby, how can I postpone this?
Q. ive been seeing an older guy for 4 weeks now.(26) im (15) and i generally feel like ive fallen for him big time. we see each other once a week as he lives too far away so he cant afford paying 50 pounds everyday just to see me. i met him for the...
A. 21 September 2008: I know, my advice is probab;y useless. But unlike what everyone is saying, I don't think he meant right then. I see their POV but I'm just giving you my 2 cents. I think he meant that he loved you, and that if you wre older, he'd want you to have ... (read in full...)
He said sorry if he crossed any lines...what should I say??
Q. There is a guy who likes me a lot and wants to marry me...we haven't met each other for lst few years and recently we met for the first time in my house,we had casual talks and then for the second time again at my home but just 2 of us were there. ...
A. 19 September 2008: Believe him. He probably just couldn't think straight....if you used to bed friends, he must already feel close.... (read in full...)
My wife thinks we should terminate the pregnancy because we still haven't had a wedding dinner. Please advise!
Q. i have ROM in Jan 2008 but have yet to have wedding dinner due to the death of my dad. Recently my wife was pregnant and she don't know if we should keep the baby as she is afraid that her dad will be very furious as we have yet to have the wedding ...
A. 31 August 2008: I know I'm not useful, but just keep the baby. You said the dinner was post poned, right? Well, well, not your fault he died, and maybe you're going to name the baby after your father...... (read in full...)
Which boy should I go for?
Q. Hello, rather basic question here: I currently have a rather embarrising crush on too great boys - one in the year above me and one of my friends mates who is just going into sixth form who i have known since year 2. I really REALLY like my f...
A. 30 August 2008: I kinda Have the same problem. message me!... (read in full...)
I can't ask a girl out.....
Q. No matter how hard I try, I can't ask out to any girls I like much less talk to them... My friends say the nervousness never goes away but still, I think mine is different.....
A. 30 August 2008: Don't worry, it's nothing. My friends are around your age, and they are nervous all the time. Even the guy that all the girls fall for, barely talks.... (read in full...)
Is my MM still interested?
Q. he is married,dumped me once and we went back together,he had bn seeing my colleagues but dint have time to confront him,i met him a day before he left for vacation and had sex with him,he was away for two weeks and came to aparty,he saw me ...
A. 17 August 2008: I'm pretty sure, he hooked up with that girl. And he had assumed you had hooked up with your dancing partner?... (read in full...)
My new guy babysits his ex's cat! Are they too close or what?
Q. I have started dating this guy and its been going great. He seems very interested in me, but the problem is he is still very close with his ex. He has told me its totally over but she is his first love. He is always on her facebook, shes on the top ...
A. 17 August 2008: They might've just stayed friends. I wouldn't worry, for a while.... (read in full...)
Help! My parents are splitting up.
Q. Help my mum and dad are splitting up. Dad lost his job and things have gone down the hill since. They have no savings cos theyve been spending it on stuff they don't really need. Thats all they think about, what they can have next and what the peop...
A. 13 August 2008: Dont worry...My parents have been split up since I was, what, 4? It won't hurt, and you'l;l always visit him,.Maybe tell your Mum. Just say, quietly, while their fighting. "So, are you guys splitting up?" They'll tell you yes or no. Message me.... (read in full...)
While he was in jail, I found out that he lied about his age! What do I do?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for about 7 months. we fell in love during the first month of our relationship. I have loved him ever since and believed he loved me too, but lately things have been a little rocky. There has been a lot of ...
A. 13 August 2008: I wouldn't worry. Maybe he had a reason, or aid something,. and you misinterpeted it. I've heard numbers like 19, and I'll go:OK, 23. I'll mix it up with other numbers. So before you accuse him at all, just say: "Ohh, ho9w old are you again?" or ... (read in full...)
If he is too scared to propose to me, should I propose to him? What do you think?
Q. I've been with my partner for quite some time now and we're beginning to talk wedding and family wise. Thing is, I think he's too scared to propose to me. He's given himself so many opportunities, but then backs out and says something else. I wa...
A. 20 July 2008: Well, even though you are young, that can't stop you. Men, aren't the brightest. They don't realize what they're doing, sometimes, until it is too late. Ask his opinion casually, and then take that into your view. But, I wouldn't recomend getting on ... (read in full...)
We were supposed to move in together but he purchased his son's house instead! Was I right to walk away?
