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A 27yr old man was persuing me on the internetnet and I called the police. Now my friends make fun of me.

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Question - (13 September 2007) 7 Answers - (Newest, 14 September 2007)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

i was online a couple of weeks ago in a chat room and was talking to a whole bunch of people and trying to make new friends. after awhile a man who said he was 27 started talking to me and things were nice. we spent a couple days talking and soon he started telling me he would love to be my boyfriend and started talking about doing things with me. he said he could find out where i lived through my computer and come and see me. i started to get scared so i went to my older sister who called the police and she gave our computer to them. i told my bestfriend what had happened and she is now saying i am stupid and mean for turning that nice man in. she is also telling everyone in my class. was a wrong. i feel so bad.

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A female reader, leanne.od United Kingdom +, writes (14 September 2007):

leanne.od agony auntwould your friend be laughing at you and making fun if something terrible had happened to you? you did a very sensible thing and should be proud of yourself. you are very young and your actions were that of a grown up. this man was doing a very bad thing and you could have helped alot of other young girls like yourself by telling on him. you will be yesterday's news by next week, but i would consider finding new frinds. please don't worry, this man was in no way nice, he had awful ntentions but thankfully you have had a lucky escape. well done!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2007):

you're friend is the biggest idiot ever. Fair play girl!! you did the right thing.

tell her shes a dope. its so stupid for her to be like that when youve quite possible saved lives:)

should be proud

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A female reader, jasmine200785 United Kingdom +, writes (13 September 2007):

u r a VERY sensible person.that man is a pervert and they make me sick! U done the right thing! xx

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A male reader, Jamer70 United Kingdom +, writes (13 September 2007):

Jamer70 agony auntWell sorry to say your "friend" is a idiot. You were beyond 10000% right to do what you did, it was smart and VERY mature. You proberly saved yours and others life by doing it.

I dont have any idea where you "friend" gets off saying what she is. Ignore everyone who says your wrong because you did the right thing here.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2007):

I wish all young girls were as smart as you were. There would be far less pervs patrolling for young vulnerable girls on the internet. Be proud of yourself!

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (13 September 2007):

eyeswideopen agony auntIgnore your friend, she's way out of line. You may have saved your own life or some other young girl's. I hope the cops find the perv. You and your sister are a heroes pure and simple.

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A female reader, mum2be United Kingdom +, writes (13 September 2007):

No, honey you wern't wrong!!!!!! He should not have been doing this, especially as you are so young!!

Dont be embarrased by telling your sister, at least you have soemone you can talk to!

Just remember for next time what a dangerous place chat rooms can be.

xxxxx

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