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No replies yet... 5 June 2011: So when you where growing up did you ever feel as if you liked someone but they didn't like you back? Well you are most certainly not alone there! Probably the majority of the population have at one point in their lives experienced the exact sa...
How to decide which one
No replies yet... 5 June 2011: I am going to try and help you all who read this how to choose the one that you like out of the 2+ or how to choose one of the 2+ that like you. I although still quite young have been in both of these positions in my recent years. When you like 2 o...
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I think my g/f is getting bored with me
Q. Hey guys, so my gf of a month has just passed her driving test and now she's seems very off with me. I mean we can spend the day together and not have a real kiss at all, we have gone all the way so it's just really weird. She tries to get rid of me ...
A. 13 April 2013: Thanks for advice no worries now as all is clear, she has broken up with me... (read in full...)
I think my g/f is getting bored with me
Q. Hey guys, so my gf of a month has just passed her driving test and now she's seems very off with me. I mean we can spend the day together and not have a real kiss at all, we have gone all the way so it's just really weird. She tries to get rid of me ...
A. 13 April 2013: Just updating you guys she dumped me today... (read in full...)
I was just wondering what I could do to spice up our relationship without actually going to the private zone?
Q. Hello everyone. This is not really a dilemma but just some suggestions. I've been with my girlfriend for 20 months and the most we have ever done is making out. There has been no like touching of boobs or anything private due to her morals which i ...
A. 3 December 2011: Don't rush anything mate, time is the best thing to give it, I spent all of Wednesday making out with my girlfriend and I was touching her boobs and stuff and then the next day she broke up with me. The deeper you go the harder it is to get out ... (read in full...)
How can I keep other girls away from me ?
Q. yo, I've been having problems with girls eyeing me and asking me out. i keep telling them I'm with some one already. how can i keep them from asking me out when I'm already with someone?...
A. 16 October 2011: I agree with Marieclaire this isn't much of a problem just think yourself lucky cause there isn't alot of guys like you.... (read in full...)
20 year old virgin and I can't open up to a guy!
Q. I guess I'm asking this question to make sure I'm not the only one who feels this way...I'm 20 years old (still a virgin) and I've never been on a date. I would really like to go on a date/have a relationship with a great guy, but it never ever ...
A. 2 October 2011: Hey, I can see where your coming from even though I am only 15 but for a start don't get upset because you are a virgin, if your praying then you should be saving sex for marriage. I am presuming that the guys you know and meet see you as a friend ... (read in full...)
I'm a bit confused as to whether he likes me or not!
Q. Ok so ive been liking this guy for quite some time now. I don't know whether he feels the same way for me or not. Because of that, I pretend that I don't like him. I act normal in front of him. Once we were studying together ( we dont really talk to ...
A. 20 September 2011: To be honest there is no way to tell unless you get a friend of yours to ask him but by the way he has been acting I would say that he thought ge had a chance with you and now he is jealous you are showing thus other guy attention. He wants you to ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is really tall, how can I kiss him?
Q. My boyfriend is really tall and he wants to kiss me but I dont know how to kiss a tall guy :-( help...
A. 15 July 2011: Try and jump into his arms or get him to pick you up, if you are sat down it will be fine though... (read in full...)
Do I tell my parents about my non-christian boyfriend?
Q. I am a Christian, and have been my whole life. I am very open to hearing about and understanding peoples points of view, and am not offended by people who think differently than I do. I am currently dating a non-christian boy. We broke up before,...
A. 6 July 2011: They should accept him but try bringing him to your church... (read in full...)
Questions about dating, religion and kissing.....
Q. Ok here we go, first of all ive met this guy but the problem is im totally in love with him but i cant be with him even though i want to... this is because i am christian and in our religion we only date others in our religion? anyway i really ...
A. 6 July 2011: Hi I think depending on what type of christian you are may change the churches views as they all have varying views, are you catholic, church if eng, baptist, Methodist or so on. I am no denomination and I am pretty sure I am allowed to be with ... (read in full...)
Unrequited love.........
Q. Does anyone have any stories or experienced where they were/are in love with someone, and even if that person was/is interested, he/she was/is in love with someone else?...
A. 5 July 2011: Yeah it's the worst (slight exaggeration) I may be just 15 but I love this girl with everything I've got. I told her about 3 months ago but she was with someone. So I did all I could to get over her I thought I was and I had a different girlfriend ... (read in full...)