Q. I was with my ex partner for two and a half years and we recelty broke up about a month ago. The reason is that we both agreed that he give up his flat and come to live with me which is what he really wanted. He then decided to purchase his son's ...
A. 20 July 2008: Hey, he cared more about the house, than you. He promised you, and he broke it. Now if it was like "I tihknk this house would be better, would you like to buy it?" would be fine, and then you coul;d decide together. I'm sorry he did this to you.... (read in full...)
I need ideas for my boyfriend's birthday!
Q. My boyfriends 28th birthday is coming up at the end of august and I want to plan something special for him. We have been dating for almost 3 years (in October) and for my 22nd birthday in june he planned a trip to nyc. The only idea I have so far is ...
A. 15 July 2008: Ummm...Check out if there's a Yankees game down there? Or maybe go play golf?... (read in full...)
People are making fun of him, and how do I know if he likes me?
Q. i have a freind we have been freinds for a long time hes a nerd(he adimited he was a nerd) but in a grade before people started to make fun of me him acting like i "like like" him and now im in another grade and people are still doing it i have two ...
A. 16 April 2008: I know what you mean, because my bf is labeled a dork, although, I think he's great! And during at a dance, his parents got him a flower to give to me. Then everyone made fun of us, and let me tell you, I didn't give a crap. He's hot, and smart. To ... (read in full...)
He has a GF but says he only goes out with her because he feels sorry for her!! Should I be getting involved with him?
Q. well theres this guy who i had a crush on months ago. i liked him loads! and i was mad on him but now i dont seem as interested in him as i used to be and have got over him. but i was in ICT the other day and the power went so we were all just sat ...
A. 16 April 2008: Ysa, you should....I usd to like this guy but he was only dating my friend but he only felt sorry fo4r himself...nd onetime, after a dance recital, we almost snogge, as you would cal it in the UK, but my Mom came.
The only reason I left him alon... (read in full...)
I like this girl a school, but I'm shy and need some help.
Q. Hi, i kind of have 2 questions; First...there is a girl i like but don't know how to approach her, to be honest i'm quite shy so i dont know how to start a conversation with her, any form of help will be appreciated. My second is that she is in year ...
A. 15 April 2008: Well, she probably feels the same way...So walk up to her locker, flirt with her before class, and if she responses positively, ask her out, not as bf and gf, but to like the cinema, and if she says ya, ask her out after the date.... (read in full...)
I can't just leave my feelings hanging.
Q. hi, well it all started about 8 months ago. a polish girl started at work and at first just thought she was nice but as i have got to know her i am falling in love with her, every time i see her my heart jumps up into my throat im crazy about her ...
A. 12 November 2007: Hang out with her. Try to look big in her eyes, and make her bf look stupid. Then she will eventaully break up with him, and go out with you. The sex thing helped I bet.... (read in full...)
How to make a married women Divorce?
Q. How to make a married women Divorce? I know that what I do is not practical but it is my fate that I met my dream girl who is married. I do not want to miss her but she is friendly and she wants to maintain our friendship but she doesn't want to ...
A. 13 August 2007: Are you saying you are saying"Everything goes except for going all the way?" Sorry to break it to you, but that is illegal. I don't want you to have been given a reality check by an 11 year old, but you are not supposed too be doing that. I know u ... (read in full...)
Why does she think I'll leave her?
Q. It's been 7 months into our relationship and dated only twice.... We both express our feelings (i.e. I love you) over 50 times a day through the mobile phone.... everything goes fine... but don't know sometimes she acts very weird... she says that ...
A. 13 August 2007: She ian't afraid of your history. She is afraid of hers. ever hear the saying "History repeats itself."? I have a feeling she has been hurt in the past, and is scared you will hurt her. Also, we females also are very attatchive, i was WICKED ... (read in full...)
My ex girlfriend and her mates are going to try and ruin things with my new girlfriend and I by lying to her.
Q. Me and My ex girlfriend have split up for about 3 weeks now and I dumped her because we started having arguments and we never really took off if you know what I mean? I had many people tell me she was cheating on me with work mates and so forth. ...
A. 13 August 2007: Here is the plan Simon. Tell them that you didn't mean to hurt your ex, that it just wasn't working. Don't bring anything else up but the smoking part if needed("My parents weren't really keen on the idea I was dating a smoker, and I wanted to not ... (read in full...)
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