How to tell if a girl is attracted to you
Q. She re-initiates conversations when you stop talking *She giggles *She touches you *She tries to get Rapport and build comfort with you *She looks back and glances at you repeatedly ever minute or so *She tosses her hair (to see if you will look...
A. 5 June 2011: Thank you so much I have wired so long to find out these clues genuinly very grateful... (read in full...)
Does anyone else feel this way?
Q. Hey guys! I was just wondering something. When you're in a relationship, do you ever get bored of the person you're with and find faults with them easily? This happens all the time with me and is the main reason I find it hard to make relationshi...
A. 3 May 2011: Yeah don't worry about it, I like my gf but I have found many faults with her but I don't care about them because I like her for who she is... (read in full...)
Is snogging different to kissing?
Q. Im 14 years old and have been with my boyfriend for 9 months now.. we both want to 'snog' each other but every time we kiss that's all that ever happens.. HELP :...
A. 24 April 2011: When you lean in just stay there and kind off hold his head close to yours, then when he stops kissing you, you just stay there the difference is it is different to kissing. You also need to have your heads not straight on you need to be tilted a ... (read in full...)
I don't know how my BF can give up a girlfriend of 10 months for a girl whom he's been talking to for a week??
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 10 months. I live with him and his family as my mum now lives in Canada (we're both moving there in October) and I don't talk to any of my family. Basically he's been talking to this girl for th...
A. 23 April 2011: The best advice I can give is to leave the guy, if he brought her up again when you two were trying to work things out then he obviously thinks he can't live without her so I would say leave him and go home to live with your parents for a while:)... (read in full...)
Questions about going to the movies with my friends and my crush.....
Q. So I think I like this guy but I'm not too sure because we don't have any classes together so we don't talk often at school. The first time I really talked to him was about 3 weeks ago when we went bowling with a few friends. We exchanged phone ...
A. 19 April 2011: Hmm ok well I am English so I have no idea about the films you guys have in the US but a scary horror film would be could so you could sort of hide behind him. Now to the flirting, I consider myself quite good at that but I'm a dude so the flirting ... (read in full...)
I like my own parts. Is this wrong? I am confused about my sexuality.
Q. i have always liked men and wanted relationships with men, never crushed on a girl (im a girl) but i can watch girl porn and get turned on by bodies and guy porn too and same thing happens. i know its a fantasy and thats ok. but the problem...
A. 18 April 2011: I think you are just proud of what has been given to you :)... (read in full...)
I hate the way I look and hate every pretty girl I see
Q. I'm an ugly 22 year old female; sure, I'm smart, kind, talented, all those good "inside" things, but I'm ugly outside and there's no questioning, I've got comments my whole life and I can see it in the mirror anyway... and not much can be done, and ...
A. 18 April 2011: If you call yourself ugly it only makes it ok for men to call you that. Even if you think that you are ugly, you aren't. Everyone is beautiful and you need to believe that about yourself. One day you will find a man that loves you for your looks and ... (read in full...)
How does a tall guy dance with a short girl?
Q. People say that guys like short girls because they think that they are super cute (I'm 5'2" btw) and fun. I don't not disagree but i was wondering what do you think? Also how does a tall guy say around 6 ft dance (grind) with someone my height?...
A. 17 April 2011: I do sort of believe that smaller girls are cute but I am 6 ft and my girlfriend is about 5 ft 8 or 9 and I still think she is cute though. I have danced with small people and it works fine you will know this when you try it, its no different to 2 ... (read in full...)
Hot for teacher! What to do?
Q. Hello right I have a mega mega problem. I am 1000000000000000000000% in love with my teacher and have been for 2 and a half years but I'm 13 he's 40 he's married and has a kid. So there is no way on earth that we will ever be together. And I'm only ...
A. 16 April 2011: Hey this sounds like a big emotional problem for you. I don't know how you feel but I can think of the stress you are having to deal with. My advice would be to try and avoid him because it otherwise your lust is just going to grow. Don't ask for ... (read in full...)
What is your opinion of someone who has quite a few piercings on their body?
Q. I currently have my first and seconds (lobe piercings), and my helix done (upper ear cartilage piercing) and in my left ear first piercing (lobe), i have a 3mm fleshy (stretcher) And i want: -My thirds -My tongue -My nose -My belly ...
A. 15 April 2011: I think ear piercings besides spacers are fine and nose rings are ok but I think that Tongue piercings make people look and sound retarded. Nipple is kinda weird but I know people with them and belly gets infected very easily I know as both my ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to want to see him every day?
Q. Is it normal that i want to see my boyfriend everyday? and that I get quite upset when he cancels and so we cant *he doesnt do it very often at all* I never used to see my ex this often and I delt with it fine :| I would go 2 weeks without seeing h...
A. 15 April 2011: Hey no it's perfectly normal, you clearly love him and that's normal too. I like seeing my girlfriend as often as possible. Hope this help... (read in full...)
Sister is having a party when my parents go away. She asked me if I wanted to drink too. Please advise.
Q. Hey guys this isn't about relationships but this is now the only place I can get advice. My parents are going away for the weekend and my older sister is having people over. They are all gunna bring alcohol and some will bring fags. My sister asked ...
A. 15 April 2011: Thank you guys you helped a lot tonight I didn't drink anything and just stayed away from all of them ... (read in full...)
Sister is having a party when my parents go away. She asked me if I wanted to drink too. Please advise.
Q. Hey guys this isn't about relationships but this is now the only place I can get advice. My parents are going away for the weekend and my older sister is having people over. They are all gunna bring alcohol and some will bring fags. My sister asked ...
A. 15 April 2011: Hey I'm 14 almost 15 if this helps and thanks guy I think I am going to leave the smoking but maybe have 1 drink and then go in a different place in the house.... (read in full...)
Would this be enough of a 'gift' for an anniversary?
Q. From a male point-of-view, I know guys aren't the most materialistic people in the world. So let's say your girlfriend of 1.5 years puts on a sexy piece of lingerie and entertains you, would that be enough of a "gift" for your anniversary? Thanks...
A. 12 April 2011: I would have to say hell yeah as well, I've been with my gf for5 days now but thinking about it if inone and a half years she did that for an annversairy I would be very satisfied
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I'm nervous. What should I expect to happen during our threesome?
Q. Me and my boyfriend are having our first threesome together what should i prepare for and what happens? i am excited about having a threesome and him seeing me have sex with another guy. what should i expect to happen so i am not so nervous? ...
A. 6 April 2011: Point is how would you feel if you watched him having sex with another girl?... (read in full...)
Should I just ask her out or what??
Q. I think im in love with a girl in the year above at my school, she's leaving in a few months. I really want to do something like ask her out, but i have no guts, we aren't really in the same circle of friends, but she and I have so much in common ...
A. 5 April 2011: Your 13-15 using the term 'in love' is very strong. Loving someone is normal but being in love means you sorta wanna get married. Now here's my advice, go for it you will never know how she really feels if you don't ask. I made that mistake and I ... (read in full...)
I'm losing faith in ever having a girlfriend. Can anyone help?
Q. hi i live in the UK. i'm 17 and never had a gf. i'd love one but they don't care cause of my skin condition. i'm also a virgin looking to lose my virginity to another virgin. i've never even kissed a girl before and its come to the stage of being ...
A. 3 April 2011: I'm a virgin and stuff as I told you, but what I think you need to know that the are over 3 billiOn people in the world and one of them is looking for you right now, you are 17 yeah and you live in the uk so you are in college. I still think that ... (read in full...)
Facebook guy trying to make me do stuff!
Q. my name is matthew and im having trouuble online on facebook with this boy he's trying to make to do stuff on cam and he is asking me to have sex with him and im not gay and i dont know what to do if anyone can help me it would be appriciated ...
A. 3 April 2011: I agree with caring guy and if he gets really annoying and makes you really angry just punch him he will get the message very clearly... (read in full...)
What do you find attractive? Opinions wanted please!
Q. Hello :) My question is personal opinion! Feel free to answer! I really have been curious about what everyone is attracted to in a woman physically. Full figure, small hands ext. This is not shallow, and I KNOW personality plays sometimes a bigg...
A. 3 April 2011: I mean not to offend anyone but I prefer quite small girls both height and weight wise. Being 5 ft 11 and 14 I find smaller girls cuter and more sexy and i feel i can be romantic like picking them up in my arms.I am not overjoyed with very small ... (read in full...)
Why am I attracted to someone I hate?
Q. I'm a 15 year old boy and have discovered I'm attracted physically and emotionally to this boy i hate! I'm not sure what to do about it and could use some advice! I have been bi for 3 years now....
A. 3 April 2011: You don't like him really. You just think you do. Almost all guys and girls go through the stage of questioning who they like.... (read in full...)
First time kiss...when should I give it to her
Q. I started dating the girl of my dreams a week ago, and I haven't kissed her yet and I don't know when to. Should I wait or should I do it soon? And I think I love her, should I wait for that too?...
A. 3 April 2011: Well you need to know if she is in the same place as you. After my first ever date I didn't kiss her, later I asked her if I should have and she said she was waiting. And we weren't and still aren't actually going out. I say go for it asap... (read in full...)
I want him to start liking me. How do I do it?
Q. Well i like a guy who is in 10th grade (im in 9th) we do track and field even though we are in two different groups he is in the distance group, I am a sprinter. Today i helped him with his block start because he needs to run the 400 in the next mee...
A. 3 April 2011: Just flirt when you are around him as best you can. That is how I got girls to like me. Granted then the tell me they like me and get a different boyfriend but still.... (read in full...)
I'm losing faith in ever having a girlfriend. Can anyone help?
Q. hi i live in the UK. i'm 17 and never had a gf. i'd love one but they don't care cause of my skin condition. i'm also a virgin looking to lose my virginity to another virgin. i've never even kissed a girl before and its come to the stage of being ...
A. 2 April 2011: Hey mate, I know how you feel. I am 14 and have never had a gf never kissed a girl on the lips. Only once on the cheek. but there is someone who is now thinking of being with you and you will find her. :)... (read in full...)
Are men turned off by women who wear braces?
Q. Are men turned off by women who wear braces? I had them fitted last week, I really hate them and feel they make me look unattractive! My long distance boyfriend is due to see me again soon, we're in love but I'm worried he won't be attracted to...
A. 2 April 2011: Hey I jar had braces for 28 months now and I get them off on monday. More people have liked me in those 28 months than the rest of my life, basically no if he loves you then it doesn't matter what u look like... (read in full...)
How do I get him to French Kiss me?
Q. my bf and i have been dating for a while and i so badly want him to French kiss me.....Sadly have never done it before so i don't wanna make the first move. how can i get him to either french kiss me or get the idea that i want him to?...
A. 29 March 2011: Make your lips look irresistible. Lip stick or gloss maybe.... (read in full...)
Are all men after tall women?
Q. I'm 22 years old, less than five feet tall. i am as pretty as any other girl and healthily thin so will any guy be interested in me?its not my fault or anyone else's why i am the way i am. I'm in college for 2 years and no boy has even dared talked ...
A. 27 March 2011: If I am brutally honest if I had a choice of height for the same girl they would be between 4 foot 7 Ish and 5 foot 4 Ish. I think smaller women are sexy. I am 5 ft 11 myself and 14 so I expect to be maybe 6 ft 2 or 3 when I'm older. The thought of ... (read in full...)
Like me? or just playing?
Q. I met a girl last saturday through a group of friends. Since then, she has shown alot of the signs when a girl likes someone (given me her number, texted me, written about random stuff on my fb wall, commented and liked some of my fb stuff, ...
A. 23 March 2011: I think you made yourself look to available but what I would do is have limited contact with her and play hard to get. If she likes you she will chase you, if she is playing you and you do this she will get bored and move to another guy.... (read in full...)
My exgirlfriend contact me after 3 years and I now feel like crap
Q. I know its sad but my first ever gf dumped me 3 years ago and I cant get over it . She dumped me over telephone just saying she didnt care for me anymore. She said that she didnt want to be friends either so I basically cut all ties from her not ...
A. 23 March 2011: Look mate, don't talk to her, make no contact. She may not have feelings for you and maybe at the moment she has a better life. But she said she didn't want to be friends so stuck to what she told you, it's only fair.... (read in full...)
Is it me that makes my man hit me???? Please help!
Q. I don't no what 2 do, my man think's all I'm good for is clean cook and if he not like what I say 2 him I get hit. But he blames me and said if I do what I am told he will not get cross with me and he will not do it 2 me. So is it me that makes him ...
A. 15 March 2011: He has no right to lay his hands on you not matter what. And both of you have a duty to not cheat and stay loyal but he shoul never touch you... (read in full...)
When I masturbate, no sperm comes out!
Q. Hi I am 13 and I have erections but when I masturbate no sperm comes out. I'm scared as I have been kicked in the balls twice; once this year the other one last year. I don't want to go to the doctors because my Mum will know and I'm really ...
A. 15 March 2011: Well if you are masturbating from porn or something erotic then you need to try for longer but if it is from a random erection you get you shouldnt produce sperm
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